watching or waiting

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Watching or Waiting

Woman: Watching
3
1%
Woman: Waiting
5
2%
Cuckold: Watching
159
56%
Cuckold: Waiting
118
41%
 
Total votes: 285

fly3177
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watching or waiting

Unread post by fly3177 » Sat Jan 16, 2016 2:48 am

My fantasy is watching my wife with another man. The couple times we've talked about it she asks if I want a threesome with another man, which she doesn't seem to like the idea of. I've tried to explain just wanting to watch, not participate. She seems relieved that I don't want to participate, but she doesn't seem to like the idea of me being there. In our most recent conversation, she asked if I would like it if she cheated on me and told me about it afterwards. When I said yes, she exuded a bit of excitement and said "consensual cheating?"

Anyways, my question to the cucks, is do you prefer to watch your wife with another man (watching), or to wait for her to return after being with another man (waiting).

To the hotwives, which do you prefer?
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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by pancuckold » Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:00 am

First, I don't much distinguish between the terms hotwife and cuckold - we're non-monogamous and I greatly enjoy her having sex with others.

I love to see her getting it and have elected to watch when I could have joined. As I'm getting to fulfill that pleasure more lately I may start joining in more/earlier ** variety is the spice of life **.

It's also important to me that she have alone time with guys she wants to fuck. It's a different experience and a good one for us, again variety is good.
she's been with 54+ guys, 16 since we've been involved.
My numbers are about half of hers, I'm not jealous, maybe a bit envious

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by wifescreampielover » Sat Jan 16, 2016 8:52 am

Hey fly,
I'm at about the same place as you. My fantasy is my wife to become a Hotwife. I love the thought of her being promiscuous with other men. My wife has told me if she ever does she could not do it in front of me she would be to self continues with me watching. so when it does happen, it will be date and wait for us. And I am good with that, I can't wait to hear about it after.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by 1Pumpndump » Sat Jan 16, 2016 10:20 am

This is a hard one to answer, because I'm a Cuckold and I've watched/filmed numerous times, and been directly involved at times, including serving the Bull, which is Awesome(but very few Bulls allow this), I've also spent many a session back at home, waiting in a Bar, waiting in my car, etc., while my Hotwife is serviced by her Bull, and love the humiliating aspect of not being allowed to watch, so to answer the Poll, I would have to check both "Watching" & "Waiting"!
It's all good!

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by hotwifeluvr » Sat Jan 16, 2016 2:59 pm

Done both, and while I want to watch, the reality is that I have learned that waiting is much more intense, and can be more rewarding in other ways as well.

Watching is great. And is the only way you can truly wrap your mind around the reality that yes, she really did it. Nonetheless, I find the fantasy or mentally conjured images of it happening are much more erotic than actually being there. My wife wisely pointed out to me that the reality of a threesome, stated very generally, is that it is pornographic, as contrasted to the intimacy of one on one sex. There is for me, a certain awkwardness related to being in close proximity to another fully aroused and naked male.

The best of both worlds, for me, would be to be able to watch and listen, but with neither of them aware of being watched, so that their interaction would be unedited and intensely intimate. But the reality of that would involve subterfuge and betrayal. At best, it would be unethical to watch the man engaged in what he thought was a private act, even if the wife would agree to "not be aware" that I am watching.

Hearing her describe the details of her trysts allows me to fill the gaps in detail with my own preferences. Most of all, the loss of "control" over the situation once she drives away from our home is something that I find intensely arousing.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by 4everLearning » Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:45 pm

I wouldnt even be interested or turned on by it if I wasnt watching or joining.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by ThePunter58 » Sat Jan 16, 2016 10:18 pm

Both. I prefer to watch or at least listen but due to practical reasons 19 times out of 20 I have to wait for her. We try to spice the anticipation up before she goes to her dates, she wants me in the bathroom while she showers and shave, she shows me the underwear she will have and she tells me how excited she is and how much she is looking forward to it. Usually this makes me hard as hell and turned on but she always laughs slutty and says I have to wait until she gets home..

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by ArizonaGuy » Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:08 am

This Wednesday was my birthday, her FB was in town we when to his house for dinner. Dessert was watching her and her FB fuck for an hour. She did something she never has done previously with me or her FB. After he had fucked her and blow his load, she started cooing with him, she straddled his body and started kissing him and telling how much she has missed him and was really happy to see him. When she was doing this, he reach behind her and stuck his finger in her ass and she really started to moan. She said loud enough for me to hear her tell him she was looking forward to spending the next two nights with him. After a half hour of this, I got a cream pie for a birthday present.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by desertsub » Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:43 am

My wife prefers me being there to see her getting fucked, it plays into her dominance over me. I prefer to be left at home and letting my imagination about what is happening work on me. She knows this as I've told her but she is the one in charge so we do it her way. On the rare occasions that I'm not there she knows that I have all sorts of things running through my mind and likes that, just not as much as she likes her in your face cuckolding.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by Cdncuck » Mon Jan 18, 2016 11:52 am

