Gym Becoming More Demanding

[Tank Turner]

Do your wives allow oher men to film them while they're porn starring? Do you wives do video sex with men they're fucking?

My wife's sometime workout buddy whom I call Gym has been getting close to exceeding his boundaries. She has worked him in to our routine when she could. They often workout at the same time 3 days a week although my wife hasn't always been diligent about hitting the gym. My wife went to his place once. She got home about 4-to-5 am, before our kids awoke. She will never risk stumbling home after our kids awake. After that, we met him for dinner during which my wife established rules. He was never to text her with sexual comments because our kids often access out cellphones. He was never to text her about anything sex related while she was at work. That could result in her termination. She would invite him over when it was convenient for us. In a cordial manner, she told him that discretion was crucial. If our kids found out that their mother was a bedroom porn stars and fucking men other that their dad, it would be devastating.

Although Gym is 10 years younger than my wife, they have a lot in common. They seem to have become buddies. She is careful to prevent guys she fucks from developing feelings for her.

Gym has fucked my wife 6 times. She enjoys MFM sex with him because he knows how to fuck and eat pussy, and he lives close to us. She's sexually submissive by nature but she can become assertive when she's hyper-horny. She enjoys MFM sex with Gym.

Last night my wife told me that Gym asked her if he could use his cellphone to video him fucking her. She was clear: NO!!! After that request, he asked her if they could do video sex. My wife asked me for my opinion. I asked her if she was certain he wouldn't record it. She said she wasn't. She said she was almost certain he would record it. I told if that if that was her belief, then she had to believe that he would violate her sex rules. She had already reached that conclusion.

My wife doesn't want to cull him because they're sexually compatible. But if she cannot trust him, she has but one option: it's over.

Have any of you felt that guys your wives are fucking have ulterior motives? If your wives doubt other men's fidelity to their rules, how to they resolve it?

[Tank Turner]

BTW, I'm across country on a work trip. My wife called my late last night to tell me that Gym wanted to do video sex with her.

[Logan]

Guys usually have ulterior motives, being one I can speak from experience! Ha. But this is a special relationship that he is being trusted to honor. If you can't emphatically say that you trust him - dump his ass immediately at the curb. There are other sexually compatible men out there. Your rules are all that matter and if he can't follow them, move on regardless of how difficult it may be to find another.

Your relationship with your wife, your family and your life come before everything else.

[adamgunnauthor]

Obviously, this is a bit of a fetish for Gym. A possible workaround would be to use your wife's phone, not his. That way, he'd get his cake (your wife could show him the video at some point,) but the control of the video would remain in your wife's possession.

[Tank Turner]

I agree with Logan. My wife does, too.

My wife and I have too much at risk should video of her porn starring, especially another man, were to be posted on the 'net. Our kids would be devastated. We couldn't justify it to our families. And it could put my wife's job in jeopardy.

Gym should be ecstatic that he's fucking my wife. He can watch himself fucking her. If we can't trust him to abide by her rules, that would make him a risk not worth taking.

[Cdncuck]

This guy is a problem. You've listed a number of things that would be definite red flags. The more you and your wife let him away with, the more demanding he's going become.

There are lots of guys with whom she could be sexually compatible. It might take some looking but they are out there.

He continues to push the envelope even after being asked nicely to not do so. That's not someone who cares about your wife's or your privacy. You can bet any pictures or videos he has of her are on the web someplace.

[Gulfcpl]

Tank, I think you already know the right thing to do.

[Tank Turner]

Thanks cdncuck & Gulfcpl, your advice is much appreciated.

After my wife and I talked again about her sometime gym partner, she agreed with you guys. Her profession requires her to be deeply analytical and fact-oriented. Gym asking to do video sex with her caused her concern. She could not tell me that she knew he would not record video sex. Hence, she can't trust him.

My wife, like nearly every woman, loves euphoric sex. My wife has told me more that once that Gym surpassed her sexual expectations. But he underestimated her. She'll cull the best sex she's ever had if she had a hint that he might cause our kids to find out that their mom is a bedroom porn star and/or place her job in jeopardy.

[Tank Turner]

BTW, I knew my wife made up her mind to cut Gym off from her pussy when she brought up our longtime friend, Bob. My wife is as sexually comfortable with Bob as she is with me. Bob is aware of my wife's rules. He has always adhered to them. Bob and I have worked my wife like a porn star for 24 hours. She's sexually submissive by nature...after she cums until she's exhausted. After she's recuperated, Bob and I have carte blanche to do anything we desire to her hot & sexy naked body. She loves to be the center of attention. And she orgasms while we're working her. Her fingers seem to always be on or close to her clit. When she wants Bob gone (before our kids come home) he leaves without hesitation. My wife loves young studs because they remind her of her youth and because they can fuck all night long. But she's most comfortable with Bob. And Bob knows to never question that she's married to me.

[Threeisacharm]

Why not let Gym get some of his fantasy with camera play by getting her to facetime you? Or he can film with her phone.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Threeisacharm,

Neither my wife nor I want anyone but us to possess naked photos of her and porn video or her.

He had a choice of doing it our way or the highway. He chose the latter.

[Allinfun]

If its been recorded and he has it, it's going on the internet.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Allinfun,

Thank you!!! You're absolutely right. It caused my wife to doubt that she could trust him. My wife still sees Gym at the gym. She did make it clear to him that he would never again enjoy her pussy.

If Gym had stayed chill and not asked her to do something that could cause her irreversible regret, she would have worked him in on a regular basis where he could have seen she hot & sex naked body and do what he pleased with it.

Our friend, Bob, has videoed my wife porn starring him and he's taken video of me porn starring her. He will always use either my wife's or my cellphone. He's taken videos of him fucking my wife and her sucking his cock after I've fallen asleep so I could enjoy it when I awakened. He knows to not think about videoing her with his cellphone. If he tried, she'd kick his ass out and forever deny him access to her pussy.

My wife has most if not all normal and common female fantasies. She has a huge porn star fantasy. She loves to porn star for an cellphone camera. However, she cannot risk videos of her fucking other men, even me, posted to the 'net. She'd be devastated if our kids saw her on the 'net fucking anyone including me. It would unnecessarily embarrass us to our families. And it could jeopardize her job that she loves.