Does Interracial make it hotter?

[jacknjuls]

But there is a really big difference in being attracted to men of a certain look, and fetishizing them. I shouldn't have to explain that. Except that of course, very few people will admit to fetishizing them

I blatantly admit to fetishizing them, because her excitement/happiness is my fetish, and since she's more turned on by blacks, so am I. If she was more turned on by red heads, I would be too. That simple.

[SSQ]

But there is a really big difference in being attracted to men of a certain look, and fetishizing them. I shouldn't have to explain that. Except that of course, very few people will admit to fetishizing them

I blatantly admit to fetishizing them, because her excitement/happiness is my fetish, and since she's more turned on by blacks, so am I. If she was more turned on by red heads, I would be too. That simple.

They're people, though. They aren't just walking sex toys.

[UnderHer]

But there is a really big difference in being attracted to men of a certain look, and fetishizing them. I shouldn't have to explain that. Except that of course, very few people will admit to fetishizing them

I blatantly admit to fetishizing them, because her excitement/happiness is my fetish, and since she's more turned on by blacks, so am I. If she was more turned on by red heads, I would be too. That simple.

They're people, though. They aren't just walking sex toys.

Anything and anyone can be fetishized. Cuckolding is fetishizing the marriage itself. You could argue that's wrong too. There's the Asian fetish, the tall fetish. We like what we like. I'm not sure anyone intentionally chooses their fetish. You're drawn to it, it turns you, and it ends up being something you need sexually. I avoid judging a fetish as long as it doesn't hurt anyone (whips and chains excluded .

[SSQ]

But there is a really big difference in being attracted to men of a certain look, and fetishizing them. I shouldn't have to explain that. Except that of course, very few people will admit to fetishizing them

I blatantly admit to fetishizing them, because her excitement/happiness is my fetish, and since she's more turned on by blacks, so am I. If she was more turned on by red heads, I would be too. That simple.

They're people, though. They aren't just walking sex toys.

Anything and anyone can be fetishized. Cuckolding is fetishizing the marriage itself. You could argue that's wrong too. There's the Asian fetish, the tall fetish. We like what we like. I'm not sure anyone intentionally chooses their fetish. You're drawn to it, it turns you, and it ends up being something you need sexually. I avoid judging a fetish as long as it doesn't hurt anyone (whips and chains excluded .

Not at all. Fetishizing is objectification. I certainly hope you don't treat your marriage like that. I agree we don't choose our fetishes. But say, when you cross the line from, I like women with blonde hair, to it being all about a walking vagina with blonde hair- it crosses the line. Again, there's nothing wrong with having a type. What's wrong is not treating the people like individual human beings rather than the part of them you're fetishizing.

[desertsub]

It does for me. Back in our swinging days my wife said she would never sleep with a black man and went on to explain why. When she was about 6 years old she witnessed her mother cheating on her father with two black men. She idolized her father and later on when her parents divorced she went with him. It had nothing to do with societal taboos, the country she is from has a lot higher black to non-black ratios and the interracial taboos we have here weren't as predominant like they are here. True to her word, she never had sex with a black man during our swinging phase and the first time she cuckolded me. When she started back cuckolding after the kids were all moved out the second guy she cucked me with was black! Since then more than half of the men she has been with are black. She says that for her the skin color has nothing to do with it, nor do the interracial taboos. She tells me that every black guy she has been with has had a bigger dick than me and could fuck a lot longer. I love seeing a black guy sink his cock into her, knowing that he is going to fuck her better than I could!

Her daughter has been black only for many years now and that may be why my wife relented and fucked her first black guy. She knows that her mother dominates me but my wife says she doesn't know anything about her cuckolding me. I'm not so sure about that though. A couple of years ago, well after my wife started fucking black guys, her daughter told her that she should try sex with a black guy, she would love it! I asked my wife, "Does she know you cuckold me?" and she said "I've never told her that I do that, only that I am in charge in our relationship." If my stepdaughter doesn't know then I would have to say that she has strong suspicions. That's 3 generations of women who are/were into fucking black men!

[4herpleasure89]

It does for us.

[Bound2bmine]

It was for me and the x-wife back then. When I asked and she said yes the black thing is real I knew for sure.

