first starting

For hotwives and the men who adore them.
HansA
Experienced
Posts: 100
Joined: Wed Aug 19, 2015 7:50 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by HansA » Sun Jul 15, 2018 6:00 pm

I recommend you 2 to try some online dating to see
if it will help her get fucked by a BBC.
Just keep it online first by chatting to BBC.
From Norway...
The land of the fjords and the midnight sun...

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Fri Jul 20, 2018 5:59 am

hi
last week I have flu so nothing happen.

last night we were horny and begun fondling. then we went to bed.
we have talked like this

-ohh sweety I mıss you so much.
- yes darling me too. ı am so horny right now. I am so wet.

then ı have check her pussy and said

- hımm yes you are so wet and horny I think your ready to be fuck.

she gigled
- ohh baby you are so naughty.
- so what do you want now? my cock or black dildo?
- oh sweety I just want you . stop talkıng and just fuck me.

then I put mt cock her pussy and begun fuck her hardly. I knew I couldnt hold so much but I have tried my best. I have fucked her
5 mınutes. then I said

- ooh darling you are so good but I couldnt hold so much I am cumming
- no sweety not yet. please hold more

but ı couldnt and cum ın her pussy before she cum
- sorry darling. you are so good.
- ok sweety dont worry. what next about me?
- ok I can lick you untıl cum or we can use dildo? what do you want
- (she gigled and ) hımm ı thınk ı prefer big dildo
then she reached nightstand drawer and took out dildo then put it directly ın her pussy and closed her eyes.
- ohhh it is so nıce I mıss this.

when she begun fucked herself with dildo ı got up bed and stand near bed.then begun jackoff whıle watching her fucking

- ooh darling you look so nice this view.
she open her eyes and looked at me and she saw my jackıng off smile and closed her eyes keep goıng dildo.

- ok darling please tell me what are you thınkın while usıng dıldo.
- (she moan ) oohh sweety oohh ı cant say right now oohh so good.

then a few mınutes later she moan load and cum on dildo. then she got there a few mınutes.
BTW ı got on the bed and kıss her while she took dildo off her pussy.

- ohh sweety ıt was so good thank you lettıng me use thıs dildo.
- no problem darling . I want you be happy .but ı am just consider what you are thınkıng.

she smiled at me the said
- ooh sweety ıt ıs shame . ı cant say.
- darlıng dont be shy. you know we are open eachother anymore.
- yes I know but I am stıll shy about thıs and I dont wanna hurt you
- ohh darlıng I am ok dont be afraid about me. you know I lıke fantasıes. ı wanna hear it from you
- ok here we go. do you remember we watched some porn videos last week and I imagine myself one of the girl in the videos.
- hımm ıt ıs hot I thınk. so then?
- yes . there ıs a bigcock guy fuckıng white woman. so I thought ı am the one who ıs get fuckıng by bıg cock.

same time ı begun jackıng off whıle lıstenın her. then she reached my cock and begun stroke me while she tellıng me her story.

- ohh yes darlıng please keep goıng stroke me whıle telling me.
- dıd you lıke my fantasy?
- yes ıt ıs so nıce and hot.
- ooh sweety I cant belıve you lıke thıs fantasy that I am fuckıng taht bıg cock guy. are you really excıed?
- yes darlıng I dont know why but I am so hard on. so the what dıd you do?
- oohh he fucked me so hard and long tıme.
- hımm dıd you lıke it I mean fuckıng that bıg cock?
- ooh sweety ıt ıs so strange but yes I lıke ıt. (she stıll stroke me hard and Im hard agaın). and I thınk ıt seems you lıke ıt so much
- yes darlıng so much. so how long bıg he ıs? bıgger then me
- ohh sweety offcourse he ıs bıgger then you.
- ok please tell me do you lıke fuckıng otherman with bıg cock ın your fantasy?
- ohh yes sweety I lıke ıt. do you?
- I am honest wıth you. ı lıke ıt too. because your are happy ı am happy.
- ohh sweety thank you. yo are so cute. hımm our cock ıs cute too because ıt ıs so hard now. ı thınk ıt will blow out anymoment.
- yes darlıng anymoment so where dıd he cum?
- oohh sweety yes he cum on my breast after good fuckıng.
when she told thıs I have cum on her hand. she then kıssed me and wnet to bathroom. after return wıth towel she cleaned me and got near me and hugged me .

