Reason for hotwife lifestyle

[MrsHotwife6]

Curious to know reasons for you hotwives to live this lifestyle?

[Des 31]

Asked my wife (32, smoking hot) to check this out. She considered each carefully, telling me what she likes when other guys are fucking her - and jerking me off while sitting alongside me. She chose empowerment, fulfillment and "For your husband."

Then she said, "That poll made me hot. I'm going to call a guy I haven't seen in a while for a date some night this week." Seriously. When she gets off the phone, I'm going to fuck her. Thanks for posting that well-thought-out poll.

~ Des

[MrsHotwife6]

You are welcome 🥰

[The_Lion]

I asked The Fox (who I am still asking to verify) and two stood out while teo were half true.

She does this for me primarily. It's fun but she has said several times if I ever want her to stop, she will. I dont see that happening though.

Sexual fulfillment is a close second. She has a pretty high sex drive and naturally loves sex. She likes that she has more freedom to explore and enjoy that without the hassle of the dating world and relationships.

The last is a bit of two answer though I checked Size as that seems to slightly win out. She loves large members. She loves feeling full and stretched. It's one of the most common reoccurring themes in our dirty talk. Feeling a man stretch her as he takes her, then feeling me stretch her further when I reclaim her. But it is a little bit of sperm competition too. She loves feeling my cum inside of her after she has had Ash and says she really wants to feel him cum inside her then have me do the same immediately after. In a risk-free world she would have a team of large dicks giving her cum.

[MrsVC]

What is not there is the affect on us after the fact. I love having two men totally focusing on my desires but a big benefit is how much a play session feeds our libidos for days after.

[MrsHotwife6]

Good comment MrsVC. Personally I think the talk before and after is a very exciting factor. Did not think about before your comment. Hotwife lifestyle has a lot of dimensions. 🥰

[Cookiescream]

This poll is awesome. It allowed us to discuss each answer and explain how we both feel about our version of soft hotwifing.
Thanks

[wife4lends]

My husband wants me to experience other men that I missed before we were married. I was not too sexually active before we were married (18 years old) and he thought I should experience other lovers to add to our marital sex life. Much like when we started using sex toys years ago, these men are an extension of our own sex life. It has worked out great for us both because it turns on both of us that I fuck multiple men now for pleasure and sexual satisfaction

[D+D]

My wife has said and I have noticed that the more frequently she has sex, the more she wants it. Is this true for anyone else?

[Her number1]

My wife has said and I have noticed that the more frequently she has sex, the more she wants it. Is this true for anyone else?

Very true for Farmgirl. And it doesn't have to be actual sex, it can just be heavy flirting that gets her going. I like being the recipient of her added desire!

[UTHotWife]

It started out all for my husband. But once you experience the freedom it becomes more. So much more that hubby has the freedom now as well, I wanted him to experience what I experience.

[leander99]

My wife has said and I have noticed that the more frequently she has sex, the more she wants it. Is this true for anyone else?

My wife says the same thing

[UTHotWife]

My wife has said and I have noticed that the more frequently she has sex, the more she wants it. Is this true for anyone else?

That's been true for me as well. Hubby keeps track of all the times I have sex and I think I had sex 23 times in April! Considering before this lifestyle we would average about 6 times per month.

[sherulestherooster]

That's been true for me as well. Hubby keeps track of all the times I have sex and I think I had sex 23 times in April! Considering before this lifestyle we would average about 6 times per month.

That is a pretty ringing endorsement for the lifestyle! We probably had sex 4-8 times per month but if she had a date night, she'd have sex twice with her friend and then reclaim with me. That's like two weeks worth of sex in one afternoon! Awesome!

[SSQ]

None of the above.

My husband and I just like to be able to engage with people in any way we find we mutually connect, whether that's friendship, sex, or love.

[UTHotWife]

None of the above.

My husband and I just like to be able to engage with people in any way we find we mutually connect, whether that's friendship, sex, or love.

That's interesting SSQ. While we started because of his fantasy. We are very much of that mind set now.

[D+D]

A lot of we husbands love the idea that once in the lifestyle, the wife has numerous reasons to continue such as being a slut or because they like big cock. Our bubble bursts pretty rapidly, or at least mine does, when we see that not only the primary reason wives start is to satisfy their husband's fetish, but is why they stay as well.

[stevens4fun]

My wife finally shared with me that she wasn't having orgasms with me inside her, although I could easily bring her to orgasm with my tongue. She had many erotic fantasies as well, so off we went!

[WillingHubby]

Wife sex drive got more intense as she got into her 50’s and it has always excited me when she slept with other men. We did it in our 20’s with her flirting and having sex with other guys and then we had kids and that kind of put a damper on it so they wouldn’t ask too many questions about why Mommy is around all these different men. Now the kids are gone and we are in our later 50’s and she has an insatiable sex drive so this works out perfect for both of us. She goes out and has multiple orgasms with other men and then comes home to me and we do it again to finish off. Can’t go multiple times like I could when I was younger so this works out perfect because she gets well screwed before

[MrsHotwife6]

Soon this poll will have enough votes for verified statistics :-)

[annsman]

I showed this to my wife and she laughed and thought it was weirded that we would discuss it.
Any verified wives responding?

[Sub4her]

My wife voted for Voyeurism, Female Empowerment, and For her husband as her top 3. She definitely loves to be pursued by a man and desired both sexually and intellectually.

[Parsifal]

My wife has said and I have noticed that the more frequently she has sex, the more she wants it. Is this true for anyone else?

Very true for Farmgirl. And it doesn't have to be actual sex, it can just be heavy flirting that gets her going. I like being the recipient of her added desire!

This is our dynamic. It's all my fault. I'm too horny for my wife and she bores easily. Giving her an outlet stimulates her libido, which rekindles her desires for me and restores the balance I need.

I'm not sure I would have encouraged her to take other lovers if I'd been content with her losing her mojo. In past relationships, I just moved on when the malaise set in. But with her, I loved her too much; I'd grown wiser; and I figured a different approach would work better than the tragic recurrences of serial monogamy. Fortunately it's worked well.

[adamgunnauthor]

Since we are now having guys answer this, I'll throw my two cents in.

You left out one important answer in your poll: To have fun. That's my wife's reason for doing it.

[54321]

I'm not sure I would have encouraged her to take other lovers if I'd been content with her losing her mojo. In past relationships, I just moved on when the malaise set in. But with her, I loved her too much; I'd grown wiser; and I figured a different approach would work better than the tragic recurrences of serial monogamy. Fortunately it's worked well.

An interesting contribution. Much has been written about how the female libido takes a dive after a period of (same old) monogamy and magically reappears when the lady is able to enjoy novelty and variety again.

54321