How long should a wife wait before engaging in sexual intercourse with a new man?

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How long should a wife wait before fucking?

Pick Ups with Spontaneous Sex
90
30%
First Date
123
42%
Second Date
57
19%
Third Date
20
7%
Fourth Date
1
0%
Fifth Date
1
0%
Sixth Date
0
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Seventh Date
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Eighth Date
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Ninth Date
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Tenth Date
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Eleventh Date
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Twelfth Date
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Thirteen or more dates
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1%
 
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How long should a wife wait before engaging in sexual intercourse with a new man?

Unread post by SeaGirtCuck » Mon Mar 12, 2018 12:18 pm

How long should a wife wait before engaging in sexual intercourse with a new man?

My wife and I were talking about this last night and she asked me if I thought she should make them wait any longer.
I told her that she should do whatever feels right to her in each individual instance.
The way I see it is, if she is ready, and he is ready they should decide if it's time.

I don't think I should have any input into the timing issue. Because this creates an unnatural situation, where a third party is deciding when two other people should engage in sexual intercourse.

Right now she tends to have sex for the first time on the second date.

What are the other hot wives doing?

I've added Pick Ups with Spontaneous Sex being some many people have asked for it.
I'm not including varies even though its an obvious choice it is not a specific answer.
I would susspect that "varies" is a very common if not the most frequent behavior.

Making this change I just discovered erased all of the votes so please re-vote.
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Re: How long should a wife wait before engaging in sexual intercourse with a new man?

Unread post by JmDm81 » Mon Mar 12, 2018 1:33 pm

We've done 2nd date. It really all just depends on chemistry and stuff. Ymmv is true for this.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Mar 12, 2018 1:37 pm

15-20 minutes? :lol:
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Unread post by Wolf » Mon Mar 12, 2018 1:42 pm

Typically my wife chats with a guy for a while, then meets for coffee, then starts fucking him. So second date.

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Unread post by shambler » Mon Mar 12, 2018 1:52 pm

Lis has done a lot of guys on the first date, or just gone to bed with guys that picked her up in airports, clubs, or bars - of course she doesn't drink, so if she visits a bar, It's for one thing only.

Every encounter is different. For some It's clear and thrilling chemistry, others take time.
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Unread post by Des 31 » Mon Mar 12, 2018 3:28 pm

I wasn't sure how to answer the question but chose "first date" because there were no other options that fit my wife's general rule. She most often has no problem with sex when both are interested but, for strangers, she insists on meeting them first at a neutral location like a coffee shop. If she knows them from previous social interactions and trusts them, she sees no reason to put off sex if both want to do it.

I suppose that if she were set up with a blind date, it wouldn't be until at least the second date, but that hasn't been our experience. She took my word about one man I met, but she hadn't, and I knew he was safe, sane and compatible. That was explained in a lengthy write-up I posted here awhile back.
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Unread post by stonemtncouple » Mon Mar 12, 2018 3:38 pm

Whats the definition of “Date”. To me our initial meet and greet over coffee or dinner isn’t a date but more of an interview and part of her screening / vetting process.
Her first true date is always with the intent of fucking.

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Unread post by Bartleby » Mon Mar 12, 2018 4:11 pm

The faster the better for me, so first date. I like to think of my wife as promiscuous and lustful.

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Unread post by Nothing2see » Mon Mar 12, 2018 5:14 pm

BallSpanking wrote:15-20 minutes? :lol:
Ha I was looking for that option myself. For my wife there is no second date without nookie on the first date.
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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Mon Mar 12, 2018 6:17 pm

The two of us are meeting for sex, not really romance. I usually meet a potential new partner in public for coffee or the like, although I may have chatted with them earlier. If we click, we will retire to a hotel room. So, I would vote first date for myself.
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Unread post by txhwhubby » Mon Mar 12, 2018 6:27 pm

My wife dates with the intent of fucking.

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Unread post by subguy80 » Tue Mar 13, 2018 4:05 am

I think it depends on how she meets the guy. If it's a connection through a website and she doesn't know him, then my wife always meets in a public place first. But if she is having fun with a guy she meets at a party or some environment where she can "assess him" more thoroughly, then she's been known to go for it on the first meeting.

