ED Issue: HW may be solution

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by brewcrewer75 » Tue Oct 10, 2023 4:25 pm

Tryagain wrote:
Sun Oct 08, 2023 11:18 am
I just do not understand, if she is having sex with him primarily because you are not capable, that they have to sleep together and go out together, etc.

I don't recall your ages, which can influence things, but i see her leaving for this more complete man. At the very least, you will be relegated to the nice guy role but receiving very little affection from her. I do not think this is a good situation. Find other guys for her.
I'd also throw in they work together. There is soooo much that can go wrong here. This has disaster written all over it.

Have you never heard the old saying "never dip your pen in the company ink"?

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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Wed Oct 11, 2023 5:15 am

I'm sure you don't intend it to be, but it hits as a bit insulting to read that "I see her leaving for this more complete man"

Why do men think women will just turn their back and leave if a their husband is unable to have PIV? It speaks to a lack of trust in women and prioritizing sex above other elements in a marriage.

My hubby has total ED and he is a complete man ❤️ MY complete man! Just because we aren't able to have PIV doesn't mean he is "less than". These men we play with are not "more than".

Throw away an entire lifetime together for a man who can have sex?

Even though I can play with other men I still mourn the loss of our sex life. (Re-read that sentence again until you get it)

I can get my sexual needs fulfilled by other men but I still feel the loss of that intimate connection that PIV brings. I don't think that will go away anytime soon as it has been years.

*please do not give me any well meant suggestions as we have gone through the potential options with his doctor- subject is now closed.

Sex with another man does NOT replace what once was with my husband, it simply satisfies sexual needs.

Sorry if I hijacked your thread stagwithbbw!

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by stagwithbbw » Sun Oct 15, 2023 10:22 pm

2inUPMichigan wrote:
Wed Oct 11, 2023 5:15 am
I'm sure you don't intend it to be, but it hits as a bit insulting to read that "I see her leaving for this more complete man"

Why do men think women will just turn their back and leave if a their husband is unable to have PIV? It speaks to a lack of trust in women and prioritizing sex above other elements in a marriage.

My hubby has total ED and he is a complete man ❤️ MY complete man! Just because we aren't able to have PIV doesn't mean he is "less than". These men we play with are not "more than".

Throw away an entire lifetime together for a man who can have sex?

Even though I can play with other men I still mourn the loss of our sex life. (Re-read that sentence again until you get it)

I can get my sexual needs fulfilled by other men but I still feel the loss of that intimate connection that PIV brings. I don't think that will go away anytime soon as it has been years.

*please do not give me any well meant suggestions as we have gone through the potential options with his doctor- subject is now closed.

Sex with another man does NOT replace what once was with my husband, it simply satisfies sexual needs.

Sorry if I hijacked your thread stagwithbbw!
I didn't mean it, just felt like this in that particular moment, you know what I mean and totally agree with you. Now I'm drafting my next post regarding last updates :)

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by stagwithbbw » Sun Oct 15, 2023 11:03 pm

Ok here is the update from this Saturday. We've been out again the three of us. Well we drank, they danced, I watched. Excitement and embarrassment, and at some point I felt less sure we're doing the right thing then I shook my head telling myself we're not some weirdos.

Back on their second date, she told me Bob is a great dancer, I got to see how good. He's really a great dancer, the way he moves, the way he led his partner. Watching them together, made me regret not seeing their early dates.

Clare had always loved dancing, sadly never one of my superpowers, but two of them looked very nice together. I'd only kept Clare for a single dance, but handed her over to her lover, I was happy to sit back, enjoy my drink and let them dance. After all, they're both better dancers than me so it only seemed appropriate. At first they stayed separated but on the second or third dance their bodies came together. They began talking and laughing moving together, she was facing away from him he pulling her close so her ass was against his crotch. Clare glanced over to me, like you asked for it. Surprisingly arousing.

They continued like this for 3 or 4 songs like the other couples on the dance floor, the two of them are what - fuck buddies, fuck buddies with friendship. In fact we're three :) so I don't know what we're exactly :D Finally they came back to the table, and Bob asked me to wait for him, he's gone to the bathroom then they gone back to the dance floor for another hour, proved to be especially flirtatious. Strong chemistry, Clare had her hands on his shoulders, her boobs pressed against his chest, their faces close then the number changed, he moved her around and she planted her ass back into his groin. Well she moved super fast that night, not more romantic dancing she has moved so quickly and rubbing her ass on the another man's cock.

They got tired at some point, this was more intense than sex believe me, Clare led Bob by the hand to get a drink, took a break and then hit the dance floor again. This time it was like Playboy softporn, I was looking at Bob who began to cup and grope Clare's tits as her eyes remained closed. And his hands roamed down her tits towards her tummy and back up again to squeeze them. Suddenly the song ended, and the next started and Bob spun her around to face away from him then pulled her close, as she pushed her ass back. They looked sexy as hell. He kept cupping and squeezing her tits, then they turned so I could see my wife was fondling his manhood in public.

