I know since my wife started having sex with other men our marriage has been greatly enhanced.
As mentioned, communication about absolutely everything has gone through the roof, and we both feel great about that.
We have sex pretty much daily, nothing is off limits, and it’s wonderful.
We did have some rough patches a few years ago at the beginning, but the communication forced those issues out and we worked through them.
One thing that did help me personally and then shared with my wife is reading several books, or audiobooks, Sex at Dawn, Insatiable Wives, Sperm Wars and The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory, Most, obviously female centric, but all excellent. They gave me an insight I didnt have before and I encouraged my wife to explore her sexuality even more in ways I hadn’t before. They also caused me to be turned on even more, which I didnt think possible with her playing. Highly recommend!
Benefits of being a Hotwife Couple
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armyguyot1
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Re: Benefits of being a Hotwife Couple
I love blowjobs. I love to fuck also thus we mix it up. A sensuous blowjob and me having to stop her from taking a mouthful are just part of foreplay for us. I have learned how to get her off orally and love doing it. She gets more vocal as time goes on and more trembly and back arch. Her blowjobs are sooo good that they are special and so is cumming in her mouth. She knows exactly what I like and loves to feel my dick pulse in her mouth. Any other place for that matter. She is still fancinated with a dick and especially when it cums and squirts. She won't lick up cum but she really enjoys in in her mouth and swallowing. We are going to Palm Springs in two weeks and she may put on weight for the amount of cum she will swallow there. We are still as passionate now as we were years ago and can please one another even easier. It's great.
She is still beautiful thou the figure isn't as tight as it once was she looks amazing and the skills are to die for. Her pussy has picked up a technique where it feels like it is trying to suck cum out of my dick. Works so much better when it's really lose and stretched and wet with slick fluids and it is wonderful. Anyone else feel the sucking feel as she fucks you with a sloppy sloppy pussy with her eyes closed?
She is still beautiful thou the figure isn't as tight as it once was she looks amazing and the skills are to die for. Her pussy has picked up a technique where it feels like it is trying to suck cum out of my dick. Works so much better when it's really lose and stretched and wet with slick fluids and it is wonderful. Anyone else feel the sucking feel as she fucks you with a sloppy sloppy pussy with her eyes closed?
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Wesley Hudson Valley
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Re: Benefits of being a Hotwife Couple
To answer a question I received in a private message. Has your marriage become more Female Led Relationship since entering the Hotwife lifestyle?
I would say yes it has which is both a positive for my husband and myself. Less pressure on my husband to make decisions more empowerment for myself to make the right decisions for my family and who I date
I would say yes it has which is both a positive for my husband and myself. Less pressure on my husband to make decisions more empowerment for myself to make the right decisions for my family and who I date
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Tank Turner
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Re: Benefits of being a Hotwife Couple
Hi armyguyot1,
You are one extremely lucky man. Your wife sounds like every man's dream wife.
I love blowjobs, too, but I love fucking more. Right after I met my wife, she thought I wasn't truthful when I said that I'd rather fuck than get a blowjob. She assumed that I thought that I was protecting her from feeling obligated to give me a blowjob. I assured her that that wasn't the case. She told me I was an anomaly or something to that effect. She told me that most dudes (at the age I was when I met her) preferred blowjobs. She assured me that she loved giving blowjobs. When dudes fucked her, they controlled when they came. When she gave blowjobs, she controlled when they came.
My wife has told me exactly what you wrote. She loves the sensation of a hard, pulsating cock in her mouth. To her, it's a feeling of victory, as the colonel in "Apocalypse Now" said. Her definition of a blowjob is swallowing. It's a completed sex act.
I have a lot of porn videos of my wife giving blowjobs. If I were able to post one, you'd see that she has elevated blowjobs to a performing art. She learned when she began having sex that dudes loved blowjobs. Because blowjobs were huge for dudes, like everything else she's done, she learned to perfect them.
