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DJE, I take it that once she takes a lover and they "click as you put it, she is exclusive to him and you and she know longer have sex?

I agree.

Correct.

I get the cuckold thing. But even that fire has to be tended too. If I'm reading Your Posts right, You are neglected while she is off with Her Lover. I maybe wrong but Your Her "Safety Net". Someone to fall back on when things don't work out. Or She gets bored/

IMO, that is the situation more or less with most cuckold relationships.
The female wants / needs her sexual freedom but, she also needs the stable relationship with her husband.

Having said that.. of course her husband will be neglected when she is "off with here lover".....that's a given.
After all, she can not be at two places at the same time ...... either physically or mentally.

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

I have to ask, is there a point where a cuckold gives up and walks away?

I guess it all depends on what tuns a cuckold couple on.

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

Humans are social animals. Even Cuckolds. You can leave a cuckold alone for a week, a month maybe a couple of months without interaction of their "Lover". There is a breaking point. Memories only last for so long. Then at what point do You walk and seek someone else. Because You reach a point Your no different than the person wishing they were in a cuckold relationship. Your all alone. Your J/O to dreams. You don't have a live person telling You about the sex they are having. And Your not. Your just not.

Personally, I could never understand how some want their wife to be some sort of their private porn star...... needing constant feed back from them.

There is in old adage that the most erotic sex organ is the one between you ears.

Some might find it very erotic to not get constant feed back.
However, if you find it erotic to get constant feed back, that's fine also as there is no one size fits all.

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

If I follow You correctly. Why bother with a wife or a GF? A Porno Film would do just as well. Or even a written story. But I come back to most Humans are not wired that way. They need some form of Human contact. Yes the one between the ears. But it sure helps to be able to see and touch those ears. And the body they belong to.

Evidently you do not follow me me.

I said that I do not understand how some want there wife to be their private porn star.
So, why would you think that a porno would do me just as well?

I don't know what you mean bu human contact
A husband is not in any sort of a isolation cell.

You seem seem to be saying that when ever a couple is separated for even a few weeks, they will have some sort of a mental collapse, even if they want/ agree / need to be separated for whatever reason... which happens all the time for a variety of reasons.

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

Luv It, I have to ask just how long a period of time does Your Wife spend away from You?

You seem to be confusing total abandonment with no contact, with co-habitation with a lover

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

You may have contact. Don't assume it to be that way in all cases.

DJE is not thrilled about this turn of events.

This goes back to something that has been talked about on this Form at length. You practice a certain form of Cuckolding. I assume You enjoy it and it fits. I'm glad You found something that works for You. Don't fall into the trap as other Cuckolds do. That this is the only true form of Cuckolding. Over the Years I have been with many Cuckold Couples. Who do it for many different reasons. Some for medical reason. the males never watch or go along. To the other extreme where the male dress as a woman. Suck and clean both Me and the Wife. And be locked in chastity. There are no rules to this. I laugh whenever someone tells Me Cuckolding has to be a practiced in a certain way. One way may work for some couples. But may destroy another couple.

You may have contact. Don't assume it to be that way in all cases.

DJE is not thrilled about this turn of events.

This goes back to something that has been talked about on this Form at length. You practice a certain form of Cuckolding. I assume You enjoy it and it fits. I'm glad You found something that works for You. Don't fall into the trap as other Cuckolds do. That this is the only true form of Cuckolding. Over the Years I have been with many Cuckold Couples. Who do it for many different reasons. Some for medical reason. the males never watch or go along. To the other extreme where the male dress as a woman. Suck and clean both Me and the Wife. And be locked in chastity. There are no rules to this. I laugh whenever someone tells Me Cuckolding has to be a practiced in a certain way. One way may work for some couples. But may destroy another couple.

This warrants repeating..... particularity the line where I say ......."there is no one size fits all".... as some seem to overlook me saying this this .

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

You and a lot of people.

But how does that help DJE?

We're going to be cohabitating in a few months, a friend of ours is moving over from the east coast, he visited us last year and we had a really good time. Let's just say my wife didn't get a lot of sleep. Our marriage has always been more HW lifestyle, not that I'm opposed to certain aspects of Cucking. We're going to be playing it by ear, we're not sure what dynamic we will have when he gets settled. I do know that my wife will be full if cum and probably exhausted most of the time.

I can see how the short term cohabit thing could be very hot. A few ways to work it. Perhaps wife takes a grad course in a different city and has a live-in lover there when she goes to school. She takes jobs that require travel, and has lovers on the road. She works in a different city and is only home 3 nights a week. Lots of ways to work it.

We agree. And the key phrase is I feel 'short term cohabit". Ultimately both parties have to reconnect to renew the relationship.

Do you care to define a "short term cohabit" vs a "long term"?
When dos a short term become a long term ?

Also, what exactly is the kind of communication between a wife and her husband do you advocate during her "cohabit"?

These issues seem the be at the crux of the discussion at hand.

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"My wife likes to talk to me when she's having sex. Last night she called me from Chicago."
-Rodney Dangerfield :)

I think that it would be awesome if my wife had a male friend who is single, respectful, and had a nice place. She could spend time between the two of us to get her insatiable sexual needs met. But, it takes a special individual and the right situation for something like that to work and sometimes that may never happen. At least it hasn't for us.

My idea of "Short Term". Seven days or less.

Now I never used the word communicate or communication. I said reconnect. By that I mean two people getting together. Renewing their bond in person.

Luv it I have to ask. Are You in a Cuckold Relationship now? Does Your Wife/GF take off for more than 10 days with out a word? Or I'll be gone for a while? You have no idea when She is coming home? Has She ever been gone for month or more?