Our Hotwives

I'm curious. What is your typical scene? Not necessarily what you desire but what usually happens.

UTHotWife and I have done all except for me just watching. But she has mentioned that it would be hot if I just watched now and then. I totally agree.

Although her going solo does cause some bit of angst sometimes, its still very hot in my opinion. And I think UTHotWife gets off on my angst in a naughty way. Which again, is hot.

Her getting fucked while I'm in the next room is very, very hot. And she LOVES that.

I lover her being a naughty wife. Its fucking intoxicating.

There should be the option to choose more than one.

For us, it depends on the mood. Sometimes I'll prefer to just watch, sometimes I'll join in. Every once in awhile she'll see a guy without me.

Cicero wrote:I lover her being a naughty wife. Its fucking intoxicating.

Isn't it though!

sextiescouple wrote:There should be the option to choose more than one.

I considered the more than one option. In this case I guess I'm looking for what the normal and customary situation is. (As if any of this stuff can be considered normal or customary. )

Over the years our situation has evolved. Now it usually is what most would call an MMF threesome. Our new hot friend seems to want some one on one time with P and she's completely thrilled.

Mine usually dates without me because we live apart due to work. But there have been many times where she took a lover into the hotwife room while I waited for her in our bedroom. There have also been a few threesomes. I wouldn't be able to just watch. I'd want her too bad and she'd want me too bad.

We're always together when she plays. I love watching her transform from shy school teacher to a total slut when she's with her hung lover and she loves me there to watch her put on a show.

I much prefer I be around when she's with a lover. Not only that, I love it even more if before they go to bedroom they get affectionate as if I'm not even there in the same room with the two of them before they go play in our bedroom. When they go to our marital bedroom they play without me while I'm in the next room listening or maybe watching via security cam. I do like to watch in person on occasion - even better if they don't care whether I am there or not - and I remain invisible and completely ignorable by them, but I won't be there unless it is at her request if and when she calls to me to come in - or not. She's in control. It also extends out of the bedroom as well - meeting the two of them for out for drinks after they've fucked and he and she behave as the committed romantic couple in each other's arms, being touchy/affectionate in my presence - while we all knowing she was just freshly filled and is carrying his seed in her.

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Over the years, we have progressed from hubby being in the room and participating a little, to just watching, to being in another room, and now to me mostly playing alone.

ErikaPeter wrote:Over the years, we have progressed from hubby being in the room and participating a little, to just watching, to being in another room, and now to me mostly playing alone.

You say you've progressed to mostly playing alone. What does he get out of your playing alone that's better than playing together?

LuckyDog wrote:

ErikaPeter wrote:Over the years, we have progressed from hubby being in the room and participating a little, to just watching, to being in another room, and now to me mostly playing alone.

You say you've progressed to mostly playing alone. What does he get out of your playing alone that's better than playing together?

I voted that she goes out alone on a date. For me (and for us) I like to think about when she is out getting pleasured and when she gets home we are both hot for each other.

LuckyDog wrote:

ErikaPeter wrote:Over the years, we have progressed from hubby being in the room and participating a little, to just watching, to being in another room, and now to me mostly playing alone.

You say you've progressed to mostly playing alone. What does he get out of your playing alone that's better than playing together?

I enjoy myself more when I am alone with my partners. The setting is more intimate, and we can focus on each other rather than worrying about an audience. Some men do not want to fuck a hotwife at all if her husband is present.

This arrangement benefits my husband in the sense that he wants to maximize my pleasure. Also, I have read that this lifestyle is a form of intellectual sadomasochism. At least at the beginning, his angst was greater when he was sending his wife away to be fucked by another man.

Hard to choose, as it depends. All scenarios listed apply.

ErikaPeter wrote:Also, I have read that this lifestyle is a form of intellectual sadomasochism. At least at the beginning, his angst was greater when he was sending his wife away to be fucked by another man.

That's a very interesting proposal. Intellectual sadomasochism. I like it

ErikaPeter wrote:

LuckyDog wrote:

ErikaPeter wrote:Over the years, we have progressed from hubby being in the room and participating a little, to just watching, to being in another room, and now to me mostly playing alone.

