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Ky_Da wrote:This has been a fun and informative read. My wife and I have started playing a little with denial, and I've found it to be a lot of fun. I don't see us going too far with it though. I love to read about others experiences with long term denial, I find it fascinating. My wife is definitely looser now than when we first married, and that's enough to remind me that her pussy is no longer exclusively mine. For now, this is all I can handle.

Ky_Da, great to see you back. Hope everything is fine with you and Jamiee

Fleshlight works for us when Im unlocked from chastity and allowed to cum I’m more than happy to use my fleshlight so she can keep my P free

My wife has decided she never wants to feel my penis in her again. I'm in permanent chastity and cut off from all pussy from now on.

I did not realize how many couples had a similar evolution in their relationship as us. For about seven months, my husband has stopped having sex with other women. For five months, we have stopped all penetrative sex. We still make love, but he puts big dildos inside me instead of his dick. The dildos are far more pleasurable than his dick, and I find our lovemaking is so much more satisfying now. I did miss his cum inside me, but no longer. I also felt some guilt that he might not be enjoying himself, but I realize that he is happy with the current state of affairs. In fact, when I previously offered to let him inside me, he refused. I give him handjobs, and let him come on my chest and abdomen. I used to think semen was icky, but I now find it erotic to rub it into my nipples with his dick. I used to give him blowjobs, not to completion, but have started denying him that lately. As for me, I still get real cocks inside me with my lovers.

daveleonard wrote:Fleshlight works for us when Im unlocked from chastity and allowed to cum I’m more than happy to use my fleshlight so she can keep my P free

My Wife made me get rid of my Fleshlight. She told me sissy cuckolds dont get pussy...even fake pussy.

i dont get to use mine much as she wants me P free and im locked 24/7 in chastity

My HW has been with her lover for 10 years. When we first started I would always have reclaim sex with her. Her lover is an alpha with a fat cock. She loves how it feels, and I loved fucking her stretched out pussy after they'd been together. Starting a couple of years ago she started telling me how much more satisfying sex was with him and he became a master at making her cum. She became less and less interested in having sex with me, and it became more and more of a turn on for me. Ironically, we have become closer through that process. She has even stopped sucking me. I beat off a lot and love it when I can just look at her beautiful naked body and jerk. She tells me about all the great sex and tells me how pathetic I am at satisfying her. She is so happy she doesn't have to fuck me. Her pussy belongs solely to the fat alpha cock and both of us have never been happier or more satisfied. Who knew not having sex would make a dude totally sexually satisfied. Lol!

My wife denies me and lets only licking her clit till orgasm. I am happy she enjoys it, and I masturbate, when I am alone.

She denies me sex I only eat her pussy unless cum is in it
She will jack me off after she fucked a bf

Her bull has me wearing cock cages, butt plugged and panties.
My wife loves this to no end and I do too

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:Her bull has me wearing cock cages, butt plugged and panties.
My wife loves this to no end and I do too

Can you share some of the things your wife has said about this? Also, any ways she interacts with you once this began?

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:Her bull has me wearing cock cages, butt plugged and panties.
My wife loves this to no end and I do too

The way it should be !!

Brad

i don’t get to fuck my wife anymore. Just clean up after her and her lover. I’m soon to be put in a cock cage so I don’t see that changing anytime soon either.

When I do all my duties my wife let me masturbate for her naked once a month. On my birthday I can fuck her. I can masturbate once a week with her pictures, but usually supervised. Sometimes she makes me clean her after her dates.

When we had a regular Bull last year, I only got sex with her after he had cum at least once, if that. Even then, they would fuck three or four times a night and I just got one release. It was really hot knowing that the only way I was going to get any was after him. I literally went a year that I never had her that another man's cum wasn't already in her. Most cuck's will understand just how that feels!