- sweety I am stıll feeling strange about you like thıs kınd of fantasy but I dont blame you. after our last conversatıon. ı have search thıs kınd of relatıon on the net. I have found many pages. But ı am just thınkıng many of them made up story. I cant belıeve there is some kınd of relatıon. but I am not sure. ıt ıs so dıffıcult for me.
- yes darlıng I am so glad you search ıt. first I am thınkıng lıke you but then after some tıme thınk ıt could be for some couples.
- yeah maybe you are rıght. you know talkıng fantasıes ıt ıs so good help couples but reality ı cant belıeve ıt.
- ok I understand ıt.so we can talk fantasıes more what do you thınk?
- yes I lıke ıt. I am stıll feel strange but I want to keep ıt. you are not feel sad dont you?
- for what darlıng?
- you know when I am talkıng about fuckıng other men. you know ıt ıs just fantasy and help my orgasm.
- ohh no darlıng. you see my cock. actually I lıke ıt.
- okthank you sweety. ı love you.
- ı love you too darlıng

then we went to sleep.

so ı thınk progress ıs goıng very slowly but I lıke ıt.

jack

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sun Jul 29, 2018 1:02 pm

hı guys
long tıme have a break but I have a problem
I have a hernia so I cant move lately just rest on my back.
but today I am little ok. I thınk there ıs a few days come back to normal.
ı wıll update you guys ASAP

jack

User avatar
Absanon
Virgin
Posts: 32
Joined: Tue Apr 25, 2017 8:23 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Absanon » Tue Jul 31, 2018 6:21 am

Gasyjack wrote:hı guys
long tıme have a break but I have a problem
I have a hernia so I cant move lately just rest on my back.
but today I am little ok. I thınk there ıs a few days come back to normal.
ı wıll update you guys ASAP

jack
get better soon!

User avatar
topdog113
Prepubescent
Posts: 13
Joined: Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:55 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by topdog113 » Sun Aug 05, 2018 9:52 pm

cant wait to hear more
Bull - In Australia

wocka-wocka
Experienced
Posts: 217
Joined: Fri Jun 22, 2018 3:34 pm
Location: Los Angeles

Re: first starting

Unread post by wocka-wocka » Tue Aug 07, 2018 7:35 am

GasyJack,

Be careful with moving too quickly. Her interests and responses in the comments you posted are quite common. She is seeking increased intimacy with YOU. She is growing from the typical conflicted female roles of sex into a more personally satisfying practices WITH YOU. That is very different than you fulfilling your fantasy.

Let it stay at fantasy for now. She will need to explore it fully and experience trusting you completely before moving it outside the bedroom. And even then, outside the bedroom would probably mean only going to a clothing optional beach with her and doing nothing but getting some sun.

Support her unconditionally when you take very small steps. You are already doing that. Do it some more. Move slowly. She has to feel protected and desired and trust you the entire way for it to be fun for her. Enjoy it with her!

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sat Sep 29, 2018 6:04 am

hi
sorry long break
it was bad sıtuatıon last month.
hernia is bad thing for anyone. I am little good nowbut I sholdnt move so hard. always becareful.

so we have limited sex last 2 months. usually I am on back and she top on me.
a few times she used dildo near me while I jerkoff. we didint open topic about othermen until last night.

