So we are exploring a MFMM with wife and me and two other guys. One of the guys we have met multiples times and now come to trust and person at a personal level recently suggested a guy who he met in the Lifestyle while playing with a couple and since this guy knows us very well by now he suggested this other guy.
We chat some and fix a casual meeting for coffee and within 5 minutes of him joining us and talking she send me a text that he's too snobbish lol
and then carried the opinion throughout the afternoon. Obviously we wont be playing with him if she says no but I was just shocked coz I felt he was decent, very presentable (not too young not too old, what she prefers). Even though he's been around for a long time and has had several meets, I thought he was nervous initially but settled down. Just the only negative from my point would be he just kept talking lifestyle experiences too much and didn't attempt to really get to know us.Just this was the first time we had different opinions, we usually have somewhat similar views when we casually meet couples or singles but this time its totally opposite and she wont even consider!!!
