Men she been with since you have been togather wihr her

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How many men since you and your wife GF been togather

0 to 5
67
25%
5 to 10
47
17%
10 to 15
37
14%
15 to 25
35
13%
25 to 35
23
9%
35 to 45
10
4%
over 50
22
8%
over a 100
28
10%
 
Total votes: 269

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Men she been with since you have been togather wihr her

Unread post by aztd » Fri Apr 20, 2018 10:15 am

I know this has been asked before. I don't think ever in a poll. The poll should be quick to understand.
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Unread post by sextiescouple » Fri Apr 20, 2018 1:51 pm

Well, there should be a 'who counts' option. Plus, an experienced couple will probably have many more than a newbie couple. So maybe a poll that says, "How many men per year"?

I selected 25 to 35, but I wouldn't be surprised if the total was much higher.

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Unread post by TorontoCpl » Fri Apr 20, 2018 4:51 pm

Incoherent question

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Unread post by lookingne » Sat Apr 21, 2018 1:31 am

There are not enough parameters within the question... Some examples might be;
How many men in the past year?
How many men in her first year?
How many men on average per week/month/year?

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Unread post by lookingne » Sat Apr 21, 2018 1:32 am

There are not enough parameters within the question... Some examples might be;
How many men in the past year?
How many men in her first year?
How many men on average per week/month/year?

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Unread post by Luv2watchher » Sat Apr 21, 2018 7:12 am

I am interpreting the question as "how many men since you became a committed couple".

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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Sun Apr 22, 2018 4:57 am

I have been with 53 men one on one, or in small groups. However, I have also been with many more men at parties, either having full intercourse or something short of full intercourse. Counting everything, I had to answer over 100.
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Unread post by isinlarsa » Sun Apr 22, 2018 5:35 am

My wife is very selective. She started dating other men in her mi-40s, and dated for several years. Not every man she dated scored with her. Indeed, she has told me only about two, although I'm pretty sure there were two or three more. Part of the excitement for me, when she went out on a date, was not knowing if she would come home freshly-fucked.

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Unread post by ucaneffher » Mon Apr 23, 2018 11:10 am

She lost virginity to me, but in 7 years of being the lifestyle, my beautiful girlfriend was taken away looking dolled up and extremely sexy countless days and nights by 17 different men.

I wished a different man would have had his way with her several times a week but she was extremely beautiful which allowed her to be super picky.

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Unread post by radio4ron » Mon Apr 23, 2018 1:09 pm

My simple answer that I told my wife after she made her selection "not enough" :-)

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Unread post by Rja_Cma » Mon Apr 23, 2018 1:14 pm

The first 10 years of our marriage we didn't engage in this lifestyle. In the last year and a half she has been with 4 men. She now has a steady boyfriend and I don't see that number going up anytime soon.

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Unread post by tractorman2 » Mon Apr 23, 2018 11:49 pm

My wife gave me her virginity at 16 and after marriage at 18 and a child at 19 took a lover, this went on for years and gave me the opportunity to watch for the first time, she later confessed she had was in a long term relationship with him that ended at that point, clearing out the skeletons she admitted to doing her driving instructor before that. I had allowed her to go clubbing when she was in her early 20s through to her late 20s and whilst she admitted to kissing chaps and being fondling quite often she refused to admit more saying that is all I did.

I suspect she would have admitted all at that time but did I trust her to be 100% honest NO. She only admitted her affair by text and when I confronted her hours later she denied it having forgotten she had sent that text!

Since that admission she has moved that figure with my permission and desires up to about 18 men most regular lovers.

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Unread post by subguy80 » Tue Apr 24, 2018 2:38 am

It's always a question of interpretation for me. My wife and I were involved in swinging for many years. If you count each man at a party that a wife might fondle, or suck, or blow or have sex with, but maybe not to the point of orgasm, then the number adds up pretty quickly.

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Unread post by sara c » Wed Apr 21, 2021 2:58 am

I’ve always been non-monogamous. During my ten year marriage, which was an open marriage from the start, I had several hundred men. We were going to orgies nearly every two weeks, vacationed at swingers resorts, had lots of threesomes and couple swaps. I was a model before that since age 17, so again had several hundred guys over that 15 years. Now at 46 I feel I’m at my sexual peak, and have lots of lovers, always much younger than me. A fortysomethimg woman with a 20 year old guy is a great sexual match! I never hesitate to go even younger. I’m happy with life, feel very fulfilled sexually, and when I’m in my 60s I plan on sleeping with guys more than half my age.

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Unread post by DedicatedHubby2013 » Thu Jan 13, 2022 4:34 am

Only 3 guys so far for my wife, with a large multiyear gap between the 1st and 2nd.