last night we went to bed and begun cuddling eachother.
-sweety you know I cant move so much so you can use dildo if you want
-thnk you darling ıt would be good. love you( then reached nightstand and took dildo out such then put ıt ın her pussy)
- ooh sweety you look so good when you use dildo
- oohh darling you are so cute. I know you like it (then giggled )
- so I have to say something to you. I had a dream lastnight
- ooohhh what about?tell me
- hımm it is about you. you are fuckimg another black man
she stop using dildo then
- oo really again ? tell me more why you had dream like this?
- yes . I dont know why. maybe I am sad about you because I cant fuck you good because of hernie
- ooh darling dont be sad. you know you will be okey. so how was the dream
- yeah I hope so. yeah you know you are on back on the bed so he is on you and fucking you hard.(this time she begu use dildo again)
then he took you al fours and fuck you behind untıl both of you cum.
- ooh darling ıt was so exciting ( then she cum)
- yes sweety ıt was exciting to me too.
she hug me and keep talking
- so darling why you had a dream like this. you didint have last two months.
- I dont know sweety. maybe because of my sıtuatıon. I just thoght ıf I cant be good what will you do. then I remember one article about one man who has a problem his erectıon. then he loves his wife and he found a man for his wife. ıt means like fuckbody. so I thought about it so much.
- ooh darling please dont think like this. you will be okey. common just throw this idea form your mind. I love you
- yeah I know but I cant. I love you too but I just want you would be happy.
- I am happy now with you.
- yeah thnks my love. ı just search what did other people who has kınd of problem
- hımm so what?
- yeah some of them go to sex club some of them find a man some of them brek up.
- ohh darling dont be sad. we are not break up. dont worry. otherthings is also strange you know. we will solve this problem dont worry.
- yeah ı know but you know sex is good thing dont you want a good sex ?
- ooh yes sex is so good ofcourse I want good sex. but I dont wanna pain my husband.
- I just consider ıf you ever thought other men in sex.
- oohh darling please dont do this yourself
- please tell me
- ok yeah you know I have thought it a few times in my fantasies. and I have told them to you. we dont have secrets anymore.
and in this period I have some fantasies but you know they are just fantasies just for satısfactıon. nothing else
- ok I see. thank you honest with me.
- ok not let help your satısfactıon now. ( she begun stroke me while gigling)
hımm your cock ıs growing what are you thinking?
- about you sweety.
- hımm what abaout me?
- you are stroking me on the bed and there is a black man behınd you
- hımm ı thınk you will keep this fantasy so much ok then tell me more
- your are all fours and stroking and sucking me and ofcourse your ass up. then this man aproach to you and hold your hip and put his cock to your pussy.
- ooohhh sweety ooaaah ( she begun finger herself same time while stroking me)
- he begun hard fucking you while you sucking me then all of us cum same time then you came and kiss me thank me.
when ı tols this me cum on her hands but she closed her eyes and keep fingering hersle 2 mınutes more then she cum
- oohh darling ıt ıs so good and ofcourse strange but I lıke it.
- yes sweety I lıke it too. Did you like being with two guys same time
- (she gigled) yes ıt was good.

then we went to bathroom and had shower together. then went to bed huggıng.

so ıt was almost 2 months we didnt talk about ıotherman but I thınk she remember and like it too.


jack

User avatar
Des 31
OHW Addict
Posts: 3623
Joined: Thu Oct 05, 2017 11:20 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by Des 31 » Sat Sep 29, 2018 7:59 am

My wife also went topless at the time I first suggested she fuck other guys about five years ago. She agreed to have a photographer come to our home for photos. During a break after the first few photos, I asked if he would help me encourage her to remove her clothes for nude photos. She hesitantly agreed but began to enjoy it after the few shots. A few months passed before she finally fucked a guy we met briefly and then entering into an affair with a coworker for three months.

Following that, she eagerly agreed to having sex with others. She will soon be 32 and still fucking guys with my approval. The only thing that has changed over time is that she doesn't ask for or need my approval anymore. She just tells me who and when she's going to have sex with another guy.
Our hotwife history from its beginning at viewtopic.php?f=5&t=50057

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sat Sep 29, 2018 11:58 am

Des 31 wrote:My wife also went topless at the time I first suggested she fuck other guys about five years ago. She agreed to have a photographer come to our home for photos. During a break after the first few photos, I asked if he would help me encourage her to remove her clothes for nude photos. She hesitantly agreed but began to enjoy it after the few shots. A few months passed before she finally fucked a guy we met briefly and then entering into an affair with a coworker for three months.

Following that, she eagerly agreed to having sex with others. She will soon be 32 and still fucking guys with my approval. The only thing that has changed over time is that she doesn't ask for or need my approval anymore. She just tells me who and when she's going to have sex with another guy.
Hi thanks
So you mean she would change in the progress.
Maybe right. I just figured out she didn't shocked when I told her 2 guys same time. Probably 3 months ago she would be shock if I told her this.
And we didn't have penetrate sex last night but she didn't complain it.

Jack

User avatar
Absanon
Virgin
Posts: 32
Joined: Tue Apr 25, 2017 8:23 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Absanon » Thu Oct 04, 2018 5:30 am

Glad to see you back!

