How long should a wife wait before engaging in sexual intercourse with a new man?

[WimJansen]

Should? She is a HW, she has sex whenever she wants, first or fifth date. Not for me to decide what she should do.

Clearly it's for the wife to decide WimJansen.
What I meant with the question is when does your wife have sexual intercourse after meeting a new man?

Ah, now I understand. In our case it depends, most of the times the second. But sometimes coffee is skipped and she is right down to business.

[zorro]

It varies. There is no reason to wait if desire is felt. Sometimes R is not certain. Those usually don't work out in the end, so to speak, anyhow.

[Rag51top]

Of the 11 men Jean slept with only one could be considered a date. She wasn't expecting me home until Sunday so when a friend we knew ask her out on a bike ride on Saturday she agreed to go. When I got home a couple hours before he came over she told me she had the date and I told her I was fine with it. She told me she had intended to let Jamie fuck her when they got back to our place. I told her to go for it.

They got back and she did exactly that.

There were a couple of times she made out with a guy at a NYE party that got her laid the next time she was around him. One I set up the other she went to a party at the guys apartment and spent the night.

She always said that since she was married if she was interested in one of my friends it was strictly for the sex.

[SeaGirtCuck]

I'm surprised that this poll has only 82 voters.

[SGWife]

OK.. I usually have had sex on the second meeting. I like to flirt a bit and tease alittle before rewarding my BF with some hot sex.

SGWife
(Mrs. SeaGirt Cuck)

Very nice to meet you, ma’am.

Very nice to meet you as well, calmcurioushubby

SGWife

[Sanman]

My wife already knows before a first date if she's going to have sex with a guy. She has met most of her boyfriends rather randomly. When she spots one that interests her, the flirting begins, then some texting, if it excites her, the fucking soon follows. She doesn't need more than one or two dates to get in bed with men she wants.

[BrunetteLover]

As an escort, she knows going in that the sex will take place within 15 minutes the latest.

[Farmgirl]

I have sex with a guy as soon as he is ready. The only reason I'm meeting him is that I'm ready. But I don't do randoms, strangers, or one-offs.

[farmerJ]

As usual Farmgirl sounds on point, Girl you should right a book , you are wise beyond your years!

[rick181au]

Back in the 80's we were meeting men through adds in sex papers for M F M threesomes, we would meet at a local hotel, if all was good we would bring the guy back to our place to play, so it would be max an hour between meeting and hopping into bed.
The wife did surprise me when she said, the guys did not have to be super handsome as long as they were clean and decent (she had a signal to let me know if her was OK or not) she would let them fuck her, it was a rather long process either placing or replying to an adds, first through mail, then phone, then the meeting , as she said it was just for sex after all.
This night we had a meeting lined up, just as we were walking out the door our daughter arrived to stay the night, this was before cell phones so we had no way to contact the guy, we decided to go and meet him anyway, if he was OK we would explained what had happened and the next meeting would be at our place, we met the guy, the wife gave me the OK signal, we explained the situation to him which he accepted, I went to get drinks, when I returned he was all over her and the wife was feeing him up under the table, as we left I suggested she walk with him to his car and I would bring our car around to pick her up, by the time I got to them they were all over each other just about doing it in the carpark, the wife said bugger it they wanted to do the deed, he followed us to a quite street and we had our threesome in our car.
He turned out to be a regular playmate for over a year.

[fredfred2]

When she feels conformable. That it.

[HausCuck]

My wife hands out her card with the intent of fucking within the next 10 minutes if her guy is interested.

[HausCuck]

My wife hands out her card with the intent of fucking within the next 10 minutes if her guy is interested.

[pixwellguy]

My wife has done all three of the first choices. Mostly she fucks on the first date, assuming the chemistry is there. After all, that's what the date was for, right?

[glassfull]

My wife says a married woman should always fuck on the first date if she's gonna fuck at all. She says holding out can imply she wants to develop more of a relationship. But a single woman looking for a relationship should not be so quick to hop into bed. The reason being many men look down on a woman who is too easy.

That said, my wife (both of us 2nd marriages) and I were in bed on our first date after a teasing two hour lunch. But it was prefaced by a couple of weeks of emails and phone calls. I think my wife read me exceptionally well as she always has. To me, a wife who is an easy lay is a huge plus and I know she sensed my feelings on that.