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Unread post by Cdncuck » Tue Mar 13, 2018 5:29 am

It all depends on the chemistry. Some guys aren't going to make the cut and she generally knows that within the first 30 minutes of a first meeting. We meet new prospects together in a neutral site. We usually arrange afternoon meetings in a quiet bar but only drink coffee. We tried coffee shops but were often surrounded by soccer moms and kids. Not the best environment for this kind of chat.

If a guy passes muster but she isn't quite sure it will go to a second date. About 50 percent of the time, she decides at the first meeting the guy is a go. At that point she will switch from coffee and order a drink. That is my signal to go to the bathroom. While I'm away they work out the details about getting a room or coming back to our place. Depending on how turned on she is she will sometimes fuck them in the back seat as I drive. We have heavily tinted rear windows.

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Unread post by sextiescouple » Tue Mar 13, 2018 5:48 am

As other people have pointed out, there should be an option for, "It Varies."

For some, particularly women who are new and feel rushed, it might be a very long time. For an experienced hotwife, it sometimes is within hours or less. It depends on the woman, the man, and the situation.

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Unread post by rypmar7 » Tue Mar 13, 2018 6:29 am

First date or even before first date for my wife.

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Unread post by jpapjp » Tue Mar 13, 2018 3:34 pm

Why the hell would your wife wait to fuck another man when she is only with him for that very purpose!!!? She should let me have her ass soon as possible.

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Unread post by jpapjp » Tue Mar 13, 2018 3:35 pm

Oops - typoed!! Why the hell would your wife wait to fuck another man when she is only with him for that very purpose!!!? She should let him have her ass soon as possible.

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Unread post by SGWife » Tue Mar 13, 2018 6:43 pm

OK.. I usually have have sex on the second meeting. I like to flirt a bit and tease alittle before rewarding my BF with some hot sex.

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Unread post by aglee » Tue Mar 13, 2018 9:47 pm

I get to know my potential lovers/fuckbuddies quite well online, via telephone and cam LONG before I even consider an in person meeting. This process lasts anywhere from 3 to 6 months or longer. By the time we DO meet in person, it's very likely we'll have sex the first time. At least that's what's happened the last 8 years. I have a very lengthy and thorough vetting process. It scares some guys off but I figure that's part of the process.

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Unread post by tractorman2 » Wed Mar 14, 2018 1:00 am

If we meet a man in a pub for an hour by arrangement I already know quite a but about him, the first meet is always the three of us to see if we get on, quite understandably most men are keen to know if she really knows the purpose of the meet so I will leave them to chat alone for a while. A few times we have moved venue taking him to another pub, she sitting in the front seat whilst I drive. When this has happened most times on the way back she will climb into the back seat with him and play. If she likes him I will confirm with him that he is happy to proceed and if things look ok on the 2nd meet it will be for them to have sex.
My wife has always said she knows within 10 mins of any meet if this is going to work.

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Unread post by D+D » Wed Mar 14, 2018 7:45 am

My wife can tell on the first meet if she's going to fuck him, so if he's ok, why waste a meeting? She wants their cock in her then. She also fucks guys that she meets in hotel bars while traveling.

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Unread post by WimJansen » Wed Mar 14, 2018 8:40 am

Should? She is a HW, she has sex whenever she wants, first or fifth date. Not for me to decide what she should do.

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Unread post by SeaGirtCuck » Wed Mar 14, 2018 10:31 am

WimJansen wrote:Should? She is a HW, she has sex whenever she wants, first or fifth date. Not for me to decide what she should do.
Clearly it's for the wife to decide WimJansen.
What I meant with the question is when does your wife have sexual intercourse after meeting a new man?
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Unread post by kort677 » Thu Mar 15, 2018 4:55 am

the only reason my wife gets beyond talking to a guy is because she's attracted to him and wants to do him, so things usually happen fast

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Unread post by wannabecUKold » Thu Mar 15, 2018 1:41 pm

BallSpanking wrote:15-20 minutes? :lol:
What kept you? she asked

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