Should a hotwife remove her wedding rings POLL

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Should a Hotwife remove her wedding rings when she dates?

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Unread post by isinlarsa » Tue Sep 13, 2016 5:28 am

Every man my wife dated knew she was a married woman. I think part of her allure for them was that she was a married woman. So her wearing her wedding rings added to his attraction to her. She liked the idea that these men wanted her as a married woman. I loved the idea that my wife was sexually attractive to other men, and that her body would give them pleasure, but that she was still married to me. So for all three of us it was a win-win-win situation.

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Unread post by BC100000 » Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:16 am

Maine bull here. Love looking down and seeing the light glint off that highly symbolic ring on her little hand as it's wrapped around my thick, rigid shaft...

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Unread post by SunAngel » Wed Feb 21, 2018 1:37 am

My wife always wears her wedding ring. It's really part of the fun and as others have mentioned, other men find it exciting to fuck another man's wife. For me personally, I love seeing her hand with wedding ring wrapped around a large cock. It's not quite the same for me without the ring.

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Unread post by bradisalpha » Wed Feb 21, 2018 2:39 am

No. I want to see that I am fucking another man’s wife. And I want the cuckold to be reminded constantly that I am fucking his wife. That is what a hot wife/cuckold relationship is all about !!

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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Wed Feb 21, 2018 3:52 am

My wedding ring is a symbol of my love for and commitment to my husband. There is no reason to remove it while having sex with other men. Also, as stated by others here, the men often like being reminded that they are fucking another man's wife.
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Unread post by Naughty Nikki » Sat Feb 24, 2018 10:40 pm

I wear my ring during the normal course of my day, around people who know me. The ring absolutely comes off when I go out (usually put it on hubby's St. Christopher's chain for safe keeping). I don't pull all the time, even less so now that we have a daughter. But sometimes we want the rush of someone new. Honestly, if you leave it on and go pulling at clubs, eateries, beaches, etc then you're severely limiting the type of guy who is going to hit on you, mostly just players. In my experience players don't always make the best lovers.

I don't mind explaining my marriage if it comes up but I think it just complicates a very simple situation. Yes my heart is taken but my pussy is very available. Explaining that often detracts from the moment and burdens "good guys" into a white knight mindset. If I am into them and want another date I fill them in afterwards and impress upon them that I am only looking for sex and largely on my terms...time, location, type.

I have never had someone refuse a second encounter because I was married. I have had guys move on from an initial encounter when they noticed the ring. Look, I can literally ride any cock I choose. So why would I limit the men who are going to show interest in me because they respect a social standard that in this case doesn't apply? Besides I kinda like the idea of my ring around hubby's neck while I grind my ass into some stud on a dance floor. I usually think about that right before I encourage heavy groping...and at that point everyone knows where this dance is leading.

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Unread post by subguy80 » Sun Feb 25, 2018 2:17 am

I'm turned on by visual images. Someone has already commented on the fact that seeing your wife's wedding ring with another man's cum on it is an incredible visual turn on. This is soooo true for me. Also, I love holding her wedding ring-hand and caressing it while she's getting fucked by her lover.

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Unread post by jpapjp » Sun Feb 25, 2018 9:04 am

Wow! Poll was even more decisive than I had expected. Cool!!!

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Unread post by SailorGuy » Mon Feb 26, 2018 4:07 pm

I voted "no" and it used to be true to our situation. When my wife first became a hotwife she of course left her rings on her finger; it was erotic as hell to think of her left hand wrapped around her lover's huge cock, her rings actually touching het lover's cock. She even told me when she was giving him a blowjob and his load was so huge she couldn't swallow it all before it ran back out of her mouth and oozed over her hand and rings. She then licked his cum off of her rings - wow!
That was when she was a hotwife.
But now she has been with this guy for over 15 years and she decided to take her rings off as a symbol of her growing independence. She still wants to stay married to me, but we are done being lovers; she's her own woman now. And I am happy to be her servant. I am now her cuckolded husband. We went from hotwifing to cuckolding, and we both love it. I admire the fuck out of her. I was fortunate to have had my years as her lover, but she has moved on in that department. Strangely I have never loved her more!