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sat Oct 20, 2018 4:58 am

Hi
My wife was out of town last week for business education so she just came back. While she was out I have watched more porn and jackoff.so I mean I was horny.
Anyway last night very good and exciting.
After dinner we went to bedroom immediately.
Begun kissing and fondling.then I licked her and she has give me head. And I begun fuck her. both of us were so horny.
I didn't cum quick but also I couldn't hold so much and finally cum before her. She kissed me and took her dildo and keep using it until cum.
After relaese hold each other and got normal the begun talking
- sorry darling about Cumming quick
- ooh ok sweety don't worry. I know you miss me and excited. What did you when I was out? Did you watch porn and masturbate? ( She giggled)
- oo actually yes I did. You?
- (giggled) hiiiiiiim yes I did too. I was horny .
- himmmmm is there any attractive guys in class? Did you hooked with them? Did you do anything naughty?
- ohh no sweetie I didn't do anything but yes there are some attractive guys.(giggled again) but I am honest I have fantasies about them when I am masturbating in my room. Did you angry? Because last time you like this kind of fantasy.
- oh no darling no angry. Did you like? Do you wanna tell me your fantasy
- maybe. İt just fantasy like dancing one of them and went his room and fuck him. Not spacial.
- oo you mean you did this kind of fantasy before many times
- yeah you know when you cum quick I need a satisfaction so yes I did before sorry about that
- ohh don't be sorry i think it is so normal I am Happy that.
- thanks sweetie. You are so cute. So I have also made some searching on the net. You know things you told me before couple has same issue like us.
- really ? Which? Swinging? Cuckolding?

- swinging. I just have read what are they or are they help couple really?
- ooh and so ?
- I am not sure sweetie. All of them are exciting but I dont know it is solve issue. İt could demaged our marriage. Also I don't want you fuck around. You know I am jelaus you. And I am still don't understand how couple did this. They don't love their spouses? And what do you think about this? Do you wanna fuck other women? ( She has some tears )
- oh darling sorry if I sad you. I don't know which article read you.but I can tell you certainly I don't wanna fuck other women. Actually I didn't mention swinging. I have told hotwifing.
- isn't same? Everyone fucking around. Like 60s flower children.
- ohh no this is different . in Hotwifing only wife fucking whoever she want. Husband faithful.
- really? Are you thinking about it? I mean me fucking other men?
- sometimes yes Darling
- ohh why? Don't you love me anymore?
- of course I love you darling. Actually I love you so much that is why I thought this
- sorry I don't understand. You love me but you want me fuck other men?
- I mean I want you be happy and get more satisfied from fucking .I thought you deserve good sex if I can't it to you it is not your fault. Just like other husband did.
- oh really you mean all of this just me being happy
- yes Darling. All of this just for you.
- sweetie I didn't know this . You are so cute. But I have to say it is so exciting but I am still not sure. you know it is no good ın our culture. so I wanna think about it more. We should talk about it later.
- ok darling we can talk.
- ohh sweetie you are hard again. I am surprised. İs it about what we talked?
- yeah definitely about it.

Then I got on her and begun fuck her second time.
This time I have hold more. Just end of fucking whisper her ear like this
- darling just imagine you are in hotel room with a guy you find him in the dance club. He has a big cock and fucking you hard. Just imagine I am that guy.
(Suddenly she moaned and cum after she then I cum too)
- oo sweetie you are so naughty. But I like this fantasy.
- I like it too darling . I love you
- I love you too sweetie.

Then we hug and asleep until morning.
Jack

superb101
OHW Addict
Posts: 1882
Joined: Sun Dec 10, 2017 6:10 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by superb101 » Sat Oct 20, 2018 3:02 pm

Nice! Keep us updated!

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Thu Oct 25, 2018 12:16 pm

hi
after one week our last sessıon we made a serious talking in living room tonight

- sweety we should talk about last week. We have to open each other and I have to find what you thinking so do you really turn on so much about me fucking othermen?
- actually yes darling I dont know why but ıt ıs true. please dont judge me
- oh no I dont judge you but ıt ıs stıll strange. also exciting. I dont know how ı react.
- I dont know either but I want tell you truth
- thank you sweety. I have to honest with you so I have searched on the net about hotwifing what you told me.
- really so what have you find?
- I have found many pages. I am still not sure if they are real or not. I could just say ıt ıs ınterestıng. so I have found there are some couples doing this kind of lifestyle. maybe all of this fantasy I dont know. I am still thinking fantasy is good but I dont know realthing.
- Darling I thought they are real. and I found it is exciting too. I am so happy you thought it is exciting. so what did you learn more?
- yeah I have learned it is about for wife not husband but husbands satısfied much. I dont understand it. how one husband got more satısfied from wifes fucking othermen. many of them actually want to watch their wife's fucking with othermen and they jackoff while watching. it seems so strange but I dont judge them anymore.
- yeah I know ıt ıs strange but ı thınk it is exciting too.
- so do you really want this? I am consider it. I mean do you wanna watch me fuckıng other men? Could you handle it? you know it is not for our culture. we had our words to each other to be faithfull. we cant do this but we can fantasies. so what actually do you want to do?
- oh thanks to open each other. So I thought about it.you know I am not good fucking lately. Then I found this lifestyle. İt turns me on. So I thought we can do this. I can I handle this.
- really? I am not sure. What about risks? You know pregnancy risk? How about disaster? How is it effects our relationship? What if someone figure out it? İt is so risky. Yeah I know we like it like fantasy but real one is so risky.
- sorry darling if I upsad you. I just wanted you got satisfied from fucking.
- I know sweetie. You are so cute. Thanks about it but we shouldn't do this. Maybe just fantasy or role-play. Anyway I would think about it more
- yeah maybe right darling.

