What's your partner's biggest disappointment in your sexual performance?

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what area(s) does your partner think your lacking in the bedroom?

length
159
18%
girth
178
20%
stamina & endurance / inability to last long
223
25%
impotence / erection quality (can't get or stay hard)
117
13%
stroke game & rhythm
39
4%
OTHER
41
5%
Nothing, she loves the size of my dick & sex with me
68
8%
I don't even get to have sex with my hotwife anymore
63
7%
 
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What's your partner's biggest disappointment in your sexual performance?

Unread post by slimjimpencil » Fri Apr 08, 2016 2:57 am

where do you fall short (no pun intended)

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Unread post by ArizonaGuy » Fri Apr 08, 2016 9:25 am

Her first bull when he would be fucking her, his up stroke would rub her mount and this would drive her up the wall along with his stay power. His cuck would touch parts of her cervix that I could not reach. He would and could fuck her for an hour before he blew his load in her. Her second bull just could fuck her forever before he too blew his load.

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Unread post by cucknbull » Fri Apr 08, 2016 11:17 pm

One option is missing, the option that she will tell you that your cock is not big enough and that she has been fucked by better men, but that it is just fantasy for your and her pleasure.
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Unread post by Passion4sharingamy » Thu Feb 22, 2018 5:16 pm

Adults Only: My beautiful 32 year old wife has never complained to me directly about my size or stamina during our marriage, although I knew there were more capable and willing lovers out there ready to give my athletic wife intense sexual pleasure -- she knew this also. After Amy finally went through with her first sharing experience in bed with a much more endowed younger man (former college football player who we met at a lifestyles party in Florida), she quickly learned what it felt like being in bed with this very masculine guy who had amazing stamina! It was obvious she enjoyed his ability to last a very long time... She admitted that she had never really felt that strong of an orgasm before...Amy didn't even know it was possible to feel such an intense surge of euphoria like she enjoyed in his arms. However, she wanted me to know that she still loved me as her husband of 7 years... It was that night that Amy started to make the distinction that pure physical excitement and temporary sexual pleasure with another man didn't have to replace what her love was for me as her companion. It made me happy to see her feel so much pleasure that I knew I really couldn't provide her, and it also turned me on to watch them. It's funny that it was her bed partner (date) that night who talked to me afterwards and gave me some wise advice as my wife's supportive cuckold when Amy went into the bathroom to shower, "Jim, everyone has different talents, and each of us used those talents tonight in different ways to give your wife a really good time. Sometimes you just need to accept your limitations, and then unselfishly watch your wife be sexually fulfilled by someone else, like her being with me tonight. You are special Jim because you gave her the unselfish gift of freedom, to help a fantasy of hers come true. Don't let it get you down, we all did our part. You know she deserved that release tonight, she's amazing! Remember how happy and relaxed she looked when she went in the shower afterwards? That's the look of great orgasms and her gratefulness for you giving her this opportunity tonight. You are special because you knew what she needed and were mature enough to let nature take its course." J
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Unread post by lesbianscuck » Thu Feb 22, 2018 6:57 pm

My Cuckoldress has me in chastity 24/7 & started sissy training me about 3 months ago. After a long dry spell, she found herself a dom Bull thats a power lifter with a nice thick cock that she is eager to have as a long term lover & give her the satisfaction I cant. Im taking them to a resort next wked so she can be properly fucked & have me serve & clean them both.

The last time I had sex with my wife was a wk ago, after a month in chastity. My little cock barely got hard enough & long enough to get inside her. When I finally did manage to just get inside her, I came in under 30 seconds. She then commanded me (very sternly) to lick up all my cum from her pussy & get back in my cage. I was glad she allowed me the sex but I knew my lackluster performance only pushed her closer to cutting me off even more. Once she cums on her Bulls cock, I will probably be cut off from her pussy except on very special occasions
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Unread post by Reno1 » Thu Feb 22, 2018 8:07 pm

After she had been fucking three other guys during our courtship and marriage, she explained the reason was that I never made her cum in the first three years. I had to agree that it was only fair that she fucked other guys, because she said they were rougher, less gentlemanly and more dominant. Some girls just want to have a hot manly man nail them and skip the romance. I suppose it is that dominant bull seeking instinct. I noticed the pattern that from the first time she would find muscular tough looking guys have a couple of drinks and fuck them, usually a quickly as they could take their clothes off. I blame myself because I would have sex with her repeatedly but never satisfy her. When she was alone with a guy, including my friends she was very aggressive in seducing them. At least one of my friends complained that his wife wanted nothing to do with us after she aggressively seduced him. He was a really horney ex marine, I was shocked that he didn’t fuck her.
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Unread post by ucaneffher » Thu Feb 22, 2018 10:20 pm

Sigh... Her complaints have to do with being too long, too thick, and lasting longer than she can handle. I just wanna fuck already

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Unread post by nottscuck » Thu Feb 22, 2018 11:13 pm

my low libido and lack of performance ....

