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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by yielding william » Wed Aug 30, 2017 12:57 am

My wife's first experience was with a boss she was temporarily assigned to for four months. It began just a couple of weeks after they began working together and lasted only two weeks after she transferred. The likelihood of losing a wife to her boss is slim. She most likely isn't his first employee he's been inside and won't be the last.

I wouldn't worry about it unless she begins giving indications of a deep attachment beyond the temporary feelings a woman gets at the moments she's being fucked. When another guy's dick is inside her, it's common for a wife to feel she's in love with the other man but that flaming emotion isn't lasting.

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Wed Aug 30, 2017 1:18 am

yielding william wrote:My wife's first experience was with a boss she was temporarily assigned to for four months. It began just a couple of weeks after they began working together and lasted only two weeks after she transferred. The likelihood of losing a wife to her boss is slim. She most likely isn't his first employee he's been inside and won't be the last.

I wouldn't worry about it unless she begins giving indications of a deep attachment beyond the temporary feelings a woman gets at the moments she's being fucked. When another guy's dick is inside her, it's common for a wife to feel she's in love with the other man but that flaming emotion isn't lasting.
I wouldn't say she loves him. Definitely not. But she has developed some kind of bonding with him. It's probably due to her submissive feelings towards him. It's a strong affection, but not love. I don't think she would want to replace me as a husband with him. But I do see how he is becoming more important in her life. And she is not about short-term relationships either, she is thinking long-term with him. That's ok, I honestly prefer as well a more stable relationship than switching the lover every few months.
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Unread post by ShyBiGuy954 » Wed Aug 30, 2017 5:32 am

You might be interested in reading this thread about new tits posted on here recently.

http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=41183
Her: Did you like eating my pussy tonight?
Me: Of course, why?
Her: Your my second date tonight, I already fucked ******
(it was a guy I worked with)

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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by HowardRoarke » Wed Aug 30, 2017 6:02 am

Him becoming more important to her shouldn't be an issue. That's part of the progression, especially with Dom/sub relationships. Also agree that he doesn't seem interested in replacing you in your role as her husband.

His actions frequently seem to be more in line with an attempt at replacing you in her affections, though. The gradual molding of her, his refusal to include you in any meaningful way, breaking her Down on this recent trip to Mexico. It all seems pretty strategic.

Ask other Doms. He's "grooming" her. Or at least he's trying to.

So, "more important"? No problem.

"More important than you"? Problem.

Find a way to pay for her.boobjob yourself. He gets to enjoy them as a "thank you" for helping convince her to get the procedure. That ought to be the.extent of her "indebtedness" and "commitment" to him.

Good luck. And I really enjoy your wife's writing.

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Unread post by Samanthasman » Wed Aug 30, 2017 6:58 am

BJohn56 wrote:Sorry, but I think this whole situation has become a little ridiculous. At first, I thought you had exactly what you wanted, and that Gema was doing a masterful job of keeping the men in her life happy. But as this has proceeded, I don't think that's the case after all... or at least not anymore. He wants her to get a boob job? Seriously? And Gema has so little self-esteem that she would consider this? If nothing else, I would think that the idea that Gerardo wants this shows it's not Gema that he cares about at all, but the idea of Gema, the fact that she's his whore, to do with as he pleases, and as his money dictates. And to say it is a matter of trust is a joke. It's a matter of control, pure and simple. And Gema has already shown him that she's obviously for sale, the price is the only thing that's actually negotiable. I've attempted talking with her on her blog several times, trying to get a read on what the situation truly is, because I'm concerned for you as well, Daniel. But she dodges the questions she doesn't want to answer every time because she KNOWS the answers and is afraid you'll discover the truth if you check her blog and she admits as much there. or maybe it's simply because she doesn't want to admit the truth to herself, I don't know. But the fact is that you're slowly but surely losing her, Daniel. Losing her. She's your wife, not Gerado's, yet what you really think doesn't appear to matter to her as much as what she wants, which is determined by what her boss/master/pimp wants. And surprise, surprise, if she accepts this surgery, then she will also need to spend yet more time with Gerardo and less with her husband. Time spent in luxurious locations, in pimping her out on business deals, in letting her fuck other men at his whim and pleasure, when he decides to, all very exciting I'm sure. She doesn't have to think at all, just do as she's told, and pretend it's a negotiation because that's the game he has her playing. Letting her think she has a say in things when she truly doesn't. More like she does what he wants and he pretends to make little concessions so that she'll think she maybe still has some semblance of control but doesn't. She's long since embraced this whole situation, and I can even see a mock wedding or binding of some sort shortly down the road, where he cuts the nuisance husband even further out of the picture. It was her idea to give Gerard a week away with her, no? Was that something she discussed with you so as if you had any real input in the decision? She wanted to do it, and so made pretence of giving her poor husband one single night where he could have her how he wanted as some kind of sham compensation, so he wouldn't give her a hard time about it or actually, maybe, grow a set of balls and simply tell her... no. No. NO.

