Penis Size of BFs compared to Husband

[CoupleFun555]

So, I conducted a poll a few weeks ago about the size of Hotwife husbands and was surprised to learn that the majority were more than 6 inches in length. Interesting result.

Here’s the flip side. Do Hotwives more often sleep with men larger than their husbands? I’m smaller than the men my wife has had sex with. But, that’s kind of expected since we learned while playing with toys that she has awesome full body organs from deep penetration near her cervox when she tents. And, I’m smaller than most dudes. So, we select for that kind of special experience for her.

[lwhubby]

Honestly most have been bigger with a few exceptions, she says that mine hits the right spots all the time, theirs not as much. but...
She out out Mr Big Dick at the moment a true 9 incher, can't wait for her to get home!!!

[dirtydog69]

It's a small sample size as she has only been with four guys since Oct 17 but all have been bigger than my just under 6''. I think any decent sized cock will get her off but she said she cums harder and more often when the guy has a big cock. It's partly a mental thing and the physical feeling off feeling well stretched. It's really intense for her and she loves the challenge of getting as much cock as she can in her mouth and pussy.

[Rag51top]

The men we played with ran from 4.5" to 7" with one exception. That guy was hung like a mule and was just way to long. She fucked him once then was sore for two days and wouldn't even consider fucking him again. None were overly thick although the long one was the thickest. Jean said he wasn't porno movie thick just porno movie long.

[Cray-z-dayz]

My current bf has about 13 cm. Is that small or normal to you?

That's about 5.1 inches, so about average, Samira.

My wife tells me that so far, all her lovers have been smaller than me, except 2 were the same length. None were as thick as me. But I think I'm on the larger side. Personally, I'd love to see her take someone larger than me, but she tells me she really doesn't want that. For her, it's all about the man and his attitude/style, not about the cock size.


-Cray

[Cray-z-dayz]

My current bf has about 13 cm. Is that small or normal to you?

That's about 5.1 inches, so about average, Samira.

I agree that attitude / style is more important than size even if it was very nice to be filled up totally the one time I got to try that...

Hopefully you will have many more chances yet ahead of you.

-Cray

[Des 31]

So, I conducted a poll a few weeks ago about the size of Hotwife husbands and was surprised to learn that the majority were more than 6 inches in length. Interesting result.

Here’s the flip side. Do Hotwives more often sleep with men larger than their husbands? I’m smaller than the men my wife has had sex with. But, that’s kind of expected since we learned while playing with toys that she has awesome full body organs from deep penetration near her cervox when she tents. And, I’m smaller than most dudes. So, we select for that kind of special experience for her.

Penis size has little, if any, to do with it. The most important features are: (1) someone she considers attractive; (2) personality and compatibility; (4) ability to perform - more than a few men have erection problems when first meeting a hot wife; (3) honesty; (4) dependability. Those are generalities that include a host of personal qualities.

If a husband considers the size of an organ as the most important, he's likely to find it's less likely to work out for his wife. From experience, we know very large penises aren't common, and men with those have the same percentage of jerks as in the general population. I've learned that most men really don't understand what most women consider the important features in a sexual partner. "Size queens," of course, exist, but that demographic doesn't make up the majority of women. And keep this in mind - My wife has met two men who were simply too large and suffered pain when having sex. Some women do not have that problem due to physiological differences but for most women, there's a limit.

[Rag51top]

So, I conducted a poll a few weeks ago about the size of Hotwife husbands and was surprised to learn that the majority were more than 6 inches in length. Interesting result.

Here’s the flip side. Do Hotwives more often sleep with men larger than their husbands? I’m smaller than the men my wife has had sex with. But, that’s kind of expected since we learned while playing with toys that she has awesome full body organs from deep penetration near her cervox when she tents. And, I’m smaller than most dudes. So, we select for that kind of special experience for her.

Penis size has little, if any, to do with it. The most important features are: (1) someone she considers attractive; (2) personality and compatibility; (4) ability to perform - more than a few men have erection problems when first meeting a hot wife; (3) honesty; (4) dependability. Those are generalities that include a host of personal qualities.

