We're starting very very slowly

[crystal]

Need to write it here; found this forum as I've been searching for other girls like me;

Divorced, married again to nice guy Bill. Shared custody of my 2 children with my ex-husband. We've married only 2 months after we met and had 2 babies in no time and we believed that love was all that we needed to keep us together. It turned out was not only necessary component in a successful marriage. We lacked maturity, communication, and mutual respect. Our one-night stand laster for almost 4 years.
I met my current husband 5 years ago, after the divorce became final and waited almost year to introduce him to the kids. He has been solid, my mother described him as a man I have to marry.

I'm determined to keep our romantic life alive, so last time I'd met Bill in the kitchen wearing nothing but high heels, and lacy thong and one of his favourite ties between my breasts. Hearing his car pulling into garage I struck the best pose I could manage. I'd welcome him as he walked in the door. He just said sorry as he'd should reply on urgent email and it won't take long and asked me to meet him in the bedroom.

I'd imagined the scene like in the movies, dropping his briefcase on the floor and tearing off his clothes the minute he saw me the way he had me before we married. We had great sex experiences together, risky ones but I'll share that later maybe. But 5 years later I stood naked in the kitchen as he was responding to email rather than fucking his own wife. I headed to the bedroom and he met me there. As we're both freelancers our schedule is pretty busy but his own is disaster. I can't make him turn off his phone for a minute. I wasn't in mood anymore. I love spending any minute with him, he's my best friend for now and forever.


You got the main picture so let's go straight to the topic, I got text from Bill inviting me on dinner date. It was a great surprise so I don't need much to be convinced. I sent text to my ex that he would be picking the kids from school. I didn't want to have any scheduling issues after all these months of quarantines, lockdowns and all of this.

Couple of hours later we met in our favourite Persian place, at one point music got louder and he suggested getting a drink as grownups. Hardly but we found open bar like place at the downtown hotel's rooftop. As we live in the suburb, and we don't have any bars with loud music I didn't expect any adventurous to happen. Bill get drinks for us, double vodka with lime. I reminded him my daughter has a football game the next day. With both kids having activities on Saturdays one of us should wake up early. I sucked down my entire drink, drinking and dancing what better than that. We're dancing close to our table. I wanted another drink, Bill ordered us two more, and once they arrived he sipped while I sucked mine down almost immediately. We're smiling each other like idiots. I was feeling we're doing something wrong, it was 11pm and by this time we're usually on the couch trying not to fall asleep. Then someone bumped into us, excused himself - attractive blonde, looked our age, he introduced himself we shake hands. He wasn't my type i'm into dark haired men.

He asked Bill if he'd allowed a dance with this pretty woman; Bill just said do it, i want to watch. It was odd at first, I let his hands roam up and down my back and I gave his arms a stroke. My hubby stared at me with a shade of desire I couldn't remember seeing on his face before. The two of us keeping rhythm with the music until the song ended, and then he led me back to Bill. He asked if we want to join on his table but we had to go. We hurried hand-in-hand, insted of unlocking it he pushed me on the car and kissed me hard.He said to me that's was fucking hot, I just wanted to go home but he had another idea. The self-parking garage was almost empty, he led me behind our SUV, quickly unbuttoned my jeans, then his own. Made me to turn around, grabbed my hair and gave it gentle pull saying "Now". Too arroused to protest I complied. I pushed down my jeans, he did the same with his. He clamped his hand over my mouth as he moved inside me. We finished in a minute or two, breathing hard we quickly refastened our jeans and then he kissed me again. He asked me if I got his number, I pressed my lips together and nodded.

Something between us had shifted and only reason to explain it he likes to see his wife with other men or I'm wrong. The story continues on the next day but I don't have right now write it.

[armyguyot1]

welcome to the forum crystal.

[crystal]

welcome to the forum crystal.

thanks armyguyot1, i want to get verified would you be able to send me pm with instructions thanks

[crystal]

The next morning we woke up early for my daughter football game. I met one of other soccer moms there, one of my best girlfriends Amanda, she asked me how it's going and because she knows me she said laud "you got laid" I laughed and asked her if she can say it a little louder that everything on the other side of the park to heard her. She confessed she hasn't had sex with her hubby in 3 months. She wanted details but as you can suppose she's not the person I could share exactly what happened last night. I lied to her and said to her short version of our night that we went out for dinner downtown, and then we had couple of drinks let alone our experience in the parking garage. I wasn't ready to share details with anyone at this point even with her, who I usually did tell most of the things.

