Is masturbation your only sexual release?

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How important is masturbation to you as a cuckold?

It is my only sexual release and I have to do it myself
213
28%
It is my only sexual release but my wife also does it for me
70
9%
I do myself it in anticipation of my wife seeing her lover
119
16%
I do it myself watching my wife and lover
110
14%
I do it myself while sucking my wife's lover's cock
47
6%
I do it in addition to sexual intercourse with my wife/partner
206
27%
 
Total votes: 765

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Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Welshcouple » Thu Apr 12, 2012 5:46 am

Well, it is for Tim - but what about you other guys?
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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by adada64 » Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:33 am

my wife like sometime make me cum in my chastety device does that count in "my wife does it for me"

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by cb3000 » Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:26 pm

Like the previous poster my Wife has been keeping me locked all the time the past three years only allowing a release when she deems I've earned it. This often means I only get one release a month, soI've become a very quick shooter. Often if its been about a month for me she can make ejaculate while I'm orally pleasing her by just pulling and squeezing my balls. When that happens she doesn't even unlock me and because there is no penile stimulation I only have an abbreviated ejaculation.
Often when she does unlock me and strokes me for awhile I lose control, but as soon as the first squirt comes out she squeezes it off stopping it. Again I only recieve an abbreviated ejaculation.
Either way I'm left with my need and desire for a complete ejaculation intact and locked back up again. By only allowing me an abbreviated ejaculation she insures that remain focused on her, subservient and attentive still wantsing a release.
Discovering that keeping me this way is to her best advantage has led to less and less intercourse. :oops:

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by minuteboy » Thu Apr 12, 2012 6:49 pm

Masturbation isn't my only sexual release but it almost is. Starting in the fall of last year, I have only had intercourse with my wife 4 times. Most of the time, I either do it myself with her present or while watching her and her lover. On ocassion she does it for me, but thats not very often. The 4 times we had intercourse it was because her lover had not been by in a while. So I guess you could say I was better than nothing. We both prefer her lover coming by more often, everyone is happier that way.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by CuckedIn67 » Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:55 am

I voted in the pole but it needed at least one added selection. I do masturbate quite often without any help from my wife. I still have sex with her but it is rare, maybe once every 3 months or so. The added selection would reflect that....I masturbate by myself to get satisfaction but have some sex with wife.

She never initiates the sex which bothers me a great deal. So, I have distanced myself from beginning sex play to elevate her desire, minimize her releases to give her more incentive with lovers.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by hando » Fri Apr 13, 2012 7:36 am

DarlasHub wrote: I do masturbate quite often without any help from my wife. I still have sex with her but it is rare, maybe once every 3 months or so. The added selection would reflect that....I masturbate by myself to get satisfaction but have some sex with wife.

She never initiates the sex which bothers me a great deal.
This is exactly the same situation I'm in, except sex is only once every 6 months or so. I masturbate about 3 times a week with supervision, but could do more if I wanted.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Proudhubby » Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:49 pm

Since my wife and I do not live a 24/7 hotwife / cuckold lifestyle but do indulge ourselves when the opportunity presents itself, masturbation is certainly important but it is not my only sexual release. At the culmination of one of our sessions with our bull, he will usually instruct my wife to suck my cock and swallow my cum as he watches and take photos with our camera. Additionally, although I no longer fuck my wife's pussy, she is cognizant of my sexual needs and will often jerk me off, or blow me until I cum.

That being said, as far as masturbation goes, I always am stroking myself in anticipation of my wife seeing her bull, especially after we have set up a playdate, and on the day of the playdate where I am helping my wife to prepare for meeting up with her bull to get fucked. If my wife meets him alone, and they wind up at a short-stay motel or at his house, I sit at home in wild anticipation, jerking myself off while going wild wondering what they are doing. If I am present and watching my wife getting fucked, I am most assuredly in some comfortable spot taking photos with the camera in one hand while stroking my cock with the other. And finally, although not all of the time but on those occasions that my wife suggests that I share cocksucking duties with her and finds me sucking her bull's cock to get him ready for her, I find myself jerking off quite intensively. And oh yes, I am always jerking-off as I lick her bull's creampie out of her freshly fucked pussy!
When you're finished fucking my wife, could you please leave her a nice CREAMPIE? She loves to serve me a warm and fresh dessert...!

