Poll: What are the best proxies for "humiliation"?

For cuckoldresses and the men who serve them.

What are the most important proxies for humiliation in Cuckoldry?

- Small penis humiliation by the Wife and/or BF
165
19%
- Wife publicizing or sharing hubby's inadequacies
84
10%
- Hubby made to service BF sexually (or non-sexually) and/or hubby made to ingest BF's cum
163
19%
- Orgasms conditional, restricted or denied
132
15%
- Giving the BF favors not given to hubby and/or more enthusiasm for BF
160
18%
- Pegging (i.e. anal penetration of hubby for Power Exchange) and/or BDSM measures
74
9%
- Wife dating men the hubby actively opposes or does not like
68
8%
- Requirement of formal cuckold contracts and/or ceremonies, etc
21
2%
 
Total votes: 867

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Poll: What are the best proxies for "humiliation"?

Unread post by Wittololdme » Tue Dec 18, 2012 1:56 pm

Cuckolds, Sammites, Bumtoppers.....& various other interested/perverted Fiends-

From the list above, please select what you consider to be the 3 most "important" proxies (i.e. practical examples) of humiliation which might define a cuckold Lifestyle.

Feel free to add or elaborate below.
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Unread post by Zoro182 » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:05 pm

We were out in a boat once, tied off in party ove with friends. Some guy, a decade younger, came onto our boat with others. He was a jerk. I watched him lick whip cream off ome gals nipples, and his whole attitude was repulsive. I told my wife he was a jerk. Next I knew, she was talking with him. I was in front of boat serving drinks. I lost track of them, and everyone had jumped into he lake. I dove off the front of the boat and swam around, eventually finding them, her on a Fun noodle and him with an arm around her neck holding himself up in he water. I left them alone. On the way back to dock, she snuggled with me and told me a 29 year old wanted to fuck her. I would have liked it better if he hadn't been a jerk. Or not...

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Unread post by Wittololdme » Thu Dec 20, 2012 10:43 am

Zoro182 wrote:We were out in a boat once, tied off in party ove with friends. Some guy, a decade younger, came onto our boat with others. He was a jerk. I watched him lick whip cream off ome gals nipples, and his whole attitude was repulsive. I told my wife he was a jerk. Next I knew, she was talking with him. I was in front of boat serving drinks. I lost track of them, and everyone had jumped into he lake. I dove off the front of the boat and swam around, eventually finding them, her on a Fun noodle and him with an arm around her neck holding himself up in he water. I left them alone. On the way back to dock, she snuggled with me and told me a 29 year old wanted to fuck her. I would have liked it better if he hadn't been a jerk. Or not...

That's a relevant & interesting account Zoro.

Did you ever confront or clarify your feelings about the guy with Her; or did you let it rest?

And did they ever encounter one another again?
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Unread post by Zoro182 » Thu Dec 20, 2012 2:12 pm

We had two other couples with us, and I was the only really sober one there. After we trailered the boat, we stopped by an eatery for a bite. After we parted with our friends, I asked her about he new friend. She said he was from Chicago (4 hours away) and was camping. She laughed as she gave the site number. I started to turn towards the camp grounds, but she said we'd better go home. I let her know that I was fine with her having as much fun as she wanted to. But, she said to head for home.

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Unread post by subcuckhub » Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:31 pm

Limiting us to 3 answers is not fair. Those that we practice are:
Wife publicizing or sharing hubby's inadequacies
Orgasms conditional, restricted or denied
Giving the BF favors not given to hubby and/or more enthusiasm for BF
Pegging (i.e. anal penetration of hubby for Power Exchange) and/or BDSM measures
Requirement of formal cuckold contracts and/or ceremonies, etc
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Unread post by cluracan » Sat Dec 22, 2012 12:08 am

Our favorite humiliation is the wife publicizing her infidelities with friends / acquaintances. Just talking about her "cheating" with her girlfriends and people I get to meet later. I put it down as "sharing hubby's inadequacies" in the poll, because there was nothing more fitting, but still - I think this should be in :)

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Unread post by cornudo » Sat Aug 17, 2013 2:50 pm

Actually all but a couple of these (IE No Contract & my penis is 7")

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Unread post by WimpToad » Sat Aug 17, 2013 3:36 pm

Actually a contract or ceremony can cover all of the above :roll:

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Unread post by HWBarb4Fun » Tue Aug 20, 2013 7:33 am

Hubby likes the guy I'm presently having sex with in that he has a bigger cock, older, in a little better shape and has a lot more stamina than my husband...But hubby seems to be more focused on it that I am :-)

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Unread post by cornudo » Tue Aug 20, 2013 7:47 am

Me kissing/massaging her feet at Peets/Starbucks while she cuddles her #1 bull.

