How long were you with your current partner BEFORE the idea of cuckolding came up?

[slimjimpencil]

and what happened to bring about the idea of it

[SeaGirtCuck]

We have spoken about this very topic.
In retrospect we both agree my wife should have been cuckolding me from the very start of our relationship.

[ArizonaGuy]

After we had been married for a couple of years and with her telling stories of the guys who had gotten into her panties before we meet I asked her one night if she had meet anyone she would be interested in fucking. When she yes and told me who it was, I told her to go for it. It did not take long for her first bull to get into her panties. This lasted for two years and at one point she decided she wanted to have his baby. I told her I agreed with her decision. She stopped taking her BC pills that night and I started using condums when we had sex. She never did get pregnant by her first bull desire trying and trying.

[JMNBABE]

A guy at work started coming on to my wife. She was infatuated with the attention and encouraged it. She finally admitted that she was having an affair the week that she had arranged with me to "work late Friday" and she was really going to dinner and a hotel with her Lover. Luckily I was TOTALLY on board with her cheating and encouraged her. She had a fun sexy 6 month affair with him before he got cold feet. They are still friends.

[jayhawker1984]

We have spoken about this very topic.
In retrospect we both agree my wife should have been cuckolding me from the very start of our relationship.

Same here

[Debbies cuck]

Probably about 12 years into our marriage. Our sex drives were out of sync, and She was not happy. One night She said to not be home because she was going to bring someone to our house. In a fit of false bravado, I told Her not to do it, but if She had to have sex with someone I was okay if She did it elsewhere.It wasn't long before She told me one night that She was going out and when I asked where She screamed at me "Are you that fucking stupid? I'm going out to get fucked by someone who can." She was gone for a weekend. After that things calmed down and I became very tolerant of Her lovers coming to our house. We both sensed right away that She loved the power, and I loved being a cuckold. Its 23 yrs later and I'm still Her cuckold!! Wouldn't change a thing.

[hando]

It was only about an hour or so, and about an hour after that, her phone started ringing from guys calling her wanting to come over and fuck her. I knew she fucked around, but I had no idea how much. She turned out to be doing everybody she could get her hands on.

[Stempor18]

It came up a few months ago when I brought up the idea. We have been together for about 17 years (since high school). She has not done anything. The two hang-ups seem to be #1 scare of STDs and #2 she thinks I will have regrets. "I don't think you would be ok with it once i actually happened."

I asked her if it weren't for STDs would she fuck another guy, and she did say "probably".

[Debbies cuck]

It came up a few months ago when I brought up the idea. We have been together for about 17 years (since high school). She has not done anything. The two hang-ups seem to be #1 scare of STDs and #2 she thinks I will have regrets. "I don't think you would be ok with it once i actually happened."

I asked her if it weren't for STDs would she fuck another guy, and she did say "probably".

Then She will probably do it, and if you seem ok with it, there will be no stopping Her. Women are amazing creatures, and they can blow your mind with things they'll do that you would never have imagined.

[cuckoldcpl4fun13]

Before we kissed we discussed many of the things we would be interested in doing. I was open to various things as long as he was happy. This was one that he mentioned but we did not actually proceed until a little bit further into our relationship.

[Kirsty]

and what happened to bring about the idea of it

We had gone swinging a couple of times. Men loved fucking Alexa, but women were very disappointed with my performance, endurance and size. My oral was good though, but many of them wanted a man with a decent sized, hard cock.

The first evolution was that I would sometimes watch while Alexa fucked. The next step was for us to accept that only men fucked women in the pussy with a cock, and that eliminated me as an active participant. That became the norm.

I've been pussyfree for years, and locked in chastity. Alexa views me as her "gender fluid virgin husband". Although... she often introduces me to people as "her wife".

Kiraty

[grashaunanatior]

It was only about an hour or so, and about an hour after that, her phone started ringing from guys calling her wanting to come over and fuck her. I knew she fucked around, but I had no idea how much. She turned out to be doing everybody she could get her hands on.

You are a very lucky guy!

[tractorman2]

I voted for 6-12 months as i am not sure, she was 16 i was 22.

[OpenCouple]

After 2 years of relationship. And 3 years after first talking about, she finally decided to do it.

[Stempor18]

It came up a few months ago when I brought up the idea. We have been together for about 17 years (since high school). She has not done anything. The two hang-ups seem to be #1 scare of STDs and #2 she thinks I will have regrets. "I don't think you would be ok with it once i actually happened."

I asked her if it weren't for STDs would she fuck another guy, and she did say "probably".

Then She will probably do it, and if you seem ok with it, there will be no stopping Her. Women are amazing creatures, and they can blow your mind with things they'll do that you would never have imagined.

I keep telling her I am ok with it. At first she wasn't even ok talking about it. She felt nervous and didn't was unsure what I was ok hearing. She is to the point that she tells me about her one ex boyfriend and her together and if I ask her about a group of men she will tell me which one she would sleep with. Right now that's the extant of our play when it comes to cuckolding. I don't bring it up all the time so not to be pushy, but I figure over time she might grow more comfortable with the idea.