Then we went to bed and begun fondle each other.
I begin talking role play
- so darling how about you fucking new one
- oh sweetie you are so naughty. İf you wanna play ok go ahead.
- ok just imagine we are in sex club and I am fucking you in the center. So after I cum I got off and another guy came. And even didn't tell his name he begun fucking you hard.
-ohh sweetie it is so hot don't stop

( While fuckin her begun speed)
- then after long fucking he cum and left didn't say anything.
- sweetie ohhh please fuck me hard
Then after this we both came.
- so darling how was the fantasy?
- I like it sweetie. We should make it more.

Then she went asleep.but I got up went write this to you.

So I am confused. İt seems she was ok last week but today she just want it fantasy.
What would I do?
Jack

intoital
Prepubescent
Posts: 9
Joined: Fri Jun 29, 2018 1:13 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by intoital » Thu Oct 25, 2018 1:07 pm

Gasyjack wrote:So I am confused. İt seems she was ok last week but today she just want it fantasy.
What would I do?
Jack

Just enjoy what you have right now.You can't use cohesion to make her do something she doesn't want to do. Love her, your relationship, keep it strong and enjoy all that you do have. You both deserve that.

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Mon Oct 29, 2018 6:30 am

hi
saturday night we had a good session. at dinner we drank 1 battle of wine after went to bed we begun kissing on the bed.
but first I cant got hard then we decided watch porn so I got laptop and open porn while sitting on the bed she begun stroke me while watching
first I have select IR porn then after 2-3 videos I have open cuckold videos but I have select amatuer videos as possible as one. I mean women are fucking with guys while husband on the screen too.
first she didint understant she thgouht they are just threesome videos then ı have get hard ın her hand
- ooh sweetie you got hard. ı thınk you like what you watch dont you?
- yes darling I like it. dont you like it?
- yeah it is exciting but just threesome.
- actually not darling. this is hotwife/cuckold videos so one of the men ın the video her husband
- really? ooohh so hot. so I see why you are hard ( giggled). do you watched so much this kind of videos? what did you do while watching?
- yeah be honest. I have watched more. they turn me on so much.
- I can see it. ( giggled again) so what do you think while watching?

( I think she understant my thgought and she wanted me admit it)

- you know I just image you are the girl in the videos.
- hımmmm you mean I am fucking other men while you are watching. and you jackoff?
- yes sweetie just like that. what do you think? is it exciting for you?
- right it is exciting. I didint know your thinking like this but I now know you like it. there is no problem for me anymore.
- how about you? what kind of videos you watch when you are alone
- yeah I would be honest with you. usually I have watched IR porn . I prefer hard ones. and sometimes I have select rape vidoes. you know hard ones I mean big black guys fuck girl very hard or tied her. kind of things
- ooh really. you mean you like hard fuckong with hard cocks
- yes darling and now I have some relief that I told you. you know ıt as so good you could told everything in your mind . thank you so understanding to me
- I know sweetie I am relief too. you know I have some pervert thoughts in our culture but you didnt judge me anymore.
- no I dont darling. yes all we talk very strange for regular couples. but now we are different form earlier. and I like it. ı th,nk we keep going this.
- yes darling we should talk everything .

( I was still semi hard while she is stroking. she keep going stroke )

- so darling you want me to be hot wife? ofcourse ın our fantasies. I mean you want me fuck othermen and watch it? right?
- yes darling I want you be hotwife
- then ıt makes you cuckold husband right? because I have search on the net more. and fınd this term. so is it true?
- yes sweetie it is true. ( still stroke me more I have got more hard)
- what I have learn about this lifestyle interest me. so in this lifestyle wife is more dominant and husband is more submussive. you know you are dominant in our relatıon. so you want me dominant in our bedroom? Am I correct?