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Unread post by petey boy » Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:33 am

When she first began having sex with him she left her ring on. Later when both she and i became his submissive we both removed our gold bands.
He wears both rings on a chain around his neck with the ring of another woman he sees.

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Unread post by TonyF25 » Fri Apr 27, 2018 5:43 am

No matter what ,she still is your wife, so she should wear the ring. It might even be a turn on to her liver , espeically if the lover is single to know hes using someones wife.

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Unread post by Passion4sharingamy » Sat Apr 28, 2018 5:02 am

Adults only: For years, I always felt right about wearing my wedding ring when playing with other men friends because Jim and I agreed that our “vows” included us wanting what fulfills both of our needs, even temporary sexual needs, with an unconditional love for each other. It seems to turn us both on when I wear it on dates—I think the “taboo” aspect is powerful. Wearing it communicates that I want to remain in a long-term relationship with my husband even though I might enjoy the temporary excitement being intimate with another man. However, there is a sort of "rush" that comes when I don't wear it too, so it has been experimental for Jim and I. I always tell a man that I am married, when appropriate, but that my husband likes me to date other men and is ok with it. On my layover flight attendant trips, I once even called my husband so he could talk with a new man friend of mine while we were at dinner to assure my date that we really had an open, hotwife type of marriage, what the rules were, etc. My date was a bit shocked but it actually intrigued him and turned him on too. Jim and I also like the term of another man being my "surrogate husband" for the night. Amy
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Unread post by BC100000 » Tue Sep 25, 2018 6:30 am

HotSeducer wrote:Absolutely NOT! Never remove your wedding ring. From the day I was married I wear my engagemnet ring on my left hand ring finger and we bought my wedding band smaller to fit on my pinky finger of the same hand. It is very sexy looking and it is a good ice breaker in a setting where a man will ask if I am married or not because they see a band but it is as they assume on the wrong finger. To me it is my HOTWIFE symbol and lets men know that I am available.
Love that approach!
I get the distinct impression that HotSeducer is a very HOT hotwife!

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Unread post by 60dCommon » Tue Sep 25, 2018 10:50 am

My wife never wore a wedding ring, ever, even before she began cucking me. We loved each other very much, and were very committed to each other as our primary partners, but my wife enjoyed being perceived as her own person, including in her sex life. Some of her lovers knew she was married because they knew me (I didn't know which of our friends she was fucking, only that she was), but I know some others assumed she was single. I got the sense that she didn't see her marital status as figuring into it much.

As a "bull", I likewise preferred not to be reminded of my lover's husband when I was with her. Sure, there were moments when looking down on a woman's mouth on my cock, her hand wrapped around my shaft, ring glinting, when it made me groan. But, in general, I just wanted to be lost in her body without being reminded of our lives outside the bedroom. I got the sense my wife was similar.
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Unread post by isinlarsa » Tue Sep 25, 2018 11:15 am

60dCommon wrote:My wife never wore a wedding ring, ever, even before she began cucking me. We loved each other very much, and were very committed to each other as our primary partners, but my wife enjoyed being perceived as her own person, including in her sex life. Some of her lovers knew she was married because they knew me (I didn't know which of our friends she was fucking, only that she was), but I know some others assumed she was single. I got the sense that she didn't see her marital status as figuring into it much.

As a "bull", I likewise preferred not to be reminded of my lover's husband when I was with her. Sure, there were moments when looking down on a woman's mouth on my cock, her hand wrapped around my shaft, ring glinting, when it made me groan. But, in general, I just wanted to be lost in her body without being reminded of our lives outside the bedroom. I got the sense my wife was similar.

I think it would be intriguing to know that friends of mine were fucking my wife, but not knowing which of them. It would keep me hot trying to figure out if a glance between my wife and a friend had extra meaning. Is this a game you and your wife play?

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Unread post by 60dCommon » Tue Sep 25, 2018 4:13 pm

isinlarsa wrote: I think it would be intriguing to know that friends of mine were fucking my wife, but not knowing which of them. It would keep me hot trying to figure out if a glance between my wife and a friend had extra meaning. Is this a game you and your wife play?
Yeah, for sure it was a mindfuck not knowing who among the guys at a cook-out or whatever were getting what I wasn't. Her open cucking began one evening when she emerged from the bedroom looking extra sexy and put together. When I asked her what was up, she said she had a date. I asked if I knew him, and she said yes, but refused to say more (I feel like I wrote about this in some thread or another at some point). She'd been cucking me semi-openly for a year or so already - condom wrappers left carelessly laying on the bedroom floor, etc., but I was completely in the dark about her lovers' identities. Learning that I was outed as a cuck was a rush.