You say you've progressed to mostly playing alone. What does he get out of your playing alone that's better than playing together?

I enjoy myself more when I am alone with my partners. The setting is more intimate, and we can focus on each other rather than worrying about an audience. Some men do not want to fuck a hotwife at all if her husband is present.

This arrangement benefits my husband in the sense that he wants to maximize my pleasure. Also, I have read that this lifestyle is a form of intellectual sadomasochism. At least at the beginning, his angst was greater when he was sending his wife away to be fucked by another man.

You do make it sound hot.

We have done all four and without any issue, so really difficult to pick one over the other.

My wife is often at another guy's home but when they're at our place, I most often sleep in the guest room. Most often, I'll listen outside the door to jerk off at their sounds of passion. I like that better than watching now because I know she can concentrate of him. I can tell by her wailing as he fucking her. That's most exciting to me. Her favorite times are when they stay overnight together. She returns to tell me all about it while we're having hot sex - or sometimes just jerking me off while telling her story - Depends on how she feels that night.

When at someone else's place, she usually calls when she arrives, most often from her car. If he knows I approve of her extramarital sex, she will phone again later from his bed or wherever they are at the time. She sometimes has called me to say his dick is inside her right now and that's hot too.

We’ve done and greatly enjoyed all four, but currently it’s mostly Ann going out alone with her boyfriend mainly because we have kids living at home.

When the kids were younger or nowadays if they are away I will be in another room if he’s not comfortable with me being present.

I have just sat and watched a small number of times, but when we’re all together it’s normally a threesome.

LuckyDog wrote:

ErikaPeter wrote:Over the years, we have progressed from hubby being in the room and participating a little, to just watching, to being in another room, and now to me mostly playing alone.

You say you've progressed to mostly playing alone. What does he get out of your playing alone that's better than playing together?

For me, what I get out of it is knowing that if my wife meets a guy who she's attracted to & who turns her on "down there," she doesn't have to miss the opportunity because he might not be comfortable with the MFM idea. She's free to act on her urge without weirding him out with stuff he might find freaky & that would send him running for the door. Then she tells me every detail while I enjoy her myself.

ArizonaGuy wrote:We have done all four and without any issue, so really difficult to pick one over the other.

For me, the rule is wife and her Bull tells me if and when i can watch!

Oh, and... my "preferred" scenario is a threesome where I watch & then have a turn myself (no simultaneous participation, although I'm not averse to a DP or simultaneous suckling if the right guy & right time presented itself) -- and, as of this moment she's had more MFMs than solo Hotwife encounters. So in the poll, I chose the former.

I have a feeling that a year from now her solo conquests will far outnumber her MFM experiences, and I'm perfectly okay with that as long as they meet our other guidelines.

Anyone surprised by the results so far?

I am. For some reason, I didn't think that wives playing alone was so prevalent.

PnG2010 wrote:Anyone surprised by the results so far?

I am. For some reason, I didn't think that wives playing alone was so prevalent.

Yeah, very surprising. Looks like there's a "silent majority" thing going on here, where the folks who date alone post less.

Hotwives playting alone never struck me as odd. I can see their plausible reasoning

I don't really think it's odd, just wasn't the results I was expecting.

I also find it interesting that the other three options are relatively equal.

I was expecting one of the 'hubby in the room' options to be #1. Yet those two together still can't hit the top option.

Intellectual sadomasochism indeed!

I don't think it is odd that wife going alone is top.

For us it's partly due to circumstances with having kids at home or her boyfriend not being comfortable with me being present, but also I am turned on by imagining what they are doing and then having Ann all to myself afterwards. Ann prefers it because she likes to concentrate on one of us at a time, but she does enjoy the occasional threesome as a change.

Her current boyfriend knows I'm happy with their relationship, but he's not comfortable about it so I've not seen them together. However, she did reconnect with her ex-boss last Christmas and they do meet up for what she calls "fun sex" now and then and we've agreed to have a threesome weekend sometime, but haven't been able to arrange anything yet.