Hotwife unleashed at last :-)

[skoot1958]

S are you going to tell us about C lady hookups, the lady you say C is keen on is a Married woman, is this cheating or does this woman have an ENM relationship so she can play, hotwife is more than just bulls

Do you meet these woman, or is the C own thing

The married lady is cheating. Her husband has no idea.

I’ve seen L play with several women. I’ve been allowed to join in before but with a strict ‘no penetration’ rule.

L has not yet played alone but is now confident enough to should the opportunity arise.

So what was the outcome did C get her pants off, how old was this lady, interesting how long this lady had wanted to be with a woman, did the lady enjoy C fucking her, did you get to be part of the fun

[newUK]

L hasn’t met the lady yet. They are still in touch with each other but finding the time to get them together is proving to be difficult due to her having a partner and kids.

It will happen in due course.

[newUK]

Well it’s been a while since I’ve updated. Sadly there was nothing exciting to report, until now :-)

I just left L in a bar where she has a guy she has been chatting to for the past 2 weeks about to meet her, well he is due in 15 minutes. She looks absolutely stunning, the low cut top and bright red lipstick she is wearing makes her look amazing.

It’s only a social meet for an hour during his lunch break but hopefully there will be some contact between them and hopefully a kiss or two. She as attracted to his face pic and he makes her laugh through the messages they have exchanged.

This is only the 2nd time she has met anyone without me. She seems really confident and I’m really hopeful she will be inviting him round to ours sometime next week for the real fun.

Wish us luck and I’ll update how it went a bit later.

S

[whosbeensleeping]

All the best of luck!

[newUK]

It went really well. She liked him and he seems a really nice guy. After about half an hour of being together she messaged me to say join them. I’m so glad she did as my angst was through the roof!

I only had about 15 mins with them in which time we all arranged for him to visit us Monday afternoon at our place. They shared a nice kiss goodbye and we have all had a bit of a group text chat going on since.

Fingers crossed he doesn’t bail on us. It’s happened so many times before I’ll not get my hopes up too much. He has never played alone with a couple, he has only done full swap with his wife.

[newUK]

And as per normal it’s not gonna happen. He has messaged this morning to say his wife is no longer comfortable with him being a bull :-(

Honestly how can our luck be so bad?

[skoot1958]

L not having much luck with men, is she having more luck with woman

Are these first timers match on tinder?

[Tank Turner]

We normally talk about the physical component of HWing. But there is a psychological component to it as well. Most women appreciate and desire appropriate attention from me. I remember a movie with truthful dialogue between an actor and actress. She caught him checking her out. She was wearing a very revealing outfit. She make a snarky comment to him about him checking her out. He got in her face and said the effect, "Do you want me to believe that you bought that outfit so men wouldn't check you out?" Of course she did.

My wife is middle-aged. She has become more beautiful as she matured. She's told me too many times to remember that she's as horny now as she ever was. She normally doesn't wear overtly provocative clothes. She has many outfits that can be transitioned to provocative with a few minor adjustments. If she wants attention from men when we're in sports bars or restaurants, she'll reveal as much as she's comfortable revealing and that can be revealing.

Like most women, my wife loves and appreciates sincere compliments from men, more so now that she's in her mid-40s. She's told me she'll begin worrying when men no longer check her out.

When she was in her late teens & early 20s, she had a legitimate centerfold body. She was extremely good looking. She's fortunate to have excellent genes. But younger guys wanted to see her naked body and fuck her. She learned the power her naked body had over men. Now that she's mid-40s and a mother of two adolescent kids, she can get hypercritical of her hot and sexy body. She loves sex as much as she ever has. But she appreciates even more men's sincere compliments about her body and appearance. It parallel would be men's midlife crisis where they refuse to accept the biological aging process. My wife loves constant reassurance from men that she has a flaming hot naked body that men can't resist. For my wife, the psychological component might be as important as the physical euphoria she experiences at orgasm.

Younger men don't seem to grasp anything beyond fucking and getting their cocks sucked. Mature and sexually experienced men have been far more apt to sincerely compliment my wife.

