Wifey relevations

[Blackjack4724]

Good luck with your plan. Hope it works out for both your pleasure. I don’t know how her ex could resist that body. She’s gorgeous.

[interesting85]

Can't wait to hear more. Where will you be as this progresses? Does he know what you look like? If not, could you go into the bar, sit in the back and watch it unfold? Would Sam be up for you to sit in the bar and watch?? So glad it's working out for you. So many great ways to make this work for you both. Good luck on Friday.

He knows what I look like, from Sam's FB. I should find a spot to watch them. We'll see how this will unfold on Friday.

[Long Lurker 34]

Can't wait to hear more. Where will you be as this progresses? Does he know what you look like? If not, could you go into the bar, sit in the back and watch it unfold? Would Sam be up for you to sit in the bar and watch?? So glad it's working out for you. So many great ways to make this work for you both. Good luck on Friday.

He knows what I look like, from Sam's FB. I should find a spot to watch them. We'll see how this will unfold on Friday.

SH - Let's see, fake mustach, sunglasses and a hat. He'll never suspect.

[Shiphead]

LL34,
- Let's see, fake mustach, sunglasses and a hat. He'll never suspect.
Hearing the Pink Panther music playing.

Better yet, the old Mission Impossible theme. The Peter Graves version.

[interesting85]

Sorry for the long wait. We've been super busy last week and I really didn't have time to come and post what happened last Friday.
Our plan fell into place smoothly. Sam and I stalked out of his office on Friday while the kids spent the weekend with my parents. Sam looked stunning in her party dress. We stopped at the nearby Starbucks when Danny emerged from his office, and Sam pointed him out. We decided I chase after him, he entered the nearby bar and I texted Sam the location. I found a spot against the wall, getting a good view of the bard. Danny was there with friends. I anxiously awaited Sam's arrival and then jealousy I noticed she appeared and engaged in conversation with Danny. They seemed to be comfortable and intimate together, laughing and sharing drinks. As the evening progressed I couldn't help but feel jealous and drawn to their interaction. They seemed like a couple. Despite my jealousy, I found their encounter erotic. However my attention was interrupted when a large group passed by blocking my view of Sam and Danny. When they finally moved the stools where Sam and Danny had been were empty. Suddenly it struck me - the bathroom. They had likely gone there together. I made my move towards the restrooms, but then I spotted them exchanging numbers and stepping away from the bar. I signaled to Sam, suggesting it might be time to leave but she indicated otherwise with a glance at her phone. Just as I pulled my phone I received a text from her " he's going to walk me to a cab. Meet you at our sushi place. I'm hungry".

I drove fast to the sushi place and waited for her. Texted her several times with no response. Finally, she appeared explaining that she had forgotten her purse and had to stop at the ATM. We sat together at the bar and she joked about blowing the cab driver but said it was a joke. She said nothing happened and then we decided to move to a table for dinner. We sat at the small table in the corner of the room and discussed her encounter with Danny. She said it was casual conversation catching up on old times and joking around. There was some flirt, but nothing too overt. Danny mentioned he missed her and Sam flirted back, teasing him. I mentioned that I saw Danny touch her thigh, Sam laughed and admitted she allowed it for a few seconds before moving his hand away. We both agreed that it made me both jealous and excited. She didn't confirm if she should have let him continue touching her thigh. She confessed if she had known I was watching she might have let him explore further. Just as our conversation was heating up, she got a text from Danny, suggesting they meet up for drinks or early dinner this Friday. She told me she wouldn't decline his advances next time. We both understood further implications and expectations of such an encounter. She assured me she wouldn't actively seduce him unless he showed intentions. However, she made it clear she wouldn't push him away if he made a move. The thought of them together haunted me. She asked for advice on what to say to Danny. I told her I trusted her judgment and that I could live with her decision if she wanted to sleep with him. She laughed at me and said I was crazy. All I wanted at that moment was to get her home. We drove back and I couldn't resist touching her thigh. She allowed it and soon I had my hand down there, she was dripping wet. When we arrived home, we move to the bed. We showered together and continue our lovemaking. Finally we felt asleep.

Btw she had confirmed 6pm tonight.

[Tank Turner]

Women attend college to learn how to fuck. My wife received an excellent education. I'm beneficiary of it.

My guess is many women have sucked a lot of cock by the time they hit 20.

My wife had fucked a lot of guys before I met her. She has never compared me to any of her boyfriends. It's not the way she rolls.

My wife told me within days of meeting her that she preferred big cocks to small cocks except when she sucked them. While she was in college she did a one-night-stand with a dude with a small cock. That experience taught her that she could never live with a dude who was cock-challenged.