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by atlcuckcpl » Mon Apr 16, 2012 4:16 am

DarlasHub wrote:I voted in the pole but it needed at least one added selection. I do masturbate quite often without any help from my wife. I still have sex with her but it is rare, maybe once every 3 months or so. The added selection would reflect that....I masturbate by myself to get satisfaction but have some sex with wife.

She never initiates the sex which bothers me a great deal. So, I have distanced myself from beginning sex play to elevate her desire, minimize her releases to give her more incentive with lovers.
My situation is very similar. I'm occasionally allowed to penetrate her about once every three months or so but never allowed to cum in her. Her purpose is wanting me to remember the feeling and what I can no longer have. Any other type of release is strictly off limits and reserved for her boyfriend. Oral, anal and regular sex are strictly off limits unless her BF tells her he wants her to do it while he watches. I was allowed normal sex with her once, and anal sex with her once while wearing a condom with him watching, but wasn't allowed to cum.

Ordinarily I do both her and him orally before, during and cleanup after. He enjoys having me service him sexually while he kisses my wife, or while she watches. She enjoys finishing me by hand, having me kneel on the bed and stroking my dick from behind while he watches.

She has mentioned on a few occasions that she's to the point where if I came in her, she said she'd feel like she was cheating on him. There was one memorable afternoon where she was all dolled up and waiting for him...I managed to talk her into letting me put my dick in her briefly. When he arrived, she felt guilty and told him. So he soundly spanked her during sex to punish her (although he has gotten her into loving being spanked during sex...lol)

She generally sees him about once a week, and I'm usually allowed to watch. But she does like "private" time with her, and occasionally likes to make love to her as well. Forgot to mention, she started dating him last August, so I haven't had "sex" with her in over 9 months.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Paul_Pines » Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:01 am

I get a mercy fuck once a year, on our anniversary. Otherwise, it's just my hand. Sally finds sexual fulfillment in her lover's arms.

It's not for everyone, but it works for us.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by halfhardcuck » Wed May 09, 2012 1:19 am

Yes, jacking off is the most I get, though she occasionally gives me a handjob. Of course I lick her pussy, her asshole (she loves this!) and use fingers and dildos on her. She enjoys all of these. She has not had sex with anyone else in a long time, but she has had sex with other men, and enjoyed it every time-- much more than she ever enjoyed it with me, she insists! It is going on 4 years now since I have had penetrative sex, and she has made it clear that this will continue that most likely I will NEVER have real sex again, because she doesn't enjoy it with me, and there is no question of me doing it with anyone else, obviously. I really like it like this!!!

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by halfhardcuck » Wed May 09, 2012 1:21 am

PS, I should add-- she never gives me blowjobs, either. She says my dick is "uninspiring" and "boring" so she does not have the slightest desire to suck it, though she ALWAYS sucks off her lovers-- in each case, she gave them a blowjob and swallowed their cum before they had sex. When she flirts with someone online (she was for a long time last year), she invariably tells him how much she wants to suck his cock. She never even THINKS about doing that to me! But as I say, we are both very happy with this arrangement. TO me, it feels really natural and RIGHT.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Texman2045 » Wed May 09, 2012 10:07 am

I guess I may be a bit more fortunate than some in that my beloved
usually just denies me sex when she's starting up with a new
boyfriend, or seeing one of her faves she hasn't been with
in a while. For me, these stretches of no sex last two to
three weeks, and if I'm lucky and she's feeling kind, I'll
get one or two of my wife's great hand jobs.
Otherwise, it's jerking off until she decides to come back to
me to 'reclaim' her...and even then I know she's being better
serviced by a boyfriend.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by ChasteHusband62 » Sun Nov 02, 2014 10:25 am

Now days, masturbation is my only sexual outlet. When my wife and I started cuckolding, it wasn't like that, but over time, as my wife and I found more and more guys with big dicks, she only wanted those; and after a while, I decided that I'd stay out of the fucking-my-wife-thing altogether! Since then, I've come to enjoy the curious frustration I feel in no longer fucking my wife (while others do)! I have become an exclusive "edging" masturbator, however, and I find this a perfect solution for my cuckold status! Of course, I'm bisexual, and doing Clean Ups is another very nice compensation for no longer fucking my wife!!!

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by pancuckold » Mon Nov 03, 2014 1:51 am

I want a lot more sex play than X and so I masturbate a few times a week and we have a sex date every weekend.

