"Maybe one day", one day at a time.

[CuriousHusband91941]

Sexy and chill recounting as usual.
Have you guys heard of The Empire Strips Back?
Not sure if they are performing that anywhere you can go for another short vacay.

[Pufferfish]

Thanks I'll keep it in mind.

Just a quick update to say that there isn't a whole lot to update. Since the trip we've been occupied by flu, Thanksgiving, and whatnot. N has been coming by about every other week over the last month and a half to accommodate those other things, hopefully we'll get back to every week soon. My wife had been talking to a new guy for a month or so and planned on meeting him, but he canceled the day before. She doesn't think she'll like him in person anyway so she didn't mind. He's always trying to get her to give him nude pics, and I think that's all he's really after. I believe he told her he is 5'10, but he looks more like 5'6 to me, and I think he knows he's shit out of luck the moment she sees how short he is. But she enjoyed flirting with him at least.

[Pufferfish]

Things have been going pretty good for us lately. My wife did meet a guy she had been chatting with. He wanted to meet at the bar in the nearby casino so I dropped her off and then I wasted time on the slot machines until she was done. I gave myself a $50 budget and started playing. I only bet the minimum. After about an hour and a half I was up to $200 when my wife texted that she was finished. So I cashed out with an extra $150. I met the guy that she met. He had a weird haircut I think, but was a good looking guy and seemed confident and nice. Afterwards I took her to a restaurant and she told me about her meet. She wasn't sure about him, she liked things about him, and not others. But thought he was looking for more than just a FWB. In the end it didn't matter as he said he didn't want to meet again. But it was a fun night regardless.

It's been the usual routine with N coming over this month but my wife has really been enjoying him. Last week she finally got her braces off and has an absolutely beautiful smile and white teeth. We thought they'd be all discolored and stuff after wearing the braces, but they look great. So she's used to hiding her mouth from people because she hated her braces, but now being told by everyone how beautiful her smile is she is feeling pretty great and happy. I tested out her mouth with some pretty rough oral sex and loved it and told her she needed to show N some of that since he's never known her without braces. So she did and he really liked that as well. She also bought N a Xmas present which is basically just a Tarzan loincloth and told him that she wants to see him wear it for her so she's hoping he will next time. But it's been a good few weeks for us.

[CuriousHusband91941]

I hope your new year was great.
Your updates are always sexy to read.
Hopefully More in 2024.

[Pufferfish]

I appreciate that. Our new year was good and we've been enjoying our lives. My wife's nights with N have still been regular and fairly routine, which we all seem to love and appreciate, but it does make for some fairly boring updates I'm afraid. For N, he likes to cum here and just Netflix and chill, and relax.

My wife has still been chatting with Mr. L whom she has told she wasn't super into, but he keeps flirting and she loves to be flirted with and flirt back. Out of the blue she said she was going to meet him at a bar downtown and said that she likes talking with him, but that she doesn't know if she'll do anything with him again. I said "Uh huh." She said "He seems to think I'm going to suck his cock again, but I told him I'm not." I said, "Uh huh. lol" I dropped her off at the bar and because I was hungry I parked and went to a restaurant near by and got some food, then went back to the car to wait for a while. After about 20 more minutes she texted me that he was driving her home, so I texted her that I was still downtown and he didn't have to if he didn't want to, but got no reply. So I went home myself. I got home and she met me in the kitchen and gave me a kiss. She said pretty much what I thought might have happened. That after a drink or 2 they ended up in his truck and after some groping and making out he pulled his cock out and she started sucking his cock. She told him to drive her home and told him which direction to head and texted me that he was driving her home and sucked his cock and swallowed his cum while he drove (Which she has still never done with me). She had fun, but still isn't that into him because they have nothing really in common and I have a bigger cock than him, which I don't mind hearing her tell me lol.

N's visits are all rather similar, but like I said we enjoy them. For Xmas my wife bought him a pair of sexy leopard print underwear with a dick pocket for him to wear for her lol, but he hasn't worn it yet, because he was too nervous to. Until this week anyway. As they were getting ready to have sex and go to sleep he put them on for her and she was so excited to see him wearing those for her. She pounced on him and ended up in a FANTASTIC position to the camera with a clear close up of her pussy. They stripped and I loved watching her grind her pussy up and down his shaft before impaling herself on his cock and fucking him like crazy. I was REALLY looking forward to seeing him cum in her in that position and watch the cum drip out of her... but I knew he was going to ruin the angle and he did, he rolled her over before finishing in her and I was SOOOO disappointed lol. But I thanked her for such a great video and hoped that I could see that angle again as it is my favorite with a proper finish and she said she would try for me.