We've had thousands of conversations about sex through the years we've known each other. I was enamored of her the first time we had sex which was on the evening of our first date. I had never been with a woman who had her sexual confidence. She had and still has a remarkably erotic ability to talk about sex with complete honesty. While we were laying in bed after burning a lot of calories, we BS'ed about blowjobs. The conversation was mostly rhetorical that was periodically punctuated with knowledge. I remembered that she had told me that some of her boyfriends would withdraw from her pussy and finish in her mouth. I've preferred the opposite way, and so does she. I asked her why those dudes didn't cum inside of her pussy. She guessed that it excited them to watch their dicks disappear inside of her mouth while they came. I'd 100% prefer to marvel at the mystical expression of her face at the moment she experiences a euphoric orgasm than watch her swallowing my cum.
When I was in 19, I was trained by a 28 year old woman on how to perform oral sex on women. A common complaint among women is men's lack of skills required to perform oral sex. Before my wife met me, masturbation was her preferred mechanism to orgasm. Lots of guys had gone down on her. Not one of them were skilled. They often frustrated her. Not a single one of them made her cum. If they had known where to concentrate their efforts, she would have cum.
My wife's preferred mechanism to orgasm changed after the first time I went down on her, which was on the evening of our first date. Until then, it was the most euphoric orgasm she had ever had. Oral sex became her favorite way to orgasm. And that woman can orgasm. Her endocrine system abnormality assuredly enables her to cum as many times as she desires. Her amazing sexual confidence and enlightened sexual beliefs augment her hormone advantage. Her first two and often first three are most body levitating and explosive. She's told me that my oral sex skills cause her to experience orgasms that are more euphoric than pain medicine injected at hospitals.
The first month of our relationship was almost exclusively about mutual sexual euphoria. In plain English: we were fucking each other, and we were good at it. After we became committed and exclusive, our sex life ascended from excellent to stratospheric euphoria neither of us knew existed. We'd engage in graphic sexual conversations while drinking margaritas and eating dinner at restaurants that caused us to become so horny we often fucked in parking lots. We'd flirt in public and go beyond that if we were in secluded areas, depending on what she was wearing. She would not have cared if people saw us. By the time we got in bed, that woman was almost begging to cum. She'd push my head between her thighs and keep it there with breaks only after she came and her clit was too sensitive for my tongue to stimulate. When she was ready, my mouth and tongue were all over her clit while my fingers massaging the inner ridges of her pussy.
I have a video that she took of me eating her pussy. You can easily hear her gasping for air when she came. She was in a sexually euphoric trance. I grabbed the camera before it fell from her hand, and videoed her in a prolonged state of serene, sexual euphoria. It took her about three minutes to recover from that one.
My opinion, which I'm certain that you share, is the most desired and treasured of women are women who are extremely sexually experienced, sexually enlightened, sexually uninhibited, know what they want sexually and are not reticent to ask for it, and know how to take men on Magical Mystery Tours of Intensive Sexual Euphoria, and willingly submit themselves to men's sexual desires. Games and learning curves are for amateurs. The most refined essence of femininity have the aforementioned traits. My wife's sexual confidence alone surpasses many women's entire sexuality.
Other than the birth of our kids, the most memorable day of my life was the date my wife married me.
Sex is a huge part of our lives, but it is far from the dominant components of our lives.
You are one extremely lucky man. Your wife sounds like every man's dream wife.
I love blowjobs, too, but I love fucking more. Right after I met my wife, she thought I wasn't truthful when I said that I'd rather fuck than get a blowjob. She assumed that I thought that I was protecting her from feeling obligated to give me a blowjob. I assured her that that wasn't the case. She told me I was an anomaly or something to that effect. She told me that most dudes (at the age I was when I met her) preferred blowjobs. She assured me that she loved giving blowjobs. When dudes fucked her, they controlled when they came. When she gave blowjobs, she controlled when they came.
My wife has told me exactly what you wrote. She loves the sensation of a hard, pulsating cock in her mouth. To her, it's a feeling of victory, as the colonel in "Apocalypse Now" said. Her definition of a blowjob is swallowing. It's a completed sex act.
I have a lot of porn videos of my wife giving blowjobs. If I were able to post one, you'd see that she has elevated blowjobs to a performing art. She learned when she began having sex that dudes loved blowjobs. Because blowjobs were huge for dudes, like everything else she's done, she learned to perfect them.