But she insisted to hear all the details, whispered to her we did it twice. We did at home after we returned. She was so jealous she could scream and she didn't even ask more on this topic. The game went well, my daughter's team won so we're all happy about it.

We drove back home, took a shower and had to prepare something for lunch. Hubby grabbed the sandwich, I pulled the business card the man from the bar had given me, set it on the countertop, next to Bill's plate, keeping my index finger on it for a minute.He's just eating his sandwich so I had to explain to him we need to talk about this. He took another bite "for what". I hit his arm, I was trying to be serious what happened last night was crazy. The sex was good, it was amazing. He was so relaxed that I was going to kill him I told him it was amazing but it's weirdo seeing how much he likes it. He asked me why it's weird well let's say I'm not supposed to get turned on by anyone but hubby. I'd never caught Bill checking out other women when we're together. I’d certainly noticed other, attractive men, especially over the last year, as our sexual life had quieted down. I can look at the menu as long as I eat at home, I reassured myself when another man caught my eye. I never wanted to cheat on my husband, but I couldn’t deny the physical attraction I sometimes felt.

He was like who says that, maybe the people who made it till the death or God. He laughed and said he gets, it felt strange. He admitted he didn't know he'd get so turned on watching me dance with some other guy. The fact that guy wanted me made him wanted me even more. So far so good I had to ask him why he asked me if i got his number. He lied to me that he doesn't know but it was a lie. He knew it and I knew it and finally he spitted out - maybe see you dance with him again. I was wondering just a dance, after the sex we had Friday night I pictured myself Bill dancing with both of us, me in between them, their bodies pressing into mine. And then, three of us together in bed, naked. Me between them again.

He asked me if I want to do more, I swallowed hard and I partly lied I don't know, maybe if it's not too awful. What he said it's exactly opposite of awful. I felt relief. I kissed him, we sat back on the couch, He said he loves me, and want to be happy and it it works for us, if it might make our sex life better then we should talk about it, that's kind of porn he likes - 2 men + 1 woman. I asked him why he didn't tell me about it, he confessed he's not but he confronted me I never told either. He was right. That fantasy was something I’d been afraid to share with anyone, even Bill, because I never thought it was something I would ever actually do. I also worried if I had told him how much the idea of having sex with two men at the same time turned me on, he would feel like having sex with him alone wasn’t enough. I was afraid it would hurt him.

We decided we need rules if we decide to do this, lots of them to make sure nothing bad would happen to us because I read a lot and people trying this lifestyle and shit happens and we need to be carefully. I mentioned open relationship but he refused to use his free ticket to sleep with other woman. He's not interested in having sex with other women, he's interested in watching me or both of us having sex with other man.TOGETHER. I don't think it's exactly fair, he even joked with me he'd be fine if i'm into the idea of having sex with woman, he'd be more than willing to sit back and watch. How generous I had to disappoint him, it's not my thing. Then he kept me grilling if i'm into sex with another man. I don't feel any need to do it, but the kink that it's something he wants to watch i would probably give a try.

What we agreed - we talk about everything, totally honest, if one of us wants to stop, we stop; No questions asked. He asked me to grab his card and the laptop. We were about to write him email, we chose email—creating an anonymous account—instead of texting or calling him because we weren’t sure we felt comfortable having him know our phone numbers. For all we knew, he could have been a psycho. Or married. The last thing we wanted to do was mess with someone else’s marriage—that, along with honesty about how we were feeling about the experience and always using condoms, was one of the most important rules we discussed. He hit send.

It turned out that talking about having a threesome with your husband was a lot easier than actually making it happen

[Whosbeensleeping]

Sounds very interesting. Thanks for sharing your story.

[FiveInchLullaby]

Damn... This is great! What a hot story...and I like your writing style. It's very conversational!

[afagehi7]

You should become a verified female.
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[bradisalpha]

Crystal,

Did you create an anonymous account ?? That would be best.

Did you email him ??

Brad

[crystal]

You should become a verified female.
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

Did that, waiting for reply

[crystal]

Crystal,

Did you create an anonymous account ?? That would be best.

Did you email him ??