[ucaneffher]

She that flirty hot bubbly girl in high school who was likely too hot for me and her older sisters were constantly trying to get her to go out with other guys. After seeing her sisters constantly push men in her, I learned I’d have to adapt or is lose her. Long story short, I got used to the idea of me not being the only one and I ended not only accepting it but liking it and wanting it.

Here’s my timeline:

-Started dating at 15
-I brought it up at 16
-Talked and talked and talked
-Went on her first innocent date at 17 or 18
-Officially started sleeping around at 19
-I was a stag to very promiscuous hot girlfriend from 19-21
-by 21-26 I had become the cuckold to a hot ass girl who was no longer as promiscuous and officially been dating other men and involved in two serious long term relationships and not just fooling around but actually physically and emotionally involved with my support.

[Loserpaul]

We had an open relationship from the start, so I always knew she was having sex with other men. However, it took 2-3 years to get to the stage where she was regularly fucking other men and denying me sex entirely. The only sex I have now is that she encourages me to masturbate while she has sex with her boyfriends.

[SmallHubbyTexas]

For myself, my wife was deployed to Iraq and I was at a low point. I started imagining her having sex over there and it grew from there. Then a couple years ago we were drunk and I brought it up. She got quite and I thought she was mad, but a couple months later I was a cuckold.

[BFofGF]

Approx 7 years ago I had been in the swinger world and both on swinglifestyle.com & fetlife.com for several years .

I was having difficulty finding a long term relationship that included cuckolding so I went the vanilla route and took out an ad on match.com

In the ad I advertised that I was looking for an extremely open minded woman who is or has always wanted to be promiscuous , while having a male partner who is 100% faithful.

Most people declined to meet but I knew I was looking for a very very niche or small sliver of the population so I waited and finally met my girlfriend this way . She like many that I met found it hard to wrap her head around why I’d want this and what was in it for me .

Within a month of dating we included another guy and we were off the races . She’s been fucked by over 30 + men and had only had sex with 3 others before meeting me at age 46

[isinlarsa]

I've been in four long-term relationship (two girlfriends and two marriages). In each case, the woman brought up opening our relationship -- mainly her wanting to be with other men. In my first marriage it was after being married about five years. With my first girlfriend, she traveled on business and started getting laid on trips. I think she started about two years into our relationship. With my second girlfriend it was again after we had been together for about two years. She said she wanted to take ball room dancing lessons. I think the idea was in her head that she might meet a man, and she did! He was the first of many. With my second wife it was after we had been married about 14 or 15 years. She came to me and said she wanted to date other men. She was in her mid-40s, and I think she needed to feel desirable in a way that a husband just can fill. She was my hotwife for a couple of years, but stopped, even though I wanted her to continue. It's so hot having other men fuck your wife!

There must be something in me that attracts me to such women, even though none of them had a history of being in an open relationship before me.

[4incheslong]

A couple of months I think. When we first started dating my future wife wouldn't fuck me. Said she was tired of having so many one night stands. Peaked my interest and I asked her how many guys she had been with, which she was hesitant to tell me. We started watching porn together and I would comment on wanting her to have a big cock inside her. Wasn't long until she tells me that she has been talking with an old boyfriend who got married and he wanted to come over and fuck her.

[funkyfitter]

Been together almost 35 years.
Married for almost 32 years.
Been cucked for almost 8 years.

[cucking88]

She cheated on me two years into the relationship. She made me watch her getting fucked after I knew about it. She told me she always knew that I would enjoy being a cuck.

[Mgcouplemn]

I met Laurie at a swingers party, she was with a date and so was I. The first time I saw her she was being fucked by a partier. Out of all the women there she intrigued me. I watched her fuck four more guys before I had my turn with her. While fucking her I told her ow much I liked watching her having sex, she smiled, her pussy contracted and I started to pull out as not to cum in her. she put her legs around me forcing me to cum in her. Afterward I asked her if all the guy would cum in her, she told me no and I was just lubrication for the other guys. At the end of the night we all gathered the partners we came there with. On the way out Laurie gave me her phone number. I called her the next day, we went out she asked if I wanted to watch her fuck, I said yes.

[ucaneffher]

I met Laurie at a swingers party, she was with a date and so was I. The first time I saw her she was being fucked by a partier. Out of all the women there she intrigued me. I watched her fuck four more guys before I had my turn with her. While fucking her I told her ow much I liked watching her having sex, she smiled, her pussy contracted and I started to pull out as not to cum in her. she put her legs around me forcing me to cum in her. Afterward I asked her if all the guy would cum in her, she told me no and I was just lubrication for the other guys. At the end of the night we all gathered the partners we came there with. On the way out Laurie gave me her phone number. I called her the next day, we went out she asked if I wanted to watch her fuck, I said yes.

That's actually beautiful... Finding your other half, doing exactly what you love