I enjoy watching and mostly get to see it. There are some times she goes out and I wait but the majority of the time I get to see it and sometimes even participate.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by submissivedanny » Fri Jan 22, 2016 12:05 am

I'm never allowed to watch. I'm not sure I would want to. My wife wants privacy. With her boyfriend they make love and that is a very intimate and private. If she's fucking another guy she still feels she doesn't want an audience.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by Caribwaters » Fri Jan 22, 2016 8:03 am

Like above, I have never been permitted to watch and I doubt that she would ever allow me to so in any future encounters. She could never enjoy or concentrate if I was in the room or even if I was watching remotely. It doesn't really both her if/when seen by a passerby engaged in some sort of sexual activity, as she seems to get off on the possibility of discovery, but I am apparently "too close" to enjoy that privilege.

She has always been very open and detailed with me upon returning from a date, so that enables me to get the "picture" of what happened.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by hotwifetrained » Fri Jan 22, 2016 9:38 am

We have only played together, but last week I was recovering from bronchitis and she was really horny. She met a new guy by herself for the first time. She said she loved the idea of torturing me and making me wonder what she was doing. I must admit my mind was racing.
I have always preferred being there to watch, but now I'm wondering if she and a lover may be more uninhibited if I'm not there. Now she is telling me she wants to meet a guy and fuck him on the first date. If she finds a guy she likes, she will end up sleeping over and torturing me all night. She loves morning sex and prefers sleep overs. Most of the guys we've met in the past will spend the night with her in one bed and me in the other so she can get fucked first thing in the morning.
I think we may be evolving in a new type of play for us. This may happen very soon, once she gets an idea in her head, she likes to act on it.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by Atl-hubby » Fri Jan 22, 2016 8:02 pm

I would say watching but her bull won't let me anymore so waiting to clean it is!

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by Good time » Sun Jan 24, 2016 7:10 pm

I love BBC and my man loves to watch me. Sometimes if my BBC is lucky he will give us one time.
He loves that I've been promiscuous before. & after I met him. He'd like me to do 100 guys ; )

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by subrickguy » Wed Apr 15, 2020 7:19 am

I love to watch her with the bull. She likes me there to.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by CuckoldMG » Wed Apr 15, 2020 10:55 am

I always have to watch and we both want it that way.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by calicolombia69 » Wed Apr 15, 2020 11:07 am

My ideal situation is to watch from a distance. Sit quiet and make them feel they are alone. I only get to presence foreplay. She feels more comfortable that I am there but watching TV, cooking or pretending to be asleep.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by pixwellguy » Wed Apr 15, 2020 11:13 am

I've done both, but probably far more waiting than watching. They're both exciting for different reasons, and I enjoy them both. There's also the variant of waiting, but in the same place so you can hear, but not see, what's going on. That's intensely hot.

I think you'll find that many women (particularly those just starting out, or new to the hotwife lifestyle) prefer to be alone with the man they are fucking. My wife definitely prefers it - she explains that she likes to be able to concentrate on his pleasure and hers, and not worry about whether or not I'm getting any at that moment.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by Martyn0888 » Wed Apr 15, 2020 11:24 am

I don't want to watch while it's happening, I want it to be recorded on a go pro or something similar so that I can watch it back like I would watch a porn movie, I love the sound of my wife's moans etc and want to see the way she reacts with another man, she is not to keen on me being there watching which I can understand but she also isn't to keen on being filmed as she thinks it will be awkward me watching it. It's something we need to discuss and agree on before it ever becomes a reality for me unfortunately

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by 007cfc007 » Wed Apr 15, 2020 11:35 am

I'm not a cuck by nature, indeed I'm rather introvert so I'd struggle sitting their watching.
During a 3some I'd watch some of it, but I guess it's because I was part of it.
I've listened, and enjoyed that, I've also enjoyed not being there as a guy had my wife in our bed, hell I've even accompanied my wife on a visit to a guy she chose, and waited downstairs in his house as he took her up to his bed and fucked her.... I'm not sure there's any tag that suits me 😂😂

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by bewareoflizzy » Wed Apr 15, 2020 2:12 pm

She's always played alone...but the stories she tells when she gets home are over the moon.

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by hotfreaks » Wed Apr 15, 2020 3:34 pm

I love both. Due to my work schedule, I am not always able to be home when a bull may be available. So I enjoy getting pics or vids while she has her alone time. I also enjoy watching as well
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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by 54321 » Fri Apr 17, 2020 1:32 am

Love this thread!

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Re: watching or waiting

Unread post by SammySigns » Fri Apr 17, 2020 2:42 am

When we started I was all in on watching. But it strangely, wasn't as much of a turn on while it was actually happening. The times when she is out and I'm not sure what will happen, or I get some pics or vids, are supremely erotic. So I think I've shifted more towards that.

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