Great story!!! Have u posted ho u guys got started with this guy, and the conversations u had about taking it to the next level with her having a BF? Did u talk about exclusivity to the BF as something u might try? Have to mentioned to her it's been 2months and see how she feels about that? Also, how are u about his taking a dominant role with u?
These are good questions. We met Ben online on an adult site. He sent us a few emails that we didn't respond to at first. To be honest I thought he was too young but after discussing it with Lara, we agreed that we liked what he had to say and he seemed confident so why not at least have her talk to him and meet him for a drink. Surprisingly there first date went well.
Ben was confident and knew he wanted a GF. On there first date, he told her that he wanted to see her at least twice a week. That is way more than we are used to and was the the first thing Lara and I had to discuss. She was the reluctant one because she felt it was too much time to dedicate to this. However, I was the encouraging one. I told her people that "date" want to see each other and she should at least give it a try. She agreed to try for a little while and if she felt it was too much time, she would back off.
Ben was clear after the third time they had sex, that he did not like the thought that should would go home to me and we would have sex. He felt she should get what she needs sexually from him and that would include any other adventures. To my surprise Lara was very open to this and agreed. That night we had a conversation and it was intense to here her tell me how she wanted to save sex for him and how I needed to respect that. We discussed what I could do and couldn't. I asked if I could still giver her oral and she told me she would ask Ben. Ben responded that I could masturbate in front of her but need to ask him permission to see or lick her pussy. That is where we are now. I do like to bring up how long its been since I had sex when I masturbate and how
surprised I am at how she has taken to him. She has been encouraging and direct about telling me too bad and I am getting what I wanted.
I would like more contact with Ben. I would love to witness and have him tell me how he has my wife. Maybe he will become comfortable with that. For now, him demanding me to buy her outfits is start.