Look, I understand that having a hotwife is an exciting lifestyle or I wouldn't be on this forum, but as I pointed out to her, she's no longer really a hotwife at all, she's simply Gerardo's whore now, and it makes life a lot easier to not have to scratch out a living like the rest of us anymore, with a golden parachute in her boss to pay her way and ask nothing of her but her body and soul in return. I asked her on more than one occasion what would she do if you, her husband, said enough was enough, and she avoided having to answer that every time, which of course, is an answer in itself. She will not give Gerardo or the lifestyle he provides, or the fascination of being his whore, up, period. Not even for you, it seems. or, if there's any hope to be had, maybe she would if you said no, and gave her a "you or him" ultimatum as a choice, but she didn't want to admit it on her blog as you might see it and realize you still had a chance to save your marriage, I don't know.

It's long since moved beyond the hotwife lifestyle in my opinion. In the lifestyle, this is all done as something that both partners agree to, that turns them both on, and that actually enhances their love life. When's the last time you felt like you could even get laid by your own wife with any kind of certainty? The night of the compensation for her week away? Gerardo has turned you, her husband, into nothing more than a prop for his fantasies of controlling your wife as he so wishes. You even film her for him. However he wants. Whatever he wants you're compelled to do for Gema. Obviously, I'm not there to see all the interactions between you and your wife, or your wife and Gerardo, so I can only base my opinion on what you both give us in your own words here and on her blog. And on my gut feeling from having read so much of what other couples in the lifestyle have experienced and/or gone through in their own journeys. But I honestly worry about you both. Gema, in that, unless she's something other than a good-hearted person and is actually just manipulating you as much as Gerardo manipulates her, she's going to lose the love of her life and herself if she continues all this much further. And I worry for you that out of love for her and playing the slave/cuckold you'll lose your marriage and your wife to this old fart who enjoys you both like playthings or toys, and that even if you keep your marriage intact it'll be nothing but in name only, as Gema/Gerardo keep you as her pet, like a good dog, or fancy bird in a cage, simply for their amusement.

Anyway, I want you to know that I don't say all this in judgement of either you or Gema, because I respect your rights to live in any kind of lifestyle or arrangement you both wish naturally. I say it more as in a warning of what it seems like is already happening in hopes that you may still be able to see this relationship she's gotten herself into for what it is. And that maybe she'll see it as well, unless she already knows it for what it is and simply prefers it over your marriage without the money, master/pimp, car, and exotic trips. But mainly that maybe you still can put your foot down, at least take back some bit of control, and stop the obvious downward spiral into what may end unhappily in the near future.

I truly wish you both luck. I think Gema is a good woman who has maybe gotten herself into something so completely, that she no longer can seem to see the forest for the trees and may end up losing what matters most, her own love in you, and for her marriage. And if that ends up happening, all the love and support from you may not be able to help her if she falls into the abyss too deeply. But whatever happens, I truly hope you both find happiness in whatever choices you make, or don't make. I just wanted to say my long piece here, because, for me, it's like seeing a car wreck or something, and only wishing I could've said something to help forestall it. And now I have.
Reading this whole diatribe honestly got me a little hot ;)

"...she is his whore... pimping her out...submissive...", ummm, yeah, that's the whole point! That's all really hot. Is she getting lost is this? Probably, who would not? Is he getting lost is this? Ummm, yeah, what cuck would not. It's an ultra hot scenario.

We don't really know these people. The hubby knows his wife better than we do. A wealthy dom buying his sub tits? Ummm, yeah, that's how it works.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by Zona » Wed Aug 30, 2017 9:10 pm

It has become clear to at least one commentator here--BJohn56--that Gema has allowed herself to become a prostitute. I agree. And a rather cheap one at that. She fucks Gerardo for a few bucks raise in salary and a company car. She fucks Gerardo's clients for a small bonus, and now she has wangled a small promotion so she can supervise an employee she wants to fuck.