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Unread post by SunAngel » Thu Feb 22, 2018 11:36 pm

lesbianscuck wrote:My Cuckoldress has me in chastity 24/7 & started sissy training me about 3 months ago. After a long dry spell, she found herself a dom Bull thats a power lifter with a nice thick cock that she is eager to have as a long term lover & give her the satisfaction I cant. Im taking them to a resort next wked so she can be properly fucked & have me serve & clean them both.

The last time I had sex with my wife was a wk ago, after a month in chastity. My little cock barely got hard enough & long enough to get inside her. When I finally did manage to just get inside her, I came in under 30 seconds. She then commanded me (very sternly) to lick up all my cum from her pussy & get back in my cage. I was glad she allowed me the sex but I knew my lackluster performance only pushed her closer to cutting me off even more. Once she cums on her Bulls cock, I will probably be cut off from her pussy except on very special occasions
During your month in chastity, did she edge you without letting you cum and then put your cock back in the cage? That must have been one strong orgasm after being in chastity for a month.

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Unread post by Cuck_Steve » Fri Feb 23, 2018 12:54 am

I’m too small and cum far too quickly.

Well, I’m now in a cage and don’t get sex so at least I can’t disappoint her anymore.

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Unread post by nottscuck » Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:32 am

I cum far far too quickly too .. Am quiet well endowed so it is even more of a disappointment !!

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Unread post by lesbianscuck » Fri Feb 23, 2018 2:59 am

SunAngel wrote:
lesbianscuck wrote:My Cuckoldress has me in chastity 24/7 & started sissy training me about 3 months ago. After a long dry spell, she found herself a dom Bull thats a power lifter with a nice thick cock that she is eager to have as a long term lover & give her the satisfaction I cant. Im taking them to a resort next wked so she can be properly fucked & have me serve & clean them both.

The last time I had sex with my wife was a wk ago, after a month in chastity. My little cock barely got hard enough & long enough to get inside her. When I finally did manage to just get inside her, I came in under 30 seconds. She then commanded me (very sternly) to lick up all my cum from her pussy & get back in my cage. I was glad she allowed me the sex but I knew my lackluster performance only pushed her closer to cutting me off even more. Once she cums on her Bulls cock, I will probably be cut off from her pussy except on very special occasions
During your month in chastity, did she edge you without letting you cum and then put your cock back in the cage? That must have been one strong orgasm after being in chastity for a month.
She hasnt started edging me yet but I normally give her oral service 3 times a wk & she crops me twice a wk. While my orgasm was pretty good, It wasnt over the top because I wasnt able to get hard enough to get good, full penetration. She did give me one hand job in the last month that left me screaming for almost a minute. She made me put my breast forms on, dry humped from behind while giving me a reach around & I caught all my cum in my hand. When I was done she ordered me to eat it. I hesitated & she repeated her instruction so sternly that fear of being cropped kicked in & I immediately licked it all up. I actually enjoyed the taste. Good training for next wkend when I'll be her cum eating cuckold, cleaning her Bulls cock & his cum from her pussy! :D
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Unread post by sc good cuck » Fri Feb 23, 2018 5:36 am

She loves my size (or at least likes my size) and endurance, but I chose "Other" because she just needs more sex than I'm capable of sustaining. She would have sex 10 to 15 times a week if it were available. I have satisfied her for a few days at a time, but I just can't sustain that.

We actually have more sex when she is playing than when she isn't. I get very excited during her active times.

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Unread post by NC-hotwife-hubby » Fri Feb 23, 2018 8:42 am

Yes NCHW craves sex but with big cocks.
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Unread post by subguy80 » Sat Feb 24, 2018 6:08 am

I checked "other" because my wife doesn't have a problem with my dick or my endurance or any other part of our sex. She just, simply, needs variety and the excitement of sex with other penises than just mine.

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Unread post by fkmywfxn » Sat Feb 24, 2018 12:16 pm

Sex with me is less than satisfying to her after experiencing his much bigger cock. She still loves me but she is only horny for him to fuck her. She likes me to watch but she has no desire for me to fuck her after he is finished with her.

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Unread post by carolinacuck » Sun Feb 25, 2018 4:40 am

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

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Unread post by jpapjp » Sun Feb 25, 2018 9:01 am

I voted length, girth, stroke, and other. She likes big cocks on real MEN for sexual satisfaction. She likes making love with me for emotional satisfaction.

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Unread post by Minnhotwife » Wed Feb 28, 2018 7:04 pm

Hi all!

Thanks for the post. For sure both my wife and I are disappointed in my ED and frequent inability to stay hard. It’s one of the main reasons I wanted my wife to have sex with other men. Thankfully her first lover had a phenomenal sex drive and could have sex every few hours during the night. They even had some outdoor sex during her recent trip to see him.

When I do stay hard, she loves my cock size and girth. It helps me stay hard when my wife tells me what she did or wants to do with her lover or talks about his cock. It’s like a natural viagra. :D

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Unread post by jw_kk » Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:08 am

I answered "Other" and "Nothing."

