Compartmentalization and play for pay

[nicoletina]

I know hotwife play for pay has been discussed here before. I can honestly say that without compartmentalization I could not have succeeded (nor enjoyed) hooking as much as I did and still do. Thanks to all who have contributed here to this invaluable idea of mantaining separation of sexual personalities!

[BlondeDesires]

as a hotwife i had to learn to seperate my hotwife persona from my regular at home life.

[nicoletina]

Could not agree more, me too!

[Parsifal]

My wife loves climbing into compartments (or contexts or roleplay) depending on our mood for how she might satiate this desire or that. She has [affairs] in compartments. And she'll enact a BDSD demon scene on a variation of the Dream Sequence in Rosemary's Baby. [Gala's Dream Sequence]

My life-initating-art and vice versa style of hotwife marriage is all about compartments we create as our playrooms.

[BrunetteLover]

My wife has been an escort for over 12 years. The primary cause of burnout is loneliness.. you cannot discuss the life with anyone who is not an intimate. Meaning she can only talk to me about it, or her clients. But with her clients, it is all an act, so she has me alone to be honest with.

If being an escort was not so stigmatized, I don't think she would talk about it at work, for example, but she would not have to be so concerned at all times about someone finding out.

So bottom line is that over time, strict compartmentalization gets tiring.