She is considering allowing her boss to spend more overnights with her, but that is not enough. Now he wants her for a whole week every month.

That, my friend, is the very definition of prostitution.

Now I'm not getting all moralistic here. If she wants to be a whore that is her prerogative. I'm just saying that since she already is one and is apparently comfortable with it, she could do a LOT better financially setting herself up as a high class call girl--for example $1,000-1,500 USD for a two-hour fuck. She could also establish herself as a submissive whore and earn an additional few hundred dollars a night.

The sky is the limit if she just gets herself out from under that cheap pig who is paying her peanuts for what she is worth.

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Unread post by Zona » Wed Aug 30, 2017 9:15 pm

It has become clear to at least one commentator here--BJohn56--that Gema has allowed herself to become a prostitute. I agree. And a rather cheap one at that. She fucks Gerardo for a few bucks raise in salary and a company car. She fucks Gerardo's clients for a small bonus, and now she has wangled a small promotion so she can supervise an employee she wants to fuck.

She is considering allowing her boss to spend more overnights with her, but that is not enough. Now he wants her for a whole week every month.

That, my friend, is the very definition of prostitution.

Now I'm not getting all moralistic here. If she wants to be a whore that is her prerogative. I'm just saying that since she already is one and is apparently comfortable with it, she could do a LOT better financially setting herself up as a high class call girl--for example $1,000-1,500 USD for a two-hour fuck. She could also establish herself as a submissive whore and earn an additional few hundred dollars a night.

The sky is the limit if she just gets herself out from under that cheap pig who is paying her peanuts for what she is worth.
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Unread post by Zona » Wed Aug 30, 2017 9:18 pm

It has become clear to at least one commentator here--BJohn56--that Gema has allowed herself to become a prostitute. I agree. And a rather cheap one at that. She fucks Gerardo for a few bucks raise in salary and a company car. She fucks Gerardo's clients for a small bonus, and now she has wangled a small promotion so she can supervise an employee she wants to fuck.

She is considering allowing her boss to spend more overnights with her, but that is not enough. Now he wants her for a whole week every month.
That, my friend, is the very definition of prostitution.

Now I'm not getting all moralistic here. If she wants to be a whore that is her prerogative. I'm just saying that since she already is one and is apparently comfortable with it, she could do a LOT better financially setting herself up as a high class call girl--for example $1,000-1,500 USD for a two-hour fuck. She could also establish herself as a submissive whore and earn an additional few hundred dollars a night.

The sky is the limit if she just gets herself out from under that cheap pig who is paying her peanuts for what she is worth.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by GemsHubby » Thu Aug 31, 2017 3:56 am

Zona wrote:It has become clear to at least one commentator here--BJohn56--that Gema has allowed herself to become a prostitute. I agree. And a rather cheap one at that. She fucks Gerardo for a few bucks raise in salary and a company car. She fucks Gerardo's clients for a small bonus, and now she has wangled a small promotion so she can supervise an employee she wants to fuck.

She is considering allowing her boss to spend more overnights with her, but that is not enough. Now he wants her for a whole week every month.

That, my friend, is the very definition of prostitution.

Now I'm not getting all moralistic here. If she wants to be a whore that is her prerogative. I'm just saying that since she already is one and is apparently comfortable with it, she could do a LOT better financially setting herself up as a high class call girl--for example $1,000-1,500 USD for a two-hour fuck. She could also establish herself as a submissive whore and earn an additional few hundred dollars a night.

The sky is the limit if she just gets herself out from under that cheap pig who is paying her peanuts for what she is worth.
Well, prostitution is an ample concept. Being paid for sex? Yes, she is a prostitute. But she doesn't work the streets. She is not a high class escort, having to deal with multiple men, often with new men too. She's only had paid sex with Gerardo and this Barcelona customer. It doesn't make her less a whore if you want to see it this way. But it's not the same as being a true professional with an open service. It's for sure less profitable, but it's not (just) about the money. She rather sees herself as a sugar girl, as she has recently stated in her blog. Again, a sugar girl is a prostitute, but there are big differences.

An about establishing herself as a submissive whore, that wouldn't work at all for her. She is submissive to Gerardo, but the level is not comparable with what would be expected from a submissive. He hasn't even spanked her (yet) (as far as I know).

