Fuck Her Brains Out

[BT2]

My wife is a hotwife. I've read on this site for many years that a marriage bond in which the wife is a hotwife must be strong, e.g it is not an activity to fix a shaky marriage. It frequently seems couples in which the wife is hotwife love and respect each other and that the wife's hotwife activities are a shared experience that brings them closer together. I've read frequently that a hotwife date is usually a terrific turn on for both the hotwife and the husband, whether it was an MFM, merely watching, or hearing the blow by blow afterwards, and that they share very sensuous intense sex afterwards.

That is why I wonder about comments that when the hotwife date is over and the husband and wife are together again, he "fucks her brains out" or he "fucks her silly". If my wife heard me describe our very erotic lovemaking like that after one of her dates, she would feel disrespected, would be angry, and would most definitely be quite hurt. Is this my Presbyterianism showing through, or do other husbands feel uncomfortable when they hear their after-date lovemaking described in such a way?

[BallSpanking]

I am not sure I get a negative connotation from those same phrases ...
A HW husband is usually hopeful and curious that his HotWife IS in fact being 'fucked silly'.

[BrunetteLover]

My wife and I do not speak to each other the way you describe either.

When you say 'If my wife heard me...' ... she would feel disrespected,' - that is a perfectly understandable statement.

If you don't feel comfortable speaking that way, then by all means, do not. I don't either.

[isinlarsa]

I understand where you are coming from; however, when my wife returned to me after being with another man for the first time, I had trouble wrapping my brain around her having sex with other men. I asked her what happened, and she looked me straight in the eye, and said, "He fucked the hell out of me."

[Iahotwifeshusband]

Every relationship is different. My wife doesn’t really make love. She gets fucked. It has always been that way. It didn’t matter if it was me or another guy. She would laugh if I asked to make love. We do love each other however.

[isinlarsa]

Every relationship is different. My wife doesn’t really make love. She gets fucked. It has always been that way. It didn’t matter if it was me or another guy. She would laugh if I asked to make love. We do love each other however.

My wife and I make love. Other men fuck her.

[bltn1966]

I understand where you are coming from; however, when my wife returned to me after being with another man for the first time, I had trouble wrapping my brain around her having sex with other men. I asked her what happened, and she looked me straight in the eye, and said, "He fucked the hell out of me."

My wife barely go into details. She might rate the guy on a scale of 1-10. One time she made a video for me. My wife said the guy was a 8 in bed. When I saw the video I told her “he fucked the shit out of you”. My wife didn’t appreciate my comment. She prefer that I say it was “intense”. A few years later I was pleasantly surprised when she came home and told me about a guy. She grabbed me by the head, looked me eye to eye and said “he fucked the living shit out of me”.

[isinlarsa]

I understand where you are coming from; however, when my wife returned to me after being with another man for the first time, I had trouble wrapping my brain around her having sex with other men. I asked her what happened, and she looked me straight in the eye, and said, "He fucked the hell out of me."

My wife barely go into details. She might rate the guy on a scale of 1-10. One time she made a video for me. My wife said the guy was a 8 in bed. When I saw the video I told her “he fucked the shit out of you”. My wife didn’t appreciate my comment. She prefer that I say it was “intense”. A few years later I was pleasantly surprised when she came home and told me about a guy. She grabbed me by the head, looked me eye to eye and said “he fucked the living shit out of me”.

I know what you mean. I was always after my girlfriend to tell me the details of her trysts with other men. She would give me a bit of the lead-up, how they shed their clothes, and such. Then when it really got interest she would say, "And then he fucked me." I wanted more details!

[Her number1]

My wife is a hotwife. I've read on this site for many years that a marriage bond in which the wife is a hotwife must be strong, e.g it is not an activity to fix a shaky marriage. It frequently seems couples in which the wife is hotwife love and respect each other and that the wife's hotwife activities are a shared experience that brings them closer together. I've read frequently that a hotwife date is usually a terrific turn on for both the hotwife and the husband, whether it was an MFM, merely watching, or hearing the blow by blow afterwards, and that they share very sensuous intense sex afterwards.

That is why I wonder about comments that when the hotwife date is over and the husband and wife are together again, he "fucks her brains out" or he "fucks her silly". If my wife heard me describe our very erotic lovemaking like that after one of her dates, she would feel disrespected, would be angry, and would most definitely be quite hurt. Is this my Presbyterianism showing through, or do other husbands feel uncomfortable when they hear their after-date lovemaking described in such a way?

Everyone is different when it comes to "trigger phrases". I don't use the words you mention, and I don't find those kinds of descriptions erotic, but some do.
Some would say that they and their wives "make love" as opposed to fucking. My wife loves to be fucked, the naughtier the better. So, for her, that can constitute making love, but it's not what some envision.

[Natatude]

My hubby and I make love I just fuck the others. However he wants to hear every detail of my dates from beginning to end. He loves pics, vids and prefers FaceTime during sex is able.

[Bluetoed]

Everyone has their different comfort levels with dirty talk.

[frank12]

Words and language are attempts to communicate ideas and experiences - and sometimes their use can be confusing as the one who chooses the words may have something different in mind from the one hearing them. What works for effective (and erotic) communication between some couples may be misinterpreted by others.

From Lewis Carroll:
“When I use a word,’ Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, ‘it means just what I choose it to mean — neither more nor less.’
’The question is,’ said Alice, ‘whether you can make words mean so many different things.’
’The question is,’ said Humpty Dumpty, ‘which is to be master — that’s all.”

Prof Wood

[MDCAPTAIN]

I think everyone is different - I try not to yuk anyone's yum if I can help it. Its about having fun for the people involved

[iwish]

If my wife ever went down this road, I'd hope she came home and say, "he fucked me like I've never been fucked before, and I fucked him right back with everything I had. BTW, I'm seeing him again tomorrow."

[Tank Turner]

That is why I wonder about comments that when the hotwife date is over and the husband and wife are together again, he "fucks her brains out" or he "fucks her silly". If my wife heard me describe our very erotic lovemaking like that after one of her dates, she would feel disrespected, would be angry, and would most definitely be quite hurt. Is this my Presbyterianism showing through, or do other husbands feel uncomfortable when they hear their after-date lovemaking described in such a way?

Hi BT2,

My wife has always been able to talk openly and honestly about sex, she sexual desires, and sexual fantasies. We're deeply in love with each other. After she orgasms to near exhaustion, she'll almost always tell me, "Fuck me hard and rough," or "fuck me like a porn star," or fuck my brains out," etc. She'll rarely use the noun, "slut." Sometimes she'll say to me, "Fuck me like a slut," or "fuck me like a porn star slut." A few times she's told me, "Fuck me like a college slut."

My wife is not a tender loving girl. She is after sex, but not during sex. According to her, she never has been a tender loving sex girl. She's told me she's hasn't done well with guys she's fucked who were too intimidated or shy to fuck her like she loved to be fucked.

Other women might find my wife's terminology offensive. However, I've heard other women say in conversation that their husbands fucked their brains out.

Intent is what makes conversation disrespectful.