My wife has a combination of needs, including novelty-seeking behaviors, attention-seeking behaviors and the need for variety. She was never "happily monogamous," even as far back as when we were dating, and her underlying psychological make-up led her to have a number of affairs and cheating episodes.

Once we had the underlying issues out in the open, discussed them, and understood them, I support her desire to have sex with other men, with many men, and neither of us see it as a deficiency with me, my cock size, ability to perform or pleasure her - she loves my cock, and having sex with me, but she also craves strange, new cock, and the attention from an unfamiliar partner for sex, eroticism, and sexual intimacy, from kissing and being held, dancing, to fucking and sucking.

In the end, once we both figured this out, we've been more deeply in love, and enjoy a much more satisfying, and intense sexual relationship in isolation, as a couple, as well as her extramarital activity.

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Unread post by bradisalpha » Tue Mar 06, 2018 11:31 pm

jw_kk wrote:I answered "Other" and "Nothing."

My wife has a combination of needs, including novelty-seeking behaviors, attention-seeking behaviors and the need for variety. She was never "happily monogamous," even as far back as when we were dating, and her underlying psychological make-up led her to have a number of affairs and cheating episodes.

Once we had the underlying issues out in the open, discussed them, and understood them, I support her desire to have sex with other men, with many men, and neither of us see it as a deficiency with me, my cock size, ability to perform or pleasure her - she loves my cock, and having sex with me, but she also craves strange, new cock, and the attention from an unfamiliar partner for sex, eroticism, and sexual intimacy, from kissing and being held, dancing, to fucking and sucking.

In the end, once we both figured this out, we've been more deeply in love, and enjoy a much more satisfying, and intense sexual relationship in isolation, as a couple, as well as her extramarital activity.
Good for you. The thrill of something new.. and different.. is very intoxicating. The extra attention is very arousing and probably the main reason that leads to cheating.. enjoying the attention.. the ariusal.. the thirst for more.. sexual fantasies being cultivated and elevated.. and finally the uncontrollable urges to experience and satisfy her sexual desires. It is a process that starts with a little spark that may just be the closeness of a friend or coworker turned flirty.. the feel or touch from someone dancing or the physical attractiveness of a man (or woman). That little spark can continually grow at a slow pace or turn to flame very quickly, but the progression is the same.. and it is very intense. It is hard to ignore these emotions even if they are never acted on, but the thrill of the adventure is what she feels.

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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Wed Mar 07, 2018 3:56 am

jw_kk wrote:I answered "Other" and "Nothing."

My wife has a combination of needs, including novelty-seeking behaviors, attention-seeking behaviors and the need for variety. She was never "happily monogamous," even as far back as when we were dating, and her underlying psychological make-up led her to have a number of affairs and cheating episodes.

Once we had the underlying issues out in the open, discussed them, and understood them, I support her desire to have sex with other men, with many men, and neither of us see it as a deficiency with me, my cock size, ability to perform or pleasure her - she loves my cock, and having sex with me, but she also craves strange, new cock, and the attention from an unfamiliar partner for sex, eroticism, and sexual intimacy, from kissing and being held, dancing, to fucking and sucking.

In the end, once we both figured this out, we've been more deeply in love, and enjoy a much more satisfying, and intense sexual relationship in isolation, as a couple, as well as her extramarital activity.
This is our situation. I love the excitement of new relationships and being exposed to a wide variety of sexual partners of different ages, races, ethnicities, religions, personalities, physical attributes, and sexual techniques. This is in no way a result of any deficiency on my husband's part.
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Unread post by truther » Wed Mar 07, 2018 10:03 am

Minnhotwife wrote:Hi all!

Thanks for the post. For sure both my wife and I are disappointed in my ED and frequent inability to stay hard. It’s one of the main reasons I wanted my wife to have sex with other men. Thankfully her first lover had a phenomenal sex drive and could have sex every few hours during the night. They even had some outdoor sex during her recent trip to see him.

When I do stay hard, she loves my cock size and girth. It helps me stay hard when my wife tells me what she did or wants to do with her lover or talks about his cock. It’s like a natural viagra. :D
I've got to think a very positive first experience is something everyone wishes for. Not saying a couple who commits to getting answers won't eventually get them, but to have an encounter exceed expectation has to be an eye-opener and a something to build on.
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Unread post by Wisher » Wed Mar 07, 2018 11:19 am

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Unread post by truther » Fri Apr 06, 2018 8:12 am

Prolly my not being more alpha in bed. Think she'd like being led and pushed some too. And while it's not something she'd ever voice, I think, I'm certain my not having particularly great stamina in a consistent way has limited her reaching orgasm as often as she might. And she's never had multiple climaxes with me though she experienced that before with at least a couple of prior partners. Only one of her other lovers had a much bigger (thicker. really) penis, but she freely admits he made her cum the most and the hardest. She attributes that to his skill and stamina as much as his girth but I do think she's protecting my feelings some on that!

I'm not terrible in this regard either, I believe, and once in a great while can even get to a point where I'm in absolute control. but you know how it is, you have to fuck your way to that point and the excitement I still get with my wife often makes that impossible.
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