It's normal for women to lie about the number of men they fucked. My wife thinks it's immature to lie about sex. To this day, I've never asked her about how many dudes she fucked before I met her. When she's buzzed or drunk, she'll often talk about her old boyfriends and dudes she fucked. She doesn't talk about fucking them to talk about fucking them. Usually something will remind her of an old boyfriend or dude she fucked which leads to her telling me about fucking them. For instance, a party she attended at her sister's home reminded her about college parties she attended and boyfriends and dudes she knew (and some she didn't know) who fucked her on bathroom sink countertops.

Based on what she's volunteered, I'd guess she fucked 30 dudes before I met her. I fell in love with her sexual experience and sexual confidence the first time we had sex which was on the evening of our first date. After I fell in love with her, I would not have cared if she had been a porn star before I met her.

[elina]

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I mentioned that I saw Danny touch her thigh, Sam laughed and admitted she allowed it for a few seconds before moving his hand away. We both agreed that it made me both jealous and excited. She didn't confirm if she should have let him continue touching her thigh. She confessed if she had known I was watching she might have let him explore further. Just as our conversation was heating up, she got a text from Danny, suggesting they meet up for drinks or early dinner this Friday. She told me she wouldn't decline his advances next time. We both understood further implications and expectations of such an encounter. She assured me she wouldn't actively seduce him unless he showed intentions. However, she made it clear she wouldn't push him away if he made a move. The thought of them together haunted me. She asked for advice on what to say to Danny. I told her I trusted her judgment and that I could live with her decision if she wanted to sleep with him. She laughed at me and said I was crazy. All I wanted at that moment was to get her home. We drove back and I couldn't resist touching her thigh. She allowed it and soon I had my hand down there, she was dripping wet. When we arrived home, we move to the bed. We showered together and continue our lovemaking. Finally we felt asleep.

Btw she had confirmed 6pm tonight.

Dear Interesting85

I hope both you and Sam is OK and very happy right now. Given the highlighted quotes from your last post above; and unless the meeting between Danny and Sam did not happen for some reason, I assume that Sam has now fucked Danny, and taken your through the transition to become a cuckolded husband?

Hopefully you have also been able to get back with your Wonderful Sexy Wife in a way that makes you feel wonderfully OK with it.

Looking forward to when you will have the time to update.

Sincerely
elina

[interesting85]

On Friday morning, I got ready for work while Sam took care of the kids. Before leaving, she reminded me that I had to take care of the kids afternoon and that she would be home late. I didn't think much of it, busy day at work and taking care of the kids later I finally had a moment to relax, and it was almost 9 pm. She'd been with him for almost 3 hours. I was about to text her, I wondered if she'd actually slept with him when I got a text from Sam " I'm on my way". Nothing else. I felt relieved, a little disappointed but also turned on the situation. I went to the bedroom to wait for her. After a long wait, she finally arrived. However, something seemed off. I noticed her hair was damp and realized she showered. She confirmed my suspicions, she had admitted she slept with Danny. She became frustrated and upset with herself, on the verge of tears. I tried to calm her down and told her it was okay. I asked if she had enjoyed it, and after hesitating, she admitted that she had. I asked her to undress. She undid her dress and let it fall on the floor. She was naked beneath, with no underwear. Her breasts looked slightly blotchy, and there were streaks of red on her hips and thighs. I noticed her pussy looked very swollen. She asked me not to kiss her there, revealing Danny had finished inside twice. Despite being on birth control, this made my emotions significant. The curiosity got the better of me, and I slid a finger. Wondering what happened, and why she was so early she said they never made it to dinner. Instead, he invited her to his place for a drink while he got ready. He offered her a glass of wine and went to take a shower. After a few minutes, he returned wearing only a tower and came closer, kissing her on the lips. She pushed him away and took off his towel, stroking him, and then leaned down and took him. He had his hand on Sam's hair encouraging her to take it deeper. I thought she would make him work for it, instead she was blowing him after glass of wine. She said she never promised to make him work for it. She confessed she might be easy with him and reminded me I knew that. She described how they went to the bed—playing with each other. She told me he was rough, a lot rougher than me. He spanked and played with her tits. She admitted it hurt a little but also was pleasurable. I was concerned that he was better than me but Sam reassured me it's not that, it's just different. He made her cum twice, and their encounter lasted for 2 hours.

She touched my cock and revealed she had told Danny I approve and I'm on board with all this. She asked me for my approval for next date, just before I cum in her hand.

