Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

For cuckoldresses and the men who serve them.

How did your hotwifing experiment turn out?

Totally great. We still love each other more than anyone else.
207
82%
So-so. We're still together but it's touch and go.
24
10%
Epic fail. She left me permanently for one of her bulls.
21
8%
 
Total votes: 252

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Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

Unread post by dannyvee » Thu Dec 31, 2015 8:49 am

Non-scientific poll above. Obviously I think, many of the fails are probably not still on the site, but still, interesting to see the success ratio of people who are.

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Unread post by Kupl » Thu Dec 31, 2015 11:49 pm

2 years together now, but she left her cuckold hubby for me and he ended up spiraling down into the abyss of self-pity thereafter and committed suicide. Attachment does not bring rewards. They come and they go. Don't worry about 'fails.' There is always another. That is why OKC and Match exist. Always another option.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experie

Unread post by cucked4ever » Sat Jan 02, 2016 7:59 am

Married 45 years. We entered our marriage knowing our mutual desires were complimentary; she wanted multiple men and I a bi submissive. She had her first man in our bed a few months after we married and we have entertained many men over the 45 years. What we share is a deep love for each other and are willing partners to provide each other we the sexual perversions we both crave. For us there is a huge difference between love and sex.
I am a bi/gay submissive cuckold; my wife's pussy is for black men only.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experie

Unread post by D+D » Sat Jan 02, 2016 10:41 am

I think that some of the failed marriage partners, particularly the men, may still be on here. A cuck is a cuck. Just because one's partner leaves him, doesn't mean the cuck feelings go away. I hope this poll is partipated in by a large number of folks. It will be interesting to follow. Our experience has been awesome BTW.

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Unread post by lonecuck » Sat Jan 02, 2016 7:35 pm

I think that some of the failed marriage partners, particularly the men, may still be on here. A cuck is a cuck. Just because one's partner leaves him, doesn't mean the cuck feelings go away. I hope this poll is partipated in by a large number of folks. It will be interesting to follow. Our experience has been awesome BTW.
I'd have to agree with this. My first wife left me for her bull who wasn't up for being her SO and he split after a few weeks. Second wife claimed she was disgusted by my fetish and dumped me after ten years. It turned out that she had been cheating for close to a year before she broke it off. I didn't come back to the cuckolding forums for over a year, but here I am. I've been doing some dating and I have met a girl I really like. I'm not sure if that relationship is going to go anywhere, but I'm hopeful. I can't imagine wanting to bring up the cuckolding kink with her, much less wanting her to cuck me. But the funny thing is that the idea of cuckolding still totally gets me off, even though I have been hurt by it time and again, and the past year and a half has been a hell on earth for me. Despite all this, nothing does it for me like the idea of my wife, girlfriend, (or your wife, for that matter) being a slut for strange cock.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experie

Unread post by zorro » Sat Jan 02, 2016 10:00 pm

R loves men and adores cock. She likes the stimulation and hot feelings from having men desire her and fuck her. I feel very loving when she does. Not a cuck. Just a very happy HW hubby with a very, very happy HW.

Humiliation and the experience of having your wife do things you don't want her to do must be hard on a relationship.
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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experie

Unread post by Rick3066 » Thu Jan 07, 2016 8:50 am

I'm a "wannbe" so I didn't vote. But I wonder how mane other wannbes clicked on "totally great" because that's the way it is in their fantasy?

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experie

Unread post by D+D » Thu Jan 07, 2016 9:50 am

lonecuck wrote:
I think that some of the failed marriage partners, particularly the men, may still be on here. A cuck is a cuck. Just because one's partner leaves him, doesn't mean the cuck feelings go away. I hope this poll is partipated in by a large number of folks. It will be interesting to follow. Our experience has been awesome BTW.
I'd have to agree with this. My first wife left me for her bull who wasn't up for being her SO and he split after a few weeks. Second wife claimed she was disgusted by my fetish and dumped me after ten years. It turned out that she had been cheating for close to a year before she broke it off. I didn't come back to the cuckolding forums for over a year, but here I am. I've been doing some dating and I have met a girl I really like. I'm not sure if that relationship is going to go anywhere, but I'm hopeful. I can't imagine wanting to bring up the cuckolding kink with her, much less wanting her to cuck me. But the funny thing is that the idea of cuckolding still totally gets me off, even though I have been hurt by it time and again, and the past year and a half has been a hell on earth for me. Despite all this, nothing does it for me like the idea of my wife, girlfriend, (or your wife, for that matter) being a slut for strange cock.
I would imagine that just because things go to shit, doesn't mean the feelings or need to be cucked go away. One could certainly avoid doing it I guess, even if they really want to.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experie

Unread post by hotwifeluvr » Thu Jan 07, 2016 7:15 pm

I had two failed marriages prior to my successful one. All my wives hotwifed for me as did 4 of my girlfriends.

I don't believe HWing had anything to do with the failures. If anything, it kept things alive longer than they would have otherwise.