When we fuck I finish myself more often than not as she usually has had enough stimulation after 1-1/2 - two hours of sex. When our schedules ease up we have sex a couple of times a week, looking forward to either that this winter or possibly her finding another lover.

Y has been out of my picture for a while because she's been swamped with work and I've also been looking for a Z, hopefully a girl who'll have time for a weekly fuck also.

Meantime I've been restricting orgasm / ejaculation so masturbating about daily but only ejaculate if she insists, and experimenting with orgasm sans ejaculation or edging, no orgasm. When I do the latter I usually stop oncoming orgasm about 5 times in a row.
she's been with 54+ guys, 16 since we've been involved.
My numbers are about half of hers, I'm not jealous, maybe a bit envious

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by ChasteHusband62 » Mon Nov 03, 2014 4:02 am

I find it very interesting that I am by no means the only guy here that has found that strangely satisfying realm of no longer fucking their own wife. I haven't fucked my wife in years! Even before becoming a cuckold, our sex life was pretty much over with. I have a five inch cock, and I have always known it wasn't exactly exciting for my wife. She never complained, but I knew she was unimpressed by it. We just didn't talk about it. I fathered a child with her with my dick, but that was about the extent of it. Dildos became something she liked (really BIG ones!), but later she said these weren't "real" enough. Now that she has fucked a number of guys with much larger cocks, she's happier. She much prefers a "living, flesh and blood" cock, to either a small one (like mine), or a silicone one!!

My wife doesn't impose any limitations on me when it comes to jacking off. I could do it every day if I wanted to; but, over the last few years, I have become a passionate devote' of "edging" masturbation. This has evolved into, basically, one orgasm ever couple of weeks, or even every month. I do this (as I have told my wife) out of a desire to "prove" to her that I am absolutely, and totally devoted to her in all things. I wouldn't consider fucking another woman, even if one begged me to. The more of a hot wife she has become (the more of a "slut"), the MORE I do this sort of orgasm self denial practice. I love my wife without question. The fact that she's been out fucking other guys, instead of me, hasn't lessened this at all. If anything, my genuine love for her has expanded in proportion to her extra-marital encounters!

Typically, I would have once said that the more orgasms the better, but now as a cuckold, I find that "less is more!" It's a matter of QUALITY rather than QUANTITY.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Captaintiny » Mon Nov 03, 2014 3:39 pm

My wife 99% of the time wants nothing to do with my dick. Handjobs and blowjobs are non-existent, she gets grossed out at the thought of sucking my cock...more or less because it's small and doesn't do much for her, it's 4.5 when fully hard, if I can get it hard.

She doesn't like fucking me simply for the fact it's going to be 2 minutes of no pleasure with a mess to clean up afterwards. She could care less what happens with "the thing in between my legs" as she's told me.

Just makes me want her more ofc... I am her bitch, bow to her desires and wouldn't want it any other way. Now...if I could just make it a lil smaller for a little further humiliation factor. :)

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by 1Pumpndump » Tue Nov 04, 2014 6:47 pm

I am similar to many of you. I masturbate every night, either looking at videos I have filmed(or she brought the camera when I wasn't allowed), or Cuckold Captions/Cuckold photos I've printed from the internet(never buy Porno mags or DVD's anymore, boring).
If I'm lucky, a couple of nights a week, my wife will "let" me give her a full-body massage, and sometimes, if I'm really lucky, fuck her(but this is usually only if she is actively being screwed by some Stud and is constantly horny), otherwise, after the looong massage, she will lightly stroke my hardon(no pressure/squeezing), and FLICK my sensitive dickhead, until I can't help it, and jerk off in front of her, while she tells me how frustrated she is.
I used to get blowjobs from her, back in the day, but she would never swallow. Nowadays, she refuses to give me blowjobs, saying that that is what she does with REAL MEN, and usually they will blow a load on her face!
With two guys, I was allowed to lick her face clean, but mostly not.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by littledicky34 » Tue Nov 04, 2014 8:49 pm