For her, I suppose it was a game. I believe it provided an extra thrill for her to express her control over me in that way. Between the two of us it played out as a very subtle power struggle. She knew I wanted to know more, and withholding that information enhanced the sense of power she wanted to feel over me. I, on the other hand had to struggle with wanting to be obedient and supportive while desperately needing to know who. Yeah, it could be intense, but that's what she wanted - what we both wanted.
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Unread post by richkathy96003 » Tue Sep 25, 2018 4:35 pm

I really don’t care as long as she is having great time and cumming all night long, or morning, or lunch....you know what I am saying.

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Unread post by Bartleby » Tue Sep 25, 2018 4:46 pm

Big NO for me. My wife does not wear a wedding ring, but I assume the question is about the sentiment. The lovers knowing that the woman they are fucking is partnered is a big part of the kink for me. I insist that my wife tells her lovers that I approve of her fucking around.

I would think that the sexually strong men also prefer to fuck partnered women. It must be great to feel that a woman prefers you over her husband.

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Unread post by dirtydog69 » Wed Sep 26, 2018 11:19 am

She never takes her ring off. I love seeing it as she wraps her fingers around her lovers big cocks and giving me a slutty grin.

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Unread post by fkmywfxn » Sat Sep 29, 2018 2:33 pm

Knowing that she is married and that he is fucking another man's wife is extremely sexy.

We played a game with one of her favorites. I would take off my wedding ring and lay it on the nightstand as she laid there waiting for her lover to get undressed. Before he entered her she would put the ring on his finger and they would fuck as husband and wife.

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Unread post by iwantabadgirl » Tue Oct 23, 2018 3:09 pm

This is such an interesting topic. Like a small minority, I think it could be fun to play both ways and see what feels right, how things feel different, how men are different in approaching a woman they know is married, etc. I think sex is fascinating to play with. I also think emotional risk is fun. Think of how it feels to a woman to know she can be available when she likes. If I had the right wife, I would really enjoy the risks and chance taking. Little crushes and intriguing experiences can be so hot. So my real answer is "sometimes" off and "sometimes on." Always mine, but not all mine all the time.

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Unread post by iwantabadgirl » Tue Oct 23, 2018 3:11 pm

This is such an interesting topic. Like a small minority, I think it could be fun to play both ways and see what feels right, how things feel different, how men are different in approaching a woman they know is married, etc. I think sex is fascinating to play with. I also think emotional risk is fun. Think of how it feels to a woman to know she can be available when she likes. If I had the right wife, I would really enjoy the risks and chance taking. Little crushes and intriguing experiences can be so hot. So my real answer is "sometimes" off and "sometimes on." Always mine, but not all mine all the time.

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Unread post by Suitandtiebull » Fri Oct 26, 2018 7:41 am

Bull's perspective--the wedding ring is one of the significant turn-ons for me, and all it represents. At times couples/wives have even had me purposefully cum on it just for the symbolism...

Without the ring I'm just fucking another single girl.

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Unread post by BC100000 » Tue Jan 01, 2019 6:02 pm

HotSeducer wrote:Absolutely NOT! Never remove your wedding ring. From the day I was married I wear my engagemnet ring on my left hand ring finger and we bought my wedding band smaller to fit on my pinky finger of the same hand. It is very sexy looking and it is a good ice breaker in a setting where a man will ask if I am married or not because they see a band but it is as they assume on the wrong finger. To me it is my HOTWIFE symbol and lets men know that I am available.
Very hot!
I'd love to bump into you and ask about your rings...
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Unread post by bradisalpha » Wed Jan 02, 2019 6:42 am

Suitandtiebull wrote:Bull's perspective--the wedding ring is one of the significant turn-ons for me, and all it represents. At times couples/wives have even had me purposefully cum on it just for the symbolism...

Without the ring I'm just fucking another single girl.
Agreed !!

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