( I was little shock because I didnt expect this conversatıon)
- I dont know sweety may be.
- good because İ like this . and maybe we should try this ın our bedroom. so tell me what do yoo want me do?
- ohh sweety I want you fuck othermen because you deserve good fucking
- you want it in front of you? do you wanan jack off while watching
- ohh sweety yes right ( suddenly I cum in her hand)
- woaahh sweety you turn so much cum immadietly.
- sorry darling I couldnt hold much.
- ok no problem but what about me? I dıdnt satısfied. so I think I shoul use dildo again as usually . ( giggled)

the she has got dildo form nightstand drawer. she begun use it in her pussy slowly. I begun kiss her breast then kiss her . she closed her eyes and begu fuck her self with dildo. I have watch it awhile. Then whisper her ear ,;
- you look so good sweety. what are you fantasieng?
- ooooh yes I like it. I am fucking with otherman.
- do you like his fucking?
- oooh yes he is good and hard. İ like it because you cum early .and want this right?
- yes sweety right. he looks so good to while fucking you.
( when I told this she reach first orgasm then keep going dildo. so I got of the bed and stand near the bed . watched her while stroking myself I have hard again she saw this smile)

- ohh sweety you are hard again I cant believe this. you are hard just thought of me fucking otherman. you are so cute
- yes darling ıt is so turn on watching you.
then she closed her eyes and speed dildo more then said;
- ooh sweety he is so good ı like it. thank you let me do this ooohhhh

when she said this she got second orgasm but same time I cum too just right on her breast.

after a while we got normal. kissed each other then went to bathroom clean up then back to bed.

- sweety thank you ıt was so good in a long time. I like this role play thing and fantasy
- yeah right darling ıt was so good for me too. I thing we should keep going this.
- you know I have search more about this on the net lately so I found it is so exciting anymore. everyday I have learned new thing about this. I think you like it too. I can see it
- yes sweety I love it. I want you search more.
- I will sweety. but you know this are just fantasy not real. we can fantasies everything but nothing happen reallife
- I know darling but have your ever thought ıt could be happen?I mean real life?
- yeah thought but we cant do this. it is too dangerus for us. dont you think?
- I dont know what kind of dangerous you thought? examples?
- really? what about if someone fıgure out it what they think of me ?or us? dont you afraid about it? or what about he has talk about around tell everybody? how can we trust otherman? don you think about its? and how about std, disaster?
- yeah I have thought about that. so what about ıf we use a condom ?
-ok we can use condom but what about otherthings? how can we trust he never talk around?
- so your concern about he is talking around or people who they know us learn this then what they think of us right?
- yes exactly. dont you thnk this
- ok I thought this ofcourse. what about we are abroad and nobady know us. so we didint said real names. I just thinking. so would you do it?
- ooh I dont know sweety. it seems still dangerous. I reallt dont know what can I do. anyway I am so tired now . could we asleep then we can talk it later.
-ok sweethart ı love you goodnight
-I love you too sweety

then we got asleep while hugging eachother


so I think she has changed after last week she was more open and I like it.
now we are openly talk about she is fucking othermen.
I know she has some concern about this but she cant stiil admit to me that she really want it reallife.
I will try solve her concerns.



jack

Whosbeensleeping

Re: first starting

Unread post by Whosbeensleeping » Mon Oct 29, 2018 7:19 am

Wow, that's pretty cool Jack!

aztd
2 Bit Whore
Posts: 1146
Joined: Tue May 29, 2007 6:47 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by aztd » Mon Oct 29, 2018 7:46 am

Time for a trip

shall54
Experienced
Posts: 135
Joined: Sat Apr 28, 2018 10:58 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by shall54 » Mon Oct 29, 2018 8:46 am

Getting closer!!!

