Rules of Engagement

[Tank Turner]

Hi Long Lurker 34,

Sexual simpatico is the difficult objective.

My wife is the most sexual woman I've ever been with with no other woman is in close second place. She's the mother of our two kids. She is an angel in their eyes. She will not talk about sex in front of them. She probably has them believing that they were immaculately conceived. When our kids aren't around, she unleashes her hyper-sexuality. She could have easily been a porn star. If our kids aren't home and we're going out, we'll shower together. She won't risk it if our kids are home.

She used to shower with a 30 year dude she was fucking when she was 19. I'm sure she showered with most of her boyfriends. She loves warm cum on her tits. When it starts to dry, she's in the shower rinsing it off. She has a black bush that can grow thick if she's not on top of it. She told me that dried white cum in her black bush looked gross. She had to shampoo it out before getting back in the action. I knew she wasn't talking about my cum in her bush.

My wife thinks its completely normal and natural for boyfriends & girlfriends and husbands & wives to shower together. She will not risk getting caught by one of our kids in the shower with me.

[WishfulThinking]

Your agreement and the clear focus of your wife sounds ideal. No humiliating the husband, no dishonesty, total commitment to marriage and family and sticking to those principles. This would be my desire if we ever actually took the step, which we won’t because my wife likes this sort of fantasy, but that’s the limit. I’m ok with that, too, but it sure is thrilling to imagine her being a faithful slut within the boundaries we’d establish, such as yours!

Thanks for sharing!

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Do you guys have strategies for establishing parameters when your wives are available and conditions under which they'll be available?

We cannot have a sexual routine. Our adolescent kids are nosy and inquisitive. We cannot risk their finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

My wife does not want a boyfriend or regular paramour for the same reason. She does not want any man around our home when our kids are home. She wants MFM sex when we can make it work, it's safe from our nosy kids, and she wants it. She wants to be the only person in control of when and where porn star sex might occur. Our kids are her world. She will not jeopardize her relationship with our kids. She would never jeopardize her family.

My wife and I did a last Fri-Sun debauchery session with our new and much younger friend. It began as MFM sex. By Sun, it was my wife and Brad. I was too tired to continue and out of hard ons after Sunday morning. Brad is 15 years younger than my wife. She outlasted him and me, but he was able to get hard more than she expected.

She did not wear clothes the entire weekend. They rarely wandered out of our bedroom. They got out of bed for showers and to eat. Except for rinse off showers my wife will take to wash cum off of her body, they showered together. It wasn't nonstop sex. They took a lot of naps, watched most of 24 hours of porn that I rented, watched a couple movies, and did a lot of talking. She got fucked more over those three nights and two days that she has ever been over the same duration.

He left early Mon morning for work.

Since New Year's Day, Brad and my wife have communicated virtually every day. She's his comfort blanket while he's mired in an ugly custody battle.

Brad texted my wife yesterday. The message left her with a confused feeling. She texted to him that she would call him this morning on her way to work.

She told him that they are only friends and will only be friends. She will not jeopardize her family for anyone or for sex. She told him that if he ever asked her for sex behind my back, she would never have another thing to do with him. She said she'd do MFM sex with him again if we're available and we can prevent our kids from finding out. She told me that his initial response was slightly hurt and confused. She explained reality to him from another angle. She told him that if I should disappear never to be seen again, there is too large an age difference between them for a romantic a relationship. We have only a friendship relationship that includes periodic sex when it was perfect for her. He finally understood. He told her that he needed her support and advice while fighting for custody of his kid. That was extremely important to him. He would not risk it by violating her rules of engagement. She told him that she hides nothing from me. She tells me everything he tells her.

I thought my wife resolved a potential problem honestly, fairly, and sincerely. What do you guys think?
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[Restarting]

I thought my wife resolved a potential problem honestly, fairly, and sincerely. What do you guys think?

Absolutely! She communicates well, knows what she wants, and makes it happen. Congratulations to both of you! She's also acting as a true friend to Brad, sounds like a great woman. You're lucky to have her.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Restarting,

Thank you for your gracious compliment about my wife.

The luckiest day of my life was the date she married me. The second luckiest day of my life was the date she said, "Yes," to my proposal. Being in love with my best and most trusted friend is an indescribable feeling.