[Tazman1]

Ok understandable, a regular FWB is good but as you are new to this lifestyle FWB early on does come with some risks you have to manage “feelings”

2 FWB is better, also you still to have a poor play date, just something to prep for, it will come, you do not want to put her off

Have you considered a swingers club party, what part of the country do you line in, (Essex for me, so London’s is close by) there are lots of good clubs

Has she consider mixing it up and dating a woman, now she has crossed the monogamy line, or joining a couple as a Unicon

Hi, can you please give me names of some good swinger clubs in London?
Thank you

[skoot1958]

Tazman1 that’s a hard one, it depends on what your have to offer and what you want, will you play as couple, is your woman smoking hot and in to girls, you both in your 30s and in great condition or are you a middle age man with an average size tool

Best place to look is life style sites, private parties are a good option, if you can get an invite

[newUK]

A very interesting day for me today. Especially after her saying just a week ago she didn’t want to pursue any hotwife fun until the new year.

We were on a train on our way into London this afternoon when she leant into me and told me “I want cock!”
I responded, knowing she wasn’t currently interested in anyone else with “Mine obviously?”
She gave me a big grin and shrugged her shoulders.
Seeing my look of confusion and perhaps hope she explained “I know I said I’m off it until after Xmas but I kind of feel if the right guy came along today I could”.
I was instantly horny and weirdly I felt a pinch in the gut. How can it be that I want this so bad but I get the angst so bad?

Anyways, an hour or so later we were outside pubs on either side of the road. Trying to decide which one we should go in I jokingly suggested I went in one and her in the other, If there was any guy she liked in there she’d stay and see if she could flirt, if there wasn’t she’d join me once she finished her drinks. To my suprise she said “Ok” and walked off towards the other pub. She gave me a cheeky grin and wave as she walked in and I headed to the other pub. The angst kicked in again as I sat there wondering if she might have caught the eye of anyone. However it was only aboit 5 minutes before she joined me again. Apparently the pub she went in only had a handful of older guys in it.

Roll forward a couple more hours and we are in a club. I didn’t see it but she told me she’d been “blatantly flirted with” by a black bouncer. One of the friends we were with even said to her “oh my god he is proper checking you out”.
She told me she gave him a couple of big smiles and it was the first time ever she’d appreciated being smiled at by a black guy.

I feel like things are going to happen again soon. She has been given a massive confidence boost just at the time she has obviously been flirting with the idea of being a hotwife again :-)

[Wannabecuck2468]

Any updates?

[newUK]

I didnt realise it had been so long since I wrote here, I've been busy following everyone elses exciting adventures!!

The week before xmas she got chatting to a guy she really liked, she was really into him and if she wasnt so busy (work and a trip away as well as xmas preperations) she'd have met up with him for a drink. He didnt like the fact she said she wouldnt be able to meet him until the week after xmas so simply said "Nah I'm not waiting that long!"???
That was yet another knock for her that she has hardly recovered from. She was adamant she wasnt going to persue the lifestyle cos I was only finding her "dick-heads" :-(

I had to give her space and I'd only occasionally bring up hotwifing, she would almost always roll her eyes :-(

We started drinking in a social club close to our home towards the end of last year. We are in there a few times a week and have got to know everyone. Recently, I'd noticed one guy (he lives above the club) had started to pay a lot of attention towards L. I didnt think too much of it, he is always ploite to me as well, however a month or so ago I started to realise just how much he seemed to pay her attention when I wasnt near, her for example I'd return from the toilets and he'd be chatting to her, if I played a game of pool with someone he'd end up sitting with her.

I started to wonder if this was an opportunity. But dismissed it as him just being friendly. I also thought it's far too close to home for anything to happen, its ilterally on our doorstep and we wouldnt want anyone in the club to know our secrets!

One evening after returning from the club I mentioned to her that M (as we will call him) always seemed to approach her when I left her side. "Yes I'd noticed that too, but dont worry, he isnt trying anything on, he is just being friendly".
"Would you? If he did start flirting? Could you shag him?" I enquired.
"If he had a shave and dressed a bit nicer, jogging bottoms or tracksuits just dont do it for me" she replied.
"Wow, you didnt say no! So you like him then?" The excitement in my voice was clear.
"Yeah he's ok, but I'm not going there, its too close to home". Its like she had read my mind!

I asked for how long had she liked him, she told me from the first time he introduced himself. She liked his friendliness but didnt think anything more of it back then. The more he spoke to her the more he had grown on her.