I had always wanted to share my women and had with varying degrees of success. So a few months later when we started to discuss her having sex with other men, the discussion was easy and she was very positive from the start. Shortly after that discussion we met our first man together and after a shorter lunch a new hotwife (hot girlfriend at the time) was created! My wife continued to be positive before, during and after her first time being shared.

I knew right then for sure she was the woman I wanted to marry....

[Curioushubby99]

Oops - typoed!! Why the hell would your wife wait to fuck another man when she is only with him for that very purpose!!!? She should let him have her ass soon as possible.

Absolutely agreed if my wife, or we, are are meeting a new guy with the possibility of them fucking and the chemistry is right then she will fuck him on that first meeting. We always meet in a bar or coffee shop first to make sure all is well and the chemistry is there. If it is then it's back to, ours, his, or a hotel.

The only exception to this is if the guy is not from the swinging scene, then it might take her a few meets and a bit of flirting to pluck up the courage to let him know that she is interested and available despite being married.

[warmnsalty]

Everyone has their own idea of what a hot wife is all about. For us it's about Mrs Warm getting some quality dick. Wait of it? no way, if we're at the point where we or she is meeting a guy for a drink then as long as things click she's fucking him that first meeting. Find a guy, txt and msg to set up expectations, then meet for a drink to make sure pics match with reality. After a drink or two she's naked and taking some new cock.

[MichaelW]

After some vetting, a couple of chats and a phone call that is a prerequisite for a date, but with us if she agrees to meet face to face--as long as he was not a liar in his conversations and is not an ogre, he is going to get very lucky. The decision to meet for her is the I'm-going-to-do-him decision.

I guess she is a first-date-fuck kind of hotwife.

[PANTIES]

If there’s chemistry why wait?

Pauline

[Johnann2227]

5 minutes?

[WatchinginNJ]

A few women I've had open or ENM relationships with wanted a little connection, so second date likely. We'd meet and greet and if all was well, set up a date for the next time. Maybe if the chemistry was there, it'd be a go on the first meet.

The longest relationship I had before getting married was a pure hotwife thing. Her thing was strangers. There were times when she was getting fucked after like 15 minutes of meeting.

I prefer spontaneity and fun. I've had to bow out on couples who just drag out things. Even in my vanilla side of dating, now as a middle aged man, if someone isn't down to fuck pretty quickly, I'm out. I'm dating women in their 30's and 40's and if they haven't figured out what they want sexually by now, I don't have the time to be a teacher.

[dinoo]

15-20 minutes?

?
We mainly visited a club (the naturist evening) where single men outnumbered couples. To be clear, outnumbered couples by far.
Belief it or not but during our very first visit my wife was fucked by a stranger within 15 minutes.
And belief it too or not, she asked me to support her her back with my legs.

Just before (some 5 minutes after our entrance of the club) we had to cross a narrow and very crowded corridor where this stranger groped her breasts. I was afraid that she would say to leave this club. So I asked her if I should stop him.
I was extremely surprised when she told me "no, no, don't stop him, I'm fine."
For him a sign to go on and some moments his hand went to her pussy while another guy took over her breasts.

One thing I learned from all subsequent visits: waiting was not in the vocabulary of those men there.
So it was rare that my wife had to wait.

[leo-cpl]

I think when you are new the vetting time and casual meets maybe more coz of the anxiety levels etc and with time once a cpl gets comfy and sure about things the vetting time and number of meets are shorter.
That being said wife's never fucked anyone in the first meet (yet), she has kissed a guy she liked in the first meet but that's about it. Right now we are at 2 meets (which I think would be avg for most cpl) and this is after substantial interaction via texting etc before meeting casually the first time.

[tiedyeHotwife]

1st time - about an hour.
He was perfect. Sexy. Charming. Funny. Right amount of glancing touches. Said all the right things.
Then he told me he was afraid I'd get nervous and leave so he just wanted me to know how much he wanted to fuck me and pleasure me.
5 minutes later - "might you be ready to go home with me" - I said "not yet".
10 minutes later - " I'm ready to go".

So 1 hour 15 minutes.

[Tank Turner]

There is no predetermined waiting time. People fuck when it feels right for them to fuck.

I fucked my wife on our first date. We knew we were going to fuck before we finished dinner. She made it feel completely natural. I thought that she was going to be a booty call. I knew she was seeing at least another dude. She was a booty call for a month until we relaxed between another incredible sex session and had our first truly intellectual conversation. I assumed she was only the best sex I ever had until I got to know the depth of her intellect. We became exclusive after that.