Wife #1 was totally cool about it always.

Wife #2 loved it more than any woman I've ever seen. She just went completely porn star wild and slutty with it and couldn't stop cumming. But later, she developed a case of the guilts. But it still wasn't anything that came up during our break up and divorce, other than towards the very end, she tried to throw that out there as something I had "made" her do. I was totally surprised when she did it. We'd talked about it and she knew I'd love for her to do it, but the night it happened, she didn't tell me her plans. While we were out, she flirted up a stranger in a bar with me there watching. She seduced him and then it was announced that we were all going back to his hotel room, where she proceeded to lose her mind and totally blow mine!

One of the three girlfriends was someone I was serious with, but something kept holding me back from taking the plunge into marriage. Like wife #2, the night she did it, she was a full on eager and enthusiastic participant who couldn't get enough. We had attended a swingers convention in Reno and we connected with a couple there. She had said she would go but only to see what kinds of things went on there, not to participate. She went with them to their room while I made a quick stop at our hotel room first. When I got there, she was fully naked with her legs open, sitting on a chair and a huge smile on her face.

It was more or less a HW situation, because try as I might, I couldn't get into his very attractive wife while my girlfriend was right there getting very thoroughly fucked on the next bed! I wanted to enjoy that part! His wife got offended of course. I did try, and I have her oral, but she got all hurt and started crying. My girlfriend saw this and after she got her first few orgasms, went over the the wife's bed and tried to console her, first verbally, and then very soon, by going down on her with a hunger I could never have imagined. She'd never hinted at having any interest in that before. The relevance to the thread is that after we left their room in the wee hours, my gf became furious while we were walking to our hotel room, telling me how I had ruined her and how could I have "pushed" her into such a thing. So in that case, I think it did lead to the end of our connection, but there is no doubt that I dodged a bullet and that would never have worked out had we gone on together.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

Unread post by SeaGirtCuck » Mon Oct 29, 2018 6:44 am

It would be very interesting to hear back from these posters a few years later to see how things worked out.

We are now married for 28 years.
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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

Unread post by p_jimi » Mon Oct 29, 2018 3:29 pm

My wife was virgin when I married her in 1977. I persuaded her to fuck other men from very early on. She was reluctant, but started to fuck other men in 1979. We agreed I will not fuck other women as long as she regularly fucks other guys. I gently persuaded her to increase the frequency of her fucking of other men. In two years time she was fucking somebody every day beside me. As she had more partners she found more and more well hanged and better equiped guys. That we discussed many times and I had no objections (actually it turned me on) that she will gradually cut her pussy from me. She had so many better dicks than mine, that it was a waste of time for her to put my dick into her pussy. She told me many times that I have to accept the fact that my dick is not suitable to fuck any woman and I have to be content to jerking off my dick. I have watched her fucking other guys many times and it was obvious from these experiences that my dick was not comparable to that of her lovers. Six years after we married she finally cut her pussy completely from me. This does not mean we did not have any sex life together. She told a lot about her adventures, I helped her to prepare for her dates and so on and I was always reminded me how unusable is my dick for fucking a woman. She often told me about the wonderful feeling of having a rock hard dick in her pussy. Looking back we do not regret to follow his way. On the one hand it saved a lot of frustration for me and opened the way for my wife for a wonderful sex life in her most active years and after.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

Unread post by 2wheel » Tue Oct 30, 2018 2:51 am

We're new to it.

I pushed her into it!

She has taken to it full throttle, like I could never have imagined.

http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=51654

So far it's been very successful, but like all else in life only time will tell. As hotwifeluvr has written, what works today doesn't tomorrow.

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

Unread post by gruenberg » Sat Apr 08, 2023 9:12 pm

i wonder if many guys would hang around here if their realtionship failed.
it could be that it was too depressing for them that their wife left them, that they have now simply had enough.

in our case, our marriage is like it ws before it started. maybe even better, but i can`t tell if it is "because of" or "nevertheless".
the long stony way: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57837

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Re: Poll: ratio of successful to relationship-ending experiences

Unread post by inivisibletwin » Mon Apr 17, 2023 12:16 pm

my wife and i have been together for 11 years. i took her virginity when we started dating. she started sleeping with other guys, with my encouragement, a year into our relationship, and we are still going strong. Very much in love, and closer then ever. Her spreading her legs for other guys absolutely keeps things interesting and spicy for us, and keeps us close, and strengthens our relationship. like it says in my signature, we are trying to get her number as high as we can, and we celebrate every tenth new guy. these "10 celebrations" are usually very romantic, between her and i. (I completely believe they are far more romantic than if we were monogamous)

Her boyfriend owns her pussy, but I am her husband and her primary partner in every other aspect of our lives... I just don't usually talk about everything else on this site haha
current number of guys my wife has fucked: 68

We only count new guys, we celebrate every 10th guy

our story: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=66297

photos of her: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=66354

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