[Pufferfish]

Been meaning to update since Valentine's Day. My wife told me that N would be coming over on that day. I mentioned that it was Valentine's Day, not because I had a problem with it, but just because I wanted to remind her in case she wanted to do something else special. She simply said, "I know, that's fine."

That morning I shaved her pussy and trimmed her pubic hair in the shape of a heart to be more festive. She decided that the only thing she was going to wear was a black oversized silk dress shirt and fishnet stockings. She only had the shirt buttoned with a single button, which neither covered her big tits nor her beautiful pussy. She answered the door like that and needless to say, N was delighted. We started a movie on the couch but my wife was more interested in straddling N's lap and making out with him while he enjoyed her tits. The shirt didn't stay on too long. My wife pulled his pants down and kneeled on the floor sucking his cock. Soon she straddled him again and began fucking him. I reached out and she grabbed my hand and held it while she fucked him for a while, she also made sure to look over at me several times because she knows how much I love to see her happy expressions. He came inside her really hard. We excused ourselves to clean up and she said she was so wet, and she was dripping all the way down her leg, both his cum and hers. I cleaned her up a little longer than I'm usually allowed, but I insisted on a little extra clean up time.

After the movie and dinner I left them alone for a bit and they continued to make out and spend some time together. A while later they left to the bedroom where they had some more sex. She was getting a little aggressive with her nails and biting and he spanked and pulled her hair a bit more than usual which she absolutely enjoyed. In the morning, they had sex again. But the morning sex is usually pretty vanilla. But it's always amazing to see my wife's pussy get filled with more cum. After he showered and left I kissed my wife and dragged her back to the bedroom and began licking her pussy again. After I reclaimed her we just laid their in bed told each other how much we loved each other and "Happy Valentine's Day." It was a great one.

Tonight is the first night she's got to see N since. She wanted to go to a bar and listen to music. She drank a couple beers before he arrived and about 3 after he got here so that they wouldn't want to spend too much at the actual bar... but that didn't work. N bought her about 5 more strong drinks when they got there and by the time I picked them up, she was hammered lol. I was worried that she might become "The Sexorcist" in a projectile vomit type of way but she surprised me. They pretty much went straight to the bedroom when we got home and because of a bit of whiskey dick, N lasted a lot longer than usual. My wife got some great sex, but no clean up for me. Hopefully they won't feel too terrible tomorrow and will go for a morning one before I get to reclaim her. I just hope I don't get denied due to her feeling too sick because my balls are blue as hell. But we'll see how that goes in the morning.

[Pufferfish]

Also just a little tidbit. We have a week vacation planned in a couple months time at the end of April. We decided to look into whether or not there were any cruises that we could jump on in that time frame, and unfortunately it doesn't look like there is. But I did stumble upon the Bliss swingers cruise as a possibility, but unfortunately it leaves port just 2 days late for us to be able to make it back in time... I was SOOOO disappointed lol, because that would have been awesome. But maybe next year depending on how my new career is developing. I graduate school this summer/early fall and will be re-entering the workforce in a new career, so I'll be at the mercy of my new job. But it was almost awesome... disappointing.

[8toplaywith]

I wish I had an almost awesome experience like yours.
Keep smiling and count your blessings, Puffer!

[CuriousHusband91941]

... I reached out and she grabbed my hand and held it while she fucked him for a while, she also made sure to look over at me several times because she knows how much I love to see her happy expressions. He came inside her really hard. We excused ourselves to clean up and she said she was so wet, and she was dripping all the way down her leg, both his cum and hers. I cleaned her up a little longer than I'm usually allowed, but I insisted on a little extra clean up time.

...After he showered and left I kissed my wife and dragged her back to the bedroom and began licking her pussy again. After I reclaimed her we just laid their in bed told each other how much we loved each other and "Happy Valentine's Day." It was a great one.

... I just hope I don't get denied due to her feeling too sick because my balls are blue as hell. But we'll see how that goes in the morning.

