Pregnancy risk

[coupleoxford]

We've never set out on a date with pregnancy in mind but there's one experience that stood out as being extra arousing, I wonder if anyone else has had similar experiences?

At the time, J wasn't on the pill and so for a particular session we knew she was fertile so we of course insisted on condoms. But then during sex, the bulls condom broke and he paused, not sure what to do when J pulled him out and had him just remove what was left and then continue. I could see she was really in the zone and just didn't want to stop.

Well all of a sudden there was extra sexual tension, I think everyone felt it. She was extra turned on, he was very extra turned on and so was I. He came hard inside and she just held him there as they kissed.

Afterwards, all in bed, we talked about it and decided to just leave it and see. She didn't get pregnant that time but it did elevate the whole evening to a new level.

[Iamgroot]

It did add a layer of naughtiness and sent her into a wide-eyed orgasm when I allowed her playmate to cum in her knowing she was ovulating. He was going to pull out, but he looked at me and asked if he could finish inside her. She looked at me and grinned when I nodded and came hard under him as he unloaded his sperm in her understanding that they could potentially impregnate her. We discussed the possibility afterwards between us, though she wasn't upset when her period arrived. It was a spur-of-the-moment decision that was recklessly erotic. He was happy that he didn't have to explain anything to his wife (since he was cheating on her with us). He has since gotten snipped so he can play safely.

[leo-cpl]

We've never set out on a date with pregnancy in mind but there's one experience that stood out as being extra arousing, I wonder if anyone else has had similar experiences?

At the time, J wasn't on the pill and so for a particular session we knew she was fertile so we of course insisted on condoms. But then during sex, the bulls condom broke and he paused, not sure what to do when J pulled him out and had him just remove what was left and then continue. I could see she was really in the zone and just didn't want to stop.

Well all of a sudden there was extra sexual tension, I think everyone felt it. She was extra turned on, he was very extra turned on and so was I. He came hard inside and she just held him there as they kissed.

Afterwards, all in bed, we talked about it and decided to just leave it and see. She didn't get pregnant that time but it did elevate the whole evening to a new level.

Sorry, but for us something like this is insane!!! Super risky, I'd say you dodged a bullet

[parklife]

Neither my wife nor I have a thing for pregnancy risk but my wife has enjoyed unsafe sex with her FWBs. She got an IUD shortly after starting her play as a hotwife so that conforms weren’t an issue with pregnancy. We have had a pregnancy scare or two over the years but always felt safe with n the knowledge that she has an IUD and chances were minimal that she was actually pregnant. Fast forward to earlier this year and she learns that her IUD has been in two years past it’s expiration date and the whole time she was having unprotected sex with J, the risk of pregnancy was real. Looking back, I’d be lying if I said that it didn’t stoke the turn on fires in hindsight. And we had previously talked about what we would do when confronted with possible pregnancy but it was never something that turned either of us on.

But learning about the IUD (her second) was definitely a shock.

[mmcnx2]

I met a couple once and all the online communications had been just with him. He knew I was V safe but didn't want me to tell her. As things progressed after a few 'condom safe' meetings she was really hot on one afternoon and went from blowing me to just jumped on to me without a condom. She ranted about how good it felt raw, telling hubby I was going to unload in her fertile pussy. He played along and kept asking her if she was sure, which just turned her on more. After we finished he let her off the hook and told her I was safe.

[leo-cpl]

I met a couple once and all the online communications had been just with him. He knew I was V safe but didn't want me to tell her. As things progressed after a few 'condom safe' meetings she was really hot on one afternoon and went from blowing me to just jumped on to me without a condom. She ranted about how good it felt raw, telling hubby I was going to unload in her fertile pussy. He played along and kept asking her if she was sure, which just turned her on more. After we finished he let her off the hook and told her I was safe.

Would be interesting to know how she reacted....did you play with this guy again? was he always bareback after this experience?

[SilverStag]

We've never set out on a date with pregnancy in mind but there's one experience that stood out as being extra arousing, I wonder if anyone else has had similar experiences?

At the time, J wasn't on the pill and so for a particular session we knew she was fertile so we of course insisted on condoms. But then during sex, the bulls condom broke and he paused, not sure what to do when J pulled him out and had him just remove what was left and then continue. I could see she was really in the zone and just didn't want to stop.

Well all of a sudden there was extra sexual tension, I think everyone felt it. She was extra turned on, he was very extra turned on and so was I. He came hard inside and she just held him there as they kissed.