I think you are taking things to the extreme here. I am not offended, I just wanted to clarify.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by Samanthasman » Thu Aug 31, 2017 4:58 am

GemsHubby wrote:
Zona wrote:It has become clear to at least one commentator here--BJohn56--that Gema has allowed herself to become a prostitute. I agree. And a rather cheap one at that. She fucks Gerardo for a few bucks raise in salary and a company car. She fucks Gerardo's clients for a small bonus, and now she has wangled a small promotion so she can supervise an employee she wants to fuck.

She is considering allowing her boss to spend more overnights with her, but that is not enough. Now he wants her for a whole week every month.

That, my friend, is the very definition of prostitution.

Now I'm not getting all moralistic here. If she wants to be a whore that is her prerogative. I'm just saying that since she already is one and is apparently comfortable with it, she could do a LOT better financially setting herself up as a high class call girl--for example $1,000-1,500 USD for a two-hour fuck. She could also establish herself as a submissive whore and earn an additional few hundred dollars a night.

The sky is the limit if she just gets herself out from under that cheap pig who is paying her peanuts for what she is worth.
Well, prostitution is an ample concept. Being paid for sex? Yes, she is a prostitute. But she doesn't work the streets. She is not a high class escort, having to deal with multiple men, often with new men too. She's only had paid sex with Gerardo and this Barcelona customer. It doesn't make her less a whore if you want to see it this way. But it's not the same as being a true professional with an open service. It's for sure less profitable, but it's not (just) about the money. She rather sees herself as a sugar girl, as she has recently stated in her blog. Again, a sugar girl is a prostitute, but there are big differences.

An about establishing herself as a submissive whore, that wouldn't work at all for her. She is submissive to Gerardo, but the level is not comparable with what would be expected from a submissive. He hasn't even spanked her (yet) (as far as I know).

I think you are taking things to the extreme here. I am not offended, I just wanted to clarify.
Anyone that calls her a prostitute, is a moron, that clearly does not understand the lifestyle (and probably should find some other place to go). She is a sugar baby, but mostly she is fulfilling everyone's fantasies: her husband, her boss, her own!! Hell, through her blog she is even fulfilling my fantasy and my wife's!! A prostitute is not fulfilling anyone's fantasies other than her customer's.

It's sad to me that after someone posts on here for a while, they tend to start to attract haters that say stupid and sometimes hurtful things. People should think before they post, else all the really great threads, like this one, eventually go away.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by Mari55 » Thu Aug 31, 2017 6:35 am

@Samanthasman, please tone down. In the last few months you've become a lot more "upfront" with your views in your posts to the point that I believe that it's becoming hard to have a discussion with you. Even if you disagree with the previous poster, you did not need to use words that turn your post into a personal attack. You’re a CEO of a company, right? A very intelligent and successful person, no? I am sure you can word your views better.
People wrote their opinion and the OP was candid enough to offer his answer, disagreeing. What that has anything to do you? Oh, I know, the irony. What that has anything to do with me? Well, I don't like to read personal attacks mixed with the actual discussion and account progression.
BJohn56 voiced his opinion from a long time, Gemma's blog reader POV. It reeks of frustration and should be read with that in mind, IMHO. I don't quite disagree with Zona's POV either. Nevertheless, GemsHubby voiced his own POV about the sex worker issue and he knows Gemma better than we all can ever know. To me that puts an end to the discussion, at least until new developments arise.

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Unread post by Samanthasman » Thu Aug 31, 2017 5:49 pm

Mari55 wrote:@Samanthasman, please tone down. In the last few months you've become a lot more "upfront" with your views in your posts to the point that I believe that it's becoming hard to have a discussion with you. Even if you disagree with the previous poster, you did not need to use words that turn your post into a personal attack. You’re a CEO of a company, right? A very intelligent and successful person, no? I am sure you can word your views better.
People wrote their opinion and the OP was candid enough to offer his answer, disagreeing. What that has anything to do you? Oh, I know, the irony. What that has anything to do with me? Well, I don't like to read personal attacks mixed with the actual discussion and account progression.
BJohn56 voiced his opinion from a long time, Gemma's blog reader POV. It reeks of frustration and should be read with that in mind, IMHO. I don't quite disagree with Zona's POV either. Nevertheless, GemsHubby voiced his own POV about the sex worker issue and he knows Gemma better than we all can ever know. To me that puts an end to the discussion, at least until new developments arise.
On the contrary, I am defending the OP and not attacking them. Re-reading my comments, I have to admit, my point was made pretty well ;)

