what do you like the most when your wife is fucking someone else?

[CitationDriver]

Hot story CitationDriver. I flew for years and never jointed the mile high club. You?

Pesky ATC guys keep wanting to talk and it interrupts the club initiation activity.

[parklife]

What I like most is that when she returns, it’s like she’s completely refreshed. Like she was able to escape “life” for a few hours and just enjoy. I can tell when the everyday stressors of kids/home/work built up a tension, that’s when I know she could use a play date with one of her FWB. And I love most when she returns…. There’s always a sense of gratitude (for what I don’t know), and I know she enjoys that escape.

Resets the verve for the coming days

[Pufferfish]

For me it's a combination of a great many things. First of all, there's the fact that I am a very visual person, it's why I've always loved porn. And I've fantasized about my wife being my own personal porn star for a long time. I love every detail of watching my wife experience intense pleasure. When I am actively having sex with my wife, my mind is too preoccupied to fully visually enjoy it. Trying to perform well, work hard, try not to cum too soon, etc., etc. So it's far more enjoyable for me to just sit back, relax and enjoy the show of her being pleased, and pleased well.

Which brings me to another factor I enjoy. I have a little bit of an anxiety problem, so I often worry about pleasing her to her fullest extent. Sometimes I know that I don't fully please her, and I stress and worry about that. Watching her have amazing sex takes some of that pressure off of me which means I don't have to think and worry so much, making my performance much more enjoyable for me personally.

Going back to the visual aspect, there's also a mental or psychological aspect to watching her (or fantasizing in the first place) which creates a feeling of intense arousal or happiness in my brain. Kind of like having a favorite color or desert, I can't exactly pinpoint the exact reason why it's so powerful, but it just brings a special reaction. I know there's been a big craze lately around ASMR sounds, if that's something you are familiar with or understand, and the feelings those particular sounds make people feel... I don't really feel or understand any of those particular things, but for me I believe this to be similar phenomenon. The aspect of watching it makes feel good endorphins release into my brain, which physically makes me feel good.

And lastly, there's the emotional aspect of wanting and knowing that my wife is living her best life. Sexually satisfied and fulfilled. I feel a great deal more enjoyment when she has a great time than when I am having one myself. The same way I would rather be cold than to have her be cold. Or would rather her be safe than be safe myself. I would much rather know, see, and experience her sexual bliss, than to experience that for myself. It's another psychological aspect, but it's a very powerful one.

[gruenberg]

maybe not the answer you are expecting: spending quality time with my daughter alone.

[simpforjada]

I think the humiliation is my favorite part. Helping her get dressed to go on a date with her boyfriend. Answering the door when he gets there. Getting a text from her with a picture of them out on their date.

[leggysman]

Hot story CitationDriver. I flew for years and never jointed the mile high club. You?

Pesky ATC guys keep wanting to talk and it interrupts the club initiation activity.

I want to take my wife and a FB up in a 4-seater and let them fool around in the back. Leggysandy doesn't like the idea of being watched, really -- and I wouldn't be able to much, other than a few backward glances

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum simpforjada.

[aracuckold]

When she takes off her panties and hands them to me to hold while she gets fucked

[Fox]

I haven’t read through all the responses yet but Shirley and I were discussing this just a little while ago. She still sometimes questions why I like it. I wish I could put it into words better but when I watch her let go and completely enjoy herself with another man the passion between them just does something to me I can’t explain. It is the most beautiful, sexy thing I’ve ever witnessed or experienced. I can’t get enough. Obviously there are other things I like but that’s the ultimate for me.

[fredfred2]

The sound of lovemaking in the next room

[I_watch_Mermaids]

I like watching a bit of porn, but I LOVE watching my wife making porn. Her regular dude is good at filming while fucking, and he's a sexpert. He has done things to her that I've not gotten out of her. The last videos they send (besides the awesome blowjob part) he was fucking her ass, and she was actually telling him to go harder. I rarely get in her ass, and it's a boner kill when she says "OH, I don't think I can do it." But he's got a bigger dick than I do, and was slamming her ass and she was cumming hard.

He was the first guy to ever make her squirt by fingering her.

I love watching her spread her legs wide open in front of a stranger. I get a massive thrill from this. One video I took was after he banged her to an orgasm or five, he pulled out and she was masterbating with his face about a foot and a half away, watching.

BEST porn I have. Little things like that make me love watching.

[54321]

GREAT thread!

54321

[54321]

Post by wife4lends » Fri Sep 09, 2022 4:57 pm

My hubby likes to think about me and what I am doing on my hotwife date. While he is considering what stage we are at he gets hard but doesn’t relieve himself until I get home and relay all the juicy details. He frequently gets “blue balls” and cums like crazy when we finally get together. We both love the feeling of him thinking about me getting laid, and I think about him getting excited

Fantastic!

54321

[BT2]

I'm not certain what I like most. Many men like to hear about or watch naked women and porn. It is even more stimulating if you know the woman, e.g. to me a so so looking woman whom I know, naked, is a lot more exciting that the most beautiful naked woman on a screen or magazine. So, it is even more of a turn on if the woman in a sexual situation is my wife,

A qualifier. It would NOT be a turn on if she were caught cheating.

[Sharemywife1968]

I love knowing she is enjoying another,she craves diff ,bigger,etc,the attention,I love knowing a guy is feeling her and having her to the fullest,love her coming home used,happy,fulfilled,even better when she is full.of cum proof of her slutty night and proof her lover enjoyed her to the maximum, I love the mental mind fuk that she craves another's cock and allows him access to her married pussy

[rogerg]

There are a number of things I like but one of the main things is watching how comfortable she is being with other men. Her eagerness and boldness never fail to excite me.