Afterwards, all in bed, we talked about it and decided to just leave it and see. She didn't get pregnant that time but it did elevate the whole evening to a new level.

Sorry, but for us something like this is insane!!! Super risky, I'd say you dodged a bullet

Agreed! Never play with a child's life or future just to get your sexual kicks. Play safe!

[BT2]

My wife has had a number of sex friends over the years. She insisted on a condom the first visit or two, but prefers bareback and dispenses with the condom if the guy and she become more or less regulars. Neither of us, however, has ever had a fantasy about her becoming pregnant by an fb. (I was "fixed" before she became a hotwife.) She has taken the normal precautions, and we both really get turned off by the thought of her becoming pregnant. And like the previous poster stated, we would never play with a child's life or future just to get our sexual kicks. I usually think "to each his own" about some of the sexual fantasies and activities I've read about on this Forum over the years, but a pregnancy turn on is not one of them.

[silkyhw]

Like you, we have never sought her getting pregnant by another man but the risk is intensely arousing. Had it happened we would have happily accepted the consequences. Have sent PM.

[mmcnx2]

I met a couple once and all the online communications had been just with him. He knew I was V safe but didn't want me to tell her. As things progressed after a few 'condom safe' meetings she was really hot on one afternoon and went from blowing me to just jumped on to me without a condom. She ranted about how good it felt raw, telling hubby I was going to unload in her fertile pussy. He played along and kept asking her if she was sure, which just turned her on more. After we finished he let her off the hook and told her I was safe.

Would be interesting to know how she reacted....did you play with this guy again? was he always bareback after this experience?

It was a fantasy for her, she trusted her husband enough to know that he wouldn't really put her at risk. But the role-play the one time was a huge turn on for her. And yes I was with them for about 3 years afterwards always bare.

[ucaneffher]

I've had instances where the ex gf during moments of exclusivity to just her lover and while on zero birth control, in the absolute heat of the moment on numerous instances she wrapped her legs around him and locked her feet when he warned of cumming soon, my 24 year old girlfriend would beg him to cum inside her.

It was not planned but she said it felt so perfect letting her boyfriend be the one to finish inside her since he was the only one going inside her anyway. She confessed to me of wanting him to get her pregnant. I didn't verbally approve but then again I also didnt discourage her or disapprove. I was a young and dumb 24 year old cuckold who simply hugged his girlfriend and kissed her forehead while she was confessing to wanting to get pregnant by her boyfriend. .

Fast forward over a decade, my stance is that a life is not to be used for sexual enjoyment not fantasy talk. That being said, if I am in the lifestyle ever again, and my gf/wife has a steady and she accidentally gets pregnant then the baby will be raised with love no matter what.

Another scenario is that if my partner is a hot GF or hot wife, I don't necessarily want her to get pregnant with someone else but if she comes to me and tells me that she wants to get pregnant and wants to carry her long time lover's baby, I wouldn't immediately reject it. If she truly wanted this and we are in good emotional standing and solid with our relationship, then I would be supportive of her giving herself to her lover and carrying his child. I would undoubtedly raise the baby as my own with lots of love. And if down the road the story repeats itself then she has my love and support to yet again carry her lovers child in her.

Again, I am not avidly pursuing my gf/wife getting pregnant by someone else. only if it happens accidentally or she expresses desire to have a child with another man then I would be supportive and make sure the baby has love and s good home.

[Mkliny442015]

A couple of years ago my wife then 32, was dating a much younger and hotter guy. She said it was animalistic porn star sex and he could go multiple times. Anyway, she fucked him one night and they started out dry humping no condom but naked and he was pre cumming a lot rubbing against her clit, he put on a condom and fucked her and then pulled out last second ripped the condom off and shot it all over her unexpected, her legs were wide open laying back on the bed. She said he came so much he could fill a shot glass easily and Most of his cum shot all over her wide open freshly fucked vagina. She got up and cleaned up quick but was worried since she was ovulating.

The next morning after dropping the kids off at summer camp I had to go to CVS to buy her Plan B. It suddenly hit me how my fantasy really did come true. Two years prior I was hopeful just approaching her about the lifestyle, here I am buying my wife plan B after a crazy summer night one night stand.

That was her wake up call, shortly after she got an IUd. A few months later she started dating her current Boyfriend and has been with him steady over 2 years. They waited a year before having unprotected sex and now he finishes in her 2-3 times a week. Even better is I have to wear condoms or pull out, it’s hot that she tells me only her boyfriend can cum in her.

We have discussed if he got her pregnant if her IUD failed, we wouldn’t wish for it regardless of how hot the fantasy is but because she has been with him so long we would really have to think about keeping the baby too.

