Should I continue please advise

[Johng1953]

Yes her bf thinks she's cheating on me, if she tries to tells him that I know we are sure he will gost away

I feel that she can do a tattoo of his name on her hand or above her pussy, we once written with pen above her pussy that this pussy belongs to him and she is his sult
Wish that she can make a real tattoo of his name❤❤❤ or I love you and his name, we are thinking of it let's see what happens

Super sexy idea but if she does that surely he'll know that you know about him. Might be better to let him know before and maybe even have him choose the tattoo?

Indeed I find it super sexy but know that practically it's not possible
But once before her date she had put mehendi on her hand with his initial in one corner which was merged in design, which she had shown it to him

Nice (and sexy) compromise!

[HOT4MYWIFE]

I'm just guessing from the information you offered but suspect her subsequent loss of sexual interest is a result of your request she not see him again.

Most of us in this way of life have found a wife's extramarital sex enhances the marital sex, but this isn't for every couple. In our experience, we have determined that the marital relationship must be rock solid. Communication between a husband and wife considering this must be open and complete. The security of a marital relationship can be at risk if the marriage is otherwise troubled.

Repeated sex with another man typically results in emotional bonding, but most of us find that's no threat to our marriages. My wife has bonded with others who fuck her but neither of us would consider splitting up; the development of feelings between two people who have sex is normal and understandable. The more often they're fucking, the deeper the feelings but it isn't commonly the same as the relationship with a married partner.

Your last remark was that the other man fucking your wife isn't aware of your approval. My wife has on a few occasions not told some men I approve but has found that, in general, it's better they know that I do. That forms a barrier between him and my wife in the event he wishes the relationship to become more than it is. It's just sex and for fun between the two.

For those couples who lack trust, communication, jealousy, and insecurity, there are no guarantees in this way of life. Those qualities aren't mentioned in your post. The part about your not wanting others to know she dates other men is usually not a problem for couples in this lifestyle. Neither my wife nor I wish others to know either. Unless she or I tell others, there's virtually no way that would become common knowledge. Her men don't tell others and neither do we. She will not go out in public with other men when dating in our city unless it's for business reasons, and neither would exhibit any behavior to cause suspicions.

The only other matter I can think to mention is that a husband's feelings of insecurity and jealousy are common at the outset. If your marriage is reasonably solid, that shouldn't be a concern but it takes time for some men to be comfortable with it. The fantasy of either the husband or wife is far different from the reality, and either will find that out only when it finally comes about. If you can't handle her feeling emotionally attached to another man, particularly after having sex with him, this way of life may not be for either of you. That's going to happen whether you or she intends it to come about or not. I would be glad to offer the many reasons that commonly come about, but you can find it through online searches (with words like, "effects of a man's semen in a woman," "why women emotionally bond with other men after sex," and the like).

~ Des

Very good advise Des. I would of hated the idea of my wife having an emotional connection with another sex partner when we were starting this. I have found however that a large part of my enjoyment I. This is from her enjoyment. The sex for her and most women are increased drastically when the women in emotionally connected with the man. My bride will do so much more for a boyfriend than a fuck buddy. If your marriage is solid, you will enjoy your wife making love just as much as her fucking.

[sandy9820]

Small update
As this week my wife was going on a hill station with her boyfriend her first time night stay with him, all the bookings were made they had small dispute and all the things were canceled, she is not taking to him, it's been 5 days now

[mundyman]

Small update
As this week my wife was going on a hill station with her boyfriend her first time night stay with him, all the bookings were made they had small dispute and all the things were canceled, she is not taking to him, it's been 5 days now

That sounds like more than a small dispute.

[sandy9820]

Yes but she is very much upset

[mundyman]

Yes but she is very much upset

He must have said or done something.
Any hints for us your followers.

[sandy9820]

Sorry was quite tied up with work want to update everything is going fine she is regularly dating her boyfriend, now going bareback with him and he still doesn't know that i know

[Long Lurker 34]

Sorry was quite tied up with work want to update everything is going fine she is regularly dating her boyfriend, now going bareback with him and he still doesn't know that i know

S9820 - Last we saw posted they had had a breakup and now they dating regularly and barebacking. That is quite the reversal. Would you care to fill us in on what has transpired since then.

[sandy9820]

They had some misunderstanding between them but it was sorted after a month or so.

[sandy9820]

Hi
Tomorrow my wife is having a date with the same guy.Today we went for her lingerie shopping.she was very happy,and me too.

[sandy9820]

Myvwife is feeling very low as she was busy for few days and was not available to meet her boyfriend, so tomorrow is my birthday and am going to tell her that she can enjoy that day with her boyfriend and can stay overnight with him.

[Wantsomefunto]

she is so sexy, hope the meetings continue

[Des 31]

Myvwife is feeling very low as she was busy for few days and was not available to meet her boyfriend, so tomorrow is my birthday and am going to tell her that she can enjoy that day with her boyfriend and can stay overnight with him.

In my opinion, you have the right attitude for our way of life. It's mostly about our wives, but we husbands enjoy other men fucking them as much -- or almost as much -- as they like being fucked.

[Parsifal]

In my opinion, you have the right attitude for our way of life. It's mostly about our wives, but we husbands enjoy other men fucking them as much -- or almost as much -- as they like being fucked.

I'm pondering on the italicized part of that sentence because it's something I've experienced in just that way myself, coming to experience my own light like that of the Moon, derived, indirect, borrowed from the Sun's, hence cooler, hence "almost as much" as the source of the energy itself, which emanates from Her. Yet as I ponder deeper on it, I'm not so sure the fuel behind what's exciting me isn't really sui generis. There seems something supernatural, immortal, death defying, about the way we Vampires feed in moonlight on the life energies of others. Who really is to say whether it's we who live in the shadows of such arrangements?

[sandy9820]

TRUE this lifestyle is very additive
Now I have developed feet fetish whenever am in mood she offers me her feet. I like to eat her feet and ass when she's sexting.

[sandy9820]

Update now she doesn't want to have sex with me, she is exclusively his.

[8toplaywith]

Is she going to move in with him?

[sandy9820]

Nooo

[8toplaywith]

How do you feel about this?

[Mrbigbull]

Update now she doesn't want to have sex with me, she is exclusively his.

But the real question is : are you okay with it? Is this what you want?

[sandy9820]

Now the things are back to normal

[Long Lurker 34]

Now the things are back to normal

S# - You are going to have to tell us what your "normal" is.

[sandy9820]

Tomorrow.my wife's is going overnight with her bf to nearby city
I'm sooo excited

[goodjob]

Still no sex with your wife?

[sandy9820]

We do have but very rarely
She prepare to have sex with her bf over me.