We've had thousands of conversations about sex through the years we've known each other. I was enamored of her the first time we had sex which was on the evening of our first date. I had never been with a woman who had her sexual confidence. She had and still has a remarkably erotic ability to talk about sex with complete honesty. While we were laying in bed after burning a lot of calories, we BS'ed about blowjobs. The conversation was mostly rhetorical that was periodically punctuated with knowledge. I remembered that she had told me that some of her boyfriends would withdraw from her pussy and finish in her mouth. I've preferred the opposite way, and so does she. I asked her why those dudes didn't cum inside of her pussy. She guessed that it excited them to watch their dicks disappear inside of her mouth while they came. I'd 100% prefer to marvel at the mystical expression of her face at the moment she experiences a euphoric orgasm than watch her swallowing my cum.
When I was in 19, I was trained by a 28 year old woman on how to perform oral sex on women. A common complaint among women is men's lack of skills required to perform oral sex. Before my wife met me, masturbation was her preferred mechanism to orgasm. Lots of guys had gone down on her. Not one of them were skilled. They often frustrated her. Not a single one of them made her cum. If they had known where to concentrate their efforts, she would have cum.
My wife's preferred mechanism to orgasm changed after the first time I went down on her, which was on the evening of our first date. Until then, it was the most euphoric orgasm she had ever had. Oral sex became her favorite way to orgasm. And that woman can orgasm. Her endocrine system abnormality assuredly enables her to cum as many times as she desires. Her amazing sexual confidence and enlightened sexual beliefs augment her hormone advantage. Her first two and often first three are most body levitating and explosive. She's told me that my oral sex skills cause her to experience orgasms that are more euphoric than pain medicine injected at hospitals.
The first month of our relationship was almost exclusively about mutual sexual euphoria. In plain English: we were fucking each other, and we were good at it. After we became committed and exclusive, our sex life ascended from excellent to stratospheric euphoria neither of us knew existed. We'd engage in graphic sexual conversations while drinking margaritas and eating dinner at restaurants that caused us to become so horny we often fucked in parking lots. We'd flirt in public and go beyond that if we were in secluded areas, depending on what she was wearing. She would not have cared if people saw us. By the time we got in bed, that woman was almost begging to cum. She'd push my head between her thighs and keep it there with breaks only after she came and her clit was too sensitive for my tongue to stimulate. When she was ready, my mouth and tongue were all over her clit while my fingers massaging the inner ridges of her pussy.
I have a video that she took of me eating her pussy. You can easily hear her gasping for air when she came. She was in a sexually euphoric trance. I grabbed the camera before it fell from her hand, and videoed her in a prolonged state of serene, sexual euphoria. It took her about three minutes to recover from that one.
My opinion, which I'm certain that you share, is the most desired and treasured of women are women who are extremely sexually experienced, sexually enlightened, sexually uninhibited, know what they want sexually and are not reticent to ask for it, and know how to take men on Magical Mystery Tours of Intensive Sexual Euphoria, and willingly submit themselves to men's sexual desires. Games and learning curves are for amateurs. The most refined essence of femininity have the aforementioned traits. My wife's sexual confidence alone surpasses many women's entire sexuality.
Other than the birth of our kids, the most memorable day of my life was the date my wife married me.
Sex is a huge part of our lives, but it is far from the dominant components of our lives.
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Tank Turner
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Re: Benefits of being a Hotwife Couple
No. Our relationship has remained consistent. My wife is sexually submissive by nature and always horny by nature.Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑Sat Mar 09, 2024 10:47 amTo answer a question I received in a private message. Has your marriage become more Female Led Relationship since entering the Hotwife lifestyle?
I would say yes it has which is both a positive for my husband and myself. Less pressure on my husband to make decisions more empowerment for myself to make the right decisions for my family and who I date
My wife has picked every man she's invited to join us for MFM sex.
She was extremely sexually confident before we got into the lifestyle.
She's told me that she's more horny now than she was when she was in college and couldn't get enough sex. She's in her sexual prime. Women in their sexual primes want sex 24/7.