[ucaneffher]

A couple of years ago my wife then 32, was dating a much younger and hotter guy. She said it was animalistic porn star sex and he could go multiple times. Anyway, she fucked him one night and they started out dry humping no condom but naked and he was pre cumming a lot rubbing against her clit, he put on a condom and fucked her and then pulled out last second ripped the condom off and shot it all over her unexpected, her legs were wide open laying back on the bed. She said he came so much he could fill a shot glass easily and Most of his cum shot all over her wide open freshly fucked vagina. She got up and cleaned up quick but was worried since she was ovulating.

The next morning after dropping the kids off at summer camp I had to go to CVS to buy her Plan B. It suddenly hit me how my fantasy really did come true. Two years prior I was hopeful just approaching her about the lifestyle, here I am buying my wife plan B after a crazy summer night one night stand.

That was her wake up call, shortly after she got an IUd. A few months later she started dating her current Boyfriend and has been with him steady over 2 years. They waited a year before having unprotected sex and now he finishes in her 2-3 times a week. Even better is I have to wear condoms or pull out, it’s hot that she tells me only her boyfriend can cum in her.

We have discussed if he got her pregnant if her IUD failed, we wouldn’t wish for it regardless of how hot the fantasy is but because she has been with him so long we would really have to think about keeping the baby too.

That's one thing I failed to mention in my post above. I was also on plan B purchase "duty" since these oopsies were happening quite frequently. At one point I began questioning if she was doing it on purpose since I found myself spending $54 every month, sometimes twice a month and that's when she came clean and told me that she had been wanting to have a little baby girl with her boyfriend of 2 years. It explained why she was having avoidable accidents that somehow would rely on me to correct them unless I wanted to risk it. Personally I think that either way was a win-win for her. She didn't have to worry about getting plan b or paying for it but if I didn't buy it then she got her wish of getting pregnant by her boyfriend.

I had the same thought as you... 3 years of sweet talking her into the lifestyle wishing she would just let loose and now there I was sometimes twice a month standing at a pharmacy line waiting to buy plan b for my girlfriend so another man wouldn't knock her up and condoms for myself so I could still get a little action with my girlfriend when she decide to give me some... oh how life gives us all types of spins and surprises.

Honestly looking back, I absolutely would not have had it any other way and in fact, there have been times where I wish another man would have gotten my girlfriend pregnant. I think that would have lit a fire under her ass and mine to finally grow up, settle, get married, and be responsible parents to her and her boyfriend's baby... probably the wrong reason but it's a thought that has crossed my mind over the years.

[Mkliny442015]

A couple of years ago my wife then 32, was dating a much younger and hotter guy. She said it was animalistic porn star sex and he could go multiple times. Anyway, she fucked him one night and they started out dry humping no condom but naked and he was pre cumming a lot rubbing against her clit, he put on a condom and fucked her and then pulled out last second ripped the condom off and shot it all over her unexpected, her legs were wide open laying back on the bed. She said he came so much he could fill a shot glass easily and Most of his cum shot all over her wide open freshly fucked vagina. She got up and cleaned up quick but was worried since she was ovulating.

The next morning after dropping the kids off at summer camp I had to go to CVS to buy her Plan B. It suddenly hit me how my fantasy really did come true. Two years prior I was hopeful just approaching her about the lifestyle, here I am buying my wife plan B after a crazy summer night one night stand.

That was her wake up call, shortly after she got an IUd. A few months later she started dating her current Boyfriend and has been with him steady over 2 years. They waited a year before having unprotected sex and now he finishes in her 2-3 times a week. Even better is I have to wear condoms or pull out, it’s hot that she tells me only her boyfriend can cum in her.

We have discussed if he got her pregnant if her IUD failed, we wouldn’t wish for it regardless of how hot the fantasy is but because she has been with him so long we would really have to think about keeping the baby too.

That's one thing I failed to mention in my post above. I was also on plan B purchase "duty" since these oopsies were happening quite frequently. At one point I began questioning if she was doing it on purpose since I found myself spending $54 every month, sometimes twice a month and that's when she came clean and told me that she had been wanting to have a little baby girl with her boyfriend of 2 years. It explained why she was having avoidable accidents that somehow would rely on me to correct them unless I wanted to risk it. Personally I think that either way was a win-win for her. She didn't have to worry about getting plan b or paying for it but if I didn't buy it then she got her wish of getting pregnant by her boyfriend.

