Telling GF -breaking the ice

[Whosbeensleeping]

Surprised you didn't ask her about what transpired with the guy she had drinks with! Do you think you will ask her?

[toshare]

Surprised you didn't ask her about what transpired with the guy she had drinks with! Do you think you will ask her?

No, I dont want to know, I want her to have her secrets too. Im good at connecting dots, and shes such an open book person, and I know her so wel, I know if she tells me a small thing, Ill know most of the rest (to a fair extent).

[toshare]

BTW, shes out again tonight, said she met some fun people who live there (group of guys and girls) and they are hanging out having fun.

[Whosbeensleeping]

BTW, shes out again tonight, said she met some fun people who live there (group of guys and girls) and they are hanging out having fun.

Wow, that's awesome. Every one of us wannabe's dream!

[Dharmadude]

Sorry to hear about the accident but very glad to hear she is doing well now.

I say whatever works for you both. Would drive me crazy to “know” she, most likely, fucked someone but to not hear the details. I’m glad it works for you. I can see how that would be a turn on tbh, jut not one I could maitain. I know I would break down and have to ask. Either way it is very erotic.

Have followed your thread from the beginning and it is so amazing to watch her (both really) journey from that shy girl in the bar that was so nervous about flashing her pussy. Now she is a full on HW that takes trips alone and gets picked up by strange men with only the intention to fuck them. Selfishly, I hope she does share the details…. so you can share them here, lol.

This may have already happened with you both but one thing I am waiting for in our journey is for my HW to pick up a man with me right there. Whether it’s for a threesome or me just watching. Either way is good with me. I told her that she will probably have to initiate it since I would be right there. We kind of did this but he just wouldn’t take the hints she was dropping. Not that I am an imposing figure at all but that bro code is strong.

[BallSpanking]

It would be very cool if you could update her hotties thread with some new pics. The old ones ar cute, but she is likely much sexier than we can see there ...

[54321]

Great thread! Beautiful girl. Exciting story!

54321

[toshare]

Sorry to hear about the accident but very glad to hear she is doing well now.

I say whatever works for you both. Would drive me crazy to “know” she, most likely, fucked someone but to not hear the details. I’m glad it works for you. I can see how that would be a turn on tbh, jut not one I could maitain. I know I would break down and have to ask. Either way it is very erotic.

Have followed your thread from the beginning and it is so amazing to watch her (both really) journey from that shy girl in the bar that was so nervous about flashing her pussy. Now she is a full on HW that takes trips alone and gets picked up by strange men with only the intention to fuck them. Selfishly, I hope she does share the details…. so you can share them here, lol.

This may have already happened with you both but one thing I am waiting for in our journey is for my HW to pick up a man with me right there. Whether it’s for a threesome or me just watching. Either way is good with me. I told her that she will probably have to initiate it since I would be right there. We kind of did this but he just wouldn’t take the hints she was dropping. Not that I am an imposing figure at all but that bro code is strong.

Yeah, I do want to know what shes done, but its also erotic knowing she has things just her and her bull/lover have together.
I can understand that about your friends, thats the only real rule we have, none of my guy friends and no family members, other than that shes free to be with whomever she wants. She even made out with a guy I got in a small argument with in a bar one night. She went to the girls room, he followed when she came out she started kissing him. She said she wanted to make out with him from the moment she saw him and the fact I was not happy wiht him made it more naughty she said. And damn it, it turned me on too

[toshare]

Just a bit of an update. I know last Friday she went out and told me she met a guy he bought her drinks and dinner then they went back to our place for a night cap. I know they kissed, but she said shes not telling me any thing else An interesting thing is, ive never kissed her or anything in our new place, so we know Im not the first guy shes kissed in our new place and anything else she did..?????

He text her to go out again, but she does not want to date him, he knows shes in a relationship but thinks she is cheating on me
She did get on a dating app and has been chatting with some guys. She did have plans with a guy for tonight, but hes ghosted her all day so looks like thats not happening.

She said she wants to start dating again, and wants a relationship like the last guy she dated where she can develop a connection and more of a romance. She read on here and some other sites and books about cuclold/hotwife / poly relationships and she said shed like us to have more of a poly cuckold relationship, and has asked how far am I ok with her going in that relationship.....?? She also thinks with us in a new area we could be more open that she dates others.

She already likes me buying her new panties, dresses ect for her dates, driving her to meet her dates, taking pics of her for her dating profile, and during sex she likes to talk about her with other men and how I help get her pretty for other men to enjoy as I stay home. So looks like we've for sure moved from just me getting to see her have sex with another man sometimes, to her wanting to have a sex life and relationships (to some level , I dont know how far yet) to more of me being her cuckold. Never thought Id be into that, but shes even told me she thinks I have a cuckold nature. I guess I can agree to some level there as I do get turned on when I know shes out on dates and having fun with new sexual experiences with other men. But I'm not sure if thats what makes a person a cuckold vs a stag here as were still navigating the waters.

