A Hot GF in the Making, Where Will it Go?
Posted: Tue Mar 09, 2021 3:00 pm
Hi,
I am starting a new thread here. Some may have followed my last thread, it was under a different screen name tit4atat. Notice I have now changed to tit5atat. There are reasons why I did this and you would probably only understand if you read the entire thread "A New Revelation" under tit4atat.
Anyway, I have had a crush on a girl in a foreign country for a few years. I will call her P. She also has a crush on me. We have developed a fairly strong bond and understanding of each other. Here is the problem, she is married and I was married. Now I am no longer married as fully detailed in the above mentioned post. She also has a bf/fb who she sees regularly. When I first met her she didn't have the bf as at the time he was chasing someone else. However after we started getting close and his chances with the other girl were clearly not there he moved to focus on P. I was not fully aware of how things progress between them for a while as of course being on opposite sides of the planet made it difficult to know. Eventually, P came clean and told me all about the story of how this guy, I'll call him "A" started chasing her just after I left the country.
A little background about P. She is from a poor country and worked hard to be able to work in a better paying country to support herself and family. She got to a good country and went thru a long training program to learn the language and culture there. At some point nearing the end of the training course a friend of a friend said she knew a guy that was looking for a wife and connected them. They started communicating and eventually determined that they would get married basically sight unseen. Keep in mind here that yes, this is a strange set up but in third world countries it is all about survival sometimes, putting food on the table. This guy was fairly wealthy and certainly knew how to woo a woman (actually he had gone thru this type of process before it turns out). So this guy basically bought her out of the training program to pay all of the lost expenses to get her there etc. For the sake of simplicity I will call him H, short for husband.
So after the marriage and some arrangements settled and living with H for about a year, P went back to her home country for about 6-9 months while papers etc were being assembled and filed for change of visa status. Finally P returned to again be with her husband. This was about 5 years ago. Unfortunately, during this time things went south for H. He had a business that somehow went down hill and lost all his money and even had to sell off many things that he had acquired like a boat, fancy SUV etc. Of course P returning to meet him didn't know much about all this. So P arrives to eventually find out that her new husband was now broke!
P finds work and does ok but H starts often asking for money and struggling to pay his bills. Starting a relationship with a husband sight-unseen had it's whole host of problems as well. H expected sex but P didn't enjoy it as there was little connection at first. Of course over time they began to understand each other better but keep in mind there was still a substantial language barrier and H turned out to be a lousy communicator. He basically never said much of anything. To complicate things there is about a 38 year age gap between P and H.
Ok, maybe that is enough background to get an understanding of the situation.
So like I mentioned above, P and I had a instant connection about 3 years ago when we first met. We understand each other very well and we always wanted to be together any time possible and learn more about each other. Only problem was we lived on opposites sides of the earth. Meanwhile A comes along and due to P's situation with H she also gives in to his strong advances and they start a rather torrid affair. Eventually, A pushed the envelope one night when P was fairly drunk and fucked her despite some probably half hearted resistance. After that, things developed into a fairly routine dating/fucking pattern. All of course hidden from H.
Like I mentioned, all during this time I was maintaining a lot of communications with P, we were in love. Clearly P wanted me as I was her real crush however since I was married she had to do what she had to do basically for survival and to maintain some level of sanity given her situation. During our conversations, she came clean about A and told me the whole story. Since we were lovers, at first she was very hesitant to tell me the situation fearing that she would lose me. Over time I convinced her that I understood her situation and was ok with her continuing her affair with A. Slowly she began to open up more and more and at my encouragement began telling me where, when and some details of fucking A. Of course as most here on this web site, this is the sort of thing we dream of. Basically my girl friend having an affair and telling me all the details about it. So in essence I had a hot/GF on my hands. Oh, just to fill in the blank space, probably about a year before I met P she had stopped having sex with her husband. Certainly not to his liking but somehow she got him to accept it as she never felt the kind of connection with him that sex could be enjoyable. In other words, our first meeting was in my hotel room but happened to be the last day I was in the her country. I had been trying to get her to meet for about 2 weeks but circumstances didn’t allow it. To my surprise she hadn’t had sex for about a year before meeting me.
This continued on for the last 3 years. However over time P started to realize that my connection with my wife was not going to end and she started to focus more on A but always keeping the door open for me. For a while I was torn. If you have read the thread mentioned above you can understand why. All thru this time period my wife started enjoying the HW lifestyle to some degree. About 3 years ago our relationship was a bit rocky for various reasons and that was about the time I met P. Certainly in the last year our connection grew much stronger and we had basically all the ducks in a row for a beautiful future together. Last year I had come to the conclusion that I would never be able to leave her for P. Obviously the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence but there would be a big risk for me and I could see that it would cause massive pain and grief for my wife. I was everything to her, everything and I couldn’t face letting her down like that!