We stopped seeing each other in November and things returned to normal with us having sex a couple times a week.

hando wrote:My wife and I have sex, but it just doesn't involve intercourse. Right now, it's been a little over 7 months since I last touched her vagina with my cock, and I'm fairly certain it'll be a long time before it happens again. We have sex all the time, but it's oral for her and hand jobs for me.

An update: It turned out to be 14 months before my wife allowed me inside her pussy again, and that was in February of 2017, so 2016 was pussy-free for me. Up until then, it was the longest denial period I'd been through since we got married.

Now, I've gone over 15 months since that last fuck, and there isn't going to be another fuck for me, ever. It was decided to limit me to one cum every 2 months, and I do oral on her whenever she wants. I get a single cum hand job on the 10th day of every odd numbered month. I'm no longer masturbating at all and I don't have erections until my bi-monthly hand job. curiously, my last 2 hand jobs were different. I was so excited that I had orgasms before I got an erection. I'd only cum one time while soft before those two, and it was way back in the 70's. Now, I'm wondering if it's going to be like that from now on. We'll know in a few days.

Current Restrictions
not allowed to take my wife without Sir's permission.
service Sir on demand... also service any other bull on Sir's orders
accept if caged by Sir to wear it until he releases me

hando wrote:

hando wrote:My wife and I have sex, but it just doesn't involve intercourse. Right now, it's been a little over 7 months since I last touched her vagina with my cock, and I'm fairly certain it'll be a long time before it happens again. We have sex all the time, but it's oral for her and hand jobs for me.

An update: It turned out to be 14 months before my wife allowed me inside her pussy again, and that was in February of 2017, so 2016 was pussy-free for me. Up until then, it was the longest denial period I'd been through since we got married.

Now, I've gone over 15 months since that last fuck, and there isn't going to be another fuck for me, ever. It was decided to limit me to one cum every 2 months, and I do oral on her whenever she wants. I get a single cum hand job on the 10th day of every odd numbered month. I'm no longer masturbating at all and I don't have erections until my bi-monthly hand job. curiously, my last 2 hand jobs were different. I was so excited that I had orgasms before I got an erection. I'd only cum one time while soft before those two, and it was way back in the 70's. Now, I'm wondering if it's going to be like that from now on. We'll know in a few days.

I would imagine that will be the normal for you now. Being locked up is a conditioning for staying soft. Your dicky involuntarily stays soft to save from feeling pain trying to grow in a small space and yet be sexually aroused.. and that will carry over to times you are let out of the cage also. But.. the feeling will be so intense that you will cum !!

Brad

Very informative topic, its good to see others going this path. Not at full denial but now I know where it leads to.
Our sex life is very intensive but if it comes to penetrative sex is going to be less frequent. Once per month or so. Most of the times I masturbate in bed laying next to wife whilst we have dirty talk. She enjoys deny me more and more. Shes fully satisfied by her BF if we talk about penetrative sex also my size and stamina is far behind him so she doesnt need me at this department. Its a matter of time when I become pussy free cuck. Scarry yet exciting thought.

I have experienced few restrictions placed on me other than on the odd occasions where at the request of her bull after he has spend hours pounding her that he has asked me not to have sex with my wife until he returned a few days later to finish what he had started. She has agreed with his request and so have I. As a long term cuck I have found that mentally I have gone from wanting to have sex with my wife to preferring to see her pleasured by other men as I became more involved in being a successful cuck.

Since I was in my 20s I have advance on from enjoying other men looking at her to fantasising not about me making love to her but watching other men doing so. I have found that when satisfied elsewhere rather than wanting me inside her which she still does occasionally, she repays me with what I like her dressing for me outside and allowing me to take pictures of her. Fitted with a CB gives us both what we want, it keeps me wanting and turned on and in return I allow her to gain her pleasures elsewhere.