Just when I thought my mind was going to explode the song ended, Bob placed his arm around my wife's waist and began walking her back to me when I realized he didn't want to do that exactly. Well in fact he was leading her to the restrooms, well she got back in 20 minutes, freshly fucked by her her bull like nothing specially happens and she asked me if she could go for a sleepover.

At one level the idea excited me and aroused, but it also frightened me. Then she tried to pull it back, she was totally honest she wants to do it. So I gave her a big hug and I told her I want them to make love freely so I let her go with him.

I got back home, and the house seemed empty. Well that's the new reality. She came back tonight 6pm. Bob dropped her at home. She was deadly tired and she just got shower and fell asleep. I had to finish some chores, and prepare for several meetings tomorrow. We still have to talk about it.

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by Wannabecuck2468 » Mon Oct 16, 2023 9:18 am

I'll be interested to find out how the discussion went. Are you just wanting the details or is something bothering you?

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by ahboom » Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:21 pm

Bump. How's it going with you three?

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Unread post by edgedndenied » Fri Feb 16, 2024 12:18 pm

Any updates

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Unread post by zelman69 » Fri Feb 16, 2024 6:17 pm

I hope things worked out

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Unread post by venus-can99 » Fri Feb 16, 2024 9:17 pm

I just found this thread. Hope things are going well - health wise and sexually

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Unread post by DaCuck » Fri Feb 16, 2024 10:31 pm

Looks like things may have gotten complicated....Hope he didn't mess it up...Cause he'll regret it.

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Unread post by zelman69 » Sun Feb 18, 2024 5:08 am

I hope everything worked out. It seems things progressed rapidly from a date with no intimacy rule 9/2 to a sleep over and a much deeper relationship by 10/16. It seems Bob may have had different intentions from the outset.

Hoping I am all wrong but there are a lot of red flags.

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by stagwithbbw » Fri Apr 19, 2024 3:41 pm

Long time no post.

Clare'slover left town. She later discovered she was pregnant but lost the baby after 3 months. She enjoyed being submissive.

10 days ago Clare had a conversation that made her laugh. Curious, I listened in as she mentioned being married but interested in meeting up. She seemed unfazed by the caller's concerns and even touched herself suggestively. Then she discussed meeting at a club and using Skype to talk further. Worried, I wondered if this person was someone she had met with. Later, during the dinner, Claire brought up a man named Dion, who she had a history with, including making out at a club. She revealed that he was back in town and wanted her to show him around. She asked if it was OK with me, stroking my thigh as she spoke. Claire insisted it was just a friendly meeting, but I couldn't help but feel concerned.

The next day Clare told me about her date with Dion during dinner, mentioning that they visited three places in predominantly black areas. She laughed about pretending to be a couple for fun. Nothing happened until last night

Clare received a text message from Dion, suggesting that they meet up in the afternoon and then go out for dinner and dancing. She asked me for permission, and I gave her the go-ahead. She got ready in a sexy dress, without wearing panties, and she went off to meet Dion. He arrived in a black Escalade, and she greeted him with a kiss. We decided to skip dinner and go for dancing. Clare went together in Dion's car. We arrived at the club at the same time.

Clare was dancing seductively with Dion. When Dion kissed her neck and whispered something in her ear, my anxiety reached a peak. I waited outside as she continued to interact with Dion. When she came out, she explained that she had been comforting him about personal issues. She then asked for my approval to bring Dion back at home.

I drove home cautiously. Upon arrival, I noticed a black Escalade in our driveway with shadows visible in our bedroom. I sat across the street for an hour, watching the shadows in our bedroom. I listened for any sounds but heard nothing until around 2 AM when the bathroom lights came on. I imagined seeing activity in the bedroom but wasn't sure. The details of their encounter were later shared with me by my wife. I parked down the street and fell asleep until morning. Upon returning home, I found Clare's dress and shoes on the floor, indicating that she had not wasted time. I was still incredibly turned on by the situation. I embraced Claire and observed bruises and marks on her body. I asked if he had hurt her and she surprised me by revealing that the encounter was intense and pleasurable. Asking for more details, I learned that she and Dion had engaged in unprotected sex multiple times. She explained that she was aroused by being submissive to him and felt overwhelmed by the intensity of their encounter. Clare revealed that her lover was well-endowed and had stretched her, leading to her current soreness. Despite my own feelings of anger, I found myself succumbing to her requests and pleasuring her. I experienced a mixture of emotions but ultimately wanted her in anyway I could have.

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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by elina » Sat Apr 20, 2024 12:14 am

Thanks for the wonderful update.

Very good of you to support your Wife and making sure She was able to get the sex She craved.
I am sure the fact that you accepted Her requests to pleasure Her was important to build the proper relationship between the two of you as your Wife continues to explore her desires with dominant virile lovers capable of taking Her the way She longs to be taken.

Please continue to share your story.

Sincerely
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Re: ED Issue: HW may be solution

Unread post by BallSpanking » Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:26 pm

Why the anxiety? 🤔
Were you not hoping Dion would be fucking your wife?
Schwiiiiing ... Thud! (Projectile erection becomes vicious uppercut KO!)

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