NC, CCH, Svene, Open2it, binotiny, and Castaway, Thanks so very, Very much! The most important thing? We have fun with it. We're best friends and lovers and this sexual stuff is just a small part of our life. It takes a sense of humor and we are both always looking for ways to keep it from seeming too serious -- from becoming a bigger thing than what it actually is. In the end? When we're both old, feeble, and gray, swaying back in forth in our rockers on the front porch, I've got a sense that we ain't gonna be looking back with regret, but rather remembering with laughter and fondness as to our wild sex-life.
Hi Veub, not sure what you're referring to but no, my husband has never officially sucked another guy off. Don't know if what you type is cut and pasted, lifted from other stories, or what, but it is of no matter to me. I have shared a blog with another woman and I have written of multiple episodes both fictional and real but am pretty sure I've labeled them as such here. E.g. I think I posted a very raunchy story of being dominated by a group of black men on this site but labeled it as fantasy of mine. Anyhoo, if I sent something to you or posted something contrary to that, then I didn't label it correctly or it was after I'd slopped down one too many margaritas.
But, anyhoo, try not to fixate on this stuff too much -- get out there and have some hot-wifing fun, by golly!
Speaking of Hot-wifing fun, I have just been having a total freaking blast. Seriously, I don't think that I've ever been more content in my life, which has made it a bit hard to post here with any regularity. Will someone please tell me why I've avoided married men and young guys for most of my Hot-Wifing career? (Tee-hee, I just referred to "hot-wifing" as a "career!" Hey, it's a tough job, but someone's gotta do it, right?!
Anyhoo, I am loving having the Shelly/Brent and Travis combo thing going on. No, you horny perv's, I don't mean having that combo simultaneously, like a big ol' 5-some or something!!!! But Travis is young enough that he's always wanting to get together while Brent has Shelly so he's not so demanding? So it all seems to balance out better, if that makes sense? I mean I swear it's always been a feast or famine kind of thing for me when it comes to boyfriends. Either nothing but creeps and flakes or all of a sudden I've got 3 interesting guys and not enough time to keep them happy. And yes, the later situation is immensely preferable but still -- not real relaxing!! Teehee.
So let me just throw out a couple of examples of what I'm talking about. Brent and Shelly are way fun and have that requisite sense of humor that helps make this type of lifestyle go so much smoother. And Shelly has this lust for cuckolding that makes me giggle -- you can just tell that she's loving it, even if it isn't her own husband. She bought my husband a gift (after asking if it was OK with me). It's a lil' cage thingy! I've tried this before (and actually had another guy buy one for me to use with him) but the size of the dang things has always been an issue. Not much point to it if he can get all the way hard in it and cum anyway. So Shelly, bless her cuckold-loving heart, found him a lil' bitty cute one!
It's green and white and fits so tight, and why the hell am I rhyming like Dr Seuss? I guess I may be a bit giddy today -- amazing weekends will do that for me. Ehem, yes, back to the topic at hand. I'd post a pic of him in it but nobody wants to see my hubby's lil' wiener all locked up, I'm sure, tee-hee! But it fits and works. Now I've never seen denial being a big part of our naughtiness, and still don't ever imagine long-term denial being a thing for us, but I've had some fun with it using it for short-term stints. And I've learned some things about my husband that I never new -- and something that shocked me.
My husband admitted to me (after being locked up for a couple of days!) that he masturbates at least once a day! HOLY CHITLINS! Did you catch that, "at least" once a day thing? I've been married to this man for, like, forever, and did not know that. I've caught him a time or two but EVERY FREAKING DAY? Seriously? Is this a cuck thing or is it specific to just my man?
That's a rhetorical question, guess I don't really expect an answer, but sheesh, I've always said that my libido way outstripped his 'cause, given enough free time in a day, I'd be VERY happy having sex every single day. But not masturbation. I'd prefer penetration, thank you very much. **Big Grin Goes here, but I'm prolly running out of allowed emojiis!**
Now remember that part about my thinking it be important to have a sense of humor about all this? Don't take all this denial talk to seriously -- 'cause we're having fun with it, hubby included. Anyway, yeah, I find out he's been sneaking around behind my back all these years with Rosy Palm and I'm like, hey, buster, that ain't right. How we gonna fix this wrong that you've done my horny self? So we compromised. As previously mentioned, I wanna get that crazy hot sex that other guys give me, and I wanna do it on a daily basis but there is just NOT enough time in a day. He wants out of that cute cage every day. Sooooo .... I'm going out on "dates" 4 and 5 times a week and he has taken over all dinnner and grocery shopping duties. I cum home after a date to a nice hot cooked meal (he's always been a great cook but never been motivated enough to do it regularly), unlock my sexy man, take care of his needs, lock him back up for the next day and ba-boom-ba-bing, all is well in Ares-ville!
Seriously, lest you think it all a one-way thing, I can tell you some very naughty things I've done for him, when I came home, but I've gone too freaking long in this post again. Ya'll will fall asleep or just plain give up reading! So I guess that's all the update I've got for now. I hope you all are out there having fun too!