I had the same thought as you... 3 years of sweet talking her into the lifestyle wishing she would just let loose and now there I was sometimes twice a month standing at a pharmacy line waiting to buy plan b for my girlfriend so another man wouldn't knock her up and condoms for myself so I could still get a little action with my girlfriend when she decide to give me some... oh how life gives us all types of spins and surprises.

Honestly looking back, I absolutely would not have had it any other way and in fact, there have been times where I wish another man would have gotten my girlfriend pregnant. I think that would have lit a fire under her ass and mine to finally grow up, settle, get married, and be responsible parents to her and her boyfriend's baby... probably the wrong reason but it's a thought that has crossed my mind over the years.

We are on the same page to an extent. Her boyfriend and her are in a serious relationship where they have expressed love for each other . He was never married or had kids or any desire to do so, but we both agree that if she did get pregnant by him we would probably have to think deep amongst the three of us if we wanted to proceed with the pregnancy and raise the child as our own. We have three kids and don’t want more but if it were to happen with her boyfriend it may be a different story Vs a one night stand or fling.

[annsman]

I'll probably get flamed, but it is a big turn on for both of us, and for some of her boyfriends. She has a coil now, but we are turned on by the knowledge that she could conceive each month, but her pregnancy come to nothing.

Ann thinks that because pregnancy is a natural result of sex a woman who accepts a man ejaculating inside her, whether her husband or another man, must at least think about it. She also thinks its instinctive for a woman to think about having a baby with a man she has feelings for. Whether she acts on it or not is another matter. This is Ann's personal opinion so I'm sure other women will disagree as will many husbands who can't imagine their wives thinking like this.

When Ann was on the pill she did forget to take it or to take it with her if they had an unplanned night together, which turned us both on so she deliberately didn't take it a few times, the longest was for four days over a holiday weekend away with her boyfriend. It was incredibly nervously exciting while we waited for her period which arrived on time.

She also had sex with a boyfriend during an unsafe time when she was off the pill, because it was the only time they could meet.

I don't want to get into an argument about the rights or wrongs, so PM me if anyone wants to hear more or discuss it without censure.

[options311]

There was a time that I was in a long term intimate relationship with a woman who was separated and going thru a divorce. We talked about what would happen if she got pregnant unintentionally by accident even with all the precautions we were taking. She said that she would keep the child and raise it.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

My wife and I use to be members at an on-site swing club in central Pennsylvania, which had many theme nights.

One night it was the “wife I have a secret” where a microphone was passed around to the wives as each one of them would share a sexual secret with the audience.

Many common sexual secrets were shared such as the desire to have sex with a black man / men, a male female male threesome.

What caught me by surprise of the 30 wives sharing their sexual secrets three of them stated getting pregnant by another man other than their husband, with one of those wives being my wife.

After my wife disclosed to the audience her desire to have a child by another man other than me her husband she said honey you are wearing a condom tonight which the audience applauded

Let’s just say my wife was quite popular with the men their that night and following times we attended that club

I think the pregnant risk by other men is more common than some might realize

[atlcuckcpl]

Our story is a little different. Before my wife had our daughter she used spermicide sponges to prevent pregnancy with her boyfriend and me. After our daughter was born I immediately got a vasectomy, at which time she stopped using the sponges, and her boyfriend continued using the pull out method (as unreliable as it was). Since the change in Birth Control methods was new we had an oopsie...

Her boyfriend pulled out as requested and shot all over the outside of her pussy. In the heat of the moment I was performing oral on her with great enthusiasm. But without realizing it, I was inserting my cum loaded fingers deep into her vagina. And this encounter was when she was ovulating. Even worse, her period was a month late.

I almost inadvertently inseminated my wife with her boyfriends cum. That accident gave me 4 of the scariest and hottest weeks in my life. After her period came we immediately had her tubes tied. Her Ob/Gyn gave her funny looks as she knew I had had a vasectomy...lol!

Since then my wife met her current boyfriend who she has been seeing for the past 12 years. He too is totally fertile, but with her tubes tied, there were no worries,. About 4 years into dating him, she admitted to both me and him that she would have loved to have his Baby, but was also 2 years past menopause. So there was no point in getting her tube tied reversed. After telling us both that, he admitted he would have happily knocked her up if he had known her desires. Her and her lover would have had a Baby together if they had met each other 4 years sooner. As you'd expect, she has required I use a condom for the past 12 years as they both consider her pussy "his". Funny how complicated life and reality can be.

[sherulestherooster]

@atlcuckcpl some of that resonates with me. Long before she became a hot wife I happily got a vasectomy. We began our kink journey into some femdom play which included a lot of CBT on my now “useless” balls.