[BallSpanking]

An interesting update. I am not sure it is worth your time getting hung up on 'titles' like cuckold, or stag, or whatever. If the dynamic between you and your GF works, and it does seem to, you already have a working relationship where she cuckolds you. She has told you she enjoys it, she likes that you also are into it, and has expressed a desire to date other guys while continuing to see you, but wanting to have romantic affairs with them.

It sounds to me like the only thing remaining is marrying her, and encouraging her to fulfill her HW dreams.

[apassiveobserver]

Looking forward to reading more!

[Dharmadude]

Sorry to hear about the accident but very glad to hear she is doing well now.

I say whatever works for you both. Would drive me crazy to “know” she, most likely, fucked someone but to not hear the details. I’m glad it works for you. I can see how that would be a turn on tbh, jut not one I could maitain. I know I would break down and have to ask. Either way it is very erotic.

Have followed your thread from the beginning and it is so amazing to watch her (both really) journey from that shy girl in the bar that was so nervous about flashing her pussy. Now she is a full on HW that takes trips alone and gets picked up by strange men with only the intention to fuck them. Selfishly, I hope she does share the details…. so you can share them here, lol.

This may have already happened with you both but one thing I am waiting for in our journey is for my HW to pick up a man with me right there. Whether it’s for a threesome or me just watching. Either way is good with me. I told her that she will probably have to initiate it since I would be right there. We kind of did this but he just wouldn’t take the hints she was dropping. Not that I am an imposing figure at all but that bro code is strong.

Yeah, I do want to know what shes done, but its also erotic knowing she has things just her and her bull/lover have together.
I can understand that about your friends, thats the only real rule we have, none of my guy friends and no family members, other than that shes free to be with whomever she wants. She even made out with a guy I got in a small argument with in a bar one night. She went to the girls room, he followed when she came out she started kissing him. She said she wanted to make out with him from the moment she saw him and the fact I was not happy wiht him made it more naughty she said. And damn it, it turned me on too

Interesting twist! Love how she wanted him and didn’t let your argument get in the way. Good for her!

[isinlarsa]

I've just picked up your thread, and have enjoyed reading about you and your hotgirlfriend's journey, especially the progression from her dressing to thrill other men, to getting fucked in front of you, to dating solo. One thing I missed is when you and she agreed that she could go solo. It seemed that at first it ws important that you be there when she got fucked; but then all of a sudden she's out on dates while you wait at home. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm spent many evenings at home imagining what is happening to my wife at that very moment, and finding it very hot.)

Did I miss you and her discussion and decision that she could go solo and not have you there to watch?

[toshare]

An interesting update. I am not sure it is worth your time getting hung up on 'titles' like cuckold, or stag, or whatever. If the dynamic between you and your GF works, and it does seem to, you already have a working relationship where she cuckolds you. She has told you she enjoys it, she likes that you also are into it, and has expressed a desire to date other guys while continuing to see you, but wanting to have romantic affairs with them.

It sounds to me like the only thing remaining is marrying her, and encouraging her to fulfill her HW dreams.

Yeah, not really getting hung up on titles, just kinda curious as how our relationship would fall in this lifestyle.

[toshare]

I've just picked up your thread, and have enjoyed reading about you and your hotgirlfriend's journey, especially the progression from her dressing to thrill other men, to getting fucked in front of you, to dating solo. One thing I missed is when you and she agreed that she could go solo. It seemed that at first it ws important that you be there when she got fucked; but then all of a sudden she's out on dates while you wait at home. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm spent many evenings at home imagining what is happening to my wife at that very moment, and finding it very hot.)

Did I miss you and her discussion and decision that she could go solo and not have you there to watch?

Thanks for following along, nice to have you. I may had skimmed over it some as, I tried to write the beginning of our journey as if it was in real time, without saying it was or wasn't(to maintain honesty), just so it would be fun for the reader as I've always enjoyed reading about the HW journey as it unfolds, then I may had fast forward a good bit for sake of my typing fingers.

The solo dates happened as she and I talked more and more about what we like and find sexy in this LS. At some point we agreed it would be hot if she went for happy hour after work, well she did and met a guy. I got lots of updates and we both found it very hot, they did not have sex but the trip was fun and we explored that more with some variations, like shes mad at me because I stood her up, so shes "taking it out on me" by flirting with a guy i the bar, they also just made out exchanged numbers, but she never went out with him as he was from out of town on limited time that didnt work with her schedule but things like that started our conversations, esp in bed having sex.

[toshare]

Im trying to keep this thread more to where we are currently, but if you guys have specific questions, happy and answer.

With the above said: I have an small update. She has been texting a few guys she thinks are attractive on the dating app, she told me one guy asked her out and now has a date with one of the guys Wednesday evening.

[BallSpanking]

Would she like to hook up with a BF kind of guy, or does she prefer the variety of dating? Or maybe she prefers to have a number of 'special friends' she can hook up with when she feels like it?

[toshare]

Would she like to hook up with a BF kind of guy, or does she prefer the variety of dating? Or maybe she prefers to have a number of 'special friends' she can hook up with when she feels like it?

Shed like a bf kinda relationship who has a high sex drive. She would still have fun with other men on the side or when she and I are out. Her typical thing is, a couple glasses of wine, she wants to flirt.