[cobbhotwifecouple]

YES, the contrast of seeing my wife sucking and fucking a BIG black cock is amazing. She only plays with black men and we only watch BBC porn...it is just our thing.

[lonecuck]

It's definitely hotter for cuckolds who are latent homosexuals with a thing for black guys. As soon as I hear something like "I'd love to see my wife with a black guy" I know the fantasy is more about his pleasure than hers. Personally, I'd never bring race into it. The idea of my wife getting laid by someone else was always exciting enough. I never imagined it was about my taste in men, but hers.

[glowman99]

Yes....My wife has always had a strong preference for black men. But never acted on it until after we met. I did encourage her to do so tho. It certainly does make it hotter.

[massage4wife]

Little Black Cock or Little White Cock just doesn’t sound the same does it.

[isinlarsa]

My wife has always been an equal opportunity fuck. She's had Asians, Africans, Middle Eastern, Europeans, and Americans of various race and ethnicity, including Afro-Americans. Her preference is for dark-skinned men, especially black men. She is a pale-skinned blonde, and it is the skin contrast that intrigues her, plus a bit of the taboo that still exists. Before I met her, I never thought about the race of the man fucking my woman; but now I find it an extreme turn-on that black cocks are going into her sweet, white married pussy. As a visual, the sight of her white body covered by a black man's is very erotic.

For their part, black men seem attracted to her. They appear comfortable approaching her, even though she doesn't seek them out. However, when they make the first move, she is very receptive. It turns me on to watch her flirt.

[CuckedDude]

But there is a really big difference in being attracted to men of a certain look, and fetishizing them. I shouldn't have to explain that. Except that of course, very few people will admit to fetishizing them

I blatantly admit to fetishizing them, because her excitement/happiness is my fetish, and since she's more turned on by blacks, so am I. If she was more turned on by red heads, I would be too. That simple.

I've known black guys who obsess and fetishize "white" I mean they *loved* pure
white Irish chicks the whiter the better ( no Albinos plz ) wouldn't allow their woman
to go in the sun without a protective parasol and sunblock 1000 ........I can dig it

[2inUPMichigan]

Not for me - it really doesn't matter much what the race of the man is.
A hot man is a hot man

[myeasywife]

We live in one of the whitest states in the nation, and as a consequence she has had only one black partner. He lived a 6 hour drive away so we met at a motel halfway. I can't really say that it was his race that made it hotter for both her and I. There was no "love making" or "having sex". He just plain fucked her like a $2.00 whore....... three times. That was what we wanted and that was what he wanted. Just raw down and dirty sex. I think that was what made it more erotic.... not his race. She did say however, that he gave her some of the best fucking she's ever had. And trust me here...... a whole lot of men have spent time between her legs, and I've watched many of them. It's my opinion that watching him fuck her was the hottest I've ever seen.

[insertomit]

I didn't think it would turn me on more. I am not very old and have had friends and colleagues of all races, genders, and ages. My wife is from a foreign country where it is rare to even see white people. After she started cuckolding me with my encouragement she met a black guy through a dating app. When she dressed up to go to dinner with him the cuckold anst was in full swing to me. The thought of losing my wife to a black man almost drove me over the edge and it made me rexamine my racial biases.

About 6 months ago my wife started a new job and one of her superiors is a black man. She has told me he flirts with her during work and I witnessed some of that at a BBQ party. I have encouraged her to pursue that relationship if she wanted but she is afraid it would be awkward since she does see him at work and as a patient. Her last relationship kinda fizzled out so we both will need something longer term than the ONS she has every once in a while.

[zorro]

R has never made much of FBs who are black. She had had many before us and even came close to being engaged to one. I was at first uneasy because I had bought into stereotypes of black men as angry and dangerous. But I have learned from R and from our experience with their joining us in bed that it is the quality of the man that counts, not the skin color. Some have had sizable cocks but so have other guys, so there is nothing unique there. And as long as the cock is big enough, size doesn't seem to have much effect on R.

What we have found with black guys is that they can be a whole lot more fun in bed. They have usually been distinctly comfortable with another naked male in the bed and just know how to make the whole experience more playful. So at this time I am perhaps more into having black men than others join us, more so than R is.