My comment was not specufically directed towards an individual, but instead designed to illustrate this as a potential example of a broader problem. To repeat, I have witnessed numerous threads essentially end because the OP gets tired of dealing with haters. I've ended my own threads simply because I was tired a dealing with haters. My wife ended her thread because she got tired of dealing with haters. It feels like most of the ladies on this site have stopped posting because of a small number of people, that I broadly refer to as haters, posting a diatribe of attacks in one form or another. The truth is that the most interesting threads are often the ones that push the boundaries, etc. These also tend to attract the most negative feedband.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by Ky_Da » Thu Aug 31, 2017 6:26 pm

Samanthasman wrote:
Mari55 wrote:@Samanthasman, please tone down. In the last few months you've become a lot more "upfront" with your views in your posts to the point that I believe that it's becoming hard to have a discussion with you. Even if you disagree with the previous poster, you did not need to use words that turn your post into a personal attack. You’re a CEO of a company, right? A very intelligent and successful person, no? I am sure you can word your views better.
People wrote their opinion and the OP was candid enough to offer his answer, disagreeing. What that has anything to do you? Oh, I know, the irony. What that has anything to do with me? Well, I don't like to read personal attacks mixed with the actual discussion and account progression.
BJohn56 voiced his opinion from a long time, Gemma's blog reader POV. It reeks of frustration and should be read with that in mind, IMHO. I don't quite disagree with Zona's POV either. Nevertheless, GemsHubby voiced his own POV about the sex worker issue and he knows Gemma better than we all can ever know. To me that puts an end to the discussion, at least until new developments arise.
On the contrary, I am defending the OP and not attacking them. Re-reading my comments, I have to admit, my point was made pretty well ;)

My comment was not specufically directed towards an individual, but instead designed to illustrate this as a potential example of a broader problem. To repeat, I have witnessed numerous threads essentially end because the OP gets tired of dealing with haters. I've ended my own threads simply because I was tired a dealing with haters. My wife ended her thread because she got tired of dealing with haters. It feels like most of the ladies on this site have stopped posting because of a small number of people, that I broadly refer to as haters, posting a diatribe of attacks in one form or another. The truth is that the most interesting threads are often the ones that push the boundaries, etc. These also tend to attract the most negative feedband.

The challenge with this lifestyle is that it's naturally conducive to push the boundaries. What feels tabboo, crazy intense and thrilling one day, quickly feels mundane and ordinary the next. We're always thinking and looking for that thing that will take it to the next level. My wife and I are already talking about how we want to escalate our experience, and I plan to write about it when it happens. And I already know it's just a matter of time before certain people are posting and telling me I'm being an idiot and I'm going to lose everything, and all the while they'll say they're only saying it because they care. And hey, maybe they do, and they might make some good points I need to think about. But in the end I'll be making my own decisions. Nevertheless, when all you get are those types of negative comments, as "well intentioned" as they may be, it saps my motivation to write about it and share.

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Unread post by elina » Thu Aug 31, 2017 6:43 pm

Samanthasman wrote: On the contrary, I am defending the OP and not attacking them. Re-reading my comments, I have to admit, my point was made pretty well ;)

My comment was not specufically directed towards an individual, but instead designed to illustrate this as a potential example of a broader problem. To repeat, I have witnessed numerous threads essentially end because the OP gets tired of dealing with haters. I've ended my own threads simply because I was tired a dealing with haters. My wife ended her thread because she got tired of dealing with haters. It feels like most of the ladies on this site have stopped posting because of a small number of people, that I broadly refer to as haters, posting a diatribe of attacks in one form or another. The truth is that the most interesting threads are often the ones that push the boundaries, etc. These also tend to attract the most negative feedband.
Thanks Samanthasman

I agree with your points, although I personally prefer to think of what you call "haters" as the "The moral majority".

As numerous persons have stated before, this section is called the "cuckold forum". It is intended to be a forum where the Ladies make decisions, are free to fuck and submit to whoever they want to, while the husband-cuckold frequently discovers that he actually likes to submit to Her decisions, likes to demonstrate his devotion to Her by encouraging Her and sharing Her joy of Her sexual freedom and how She decides to exploit this.

This will take many varieties and not all people will agree or will be able to place themselves in the position of the sometimes "humiliated-beyond-what-most-people-would-like" cuckold. But this section is not for most-people. This section is for those interested in sharing experiences in various degrees of cuckolding. So please allow those of us that do find this fascinating and wants to openly share the experiences and emotions this generates in us cuckolds or wanna-be cuckolds a place where we can interact without being subjected to attempts to cure us or put us right.