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Unread post by Rogonosets » Sat Jan 03, 2015 4:41 am

cluracan wrote:Our favorite humiliation is the wife publicizing her infidelities with friends / acquaintances. Just talking about her "cheating" with her girlfriends and people I get to meet later. I put it down as "sharing hubby's inadequacies" in the poll, because there was nothing more fitting, but still - I think this should be in :)

Agreed. Buffy has shared her adventures with her friends, her children and my son (and even my aunt). We are pretty open about our relationship. However, it is a turn on to be sitting with Buffy and her friend(s) when she talks about her FB or previous experiences we've had.

Not really sharing an inadequacy, but a form of mild humiliation that I really like.

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Unread post by Martamlg » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:10 am

I answered "Wife dating men the hubby actively opposes or does not like" but it's not something I want to do "against" him. The thrill is that is something I do that he suffers, but also he can't avoid to be excited by that.
Maybe I'm a bit sadist but my husband being hard and excited and with tears at the same time is very exciting for me and makes me enjoy the game more.
First post here. Thanks and sorry for my english.
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Unread post by petey boy » Fri Jun 15, 2018 9:38 am

Martamlg wrote:I answered "Wife dating men the hubby actively opposes or does not like" but it's not something I want to do "against" him. The thrill is that is something I do that he suffers, but also he can't avoid to be excited by that.
Maybe I'm a bit sadist but my husband being hard and excited and with tears at the same time is very exciting for me and makes me enjoy the game more.
First post here. Thanks and sorry for my english.
Marta

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Unread post by aedmontr » Sat Jun 16, 2018 4:21 pm

Easier to cancel options 4 and 6. And I understand, some cucks/wannabes desire to be chastized. But chastity for the boyfriend/husband would (you would think) extend to forbidding him from even having an account here. I consider that to be a huge gaping hole in the entire fetish. Just freeze hubby in Carbonite and display him if you are going that far. Not being glib.

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Unread post by Tether » Mon Jun 18, 2018 9:20 am

Penis humiliation has to be number one for us, at least in the sense it's the most practiced form of humiliation listed in the poll. I am including stamina humiliation in that category. Whether she talks about it with me on her own, or together with another guy, it's always humiliating and always arousing.

I selected the Favors given to bf/enthusiasm for bf as well because I think that is not only arousing, but utterly humiliating to have my wife, who professes her love for me, give another guy things she won't give me. It constitutes physical evidence of how much more aroused she gets with him than with me, and that is humiliating.

Finally, I selected the publication of husband's inadequacies. This was a tough one for me because we don't practice this. She's never talked to anyone, other than lovers, about any of my inadequacies. However, I fantasize about it a lot and know how humiliating it would be if she did.

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Unread post by cuckswe » Mon Jun 18, 2018 11:40 am

Hi, new to this site, surely not easy to chose but i finally went with 5, 7 and 8. Single most humiliating requirement has got be to be made to ask for your wife to be taken. And afterwards thanking for it, guess that maybe would qualify under ceremonies...

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Unread post by petey boy » Wed Jun 20, 2018 7:32 am

Sunday afternoon after playing soccer with Sir and other friends. After a few beers, One of the guys was talking about
cocksucking. Out of the blue, Sir smiled at me but didnt speak.I got very nervous. Then there was one of those lulls in
the conversation and Sir looked at me and asked:
" So Petey have you ever sucked a cock? ' There were about 6 guys there and i am guessing four knew Sir was fucking
my wife. Blushing i replied " Well i have at points in my life and if the offer of cash is big enough i would be happy to
service any of you "
Everyone laughed and the chat went on to other topics. When we got home i paid Sir by accepting 50 with his belt across
my ass. Then with ass burning i knelt and sucked his fat dick!

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Unread post by Cdncuck » Thu Jun 21, 2018 11:01 am

When we were younger my wife would dress up and we'd go out to a bar. She would openly flirt with other men and dance with them. There were times she would decide to leave with one of them. She would raise her voice from some distance and say we're leaving now hon. Don't wait up. There were other times when she would go out to the car in the parking lot with one of them and come back some time later obviously having had sex.

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Unread post by chastitysub4her » Thu Jun 21, 2018 11:57 am

petey boy wrote:Sunday afternoon after playing soccer with Sir and other friends. After a few beers, One of the guys was talking about
cocksucking. Out of the blue, Sir smiled at me but didnt speak.I got very nervous. Then there was one of those lulls in
the conversation and Sir looked at me and asked:
" So Petey have you ever sucked a cock? ' There were about 6 guys there and i am guessing four knew Sir was fucking
my wife. Blushing i replied " Well i have at points in my life and if the offer of cash is big enough i would be happy to
service any of you "
Everyone laughed and the chat went on to other topics. When we got home i paid Sir by accepting 50 with his belt across
my ass. Then with ass burning i knelt and sucked his fat dick!
Mmmmm this was a hot situation to be placed in and the thought of him disciplining you and you surrendering to him on your knees made me hard.