As far as racial differences, for both of us we enjoy having sex with a variety of people from different racial and ethnic backgrounds of all types. Exoticism and variety simply intensify the experience, whether it is with males or females.

At the same time, we have found that the best encounters have been with people where there is less social distance between us and them. But that is also true within racial groups and not at all having to do with skin color.

[insertomit]

A different perspective, on just one narrow aspect of being in a "interracial" relationship. Its all about the lens the viewer is looking through.
http://www.ourhotwives.org/forum/viewto ... 51#p942078

I read this when you posted it and I have the same experience with my wife. It is better now but in the past Chinese men would come up to me and say things to me about being with one of their girls. Even some women were prejudiced and would tell my wife all foreigners cheat on their wives. If only they knew!

[bltn1966]

Here is a twist for you. Me and my wife are an interracial couple. I’m black and she’s Latina. Not only am I black, I’m black and blessed if you know what I’m sayin. When we started talking about opening our marriage my wife said she was curious about white guys. WTF?!? So I reminded her of the saying “once you go black....”. Well that was her curiosity and that’s what got her to be a HW.

Funny thing is the first 3 white guys were fucking terrible. And I mean that literally. You white guys would’ve been ashamed of those duds. The first three guys struck out. So that was three strikes right? Well somehow my wife let another white guy come up to bat. And that pinch hitter swung for the fences and hit a fucking home run.

[hando]

I checked yes, but that's me more than my wife. I had a blonde girlfriend back when I was a teenager, that couldn't talk about anything but how she wanted to fuck a black guy. Her brother used to tease the shit out of me about his sister fucking black men behind my back, and I never really knew for sure what she was doing. Eventually, she cuckolded me and got pregnant by a white guy after knowing him for only 2 or 3 days, even though she hadn't fucked me yet. Between her brother's teasing, her wanting BBC, and cuckolding me, I became interested in porn with black men doing blondes.

Not long after I was cuckolded, I found a Japanese girlfriend who cuckolded me with several men, including her Latino boss, and we lived together for about 4 years. She had sex with some black men before she met me, but never said much about it. At first, I was kind of amazed that I was in an interracial affair, but it soon became normal for both of us. We would get stares out in public, which may have been her super hot looks more than the interracial coupling, and she had a cousin who was continually telling her she should marry a Japanese man. We laughed and made fun of her cousin, calling him racist Stan when ever we spoke of him, and we ignored the stares.

Eventually, the girlfriend that originally cuckolded me finally found herself a BBC. I was really happy for her, since she'd wanted one for so long. I was also lucky enough to be eating her 2 days after taking her first BBC, while she told me all about him. I promised her I would find her more black men from the nearby Marine base, but she never took me up on the offer.

The bottom line for me is that interracial sex isn't anything special, except at first. It's the same thing as usual after only a little time. I still enjoy black men with blonde women in porn, all because of the lady that cuckolded me when I was 19.

[Ben45mwm]

My wife is into size first, color second. She does discriminate on cock size, and has walked out on guys that lied about their johnsons.

It just kind of works out that most of the guys she plays with are black.

[BentleyCuckold]

my wife prefer white hung man but i love black cock more then everything so i had to convince her, but there is not many where we live, mostly white but we fly a lot and two weeks ago in Germany we went to so many sex parties and clubs and we had a minimum of 3 different man each day most of them ware BBC but not only, we met white couples too but i'm pussy free so no sex with any woman
for me seeing her with blacks are much sexier because with a small penis like mine i feel much more beta with black guys

[BlkCommander1980]

It's a matter of preference. Some like blondes. some are into butts, some like 'em tall.... we all have our own desires. We happen to LOVE black guys.

Very well stated!

[Cuck4Life]

One of my exwife fantasies was to have sex with a black guy. Not sure if she ever did. My wife and I now have been in a cuck/hw relationship for years and shes never said anything one way or the other. We visit clothing optional resorts all over the southeast and shes flirted and danced with black guys but nothing have even happened. With her its all about the guy and I don't think color would matter.

[txhwhubby]

My wife dated a black guy while she was married to her ex. She says he tried being controlling, that ended it. She won't be controlled or bossed around. He didn't respect boundaries, tried to coerce her into doing things she don't like. And she says the whole black guys are bigger thing is a myth. She says dating him was a mistake that she won't repeat.