Yes. Going together to a LS event to check out emotional reactions to all that happens is a great way to start, especially if you are clear that you don't expect her -- or you -- to do anything except to observe.
You might find that you go back a couple of times until she suddenly gets the urge to "go native." Let her set the pace as she dips her ... toe ... into the water.
The more you take the stance that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to do and then you stick by it, the sooner you are to have a hotwife.
Great advice !!
And I erred. Instead of saying "stick her toe into the water," I should have written, "stick her cameltoe into the water."
So here’s the update. No fun time yet. I got sick this week and was in no way shape or form ready to have any fun this weekend. It sucks because she was curious as I told her there were two theme nights this weekend. Friday was a day where they encouraged African American males single and coupled to come and Saturday was a less busy shorter night because of Father’s Day Sunday. We were leaning to Saturday for our first time out tho she was intrigued by Friday. It didn’t happen due to me being under the weather. This upcoming weekend looks like it will be kind of busy she’s also due for her monthly visitor so we may skip to the weekend after - which of course succcccks but it is what it is .
She asked a very close friend if she’d ever done this and the friend confided that she’s been often. Once with an ex husband and again with a newer friend w benefits who managed to bed multiple women in one night. I was surprised , my wife was surprised and I reiterated I didn’t have an interested in being the one who screwed other people- I want to a) be watched by others, b) watch others c) watch my wife with others. Wife agreed she wouldn’t want to see me w anyone else but said she probably didn’t think another woman blowing me would be out of line- what!?! I mean if it’s on the table I would love to have two women do that to me but I wouldn’t seek it out ever . It was just interesting to me that my wife brought it up to her friend, the friend revealed she’s done it numerous times which sort of said look it’s not as uncommon or crazy as we think and we talked about it a lot this weekend even though we didn’t go.
So a dud in terms of getting there but a big plus in terms of moving forward in our heads.
And it was a great weekend over all outside of me feeling like crap