She'll probably have a few more, but is happy with having just 2 steady lovers, currently.
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Unread post by natasnaikul » Mon Jan 17, 2022 9:20 pm

Likely over 25. She has had along the years maybe 5-6 regulars, currently two that we both consider close friends, but she had many one time encounters mostly while vacationing or men her boyfriends brought along

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Unread post by Des 31 » Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:30 am

My wife and I are each unsure about the number of men she has been with while married. Her first extramarital experience came about when she was 27. Their hookup was on just one night when the two of us met him casually in a lounge and he came home with us. They didn't get together again for the reason the man was in the process of transferring away. I had been trying to get her to do that for months, but at that time she told me she didn't think she was ready to have sex with others and probably would never repeat that experience.

After another year or so of my ongoing encouragement, her libido took over and she began fucking a coworker for about three months. After that, she was eager to continue meeting others. That's a complicated story for posting as a response here, but any interested can read our history from the beginning through the link at the bottom of this message.

After about two years, she and I lost count of the guys who had fucked her. Most during that time were brief encounters and neither of us thought to keep a list. She is now 35 and has come to prefer being with the same men for longer times than just one or two night dates. The emotional bonding that comes about in longer relationships is more satisfying for her and the men who fuck her.

We learned over time all her extramarital affairs have an expiration date like a warranty on a kitchen appliance. The men move away, get married, become engaged, or drop off the radar for various other reasons. Gigi now dates five regular guys at varying intervals as her and their time allow. I don't know the exact number of men who have fucked her, and my wife's and my separate estimates aren't even close to the other's.

~ Des
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Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:51 am

Des 31 wrote:
Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:30 am
My wife and I are each unsure about the number of men she has been with while married. Her first extramarital experience came about when she was 27. Their hookup was on just one night when the two of us met him casually in a lounge and he came home with us. They didn't get together again for the reason the man was in the process of transferring away. I had been trying to get her to do that for months, but at that time she told me she didn't think she was ready to have sex with others and probably would never repeat that experience.

After another year or so of my ongoing encouragement, her libido took over and she began fucking a coworker for about three months. After that, she was eager to continue meeting others. That's a complicated story for posting as a response here, but any interested can read our history from the beginning through the link at the bottom of this message.

After about two years, she and I lost count of the guys who had fucked her. Most during that time were brief encounters and neither of us thought to keep a list. She is now 35 and has come to prefer being with the same men for longer times than just one or two night dates.

We learned over time all her extramarital affairs have an expiration date like a warranty on a kitchen appliance. The men move away, get married, become engaged, or drop off the radar for various other reasons. Gigi now dates five regular guys at varying intervals as her and their time allow. I don't know the exact number of men who have fucked her, and her and my casual estimates aren't even close.

~ Des
What are her and your your casual estimates?

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Re: Men she been with since you have been togather wihr her

Unread post by Des 31 » Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:55 am

Mr1SexyGILF wrote:
Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:51 am
Des 31 wrote:
Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:30 am
My wife and I are each unsure about the number of men she has been with while married . . . .

~ Des
What are her and your your casual estimates?

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My guess is about 90 or so .... She says probably no more than 50. We admit both of us could be wrong. She doesn't even recall names or faces of many from her earlier years.
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Unread post by 4herpleasure89 » Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:57 am

About 70 or so over 12 years. She has recently focused on a couple of men and a few every so often long term friends.

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Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:58 am

Des 31 wrote:
Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:55 am
Mr1SexyGILF wrote:
Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:51 am
Des 31 wrote:
Tue Jan 18, 2022 3:30 am
My wife and I are each unsure about the number of men she has been with while married. Her first extramarital experience came about when she was 27. Their hookup was on just one night when the two of us met him casually in a lounge and he came home with us. They didn't get together again for the reason the man was in the process of transferring away. I had been trying to get her to do that for months, but at that time she told me she didn't think she was ready to have sex with others and probably would never repeat that experience.

After another year or so of my ongoing encouragement, her libido took over and she began fucking a coworker for about three months. After that, she was eager to continue meeting others. That's a complicated story for posting as a response here, but any interested can read our history from the beginning through the link at the bottom of this message.

After about two years, she and I lost count of the guys who had fucked her. Most during that time were brief encounters and neither of us thought to keep a list. She is now 35 and has come to prefer being with the same men for longer times than just one or two night dates.

We learned over time all her extramarital affairs have an expiration date like a warranty on a kitchen appliance. The men move away, get married, become engaged, or drop off the radar for various other reasons. Gigi now dates five regular guys at varying intervals as her and their time allow. I don't know the exact number of men who have fucked her, and her and my casual estimates aren't even close.

~ Des
What are her and your your casual estimates?

Mr GILF
My guess is about 90 or so .... She says over 50.
Very impressive numbers in my humble opinion.

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