It works for us as we are deeply in love and have a honest and fulfilling relationship and are best friends.

sigmax wrote:Very informative topic, its good to see others going this path. Not at full denial but now I know where it leads to.
Our sex life is very intensive but if it comes to penetrative sex is going to be less frequent. Once per month or so. Most of the times I masturbate in bed laying next to wife whilst we have dirty talk. She enjoys deny me more and more. Shes fully satisfied by her BF if we talk about penetrative sex also my size and stamina is far behind him so she doesnt need me at this department. Its a matter of time when I become pussy free cuck. Scarry yet exciting thought.

Yes, that thought is scary. I enjoy the excitement I see in cuckolds as we reach the point of total denial. His wife and I deny him more and more .. a little at a time .. and enjoy the nervousness and arousal that we see increase each time. But when it comes to the point of total denial, he will get very nervous.. sometimes to the point of uncontrollable shaking.. and as we tell him his new rules his arousal will grow to the point of cumming without touching himself. Sometimes I think the cuckold husband is enjoying his denial more than I am !!

So, you have a lot to look forward to as you progress down this path.. and a lot of scary excitement and arousal on the way.

Brad

According to your poll at this point 46% of the respondents claim to have no sex with their wives/gfs. Here's some quotes:

subguy80 wrote:I love being the sub to his alpha role and the idea right now turns me on big time, even though I sometimes miss fucking

turbo55 wrote:I do not use my penis. It's locked and not coming out anytime soon. It might seem crazy but ........

1Pumpndump wrote:........and if I'm lucky, get to kiss and lick her Asshole and Outside of her Pussy(I'm not allowed to Taste her), I finish her off with a finger session, and sex toy, and if I'm lucky, she Frigs herself furiously, while I keep it up with my hands! She moans his name Sincerely while she cums!
My reward is next to nothing........lightly stroking my hard, Jealous cock, where I hump her hand in frustration....like a boy, not a Man! ......

hando wrote:.....she only allows me inside her about once a year.

OwnedCuck wrote:I'm glad to know there are others in my situation. ....... I am envious of her bull having sex with her and getting blow jobs from her.

jagman1957 wrote:Mostly I finger her. Rarely I eat her out. She never gives me head anymore.

cpeater wrote:My wife has never really enjoyed sucking me, but really loves sucking her FWB. On the audio recording she made lately, she (and naturally he) are pretty dang enthusiastic about it.

Captaintiny wrote:My wife has decided she never wants to feel my penis in her again.

kccum15 wrote:........She has even stopped sucking me. I beat off a lot and love it when I can just look at her beautiful naked body and jerk. She tells me about all the great sex and tells me how pathetic I am at satisfying her. She is so happy she doesn't have to fuck me.

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:She will jack me off after she fucked a bf

Cuck_Steve wrote:i don’t get to fuck my wife anymore.

If you were in charge of marketing for denial I think you'd have a difficult time selling this! I get that this is a kink for the select few and understandably so. It would bother me that my wife would perform acts that she has never done for me. It would bother me more that she wold derive pleasure from crushing my ego. It would bother me even more to think my wife no longer found me sexually attractive, while I lust every moment for any kind of sex with her. I would become deeply resentful if were forced to accept scraps, and beg for attention.

I understand acknowledging and even embracing your inadequacies but, I still would want to be satisfied by wife in a way that made me feel appreciated. I just can't imagine having to accept my wife saying, "Honey, it's just better this way! You'll get used to it! I'm sorry you never got to fuck my ass but really it's for the best! I know it seems like I've lost all enthusiasm for you sexually but I still love you!" Sounds like bullshit to me!

Fortunately I am not denied too often even though I am caged daily. Shell and I decided I needed to be caged so that I would be constantly reminded that I am owned by my love and superior female...my HWShell. And I am chastity to keep from playing with myself without her permission. She says I am much firmer and more eager to please her when she cums home from work with the promise of releasing me for her pleasure. She also likes the look of her cuck in a metal cage and sometimes leather accessories. She often texts me and instructs me to be standing in the front window or on the porch with nothing more than a collar and cage on when she pulls into the driveway.

coastalkid wrote:According to your poll at this point 46% of the respondents claim to have no sex with their wives/gfs. Here's some quotes:

subguy80 wrote:I love being the sub to his alpha role and the idea right now turns me on big time, even though I sometimes miss fucking

turbo55 wrote:I do not use my penis. It's locked and not coming out anytime soon. It might seem crazy but ........