[afagehi7]

I've just picked up your thread, and have enjoyed reading about you and your hotgirlfriend's journey, especially the progression from her dressing to thrill other men, to getting fucked in front of you, to dating solo. One thing I missed is when you and she agreed that she could go solo. It seemed that at first it ws important that you be there when she got fucked; but then all of a sudden she's out on dates while you wait at home. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm spent many evenings at home imagining what is happening to my wife at that very moment, and finding it very hot.)

Did I miss you and her discussion and decision that she could go solo and not have you there to watch?

Thanks for following along, nice to have you. I may had skimmed over it some as, I tried to write the beginning of our journey as if it was in real time, without saying it was or wasn't(to maintain honesty), just so it would be fun for the reader as I've always enjoyed reading about the HW journey as it unfolds, then I may had fast forward a good bit for sake of my typing fingers.

The solo dates happened as she and I talked more and more about what we like and find sexy in this LS. At some point we agreed it would be hot if she went for happy hour after work, well she did and met a guy. I got lots of updates and we both found it very hot, they did not have sex but the trip was fun and we explored that more with some variations, like shes mad at me because I stood her up, so shes "taking it out on me" by flirting with a guy i the bar, they also just made out exchanged numbers, but she never went out with him as he was from out of town on limited time that didnt work with her schedule but things like that started our conversations, esp in bed having sex.

That's kinda hot. Telling the guy she's mad cause you stood her up so she's going to mess around. I love that idea. Wish my wife would do it.

[LawrenceKS]

This may be different for younger guys who grew up on porn. For me, it is all about the decision to go for it.
Once she is naked in bed, I don't want to hear any details, and I never have. But I do press her for engineering
details about (1) how she knew he was sexually interested in her, and (2) how they both decided to get together
at a certain place and time, and (3) how she got him from a state of dress to undress, or how he got her out of
her clothes. After that, things are not suspenseful and I am fine with the story ending.

Of course, she once told me that there were a few times that I knew nothing about. I like that because it tells
me she occasionally enjoys doing it for herself.

[BallSpanking]

Her typical thing is, a couple glasses of wine, she wants to flirt.

You ought to remember that ... And take her wine tasting often.

[toshare]

I've just picked up your thread, and have enjoyed reading about you and your hotgirlfriend's journey, especially the progression from her dressing to thrill other men, to getting fucked in front of you, to dating solo. One thing I missed is when you and she agreed that she could go solo. It seemed that at first it ws important that you be there when she got fucked; but then all of a sudden she's out on dates while you wait at home. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. I'm spent many evenings at home imagining what is happening to my wife at that very moment, and finding it very hot.)

Did I miss you and her discussion and decision that she could go solo and not have you there to watch?

Thanks for following along, nice to have you. I may had skimmed over it some as, I tried to write the beginning of our journey as if it was in real time, without saying it was or wasn't(to maintain honesty), just so it would be fun for the reader as I've always enjoyed reading about the HW journey as it unfolds, then I may had fast forward a good bit for sake of my typing fingers.

The solo dates happened as she and I talked more and more about what we like and find sexy in this LS. At some point we agreed it would be hot if she went for happy hour after work, well she did and met a guy. I got lots of updates and we both found it very hot, they did not have sex but the trip was fun and we explored that more with some variations, like shes mad at me because I stood her up, so shes "taking it out on me" by flirting with a guy i the bar, they also just made out exchanged numbers, but she never went out with him as he was from out of town on limited time that didnt work with her schedule but things like that started our conversations, esp in bed having sex.

That's kinda hot. Telling the guy she's mad cause you stood her up so she's going to mess around. I love that idea. Wish my wife would do it.

Ha yes, we thought the same thing. She likes people thinking shes cheating on me. She said it adds a fun layer.

[toshare]

Well to bring you guys more up to date, I left saying she had a date set for a Wednesday, but he ended up ghosting her and nothing came of it ;(

Shes going out with a girlfriend tonight and who knows, maybe shell see a cute guy...??? Shes still on a dating app but we've been busy so nothing to report of there. One guy asked her out for this week, but shes not heard from him in last 5 days. Such is the works of hotwife dating, I guess.Plus, she says she does not tell me everything, but I know right now shes told me a good 95% leaving the 5% just as some detail or 2 I dont know.

[toshare]

Shes going out with a couple gfs tonight, she said if she gets in the mood she may tell them she needs to go home. However, instead, go to a bar alone to meet a guy. She said shes already kinda in the mood, and thinks after a few drinks with the girls she may want to look for a guy to have flirty fun with.

We living in a city where its safe to walk and plenty of ride shares/taxis, btw

[afagehi7]

Shes going out with a couple gfs tonight, she said if she gets in the mood she may tell them she needs to go home. However, instead, go to a bar alone to meet a guy. She said shes already kinda in the mood, and thinks after a few drinks with the girls she may want to look for a guy to have flirty fun with.

We living in a city where its safe to walk and plenty of ride shares/taxis, btw

Why can't she flirt with them there?