[Des 31]

My wife is staying over tonight fucking a new guy she met through her recent personals ad. She first met up with him at the neutral location of a local restaurant to see if there was any chemistry. Obviously, there is. We have been a hotwife couple since she was 28 and is now 36. Even with all that experience, I can't say with any certainty what I like most about it. Just knowing another guy's dick is satisfying her is incredibly thrilling to me.

I have often said to her I think I get as much out of it as she. She usually laughs about that and says she doesn't see how that's possible.

~ Des

[Parsifal]

The title of this thread is phrased as "what" question but the lead post is phrased as a "why". What do I like the most and also why is it such a turn on. The what question is by far the easiest because the answer exists in immediate consciousness, the why far more challenging, because the answer lies mostly elsewhere, in hidden places where introspection and theory may shed light, but may also cast only shadows, as in Plato's Cave.

The "what" question is simply answered as the intensity of release I feel at the climax of my reclamation of her. Everything builds to that moment and the soft coda that wisks it all away in the denouement of the storm.

The "why" question can't be easily answer in a two-sentence paragraph, so let me try even harder merely to allude to the path to finding it with a single key word - empathy.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

I think one part of the reason men like hotwives may just be a biological reaction that some men have regarding evidence of infidelity in a paired life partner. Some studies suggest it may be a way to arouse the man so that the flared head of his penis can scoop out the other man's semen, and the displace the other man's semen with his own, increasing the odds that a child from his mate will be his own offspring.
I assume this instinctual reaction to be arroused by a slut having sex with other men may be tied to the same thing that makes pornography arousing and stimulating to men.
The feeling of intense arousal brought on by my wife's infidelity is addictive.
It is a bonus that the hotwifing acts lead to more bonding and a sharing of desires between the partners, but I don't think the woman's pleasure is the main driving factor behind why men enjoy it, though it definitely makes the act mutually beneficial.

[Countrycouple]

Holy smokes! Sure are a lot of psychology type replies on here. Even the good old “sperm battle” has been tossed into the mix. I’ll keep it simple. The part of my wife getting fucked by other men that turns me on the most is………….. the actual act of her getting fucked by other men. Plain and simple. I’m a voyeur and I love to watch her get fucked. Not “made love to”……….. “fucked”. I’m not there watching for the romance, I’m there watching for the act. The fact that it is my own wife that is “getting fucked”, increases that desire 10 fold.

[Bovary2012]

Thanks for the interesting question, boonja. While I'd watch pretty much any woman fucking, what I like most now when my wife is fucking someone else is how it turns her sexuality on, so to speak. Her smile is bigger, she laughs more, and she's a lot more interested in being sexual with me. Maybe this is a function of age--we're in our 70s and Mme Bovary is back in the game after almost ten years. We had not been tending our sexual connection and it felt like it was vanishing. Now, it's blooming again. It isn't like we're nineteen again. But it sure is a great way to be 71/72! Anyway, this is most significant thing I like. Less significant things include the submissive chord this strikes in me; watching her anticipate and prepare for her lover; listening to them; watching some of the prelude and the afterglow. Though I watched and joined in in the the past, for this round of lovers, Mme Bovary does not want to be observed. Hence, I wait and listen. I love it.

[kay0113]

Very hot. I cant wait to have sex in front of my husband !! He took his pants off in csr snd i talked anout a prior fuck i had before him !! He orgadmed not even touching his cock. I loved it

[I_watch_Mermaids]

I’m a voyeur and I love to watch her get fucked. Not “made love to”……….. “fucked”.

With ya!! When she gets fucked she gets FUUUUUCKED. She comes a LOT, and says it's hard to tell how many orgasms because they kind of blend into one big one. SO COOL to watch!!

[warmnsalty]

I’m a voyeur and I love to watch her get fucked. Not “made love to”……….. “fucked”.

For me the hottest part of any encounter is watching the guys cock pulse as he pumps his load into her. When she and I fuck, it's rarely "fuck" its more slow and love making style, just my style. When we have another guy, I always let them know up front that she likes a good pounding. The best is when I can lie underneath and fuck like while a guy pounds her pussy. Watching a total stranger fuck her balls deep and dump his seed into her pussy is by far the best ever.

[Countrycouple]

I’m a voyeur and I love to watch her get fucked. Not “made love to”……….. “fucked”.

For me the hottest part of any encounter is watching the guys cock pulse as he pumps his load into her. When she and I fuck, it's rarely "fuck" its more slow and love making style, just my style. When we have another guy, I always let them know up front that she likes a good pounding. The best is when I can lie underneath and fuck like while a guy pounds her pussy. Watching a total stranger fuck her balls deep and dump his seed into her pussy is by far the best ever.

Yup….. I totally agree. First of all, I love watching her get fucked missionary. Probably because of the submissive position it puts her in, emphasizing that she is the one “getting fucked” and not the one “doing the fucking”. That’s important to me. When I look up between their legs and see some guy we have never met, crawl up and first touches her slit with the head of his cock, a new cock that has never been in her, then slowly moves forward and splits her cunt open and slides deep up her.
The second best part is when I see his cock drive deep and hold, his balls slap up against her ass and law there. I watch his perineum pulse with each blast of cum he shoots into her.

Not to say I don’t like the pumping in-between. That’s always hot to watch. But the beginning and the end really does it for me.