We had shared the same GP who knew I was sterile but wrote a script for her oral BC, I guess you could say for contraception with her bulls but also it mellowed out her cycle.

She allowed two bulls to bareback her and the THOUGHT of another man’s sperm swimming in her womb whereas I was shooting blanks was a huge turn on for me. We also later (she quit cuckolding me cause her bulls flaked too much) went to forced condoms on me which was a ton of it fun. Would have been smoking hot to have a fertile bull with exclusive cream pie privileges with me being required to wear condoms even though no reason to. This turns me on a lot, still.

[coupleoxford]

It does seem a little odd that couples having sex with other men, knowing that no form of contraception is entirely risk free, should be so quick to judge other couples that increase that risk, particularly without knowing the circumstances of the relationship. Perhaps they've been unsuccessful trying for a baby, perhaps their are medical reasons why a sperm donor would be preferable. perhaps the bull is a long term lover. I knew someone who had a child by someone other than her husband because her husband couldn't have children. They didn't use a clinic, they did it the traditional way and the child grew up in a loving family never knowing any difference. It seemed odd to me but I never felt I had some moral high ground to tell them they'd made a mistake.

I just don't think it's good to judge people too quickly or harshly. In our case the condom broke during passionate love making and so the risk of pregnancy increased from a non-zero number to something higher, but I wouldn't say that fact makes it a leap worse morally than risking pregnancy with contraception.

[Long Lurker 34]

It does seem a little odd that couples having sex with other men, knowing that no form of contraception is entirely risk free, should be so quick to judge other couples that increase that risk, particularly without knowing the circumstances of the relationship. Perhaps they've been unsuccessful trying for a baby, perhaps their are medical reasons why a sperm donor would be preferable. perhaps the bull is a long term lover. I knew someone who had a child by someone other than her husband because her husband couldn't have children. They didn't use a clinic, they did it the traditional way and the child grew up in a loving family never knowing any difference. It seemed odd to me but I never felt I had some moral high ground to tell them they'd made a mistake.

I just don't think it's good to judge people too quickly or harshly. In our case the condom broke during passionate love making and so the risk of pregnancy increased from a non-zero number to something higher, but I wouldn't say that fact makes it a leap worse morally than risking pregnancy with contraception.

CO - So did the "other man" know what was going on? Did he know her child was also his? Just wondering how this all came to be. Actually for that matter how did you come to know about this?

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Being in the Hotwife lifestyle for most couples comes with the inherent risk another man might get the wife pregnant. One of the most common forms of birth control couples use is birth control pills which in typical usage are 90 percent effective meaning the wife has a 10 percent change of becoming pregnant during the course of the year

Which may be by the husband or the other man or men the Hotwife is having sex with, it is an inherent risk most married couples accept being in the Hotwife lifestyle

[AgegapCuck]

This theme really resonates with me.

My wife, Gina has had a contractor lover for over 18 months now. He sees her on a very irregular basis as he travels a lot and he is married with a kid. In all he has 5 kids with 4 women.

He is tall, very well built and a primal male. Gina loves his physicality and the way he takes ownership of her. He has shared her in the past with a friend and is no romantic. Just comes and fucks and goes. Usually they meet in the woods or sometimes in our garden office.

I really find it exhilarating and painful when I’m in tne house with the kids and I know he is filling her.

They always fuck bare and he always cums inside her. She is not on contraception but so far they have dodged the bullet. A few days back he came and fucked her. She joined me inside saying he had left a very large load inside her. She invited me to fuck her and I did. Only later did I realise that I was inadvertently pushing her lovers cream up to her cervix.

It is a surreal feeling knowing she could be bred by him. They are both magnificent specimens and any child would be physically impressive. Would she keep it? I just don’t know. How do I feel. Mixed I guess. I lover her and I love kids. I guess I would accept my place and acknowledge him as the alpha male. We will see.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, AgeGap

You and your wife are in love and getting along well in raising your family.

Your wife seems to be very happy and satisfied with her 18 month and counting contractor friends with benefits.

It seems your wife is comfortable if he gets her pregnant which leads to your family growing by one and with time I believe you would fully embrace raising another child

[2inUPMichigan]

You all seem to forget that it is very common for many couples to be starting after being married for 20 years.

Menopause is the great pregnancy neutralizer
Many of us have absolutely nothing to worry about at all when it comes to pregnancy as there is 0% risk.

Why would you automatically assume that a hotwife is of childbearing age?