This was hot, sweet, and beautiful. I really enjoy thought of my wife holding my hand whiles she enjoys herself, making eye contact.
Regarding your blue balls, are you caged or just practicing self denial?

[Pufferfish]

No I don't do cages. So self denial I guess. She doesn't deny me on purpose either. I don't masturbate while she's having fun or anything, I wait until I can reclaim her.

She definitely wasn't feeling great that morning. She really wanted to try deepthroating him the night before but was afraid it would cause disastrous results. But she did still really want to suck his cock still and she did that morning. At least until she rode him until creampie. No deepthroat though. And then she made sure I was satisfied before going back to bed. She hasn't drank since though lol.

[boobman987]

Thanks for the update Pufferfish.
I hope that your new job works out well, but will the hours still allow you to participate with your wife’s hotwifing activities?
By any chance did you take a picture of your artistic pubic hair work for Valentines? It sounds brilliant! and very original. If you did, would you post it on the Hotties board?

[Pufferfish]

Thanks for the update Pufferfish.
I hope that your new job works out well, but will the hours still allow you to participate with your wife’s hotwifing activities?
By any chance did you take a picture of your artistic pubic hair work for Valentines? It sounds brilliant! and very original. If you did, would you post it on the Hotties board?

I won't have that new job or career for a good 6 months or so still, but I imagine it will be typical person's 9 to 5 type schedule, which is pretty much the exact opposite of the schedule we have right now. We don't even know how my wife will be able to adjust to my new schedule yet, so we'll be playing everything by ear when it happens. But regardless, our hotwifing schedule will have to change as well, but we'll adapt to make it work for us. It definitely won't be left behind.

As for pictures, no good news on that front. I was pushing for pics and stuff quite a lot in the past mostly for my own benefit. As even I didn't have much of anything like that. Now that she lets me have video cameras set up around the house I have great stuff captured and not allowed to share any of it. I still attempt to get her to take some sexy or nude pics for N or other guys to share though and could probably share something that she sends like that. But she still hasn't wanted to do that yet. So even N who's seen and sucked on her tits, doesn't have a picture of her tits. I'm not going to say she'll never be open to sharing something like that, but I'm sure not ruining my situation to push for it lol.

[boobman987]

…
As for pictures, no good news on that front. … I still attempt to get her to take some sexy or nude pics for N or other guys to share though and could probably share something that she sends like that. But she still hasn't wanted to do that yet. So even N who's seen and sucked on her tits, doesn't have a picture of her tits. I'm not going to say she'll never be open to sharing something like that, but I'm sure not ruining my situation to push for it lol.

Thanks for the update Pufferfish. On no account should you risk your situation. We pervs will have to make do with the pictures already posted here

[Pufferfish]

Just a quick little update from last night I found amusing. The night started off pretty routine with a great creampie and cleanup. A little while later my wife and N were making out a lot and really getting hot and heavy and decided to take it back into the bedroom a little earlier than usual. He went into the bathroom and my wife was lying on the bed. N emerged wearing the leopard print underwear she bought him for Xmas that he only wore once since. My wife lost her damn mind. She started giggling and cheering, and pawing at his crotch, and pouncing on top of him lol. She had no idea he was going to wear it and her reaction was legendary. She ripped his cock out and shoved it down her throat. I have rarely ever seen her that excited before and it was something so simple. Him coming out wearing anything else, or nothing at all, surely wasn't going to get a reaction like that. But I did love seeing her so happy.

[Her number1]

I love the imagery you painted of her!

[CuriousHusband91941]

I did love seeing her so happy.

Nice.
Isn't that the basis of all our desires in this kink? Her happiness.

[leggysman]

I did love seeing her so happy.

Nice.
Isn't that the basis of all our desires in this kink? Her happiness.

Not all, no. They're happy words to say, but probably not true for most of us, if we're honest with ourselves -- even if her happiness is a necessary component. It's a sexual kink, motivated by sexual urges, and those usually aren't quite so selfless.

Her pleasure, her desire, and her enjoyment of the acts are a big part of what makes it so hot.

Her overall happiness, her feelings of freedom and excitement, her increased confidence and libido -- these are the actual benefits.

[Up4eneting]

Been waiting and checking for an update. Hope everything is ok. Puffer, if you’re thinking that we are getting bored of what you might think is “same old same old” that’s definitely not the case. Would love an update to see how you guys are doing.