So that brings us up to current times. Well, one more thing. Like I mentioned, during the initial year or two I had been hearing her stories about how, when and where she was fucking A. At one point I bought her a device that she could use to record a video of their fucking. She took it but never had the courage or desire to use it. She made it clear over time that she just couldn't do that. This last year her communications with me were slowing down. About a year ago she had a big fight with A and broke up. Said her husband was a much better man anyway. In reality, despite H being broke, when ever he did have some money or a birthday or special event, he would go all out and buy her something super special. For instance, about 2 years ago he bought her a several thousand dollar LV handbag. Of course a few weeks later he was asking to borrow money (means she will never see it again) because he was broke and couldn't pay the bills. She was working 2 jobs at the time about 15 hours a day and he is asking money from her.
Despite our communications slowing down it never stopped. P just gave me enough to let me know that I was still her love and that would never change. All this last year I had assumed that A was out of the picture since they had the big fight and broke up. Just recently about 3 months ago she informed me that they had gotten back together and were lovers again going back quite a while. I was a bit shocked but still confidant that I was still her #1 love.
During this time she hadn't told me anything about their secret meetings dinners together and fucking. At the current point in time she meets him probably 5 times a week for dinner and one or two times a month they go to a hotel for fucking. So basically my GF is a hot GF. She has a husband and lover on the side that she routinely fucks while trying to maintain our relationship. She has gotten fairly comfortable with me knowing that I sort of enjoy it. For the whole time she never could really understand why I would want to actually see her fucking A or her husband for that matter.
Last weekend, she had a full day meet up with A. In the morning she informed me that they would hang out together doing things and at noon they would go to a hotel. Of course this means that they would be fucking. Having given her some pressure years back about making a secret video she always knew my desires. A few days before this her husband was out of town and we did a video call where she put her phone so that I could watch her shower and then later I did the same. During this time she was learning some of the tricks of using the phone for video calls. We had the luxury of spending a lot of time chatting and tightening our bond. I mentioned to her she could do things like engage in a call then put the phone in another window so her screen wouldn’t show a picture. When P told me about the plan the night before to be going to the hotel I asked her if she could just put her phone on, set it aside so that I could hear them in the room together. She basically agreed and said she would try.
The next morning, of course evening here we chatted again before they were to meet. She confirmed that she would try to start a call so I could listen in. Of course I wouldn’t understand anything they talk about as it would be in a language I know very little of. So all thru the evening here I am on pins and needles wondering if she would actually go thru with it. Up to this point every time I had mentioned making a video she had bluntly refused. Well, at the appointed time she gave me a vid call and quickly said that it would be still a while before going to the hotel and please wait. Eventually, she gave me another call and said, “don’t make a sound” so of course I put my microphone on mute. They proceed into the room and I could hear very clear although it is surprising how difficult it is to tell what is happening. After some time I start to hear sounds that were clearly things heating up. From there the sounds from P got louder and louder. She can get quite noisy and I had told her, “don’t hold back” and she certainly didn’t. So things escalated quickly and then I could tell from A’s grunting that he had cum (only about 10 minutes in). A extra little turn on for me is that every time they fuck, he goes bareback and fills her with his cum.
After he clearly came they did some laughing and then things got a little quiet. I know P usually brings a vibrating wand to these meetings as she doesn’t cum generally from penetration. At one point I heard a faint hum but it quickly went away. I think from the apps noise cancelling features. So its fairly quiet and then I hear P really start to get loud again climbing to a climax. After that things went silent for a bit and then I heard the call go off. Later in the evening after returning home I had some calls with her and texting (while her husband was in the room not paying any attention to her). She explained that the second set of noises I heard were from her playing with the toy. She also said that A helped her play with the toy and she even squirted all down her leg. Squirting is something we have tried to accomplish but have only been successful once or twice. I think all the extra excitement of knowing I was listening made her dripping wet and easier to squirt.
So after all the excitement we had many talks and it seemed to bring us so much closer together. P did say that it might have been a one time thing. I am hoping that she changes her mind on that one and she shares with me every time going forward. All in all I know it was a super exciting experience for her and certainly for me. I was leaking pre-cum the whole time and trying to hold back. I came at about the same time as she did.
I know this is a super long explanation but I hope some have enjoyed if you got all the way to the end. For me, generally this is the type of thread that I like. How it all got started and how did it happen. Feel free to comment and let me know what you think!