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Unread post by petey boy » Thu Jun 21, 2018 12:12 pm

chastitysub4her wrote:
petey boy wrote:Sunday afternoon after playing soccer with Sir and other friends. After a few beers, One of the guys was talking about
cocksucking. Out of the blue, Sir smiled at me but didnt speak.I got very nervous. Then there was one of those lulls in
the conversation and Sir looked at me and asked:
" So Petey have you ever sucked a cock? ' There were about 6 guys there and i am guessing four knew Sir was fucking
my wife. Blushing i replied " Well i have at points in my life and if the offer of cash is big enough i would be happy to
service any of you "
Everyone laughed and the chat went on to other topics. When we got home i paid Sir by accepting 50 with his belt across
my ass. Then with ass burning i knelt and sucked his fat dick!
Mmmmm this was a hot situation to be placed in and the thought of him disciplining you and you surrendering to him on your knees made me hard.
WHAT I DIDNT INCLUDE IS THE FACT THAT I THEN SUCKED HIM HARD AND PUT HIS HARD DICK INTO MY WIFE...AFTER CLEANED THEM BOTH

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Unread post by bradisalpha » Wed Jul 11, 2018 12:34 am

As a BF, I enjoy number 7 !! A cuckold not particularly liking the BF his hot wife has chosen, or even further, despise her selection, is driven deeply into humiliation and embarrassment as he has no choice other than to submit to her decision. The angst that builds up is very intoxicating and even though he may complain relentlessly, he will become drawn to the submission and beg for it to continue. The mental arousal overrides his physical feelings in these situations and I enjoy watching the phases he goes through in the process.

How many have experienced “Wife dating men the hubby actively opposes or does not like” ??

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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Wed Jul 11, 2018 3:26 am

1, 4, and 7 for us. My husband is not small, but average, and I do remind him that some of my lovers are much better endowed than him. I deny him penetrative sex, although it was a mutual decision. I have had sex with a professional colleague he actually despises.
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Unread post by petey boy » Wed Jul 11, 2018 6:48 am

bradisalpha wrote:As a BF, I enjoy number 7 !! A cuckold not particularly liking the BF his hot wife has chosen, or even further, despise her selection, is driven deeply into humiliation and embarrassment as he has no choice other than to submit to her decision. The angst that builds up is very intoxicating and even though he may complain relentlessly, he will become drawn to the submission and beg for it to continue. The mental arousal overrides his physical feelings in these situations and I enjoy watching the phases he goes through in the process.

How many have experienced “Wife dating men the hubby actively opposes or does not like” ??

Brad
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I also find 7 the most intense. I tried several times to ask Beth to stop with SIR. I went along to get along, when he finally broke me
there was a flood of emotions that i could no longer deny SIR was the better man. There are times after he has punished me, or
tormented me, and then made me suck him off or take his cock in my ass, i think i am at peace. Enough for me to say More please SIR!

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Unread post by petey boy » Fri Jul 13, 2018 11:43 am

bradisalpha wrote:As a BF, I enjoy number 7 !! A cuckold not particularly liking the BF his hot wife has chosen, or even further, despise her selection, is driven deeply into humiliation and embarrassment as he has no choice other than to submit to her decision. The angst that builds up is very intoxicating and even though he may complain relentlessly, he will become drawn to the submission and beg for it to continue. The mental arousal overrides his physical feelings in these situations and I enjoy watching the phases he goes through in the process.

How many have experienced “Wife dating men the hubby actively opposes or does not like” ??

Brad
My Beth chose a man i disliked. To have to submit to his wife's choice, humiliating. Slowly he trained me by removing any right to have sex with my own wife. She found that arousing, so it continued. To even watch i had to accept any and all rules he presented
to me. I adore her and so when she would talk to me alone i saw if i did love her i had to go along and give her the man she
wanted. Slowly as i discovered to submit to his will was to give her what she wanted.
Even now when i suck the cock of SIR i have moments of anger. HE seems to sense those times and pushes up the ante. The final straw was when i assumed what he called the position and he mounted me and then guided me to lick my Beth to orgasm.
Even telling this stirs my cock which is at the moment caged.

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Unread post by SammySings » Fri Jul 13, 2018 12:05 pm

The humiliation aspect, for me, is her doing things with others, so I chose those options. She's never been with someone I disliked, but the fantasy of it is pretty hot. Not sure of the reality of it.

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