[Shiphead]

It ended up being almost anticlimactic. I was really following your story closely, waiting for this to happen. Didn't you do anything during the time she was with him? I would have stroked myself off a couple times just imagining what he was doing to her.
I'm a little confused though. Why was she upset and crying when in the end she had already set another date?
Didn't she take any pictures or offer you anything to help you be a part of this adventure? She said she told him you were OK with it so I would have thought she would have included you somehow. And i would ask why she told him about you because you went through a lot to hide and watch their interaction at the bar to set this up as a cheating wife. At the very least, I would have thought she would want you to go down on her sore pussy to ease her anxiety and pain.. She had already taken a shower which would have washed most of it away. I would think a gentle tongue would have soothed her sore pussy.
What are your thoughts on her next date and your involvement moving forward? What were your feelings about this event. Glad everything worked out for you both.

[elina]

Dear Interesting85

Thanks for this intriguing update.
Seems like your Wifey really wants to keep seeing Danny, being his fucktoy? And then at the same time wanting to be a good Wife for you and feeling guilt?

Or did I get that completely wrong?

Either way, I think we all want to be loved for just who we are and accepted as such.
In that perspective I now think you have a wonderful opportunity to demonstrate your love for Your Wonderful WIfe by supporting Her but at the same time sharing your innermost feelings with Her.

Sincerely
elina

[slenderfish]

Something to consider, what SW and I ended up agreeing to, when she did close the deal with each of the two guys, without me being there. I asked her to call and leave a voicemail as soon after the encounter, as she was able, a short description of the encounter and that she is okay. The benefits to her/us as follows:

1) I don't have to wonder, once I saw the phone light up I deliberately let it go to voicemail.
2) She is able to signal me surreptitiously without engaging in conversation with me, to remain more "in her moment" etc. Also avoid her worrying about what she might say to me live, in the moment, worrying about what I might say back.
3) I am able then to listen to the voicemail, hear her voice and energy, etc.
4) The voicemail can be kept forever as a recording and memory reminder/refresher.

As I said, something to consider.

[interesting85]

Something to consider, what SW and I ended up agreeing to, when she did close the deal with each of the two guys, without me being there. I asked her to call and leave a voicemail as soon after the encounter, as she was able, a short description of the encounter and that she is okay. The benefits to her/us as follows:

1) I don't have to wonder, once I saw the phone light up I deliberately let it go to voicemail.
2) She is able to signal me surreptitiously without engaging in conversation with me, to remain more "in her moment" etc. Also avoid her worrying about what she might say to me live, in the moment, worrying about what I might say back.
3) I am able then to listen to the voicemail, hear her voice and energy, etc.
4) The voicemail can be kept forever as a recording and memory reminder/refresher.

As I said, something to consider.

Sounds like a great plan.

I found it hard to comprehend my thoughts. I've always been fairly conservative, especially when it comes to matters of the bedroom. In hindsight, I realize I missed out on a lot of fun during college because of my reservations and self-righteousness. I had a few flings, but there were many missed opportunities. Just a few weeks ago, I mainly saw Sam as a mother and homemaker, a kind girl who enjoyed baking cookies and playing board games. But she was much more than that. The conflicting emotions I feel are evident. In a strange way, it boosts my ego. I always knew she was intellectually appealing and physically attractive, but with him, she is something entirely different. There is something incredibly arousing about that discovery. I couldn't explain it, but it intoxicates me.

[hiki]

Have you discussed what the plan is going forward? Will she just go to his place a few times a week for sex?

[US31]

that's a hot hot scenario that just played out! she is perfect! thanks for sharing ! please tell us more as it happens!

[Shiphead]

I'm wondering if Sam has shared any Revelations about the day she reconnected with Danny at the bar? She didn't need to move from their seats at the bar to exchange numbers. She had said they had been texting back and forth occasionally since you and her have been together.
Also, the extra time it took her to get to the sushi restaurant because she forgot her purse at home and went to the ATM to get money is questionable. How did she get money at an ATM if she didn't have her purse and some type of card that she would need at the ATM? That card would have worked at the bar as well. And what did she need money for if she was meeting you at the restaurant?
Sounds like she had enough time to hit Danny's car and swallow a load since she already had permission and sent you on your way. Guess she had some cum roll sushi on her way? Sorry for going on with questions but if she was just walking him out and then would need a cab right away. why didn't she just have you go wait in your car for her to drive together to the restaurant? Why not sit in your car and wait there rather than sit alone at a sushi restaurant?
She got some splaining to do lucy.