If a husband considers the size of an organ as the most important, he's likely to find it's less likely to work out for his wife. From experience, we know very large penises aren't common, and men with those have the same percentage of jerks as in the general population. I've learned that most men really don't understand what most women consider the important features in a sexual partner. "Size queens," of course, exist, but that demographic doesn't make up the majority of women. And keep this in mind - My wife has met two men who were simply too large and suffered pain when having sex. Some women do not have that problem due to physiological differences but for most women, there's a limit.

Des31 My wife always told me that when she was making out with a guy for the first time she would get almost a shivering feeling as he felt her up and her anticipation as she reached to guide his cock into her for the first time was a huge turn on. A first time with a new cock was always different because nobody was built the same or fucked the same. She also really got off on knowing that she was letting someone get a lot of pleasure by having sex with them.

[radio4ron]

I'm 6.5" on a good day, to date the "smallest" my wife's had HW'ing is about 7". She says she wouldn't deny a guy due to a smaller size, but would deny if he was too long for her and couldn't control it and slam it into her cervix.

[2inUPMichigan]

In all honesty I've never measured hubby's penis nor the penis of any FWB. I really have no interest in comparing any of them because for me it is about the man attached to the penis.

[Don Jetman]

L has had a few that had noticeable girth and enjoyed that, but she's really more attracted to a guy with a shared chemistry or an athletic or muscular body. Aside from that, she has commented on things she can't tolerate, like smokers and drunks.

[carolinacuck]

Well, I'm 4.75" x 3.5", and all 13 of C's BF's have been considerably bigger. The shortest guy was around 6" but he had quite a thick (& satisfying) cock. A couple of the guys were 7" plus...most were in the 6.5-7" range with above average thickness.

[4herpleasure89]

In all honesty I've never measured hubby's penis nor the penis of any FWB. I really have no interest in comparing any of them because for me it is about the man attached to the penis.

Although I’m sure this is true for you, it is as cliche as the small dicked cuckold obsession with their inadequate cock size. Of course personality and other attributes are important, but here we are taking about penis size. And it seems to me that many women downplay the importance as it isn’t pc to say otherwise.

A man who may prefer large boobs still may find the person they are attached to important as well, but they still can say “I love big boobs”!

[2inUPMichigan]

In all honesty I've never measured hubby's penis nor the penis of any FWB. I really have no interest in comparing any of them because for me it is about the man attached to the penis.

Although I’m sure this is true for you, it is as cliche as the small dicked cuckold obsession with their inadequate cock size. Of course personality and other attributes are important, but here we are taking about penis size. And it seems to me that many women downplay the importance as it isn’t pc to say otherwise.

A man who may prefer large boobs still may find the person they are attached to important as well, but they still can say “I love big boobs”!

If I was concerned about size I would be upfront and say so, no shame in that. I state my opinion, I don't talk for all the hot wives.

The thread is about comparing the penis size of husbands to BF and my point is that I have never done that, never thought of doing that, nor do I have any interest in doing that. I'm giving my honest opinion.
I do not compare men based on penis size! I've never measured a penis.
The size is really not that important for me. If a man knows "how to work it" he can rock my world no matter what size he is.

The FWB I see most often - I have no idea of his measurements, all I know is he does it for me!

[dinoo]

Size didn't matter my wife but I still wonder why she attracked very often men with a huge penis.
I don't know why, she confessed once.

One memory still follows me.
I don't have a small penis (6,5 inches) but when she had my and her steady lover's penis in both hands she gave the cry:
"What a difference" which you can translate to our language in: "I couldn't have imagined that the difference is clearly so big."

[ckathrill]

[" The thread is about comparing the penis size of husbands to BF and my point is that I have never done that, never thought of doing that, nor do I have any interest in doing that. I'm giving my honest opinion.
I do not compare men based on penis size! I've never measured a penis.
The size is really not that important for me. If a man knows "how to work it" he can rock my world no matter what size he is.

The FWB I see most often - I have no idea of his measurements, all I know is he does it for me!
[/quote]

But geez... doesn't all the talk about penis size make you at least curious? Is there something about measuring a penis that is so distasteful? Could be fun, you know.

And you have no idea, right? And you have hands, right? When you grab his cock at the base, how much appears above your hand? You mean you have so little ability to estimate what 2,3 or 4 inches is? So c'mon...tell us how big your FWB and husband are.

