Poll regarding how hotwives were before being hotwives

[hwsassysouth]

I’m quite an introvert- both before and after. I will admit I make more eye contact now with strangers than I did before my transformation; but I’m still very much an introvert. And a hotwife. I go to the gym SOME both before and after, but I’m not super diligent about it- before or after. I dress sexy when my husband wants me to- whether in public or in the bedroom- because it pleases me to please him and, although I feel awkward in sexy clothes, he has a way of making me feel like I SHOULD wear sexy clothes… He makes me feel very good about myself when I wear sexy clothes but it’s not really in my nature to dress that way if no one was there encouraging me.

We went through that too. I had encouraged my wife to wear sexier clothes at work, but she doesn't have a need to do that now. It worked even better than I had hoped. She began having sex with a guy in roughly the same position she then held and has since moved on to other guys. She would be uncomfortable now wearing sexier clothes on the job because of her current position at the bank where she works. She works out too as you do but now does that at home with push-ups, chin-ups and sit-ups each morning and most evenings before going to bed.

So, the two of us can relate to everything you wrote. (Even more similarly, she was born and raised in the South as your handle indicates you may have been; she lived on the Southern Gulf coast with her parents.) Enjoyed your story. Our history is at the link below.

~ Des

Yes, I was born and have always lived in the deep South! At one time I even lived on the Southern Gulf Coast! Thank you very much for letting me know you enjoyed what I had to say. I will be clicking on your link now to read your story!

Sassy

[54321]

What a fascinating poll!

What stands out for me is the LACK of trends. The only thing that looks a bit like a trend is that more hotwives were less communicative rather than more of emotions in their pre hotwife days. (I would have expected the opposite). According to this poll, it looks like... ta dah... there actually isn't a hotwife type.

This tends to support the theory that all women are genetically predisposed to prefer multiple partners and that sexual monogamy is a social construct.

54321

[feetuji]

What a fascinating poll!

What stands out for me is the LACK of trends. The only thing that looks a bit like a trend is that more hotwives were less communicative rather than more of emotions in their pre hotwife days. (I would have expected the opposite). According to this poll, it looks like... ta dah... there actually isn't a hotwife type.

This tends to support the theory that all women are genetically predisposed to prefer multiple partners and that sexual monogamy is a social construct.

54321

And thats good news! It seems that hotwifing does not depend on beeing extrovert, have high libido etc. For guys with wives that are low profile, thats good news. Nevertheless, everybody is unique and not everyone will enjoy hotwifing.