I am starting a new thread here. Some may have followed my last thread, it was under a different screen name tit4atat. Notice I have now changed to tit5atat. There are reasons why I did this and you would probably only understand if you read the entire thread "A New Revelation" under tit4atat.
Anyway, I have had a crush on a girl in a foreign country for a few years. I will call her P. She also has a crush on me. We have developed a fairly strong bond and understanding of each other. Here is the problem, she is married and I was married. Now I am no longer married as fully detailed in the above mentioned post. She also has a bf/fb who she sees regularly. When I first met her she didn't have the bf as at the time he was chasing someone else. However after we started getting close and his chances with the other girl were clearly not there he moved to focus on P. I was not fully aware of how things progress between them for a while as of course being on opposite sides of the planet made it difficult to know. Eventually, P came clean and told me all about the story of how this guy, I'll call him "A" started chasing her just after I left the country.
A little background about P. She is from a poor country and worked hard to be able to work in a better paying country to support herself and family. She got to a good country and went thru a long training program to learn the language and culture there. At some point nearing the end of the training course a friend of a friend said she knew a guy that was looking for a wife and connected them. They started communicating and eventually determined that they would get married basically sight unseen. Keep in mind here that yes, this is a strange set up but in third world countries it is all about survival sometimes, putting food on the table. This guy was fairly wealthy and certainly knew how to woo a woman (actually he had gone thru this type of process before it turns out). So this guy basically bought her out of the training program to pay all of the lost expenses to get her there etc. For the sake of simplicity I will call him H, short for husband.
So after the marriage and some arrangements settled and living with H for about a year, P went back to her home country for about 6-9 months while papers etc were being assembled and filed for change of visa status. Finally P returned to again be with her husband. This was about 5 years ago. Unfortunately, during this time things went south for H. He had a business that somehow went down hill and lost all his money and even had to sell off many things that he had acquired like a boat, fancy SUV etc. Of course P returning to meet him didn't know much about all this. So P arrives to eventually find out that her new husband was now broke!
P finds work and does ok but H starts often asking for money and struggling to pay his bills. Starting a relationship with a husband sight-unseen had it's whole host of problems as well. H expected sex but P didn't enjoy it as there was little connection at first. Of course over time they began to understand each other better but keep in mind there was still a substantial language barrier and H turned out to be a lousy communicator. He basically never said much of anything. To complicate things there is about a 38 year age gap between P and H.
Ok, maybe that is enough background to get an understanding of the situation.
So like I mentioned above, P and I had a instant connection about 3 years ago when we first met. We understand each other very well and we always wanted to be together any time possible and learn more about each other. Only problem was we lived on opposites sides of the earth. Meanwhile A comes along and due to P's situation with H she also gives in to his strong advances and they start a rather torrid affair. Eventually, A pushed the envelope one night when P was fairly drunk and fucked her despite some probably half hearted resistance. After that, things developed into a fairly routine dating/fucking pattern. All of course hidden from H.
Like I mentioned, all during this time I was maintaining a lot of communications with P, we were in love. Clearly P wanted me as I was her real crush however since I was married she had to do what she had to do basically for survival and to maintain some level of sanity given her situation. During our conversations, she came clean about A and told me the whole story. Since we were lovers, at first she was very hesitant to tell me the situation fearing that she would lose me. Over time I convinced her that I understood her situation and was ok with her continuing her affair with A. Slowly she began to open up more and more and at my encouragement began telling me where, when and some details of fucking A. Of course as most here on this web site, this is the sort of thing we dream of. Basically my girl friend having an affair and telling me all the details about it. So in essence I had a hot/GF on my hands. Oh, just to fill in the blank space, probably about a year before I met P she had stopped having sex with her husband. Certainly not to his liking but somehow she got him to accept it as she never felt the kind of connection with him that sex could be enjoyable. In other words, our first meeting was in my hotel room but happened to be the last day I was in the her country. I had been trying to get her to meet for about 2 weeks but circumstances didn’t allow it. To my surprise she hadn’t had sex for about a year before meeting me.
This continued on for the last 3 years. However over time P started to realize that my connection with my wife was not going to end and she started to focus more on A but always keeping the door open for me. For a while I was torn. If you have read the thread mentioned above you can understand why. All thru this time period my wife started enjoying the HW lifestyle to some degree. About 3 years ago our relationship was a bit rocky for various reasons and that was about the time I met P. Certainly in the last year our connection grew much stronger and we had basically all the ducks in a row for a beautiful future together. Last year I had come to the conclusion that I would never be able to leave her for P. Obviously the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence but there would be a big risk for me and I could see that it would cause massive pain and grief for my wife. I was everything to her, everything and I couldn’t face letting her down like that!