Hi, my name is little dicky, and i am a very submissive cuckold to my wife/mistress. Like many of you i masturbate most of the time for sexual release. i am no longer allowed to fuck my wife, or have any intimate contact with her unless she demands i eat her pussy. Which i love to do whether or not it's filled with her lover's cum. But, masturbation is not my only form of release. Even before i became a cuckold (when i was allowed to fuck my wife) i had difficulty cumming unless she was slapping my balls. Once i became a cuckold my wife began to "train" me to cum while she "spanked" my cock and balls without any other physical contact! Now, it is her favorite "parlor trick" for entertaining her guests. When she is ready to perform her trick i am called into the room. i am undressed by her or one of her friends, male or female. i have a very small package, 2" soft, 4" hard, but it does get very hard. i am then verbally humiliated by one and all. i then lie down with a pillow under my ass, my legs spread wide, and my knees bent - giving my wife an easy target. My wife begins to slap my cock and balls rhythmically, beginning slow and light, and then progressively getting faster and harder until she is whacking my cock and balls resoundingly and very rapidly. Yes, it hurts like hell, sometimes so much i can hardly breathe, but the more it hurts the more aroused i become until i explode all over the place! It takes about ten minutes, and there is usually applause at the end. My wife gets the kudos, of course, but sometimes some of the women and occasionally a man or two will come over and gently fondle my aching parts. i remain naked for the rest of the night until i am dismissed and sent to bed. little dicky

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by hando » Thu Mar 26, 2015 6:43 am

hando wrote:
DarlasHub wrote: I do masturbate quite often without any help from my wife. I still have sex with her but it is rare, maybe once every 3 months or so. The added selection would reflect that....I masturbate by myself to get satisfaction but have some sex with wife.

She never initiates the sex which bothers me a great deal.
This is exactly the same situation I'm in, except sex is only once every 6 months or so. I masturbate about 3 times a week with supervision, but could do more if I wanted.
Just a little update since I posted this note, my wife has scaled fucking me back to about once every 10 months or so. She had sex with me in June 2014, where I lasted two strokes before cumming, our first fuck since September 2013. Our last attempt at sex was in November, if you could call it that, ended when I lost my erection immediately upon entry. There's no chance of sex now, so I'm masturbating about 6 to 7 times a week.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by mywife4blkncolorado » Thu Mar 26, 2015 6:58 am

CuckedIn67 wrote:I voted in the pole but it needed at least one added selection. I do masturbate quite often without any help from my wife. I still have sex with her but it is rare, maybe once every 3 months or so. The added selection would reflect that....I masturbate by myself to get satisfaction but have some sex with wife.

She never initiates the sex which bothers me a great deal. So, I have distanced myself from beginning sex play to elevate her desire, minimize her releases to give her more incentive with lovers.
I'm almost exactly the same way, I distance myself from my wife so she wants to fuck her BBC more often. I jack off mostly watching vids of them, cuz when they fuck, I'm in a cock cage and running the camera and camcorder and help him fuck her. I fuck her about 3 times a year and I'm ok with it all, I just love her being her Black guys slut.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by wifey whipped » Mon Mar 30, 2015 11:58 pm

I still fuck wifey, but I wish she wouldn't let me.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by gulfcpl » Tue Mar 31, 2015 4:44 am

About the only time we have "sex" is after she is finished with her lover and then it is a matter of me only masturbating while she tells me how good he felt. She is ususlly using her vibrator while recalling her experience. When she has cum a few more times, she will tell me when I can cum. She tells me to pull on my little dick and make it cum and laughs when I do.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by bradisalpha » Tue May 02, 2017 6:08 am

I believe a cuck should be key to masturbating.. But controlled.. When, where and how. That offers denial with calculated release... Sometimes with certain conditions, situations or tasks before his release. It is partial denial but gives him incentive and goals to reach.. Not to mention the control it has over him !!

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Sc2419 » Tue May 02, 2017 6:21 am

I haven't fucked my wife in 6 months, so it's all mastrubation for me with no help from here, she doesn't like to give hand jobs or blow jobs but she does like getting fucked by a man, but she likes women more, so I love the denial and serving her otherwise, I do get to perform oral on her, but then I have to masturbate.

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Re: Is masturbation your only sexual release?

Unread post by Johor » Wed May 03, 2017 1:14 pm

Intercourse with my wife has become less frequent in the past year, so masturbation has gone up. I had a nice O with a thick cum gush this morning while reading this forum. And sex with the wife does occur, she often isn't very interested so, I fuck her from behind in the spoon position while she reads a book. That is akin to masturbation to a degree.

I really miss having sex with someone that takes pleasure form it and is interested in giving me pleasure. Which has led me to consider finding an eater to come over and give me blowjobs, instead of masturbating. I believe the housing situation that prevents me from hosting will be resolved fairly soon so I might be able to follow through on this and enjoy an enthusiastic BJ a few times a month.
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