Fast forward to Friday night... we were in the club for only an hour or so, I had a horse bet on so wandered off to watch the race on the clubs TV, predictably he ended up next to her at the bar. I watched from afar as they chatted, even after the race had ended (my horse won as well!). Eventually he wandered off so I returned, to a smiling L. I had to be up early the next morning for work so we left soon after, as we walked home I enquired about her chat with M, letting her know I liked that he chats to her. She said he had asked if she would be in over the weekend as he'd be there both Saturday and Sunday. I didnt think too much of that.

I got home from work about 1730 on Saturday and as I was getting changed out of my work clothes she asked if I fancied an evening in the club. I was shattered and suggested we just had a lazy evening indoors with some drinks and a film. I sat and played on my computer for 10 minutes whilst she started moaning she was bored and had been stuck indoors all day alone. She then starting to blast out songs on the stereo system that she knew I didnt like. She was being annoying! It had the desired effect and I blurted out "Come on then, you win, lets go to the club!". Initially she played the "Only if you are sure, I dont mind staying home if you dont want to go out" lines.

After convincing her she had put me in the mood for a drink she went to get changed. After a short while I heard "Wow! Look at those bad boys!" from her in the bathroom. I walked to her and she was standing in front of the mirror with a very low V neck top on, with a bra that was pushing her bust right up. Her tits were really on show and busting out of her top. I cant remeber the last time she had worn anything so rique. "Its a bit too much isnt it? Should I change?" she asked. "No fucking way" was my reply. I wanted to show her off. And thats when the penny dropped for me. "Oh I see, you are wearing that for M arent you?". She looked at me, raising her eyebrows "Maybe!". It all made sense now why she was wanting to go to the club. He'd told her he would be there. She finished getting ready and looked amazing. The bright red lipstick, as always made her look even more sexy. I cant believe I didnt think to get a couple of photos!!

On the short walk to the club we confirmed with each other that although M was a potential for her, it was still just too close to home to persue. However she might flirt with him and see what happened. On arrival at the club it wasnt just the guys who's mouths dropped, even some of the women paid her compliments. The were a few comments such as "Jeez L where have you been hiding them". It took literally minutes for M to approach, we hadnt even been served our first drinks. He commented how fabulous she looked and how I was a very lucky guy. He then offered to buy our drinks. He spent a lot of time chatting to us, occasionally walking awaybut then returning minutes later. There was no mistaking his interest in her. As the drinks flowed we somehow ended up showing him some raunchy (but not nude) pics of L on our phones. His words were along the lines of "My god, you are a right little rocket". He apologised several times for blatantly looking down her top stating, my eyes just keep getting drawn to them (her boobs).

L was loving the attention and the more I drunk, the more I wanted something to happen. Everytime she walked to the toilets I was hoping he would follow to accidently bump into her, in the foyer, it didnt happen. When we got home she admitted she could fuck him, if it wasnt so close to home. As I tried to sleep several scenarios kept me awake, and hard. Maybe she could have an affair with him, he doesnt need to know I know and it would be a reason for him to keep quiet about it to anyone else, not wanting me to find out. Perhaps just tell him the truth that we are a hotwife couple? I'd added him as a friend on facebook a while ago, I checked our mutual friends to see if him and L were friends. They were! I contemplated reaching over and messaging him from L's phone, something simple like "Sorry for teasing you with those pics last night" just to open the door for her to continue the flirting. I'm glad I didnt as I'm sure she wouldnt appreciate it.

Sunday we chatted again and for now, she insists we should just keep it as flirting and nothing more. But when I suggested she makes him think they are having an affair she asked "You'd like that wouldnt you?". She teased me that she might go to the club that evening when I am at work again. Sadly (I think) she didnt.

As much as I want something to happen, I am wary that it is right on our doorstep and right in view of most of our friends. My mind is still full of scenarios. Could we trust him? Could there be more to write soon? I'll let you know if there is :-)

[skoot1958]

S, L flirting more is good approach, maybe she needs to go a few times with out you, I think the affair roads is not a bad approach, L could just say, M if you can keep your mouth shut we could have some fun what do you think

If M ask about you, L just say she can manage you, as long as they are discreet