Re: To Cuckoldresses : How old were you when you first cuckolded your partner ?
Posted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 10:57 pm
23 to 30 crowd ahead !!
We need more votes !!
Brad
We need more votes !!
Brad
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I think this is probably right. But I think it has more to do with the men. Cheating goes both ways, but it almost always causes a disruption, and a reckoning, as it were, in a relationship. Not that it's right, but I do think men are programmed to the idea that their women cheating is something not to be tolerated, a dealbreaker of the first magnitude. AndI do think it is far more likely to be an instantaneous and absolute relationship killer than when a male cheats on a female.bradisalpha wrote:With the younger ages showing the highest numbers in the poll, I have to think that most of the women cheated as the first step in cuckolding their husband or BF.
Brad
This is our path too. But the cheating happened a very long time ago. I think it's a common denominator for a lot of men, regardless of when they may come to wanting it.truecuckold wrote:In my experience , my wife began cuckolding me by cheating first , then it developed into cuckoldingbradisalpha wrote:Well, the 23 to 30 age bracket is still way ahead of the older brackets. Do you think cheating also encouraged cuckoldresses at the early ages.
Brad
That’s how it started for us, with some extramarital relationships for me in my late twenties and early thirties. But it took a long time afterwards for us to work things through before officially opening up our marriage.bradisalpha wrote:With the younger ages showing the highest numbers in the poll, I have to think that most of the women cheated as the first step in cuckolding their husband or BF.
Brad
Men and women have wandering eyes the longer they are married. Running the numbers, women have more opportunities, especially out in the workplace. For those of us husbands that are excited by this, it is an enhancement and not the usual threat, as long as honestly prevails.truther wrote:This is our path too. But the cheating happened a very long time ago. I think it's a common denominator for a lot of men, regardless of when they may come to wanting it.truecuckold wrote:In my experience , my wife began cuckolding me by cheating first , then it developed into cuckoldingbradisalpha wrote:Well, the 23 to 30 age bracket is still way ahead of the older brackets. Do you think cheating also encouraged cuckoldresses at the early ages.
Brad
Of the 3 real life cuckoldress' that I know, none of them were talked into doing this (myself included). When my husband proposed, I told him that he was NOT going to be the last man I slept with, and if he couldn't handle that than I wasn't the right woman for him. That being said, it was probably 4-5 years into our marriage before I slept with another, with both hubbies blessing and encouragement.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Sat Jul 09, 2016 2:14 amYep, the poll is interesting !!! I had thought that the younger ages would be higher but then thought no, the older would probably be higher because so many men take years to talk their wives into it.
You definitely have some good points about the male millennials.. they are now taught to be less aggressive.. less Alpha !! That will leave many more female millennials looking for the attributes you possess .. an Alpha’s smorgasbord !!!Doc6976 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 02, 2018 1:17 pmI Have to agree with Brad about the younger generation part. I’m 42 and I work with many younger Nurse’s who constantly flirt with me and it’s just mainstream flirting but when they see me with my wife they all get wet! I’ve been told by countless younger women that ‘millennial’ men are just not manly enough for them or simply can’t take charge the way they want. Also, helps that on top of being a PA (Physician Assistant) I went back to being a Firefighter full time...that definitely helps drop the panties.
Well in our case Brad is right on. She cheated first then the cuckolding relationship developed.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Tue Jul 12, 2016 6:12 amWell, the 23 to 30 age bracket is still way ahead of the older brackets. Do you think cheating also encouraged cuckoldresses at the early ages.
Brad
Likewise i accepted my darling wife needed more than my experience could give her.cucked wrote: ↑Thu Aug 01, 2019 9:27 pmWell in our case Brad is right on. She cheated first then the cuckolding relationship developed.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Tue Jul 12, 2016 6:12 amWell, the 23 to 30 age bracket is still way ahead of the older brackets. Do you think cheating also encouraged cuckoldresses at the early ages.
Brad
How did you find out she was “spreading” for other guys?tractorman2 wrote: ↑Fri Aug 02, 2019 6:38 amLikewise i accepted my darling wife needed more than my experience could give her.cucked wrote: ↑Thu Aug 01, 2019 9:27 pmWell in our case Brad is right on. She cheated first then the cuckolding relationship developed.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Tue Jul 12, 2016 6:12 amWell, the 23 to 30 age bracket is still way ahead of the older brackets. Do you think cheating also encouraged cuckoldresses at the early ages.
Brad
I don't consider that the first step in cuckolding. That's serious classic cuckolding, rather than the consensual fetish sort. I actually think it's even hotter. I know most people think it's wrong, and I don't even disagree with it being wrong.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Sun Jul 17, 2016 1:04 amWith the younger ages showing the highest numbers in the poll, I have to think that most of the women cheated as the first step in cuckolding their husband or BF.
Brad
Now you’ve read Mrs TM2 response to this question here is my, her husbands, her cucks reply,tractorman2 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 08, 2019 6:38 amFor me that is a very difficult question to answer as over the years our relationship has progressed from being the hot girlfriend to the adulteress wife, to swinging, having lovers over the years and finely to having a master and bull.
Looking back I suppose I cuckolded my husband right back to the beginning of our relationship although I was unaware of what cuckolding was then. My first indiscretion was when I was 16 years old and met up with an older man whom I had chased when I was 15 and he was in his 30s. I met him whilst he was painting the windows in my old school during the summer holidays (I thought he was gorgeous and had an instant crush on him). We shared a couple of kisses and that was that.
When I was 16 years old I started going out in our local town and frequented quite a few pubs (commonly known as a pub crawl). I was young, had a job, so I had plenty of money to spend bought lots of clothes, typical teenager behaviour. I meet my lovely husband during this time period.
On one of these said nights I bumped into the guy I had a crush on the previous year and from then on he started going out around town and chased me every time I saw him. He would ask to take me out. Eventually I said yes and I arranged a clandestine meeting with him and we went to a local pub. As I entered the pub I was greeted by my boyfriend’s friend, yes bad news so I about turned quick sharp and left the pub. We drove around a bit and found a layby and had a kiss and a cuddle but the moment was lost. I then felt extremely guilty and confessed to my then future husband. Who was not very happy at all (which is an understatement to say the least) and after many tears on my behalf, I promised never to do anything like this again.
So time moves on and I am now 17 years old and decide to go on holiday to Spain with my best friend at the time with the agreement of my boyfriend. Hmmm well I was drunk one night and this fit bloke was giving me the eye, we started smooching and before you know it, I am back at his hotel room getting fucked. I had a one night stand and it was wham bam thank you mam shag; So after the alcohol had worn off, I was gutted with myself and basically cried and ruined the holiday from then on for my best mate. The holiday ended and we flew home. My boyfriend was there to pick me up at the airport and yep I felt guilty. On the journey home I confessed to him but this time there were no strong words from him, just curiosity, which I found a bit bizarre at the time. He asked me about the details of my drunken indiscretion. This obvious made him feeling horny as we started to kiss in the car and then he fucked me in the back of his car in a layby on the road.
So my future husband became a cuckold after picking up his 17 year old girlfriend from the airport after her holiday in Spain.
Mrs TM.