[Tank Turner]

I have to admit that I, when younger, was one of those guys who had a double standard for men (me) and women (my potential wife). However I was careful to keep those feelings to myself as best as is could. But it did influence my choice in a spouse.

By today's standards, my younger years were nothing out of the ordinary for a man who did not meet his wife until age 30, but my wife's background was very sexually conservative.

I am very careful not to label a woman who has had a robust sexual background negatively. I am very careful not to label a woman who enjoys sex with me negatively.

I use certain terms for my wife's current occupation, some which have negative connotations, but I prefer to use judgement-neutral terms such as 'escort.'

When I was in college, I wanted to marry a porn star. I was enamored of their sexual confidence. A woman has to have a lot of sexual confidence to become a porn star. I was smitten by my wife's sexual confidence the first time we had sex which was on the evening of our first date. To this very second, her sexual confidence gets me hard in a second.

I completely agree with you about not labeling women. Men could not have had sex unless women were willing to have sex.

I have no clue of what the definition of a slut is. Is it determined by number of sexual partners? What a woman is willing to do? Naughty? Nasty? Kinky? Regardless of definition if one exists, a gallant and chivalrous man would never refer to a woman using a pejorative noun.

Everyone has had different life experiences. Women must not be judged on their life experiences. Would it matter whether a woman were a virgin or fucked a hundred men? It wouldn't matter. When a man falls in love with a woman, her sexual history won't influence him.

When I began having sex, a wise, older man who was a close family friend told me that there were some questions men must not ask women, their sexual histories being one. He told me that what a women might have done before I met her was none of my business. That was sage advice. I've adhered to it since he gave it to me.

When I met the woman who's now my wife, she was the most sexually experienced and sexually confident woman I had ever been with. I assumed we would only be booty calls for each other. After I fell in love with her, she could have told me she that she did hundreds of porn films, and it would not have mattered to me. All that mattered to me was I was in love with her. Her being the best sex I ever had was an added benefit.

[BrunetteLover]

He told me that what a women might have done before I met her was none of my business. That was sage advice. I've adhered to it since he gave it to me.

The angst we feel when our wives go with other men is instinctual.

For the vast majority of human history, men had no way of knowing if they were raising another man's baby unless they had a clear view of at least nine months of a woman's sexual background. That is not a choice, it is a biological imperative for survival of a man's genetics.

Knowing a woman's history is not important TODAY, because one or two visits to a doctor can reset a woman's history to a baseline. No she is not pregnant, no, she has no diseases that could endanger future children, and we are good to go.

For the rest of history before this medical technology was available, the only way of knowing was to wait and make sure she is not pregnant from a previous man.

The concept of a 'slut' was (and is) a way of society stepping in to the above scenario. To shame women into being chaste before marriage to help a man choose a mate who will bear him HIS children.

Long story short, these concepts have been around so long, they are wired into our brains. If they were not, you would not feel much of anything if your wife banged another man.

[gruenberg]

Something to consider, what SW and I ended up agreeing to, when she did close the deal with each of the two guys, without me being there. I asked her to call and leave a voicemail as soon after the encounter, as she was able, a short description of the encounter and that she is okay. The benefits to her/us as follows:

1) I don't have to wonder, once I saw the phone light up I deliberately let it go to voicemail.
2) She is able to signal me surreptitiously without engaging in conversation with me, to remain more "in her moment" etc. Also avoid her worrying about what she might say to me live, in the moment, worrying about what I might say back.
3) I am able then to listen to the voicemail, hear her voice and energy, etc.
4) The voicemail can be kept forever as a recording and memory reminder/refresher.

As I said, something to consider.

Sounds like a great plan.

I found it hard to comprehend my thoughts. I've always been fairly conservative, especially when it comes to matters of the bedroom. In hindsight, I realize I missed out on a lot of fun during college because of my reservations and self-righteousness. I had a few flings, but there were many missed opportunities. Just a few weeks ago, I mainly saw Sam as a mother and homemaker, a kind girl who enjoyed baking cookies and playing board games. But she was much more than that. The conflicting emotions I feel are evident. In a strange way, it boosts my ego. I always knew she was intellectually appealing and physically attractive, but with him, she is something entirely different. There is something incredibly arousing about that discovery. I couldn't explain it, but it intoxicates me.

What you say about your wife Sam being a mother, a homemaker baking cookings and her other side. It is the same about my wife. In the world she shares with me she is slighty (say it that way) different as in the world she is sharing with her lovers. My beautiful wife is a very confident strong and tough business woman but with her lovers she is opening other pages of her books.
That is not always easy to deal with.