1Pumpndump wrote:........and if I'm lucky, get to kiss and lick her Asshole and Outside of her Pussy(I'm not allowed to Taste her), I finish her off with a finger session, and sex toy, and if I'm lucky, she Frigs herself furiously, while I keep it up with my hands! She moans his name Sincerely while she cums!
My reward is next to nothing........lightly stroking my hard, Jealous cock, where I hump her hand in frustration....like a boy, not a Man! ......

hando wrote:.....she only allows me inside her about once a year.

OwnedCuck wrote:I'm glad to know there are others in my situation. ....... I am envious of her bull having sex with her and getting blow jobs from her.

jagman1957 wrote:Mostly I finger her. Rarely I eat her out. She never gives me head anymore.

cpeater wrote:My wife has never really enjoyed sucking me, but really loves sucking her FWB. On the audio recording she made lately, she (and naturally he) are pretty dang enthusiastic about it.

Captaintiny wrote:My wife has decided she never wants to feel my penis in her again.

kccum15 wrote:........She has even stopped sucking me. I beat off a lot and love it when I can just look at her beautiful naked body and jerk. She tells me about all the great sex and tells me how pathetic I am at satisfying her. She is so happy she doesn't have to fuck me.

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:She will jack me off after she fucked a bf

Cuck_Steve wrote:i don’t get to fuck my wife anymore.

If you were in charge of marketing for denial I think you'd have a difficult time selling this! I get that this is a kink for the select few and understandably so. It would bother me that my wife would perform acts that she has never done for me. It would bother me more that she wold derive pleasure from crushing my ego. It would bother me even more to think my wife no longer found me sexually attractive, while I lust every moment for any kind of sex with her. I would become deeply resentful if were forced to accept scraps, and beg for attention.

I understand acknowledging and even embracing your inadequacies but, I still would want to be satisfied by wife in a way that made me feel appreciated. I just can't imagine having to accept my wife saying, "Honey, it's just better this way! You'll get used to it! I'm sorry you never got to fuck my ass but really it's for the best! I know it seems like I've lost all enthusiasm for you sexually but I still love you!" Sounds like bullshit to me!

I am denied and "humiliated" because she knew that is initially what turned me on, and it just happen to work out well for her as well in the end. It was born out what I initially wanted and what turned me on. We have never been closer, and I have never been more sexually satisfied, and its the same for her. I know it is F'd up to say that not having sex makes you more sexually satisfied, but it does. I think it is like saying "letting my wife fuck another man brought us closer" There are a ton of folks in the world that would go ape-sh*t over hearing that and think the person was completely insane. In every other facet of our marriage my wife is extremely respectful and support of me, and always has been. This is a purely sexual kink, and I am glad that myself and others can express it here.

sigmax wrote:Very informative topic, its good to see others going this path. Not at full denial but now I know where it leads to.
Our sex life is very intensive but if it comes to penetrative sex is going to be less frequent. Once per month or so. Most of the times I masturbate in bed laying next to wife whilst we have dirty talk. She enjoys deny me more and more. Shes fully satisfied by her BF if we talk about penetrative sex also my size and stamina is far behind him so she doesnt need me at this department. Its a matter of time when I become pussy free cuck. Scarry yet exciting thought.

It's very exciting. At first it was tough for me but now I look at the extremely rare time we have sex as the start of something beautiful since I know it'll be a long time before I get her again. I cum so fast in her now it leaves her dissatisfied and really seems to ramp up her need for a real good fuck with someone else!

Edit: to be clear, I don't cum inside her. Only other guys are allowed to cum on and in her.