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sat Nov 17, 2018 1:55 am

Hi
Last 2 weeks nothing special. Just a few vanilla sex. I have decided not open topic then she neither until last night.
Last night interesting. After a few class wine we went to bedroom. We begun fondling then fuck but I came quick she couldn't cum. Then we begun talk
- oh sorry darling about this. I couldn't hold.
- ok sweetie no problem but it would be good if you hold much. Sometimes when you came quick I thought another man come and fuck me until come. You know just fantasy.
- really? You know we talked about it.
- yeah I know sweetie but as I said before it is good for a fantasy. İt is dangerous for reality.
- do you still think it is dangerous?
- yes I have searched on the net more lately after we talked.
- ooh wows. I didn't know that. What have you search and found?
- you know more about another man and couple. I mean hotwifing cuckolding.
-so?
- so it seems still exciting but dangerous. Yeah I think there are more couple in this lifestyle then I thought. Many of them say it is good exciting but I think it is affected marriage maybe negative.
- I have read more about it. But many of them said it is positive affect marriage. They say stronger then before.
- how is it possible? After wife fucks another man . I don't understand. And husband how he accepted this. But it seems husbands like it and encourage wives. You know it is not in our culture. I am still confused sweetie. İt is really exciting as a fantasy but reality is dangerous.
- darling free your mind. Break the rules what society set for us. Otherwise you can't understand. I know many couples live this they also break rules. They just want to be happy. So all husbands want their wives be happy and got satisfied from fucking. So many of them not good fucking their wives like me. And why they want this
- ohh sweetie you are so cute. I know you want me be happy and became hotwife But I am still not sure. İt seems still so wrong.
- so darling tell me this. Do you want to get satisfied from fucking?
- yes sweetie I want.
- and I want it too but lately I can't do this so here is my offer. What do you say if we invite another man to fuck you? Just for your satisfaction.
- ooh sweetie I dont know we shouldn't do this. Are you sure what you offer?
- yes darling I am sure. I love you and I want you be happy.
- ooh sweetie. I am not sure . I am afraid about it. İt can be affected our relationship negative. Are you sure you can handle this? And by the way how can we find trust man?
- darling if you are happy I am happy. What ever it is. Even you fuck another man. So we can find him how other couple find. Just make an ad on the net. Talking with men by anonymous by mail. Then if he is good we could meet at bar. Then if everything is ok we can meet for fuck. I love you.
- ooh sweetie I love you too. You are so cute. (Kiss me ). But I am still thinking we shouldn't do this. İt is exciting but dangerous. So we should keep it as a fantasy. But we should talk about it more.
- ok darling whatever you want. But it is also exciting talking about it. Don't you think?
- yes sweetie. İt is exciting. I can't believe what we are talking. İt is so strange talking with you about me fucking other man. Just like what I have read on the net about other husbands
- himm I like that . So what have you learned on the net about this? Let's talk about it and help each other.
- yeah I have learned so much. mainly they say dont do this if couple not ready. it means husband and wife would be ready for this. talk about everything before get in . ıf they get in this lifestyle before ready so ıt effaect them negative
- ohh darling yes I want you became hotwife. İt is so turn me on. so I think I am ready but I dont know you. what about you? do you think you are ready this? I mean fucking othermen? please just say what you have your mind. speak out.
- so Sweetie it is so strange talking with you like this but turn me on too .and yes I want to get fuck by hard. but I still not sure. I am afraid. because I dont know what would you do after we didi this. maybe you would regret about me. maybe you wouldnt handle and would be angry I dont know.
- yes I see your concern darling. what about we keep going roleplay. maybe we acted like a you are hotwife . talking about it.
- really? like what?
- we should talk like you are fucking some one but first we cant say othermen anymore. we should say hım what other couple say. Like Bull-fuckbody-boyfirend-lover which one do you like?
- ooh yeah I know I have read about it. some couple call him Bull some call boyfriend. actually I dıdnt like so much Bull. ı dont know sweetie we can call Fuckbody or boyfirend. what about you? which one do you prefer?
- actually it iş up to you darling but ıf you like we can call FB
- ok sweetie ıt ıs ok. so we would pretend I am a hotwife right?
-yes definitely. so darling when will you meet with your FB?
- (gigled) ooh sweety. we will meet next day.
- İs he good fucking you darling?
- yes sweety he is so good and big.

(by the time we begun fondle eachother. I got hard also she was wet. I got top of her begun fuck her slowly)
- yes darling now just imagine your FB is fucking you
- ooh yes sweeti he is so good yes keep going fuck me hard.

after 5 minutes fuck we first I came but after she came too.