So that brings us up to current times. Well, one more thing. Like I mentioned, during the initial year or two I had been hearing her stories about how, when and where she was fucking A. At one point I bought her a device that she could use to record a video of their fucking. She took it but never had the courage or desire to use it. She made it clear over time that she just couldn't do that. This last year her communications with me were slowing down. About a year ago she had a big fight with A and broke up. Said her husband was a much better man anyway. In reality, despite H being broke, when ever he did have some money or a birthday or special event, he would go all out and buy her something super special. For instance, about 2 years ago he bought her a several thousand dollar LV handbag. Of course a few weeks later he was asking to borrow money (means she will never see it again) because he was broke and couldn't pay the bills. She was working 2 jobs at the time about 15 hours a day and he is asking money from her.
Despite our communications slowing down it never stopped. P just gave me enough to let me know that I was still her love and that would never change. All this last year I had assumed that A was out of the picture since they had the big fight and broke up. Just recently about 3 months ago she informed me that they had gotten back together and were lovers again going back quite a while. I was a bit shocked but still confidant that I was still her #1 love.
During this time she hadn't told me anything about their secret meetings dinners together and fucking. At the current point in time she meets him probably 5 times a week for dinner and one or two times a month they go to a hotel for fucking. So basically my GF is a hot GF. She has a husband and lover on the side that she routinely fucks while trying to maintain our relationship. She has gotten fairly comfortable with me knowing that I sort of enjoy it. For the whole time she never could really understand why I would want to actually see her fucking A or her husband for that matter.
Last weekend, she had a full day meet up with A. In the morning she informed me that they would hang out together doing things and at noon they would go to a hotel. Of course this means that they would be fucking. Having given her some pressure years back about making a secret video she always knew my desires. A few days before this her husband was out of town and we did a video call where she put her phone so that I could watch her shower and then later I did the same. During this time she was learning some of the tricks of using the phone for video calls. We had the luxury of spending a lot of time chatting and tightening our bond. I mentioned to her she could do things like engage in a call then put the phone in another window so her screen wouldn’t show a picture. When P told me about the plan the night before to be going to the hotel I asked her if she could just put her phone on, set it aside so that I could hear them in the room together. She basically agreed and said she would try.
The next morning, of course evening here we chatted again before they were to meet. She confirmed that she would try to start a call so I could listen in. Of course I wouldn’t understand anything they talk about as it would be in a language I know very little of. So all thru the evening here I am on pins and needles wondering if she would actually go thru with it. Up to this point every time I had mentioned making a video she had bluntly refused. Well, at the appointed time she gave me a vid call and quickly said that it would be still a while before going to the hotel and please wait. Eventually, she gave me another call and said, “don’t make a sound” so of course I put my microphone on mute. They proceed into the room and I could hear very clear although it is surprising how difficult it is to tell what is happening. After some time I start to hear sounds that were clearly things heating up. From there the sounds from P got louder and louder. She can get quite noisy and I had told her, “don’t hold back” and she certainly didn’t. So things escalated quickly and then I could tell from A’s grunting that he had cum (only about 10 minutes in). A extra little turn on for me is that every time they fuck, he goes bareback and fills her with his cum.
After he clearly came they did some laughing and then things got a little quiet. I know P usually brings a vibrating wand to these meetings as she doesn’t cum generally from penetration. At one point I heard a faint hum but it quickly went away. I think from the apps noise cancelling features. So its fairly quiet and then I hear P really start to get loud again climbing to a climax. After that things went silent for a bit and then I heard the call go off. Later in the evening after returning home I had some calls with her and texting (while her husband was in the room not paying any attention to her). She explained that the second set of noises I heard were from her playing with the toy. She also said that A helped her play with the toy and she even squirted all down her leg. Squirting is something we have tried to accomplish but have only been successful once or twice. I think all the extra excitement of knowing I was listening made her dripping wet and easier to squirt.
So after all the excitement we had many talks and it seemed to bring us so much closer together. P did say that it might have been a one time thing. I am hoping that she changes her mind on that one and she shares with me every time going forward. All in all I know it was a super exciting experience for her and certainly for me. I was leaking pre-cum the whole time and trying to hold back. I came at about the same time as she did.
I know this is a super long explanation but I hope some have enjoyed if you got all the way to the end. For me, generally this is the type of thread that I like. How it all got started and how did it happen. Feel free to comment and let me know what you think!