I love dirty talking but it distracts my wife when she is focusing on her own orgasm, so I respect that am really quiet until she comes. But contrast that with her, she is quite loud with moaning leading up to her own orgasm, which is the most erotic sounds known to mankind (at least to me). I do not know about dirty talking with her lovers, but she did want me to hear how loud one of them was when he came inside her. Unfortunately, I never got to hear him come with her though, because he flaked.
Interesting. My wife is only distracted by one form of talk. If the guy starts telling her to cum, it just frustrates her. It adds pressure instead of pleasure. The thing is, if the guy really wants to push her over the edge, when he hears her building he just needs to say things about what they’re doing.
“You like taking that big cock?”
“Does that pussy like getting stretched by a big dick?”
“You’re such a sweet little piece of ass.”
“Do you like being a slut for big cock?”
Those things would make her cum, while saying “Cum for me” just makes it more difficult. She is quite multi-orgasmic. So, dirty talk will get her there. For some guys, I think having a woman who cums 5, 6, 7, or more times is intoxicating. That’s a great thing, by the way. She wants them to have a great time. She wants it for them, but also for herself. She loves knowing that she is good in bed. Sometimes though, they think that they can just command it. I’m sure it would make them feel super powerful, which is fine and completely understandable. Again, she would love to give that to them. But her mind doesn’t work well under pressure like that. Better commands would be “Suck on that big cock for me baby”. Or maybe “Get your legs up so I can fuck that little pussy for you.” She loves stuff like that.
I'm not a "cuck" - I'm A Voyeur!!
(Not that there's anything wrong with that! - LOL)
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