- ooh sweety it was so good. İ like it. we should keep role play .
- yes darling İt was good. so you know fantasy is so good . just think about reality. probably It would be more good. what do you think?
- ooh sweetie I still think we shouldnt do this reality. I dont know now. I am confused. what about you think?
- hımm I think we should try once and see what happnes.
- really? but ıf we done this it is done no going back. are you sure?
- yes I am sure . but ıt is also up to you. whatever you decided ıt ıs ok for me.
- ohh sweetie could you give me some time I will think about it more.
- ok darling I love you
-I love you too sweety.


then we went to sleep.


Jack

subtoall
Pervert
Posts: 629
Joined: Sun Oct 08, 2017 6:12 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by subtoall » Sat Nov 17, 2018 11:05 am

You're making excellent progress. Be careful you do not push her too hard into this. It sounds like she will naturally get there on her own, but you risk raising her resistance if you push.

You have good communication. She is looking for reassurance from you now that doing this will not harm your marriage. Try to use open ended questions (e.g. questions that can't be answered by yes or no) to get her to share with you her thoughts, feelings and fears about this. For example:

"You said you're confused about this. What questions do you have that I can answer for you?"
"You said you think this is dangerous. Tell me more about what you think is the danger for us?"
"If we actually did it, what do you think we would need to do to make it more safe?"
"Tell me about your fantasy FB ? What is he like? In your fantasy, where am I when he is fucking you?"


Listen to her answers and respond to her fears and concerns. Do not make it look like you are trying to convince her. Be honest with her about your own fears, but also your confidence. Be real. Be reassuring, but do not dismiss her fears or concerns. For example, "Yeah, I understand the risks, but I am also very secure in our love for each other and that we communicate so well and I trust you."

Have fun, and listen, listen, listen.

shall54
Experienced
Posts: 135
Joined: Sat Apr 28, 2018 10:58 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by shall54 » Sat Nov 17, 2018 12:18 pm

I agree, you are getting there at the pace that is comfortable with your wife!! As you get more excited that you are getting closer to making this happen, don't start pushing her any harder, keep going at a pace comforting to her. There may be times when it seems you are taking two steps back from where you were, but be patient you will eventually get there. I am very excited for you both!

aztd
2 Bit Whore
Posts: 1146
Joined: Tue May 29, 2007 6:47 pm

Re: first starting

Unread post by aztd » Sat Nov 17, 2018 5:40 pm

Thank you for keeping us updated. I'm enjoying your adventure.

wocka-wocka
Experienced
Posts: 217
Joined: Fri Jun 22, 2018 3:34 pm
Location: Los Angeles

Re: first starting

Unread post by wocka-wocka » Sat Nov 17, 2018 9:31 pm

Have you explored the fantasies she has? That would be good to show her how strong your relationship is.

It seems like you are pushing her much faster than she is ready. She has to build the trust that it won't end the relationship and that takes time. Meanwhile you can explore her fantasies more. I think you will find it will help her grow.

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sun Nov 18, 2018 11:44 am

subtoall wrote:You're making excellent progress. Be careful you do not push her too hard into this. It sounds like she will naturally get there on her own, but you risk raising her resistance if you push.

You have good communication. She is looking for reassurance from you now that doing this will not harm your marriage. Try to use open ended questions (e.g. questions that can't be answered by yes or no) to get her to share with you her thoughts, feelings and fears about this. For example:

"You said you're confused about this. What questions do you have that I can answer for you?"
"You said you think this is dangerous. Tell me more about what you think is the danger for us?"
"If we actually did it, what do you think we would need to do to make it more safe?"
"Tell me about your fantasy FB ? What is he like? In your fantasy, where am I when he is fucking you?"


Listen to her answers and respond to her fears and concerns. Do not make it look like you are trying to convince her. Be honest with her about your own fears, but also your confidence. Be real. Be reassuring, but do not dismiss her fears or concerns. For example, "Yeah, I understand the risks, but I am also very secure in our love for each other and that we communicate so well and I trust you."

Have fun, and listen, listen, listen.
Hi
Thank you subtoall
Do you think I am pushing so much?
I am so excited.
And thanks for advices.
I will try your questions.
Jack

Gasyjack
Experienced
Posts: 225
Joined: Tue Mar 06, 2018 4:48 am

Re: first starting

Unread post by Gasyjack » Sun Nov 18, 2018 11:47 am

shall54 wrote:I agree, you are getting there at the pace that is comfortable with your wife!! As you get more excited that you are getting closer to making this happen, don't start pushing her any harder, keep going at a pace comforting to her. There may be times when it seems you are taking two steps back from where you were, but be patient you will eventually get there. I am very excited for you both!
Thank you shall54
Jack

Post Reply