[JeffBingham]

I did love seeing her so happy.

Nice.
Isn't that the basis of all our desires in this kink? Her happiness.

Not all, no. They're happy words to say, but probably not true for most of us, if we're honest with ourselves -- even if her happiness is a necessary component. It's a sexual kink, motivated by sexual urges, and those usually aren't quite so selfless.

Her pleasure, her desire, and her enjoyment of the acts are a big part of what makes it so hot.

Her overall happiness, her feelings of freedom and excitement, her increased confidence and libido -- these are the actual benefits.

! Very well said. I’m still a wannabe, but I can’t pretend that my desires are not at least partially selfish. But if she doesn’t genuinely want it for herself I have no interest in making it a reality.

[Pufferfish]

Been waiting and checking for an update. Hope everything is ok. Puffer, if you’re thinking that we are getting bored of what you might think is “same old same old” that’s definitely not the case. Would love an update to see how you guys are doing.

That's very kind. Everything is going splendidly, if very "same old, same old." Save for the fact that N has been having some car troubles over the last month. So there were a couple weeks where we had to go pick him up and drop him off the next day... it was kind of a mood killer. I told my wife it's like she gets to try her hand at being a soccer mom lol. She cancelled last week simply because she didn't want to deal with it, and hopefully motivate him a bit to move his ass and get it fixed, which I believe he did today, so hopefully that's taken care of.

In a couple weeks is my birthday, and I've tried telling her that what I really want is a great angle creampie on the bedroom camera, and she said she'd try. Which is all I can ask for. But yeah, things are going good, I just don't really have anything specific to talk about other than the usual routine, which has been going great.

[8toplaywith]

"The Usual Routine".
I love that!

[Up4eneting]

That's awesome. Thanks for the update. See, you might think its nothing special but we are hanging on every word and event. Your wife is very sexy and the fact that she took to this so fast is really something. Not to be a downer but something that I, having no first hand experience at this because its all fantasy (wife not interested), do you have any regrets? Again, not trying to bring the mood down but it is something I wonder about, you know, Pandora's box. Hope you keep having fun and hope you keep posting. I am following along.

[Pufferfish]

I appreciate that. It would be, maybe impossible, for me to go back to a wannabe lifestyle and live vicariously through other people. So it's not lost on me just how remarkable and blessed I am to be living my life that I'm living. We love our routine, and I like to share my story, but there just isn't a whole lot to differentiate one time to the next from a story aspect.

This week was my 40th birthday, and my wife took the week off work just for kind of a stay at home vacation. We started it off by actually paying for and planning our next vacation. She was really itching to go on a cruise this year, but we had plans for just several short cheap vacations in our own state instead. We changed that. She cancelled her planned vacations later this year and instead we booked a 15 day cruise to Hawaii near our anniversary in October and she got approved for that vacation instead. It's over 2x as long as any other cruise we've ever been on and we're super excited for it. Just have to wait 5 months for it... It's not a swinger cruise or anything in particular, but hopefully some sexy fun happens anyway. And we've been excited for that even though it's still pretty far away.

As for my birthday, I told her what I wanted for it months ago and reiterated it again to her. Last thing I want to do is sound like I'm bitching... but this is going to sound like I'm bitching lol. I was hoping to see a specific sex scene and angle on the bedroom camera of her riding N on top, and getting a creampie and showing all that greatness in a specific angle for the camera. She said she would do it and I was SUPER excited for it... but unfortunately, she didn't want to tell N what she planned to do, so when he just did what he wanted she decided to just go ahead with whatever he wanted. I was pretty disappointed that instead of the angle of her beautiful body and creampie, the video I ended up with was a view of his hairy asshole lol. I expressed my disappointment and she said she would try harder this week to make it happen instead. But once again, he had his own ideas and she just went along with it. I'm sure, or at least very hopeful, that I'll one day end up getting the scene I want to see eventually... but hasn't happened yet for my birthday.

But... that being said, it was still a great week of good food and time spent with my lovely wife and a couple visits with N and good sex. I really have nothing to complain about. And won't complain about it. She's laying in bed with him right now and hopefully she'll have sex with him in the morning again before I get to reclaim her. Not a bad way to wrap up a stay at home vacation.