[2inUPMichigan]

But geez... doesn't all the talk about penis size make you at least curious? Is there something about measuring a penis that is so distasteful? Could be fun, you know.

And you have no idea, right? And you have hands, right? When you grab his cock at the base, how much appears above your hand? You mean you have so little ability to estimate what 2,3 or 4 inches is? So c'mon...tell us how big your FWB and husband are.

Curious about penis size? No, can't say that I am.
I don't find the idea distasteful but honestly the last thing I'm going to be doing during a play date is thinking about measurements

[Cdncuck]

Cock size is a guy thing. The majority of women I know don't give a shit.

[jw_kk]

Setting aside ‘junk science’, (no pun intended), there are numerous peer-reviewed studies on the topic.

They cover shape, size (girth - length) and other aesthetic and physical aspects of the penis.

This is one study in the genre:

_https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/

(take out the leading underscore)

The generally accepted average for a flaccid cock is 3.5 inches (8.8cm), and for an erect cock, 5.1 inches (12.9cm).

Interestingly, the cited study suggests that women prefer a larger than average cock for transient encounters, and a more average cock for long-term partners.

I’m not responding for my wife, but as an observer:

KK prefers partners that are at least as endowed as me, and actively selects for candidates that are at least as endowed, preferring larger in at least some regard.

KK has qualities that she considers in a potential encounter partner’s cock; the size of the cock-head, girth of the shaft, length of the shaft, qualities of the scrotum/balls, and overall aesthetics.

She won’t do uncut men. KK rejects ‘ugly’ cocks independent other factors like size.

KK’s ideal cock is as big, or bigger than me, with a cock-head that is larger in diameter (when erect) than the shaft, and she favors girth (cock-head and shaft) over length up to a point.

[tosaintsfan]

It seems that every 4 threads on OHW is about penis size. The women keep telling us that size doesn't matter but low and behold that leads to another thread about
penis size.

Enough already. But I know that another one will pop up in a few days. I know Marla will run away from a big dick. She gets hurt by guys that are large, but mostly it is the ego and lack of technique that is why she doesn't want them.

TO

[Farmgirl]

After my number 1 read me this thread, I just had to comment.
I have never measured a man's cock. Of course, I want him to have one and it needs to function. But, the size is the least of things I look for in a playmate. The only time I even think about size is just before meeting a new guy; then I wonder if it might be too big.
The things I look for when sizing up a man to let between my legs are: Can he talk or text well enough to carry on a good conversation, is he fun, does he have a good sense of humor, does he impress me as a good person and a caring person. I could list more but, you get the picture. Notice that I didn't list cock size.
If he has to qualities I look for and he can make me think I'm special, then the sex will be awesome and I'll make sure he wants more!
When ever you read in my story about me saying anything about the size of a cock, It is said to tease my husband and push his buttons. It being a guy thing, that's important. But, even he has learned, he used to ask about a guys size and I would usually tell him " oh, just average" or "you know, kinda like you". It just wasn't what I was noticing during the encounter.
Thankfully my number 1 grew up and quit asking and now enjoys hearing the more important details.

[afagehi7]

It seems that every 4 threads on OHW is about penis size. The women keep telling us that size doesn't matter but low and behold that leads to another thread about
penis size.

Enough already. But I know that another one will pop up in a few days. I know Marla will run away from a big dick. She gets hurt by guys that are large, but mostly it is the ego and lack of technique that is why she doesn't want them.

TO

Agree. It's getting old. The vhws have spoken but it seems they didn't say what some want to hear so they ask again for a different answer.

I think the general consensus is that unless it's a micro penis situation or painfully large the vhw is more interested in what's attached to the penis and his ability to be a skilled lover. With that said, I would guess that a bit above average is appreciated but not the focus of the female.

[Jeff111]

The more positive thing about these repeat topics is that new readers and those that have forgotten, will have it reinforced, that, for a lot of women, it’s not the cock that matters but the person. And even those that want a larger cock - which does happen and is fair enough - they want a decent person attached to it.

[afagehi7]

Mods should just make a sticky thread and we can be done

[ally_allyandcole]

My husband is very well hung and I can fit two hands on it and still suck the end. At least eight inches. However he is definitely a cuckold type personality also. My Bull is much smaller than him.