Brad

Yes we did that 3 days ago, still waiting for reply from this guy; maybe we're wrong about him and he's not interested in me or married or idiot
At least the volume of sex turned up and we're starting telling us more about what really turns us on. He can't wait too see me fucking this guy, he wants to see me ride him.

[afagehi7]

You should become a verified female.
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

Did that, waiting for reply

Excellent. There are so many men who post as a woman it's always a relief when we get a new verified female as a vhw. The vhw feature is one of the reasons this site is the best as you know you're interacting with real people and not internet fakes.

Can't wait to see your name in blue! Hopefully you'll participate on other threads. A female view is always welcomed

[Gary_evans77]

Hoping he finally gets round to actually readind his email, and thinks.. "OMG, I think this "pretty woman" is interested in me" . he will bo hooked!
Let us hear what happens next. #thrilling

[crystal]

Hoping he finally gets round to actually readind his email, and thinks.. "OMG, I think this "pretty woman" is interested in me" . he will bo hooked!
Let us hear what happens next. #thrilling

He just wrote back, got a text from hubby as obviously he's checking that email every hour He excused that he didn't answer early as he saw our email last night and he hopes he's not too late and he likes the vibe between us and we're the kind of couple he needs to get to know.

He adviced to meet for drink at his condo; Bill asked me if I want him to set it up. So his condo might be good choice as we don't want to run into anyone we knew.

So boys and girls what do you think, should we go for it.

[superb101]

Absolutely but only if YOU are comfortable with it!

[crystal]

Absolutely but only if YOU are comfortable with it!

How could I know that Whatever I promised myself to give a try of this lifestyle so I'm gonna write him back.

Hubby is still so relaxed so I count on him to make this experience a good one.

[crystal]

Absolutely but only if YOU are comfortable with it!

How could I know that Whatever I promised myself to give a try of this lifestyle so I'm gonna write him back.

Hubby is still so relaxed so I count on him to make this experience a good one.

All set for tomorrow.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

All set for tomorrow.

Mr GILF

[aztd]

Hot

[RetiredSnowbird]

Crystal, this sounds quite promising. I wish you well in your forthcoming encounter, and I'm sure you will have some great adventures to relate to your like-minded friends here.

[crystal]

Crystal, this sounds quite promising. I wish you well in your forthcoming encounter, and I'm sure you will have some great adventures to relate to your like-minded friends here.

Scared in my bones but the thrill of starting something new is like heroine; and hubby is still joking with me, when I asked him I'm worried what I'll be wearing, so guess what he told me " he's not gonna what you're wearing, he wants your body naked".

How could a man be so relaxed, tell me did you feel so relaxed before your wife took first step into this lifestyle

[crystal]

You should become a verified female.
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

Did that, waiting for reply

Excellent. There are so many men who post as a woman it's always a relief when we get a new verified female as a vhw. The vhw feature is one of the reasons this site is the best as you know you're interacting with real people and not internet fakes.

Can't wait to see your name in blue! Hopefully you'll participate on other threads. A female view is always welcomed

Good for you still waiting armyguy to answer my pm

[RetiredSnowbird]

My wife still hasn't become an official hotwife (although she has cheated on me). But I did catch sight of her once as she stood naked in our bedroom as this good-looking guy we both knew (but not a good friend) looked in at her thru the window from outside.They looked directly at one another as she exposed her 36D tits and pussy for him to enjoy. The previous day I am pretty sure I saw them kissing passionately. Since this thread should be about you and not me I won't go into detail about that (you can PM me if you want more info about that and later events) but it was easily the most erotic experience I've ever had and resulted a few minutes later in my having an explosive orgasm that nearly made me pass out.

You will be unlocking some powerful forces in your marriage. While some couples are unable to handle it, the two of you seem like you're on the same page. Continue the honesty, openness and communication in your marriage and share with him any New Relationship Energy you experience with the other man or men, and you'll be fine.

[RetiredSnowbird]

Also, have you decided what kind of interaction it will be? Threesome? You having sex with the guy while hubby watches from a few feet away? Or you alone with guy while hubby waits at home? You and hubby should decide up front what you will or will not do. Also, have a secret code word to use if hubby is in the room and things aren't going to your or your hubby's expectations and you want to find a way to stop...it's important that you're on the same page.

[crystal]

We just postponed the date. I'm feeling like shit after 2nd shot of Covid vaccine - body aches and temperature.

[mintymintybiscuit]

Congratulations on getting vaccinated! I hope you're feeling better soon.