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Unread post by Samanthasman » Thu Aug 31, 2017 10:54 pm

elina wrote:
Samanthasman wrote: On the contrary, I am defending the OP and not attacking them. Re-reading my comments, I have to admit, my point was made pretty well ;)

My comment was not specufically directed towards an individual, but instead designed to illustrate this as a potential example of a broader problem. To repeat, I have witnessed numerous threads essentially end because the OP gets tired of dealing with haters. I've ended my own threads simply because I was tired a dealing with haters. My wife ended her thread because she got tired of dealing with haters. It feels like most of the ladies on this site have stopped posting because of a small number of people, that I broadly refer to as haters, posting a diatribe of attacks in one form or another. The truth is that the most interesting threads are often the ones that push the boundaries, etc. These also tend to attract the most negative feedband.
Thanks Samanthasman

I agree with your points, although I personally prefer to think of what you call "haters" as the "The moral majority".

As numerous persons have stated before, this section is called the "cuckold forum". It is intended to be a forum where the Ladies make decisions, are free to fuck and submit to whoever they want to, while the husband-cuckold frequently discovers that he actually likes to submit to Her decisions, likes to demonstrate his devotion to Her by encouraging Her and sharing Her joy of Her sexual freedom and how She decides to exploit this.

This will take many varieties and not all people will agree or will be able to place themselves in the position of the sometimes "humiliated-beyond-what-most-people-would-like" cuckold. But this section is not for most-people. This section is for those interested in sharing experiences in various degrees of cuckolding. So please allow those of us that do find this fascinating and wants to openly share the experiences and emotions this generates in us cuckolds or wanna-be cuckolds a place where we can interact without being subjected to attempts to cure us or put us right.

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elina
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You state your points well. Haters... moral majority... moral minority... whatever...

It takes courage to post your story on here - especially if your story is pushing boundaries. Many people that do publish their stories have made the big boy decisions that this is what they are going to do. Some just want to share their stories, while others may want advice.

Sadly, their are a handful of posters that pound on, judge, criticizes, harass, and taunt any OP that they judge to be doing something they disagree with. Yes, it's a free forum and anyone can say anything... but please be civil. If you are asked to leave a thread by the OP, you should leave. If the OP specifically states they don't want advice, don't give it. If someone is posting on a cuckold forum, don't judge them for being cuckolded. These are reasonable rules of discourse. I hope more people consider this so that we maintain an environment where people share their stories.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by cuckoldfan » Thu Aug 31, 2017 11:23 pm

I have read the whole story and it is very confusing. It is without a doubt an extreme over the top situation. But all else being said none of us are Gemshubbie and we can't live his life or her life for them. I have no respect for Gerado in the least but that is just me.

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Unread post by Mari55 » Fri Sep 01, 2017 12:05 am

Sigh. I didn't want it but I may have opened a door into the past and hijacked the thread. I'm sorry Gemshubby. Samanthasnan is pretty much bringing back the thematic of the old and ugly " Churchladies thread" and I don't want to go there. I simply wanted civil discussion but I don't have any say in what peoples' write.
I will just share this "churchlady" approach if I'm allowed. Once OP motives, wants and needs become known, there's no point in offering advice or voicing feelings of worry. People here are adults capable of making their own decisions. Even if I don't like those decisions and feel disappointed with the poster who claims to have made them, that really doesn't matter. It's their life, a life that has nothing to do with me. To try influence posters of accounts then becomes a very selfish and toxic action that should be avoided at all costs. That's why I tend to stay silent while I still keep an eye on the account, like this one from Gemshubby.

PS1: Just to add a pinch of salt: substitute "cheerleader" for "churchlady" in the second paragraph and make your own conclusion about the validity of my argument.
PS2: I don't want to add anything more to the topic and revisit the old thread because no matter what I or others write, people will always write what they want- especially if they are new and don't know nor agree with any unwritten informal rules.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri Sep 01, 2017 12:37 am

elina wrote: As numerous persons have stated before, this section is called the "cuckold forum". It is intended to be a forum where the Ladies make decisions, are free to fuck and submit to whoever they want to, while the husband-cuckold frequently discovers that he actually likes to submit to Her decisions, likes to demonstrate his devotion to Her by encouraging Her and sharing Her joy of Her sexual freedom and how She decides to exploit this.
These were exactly my thoughts when I doubted whether I should place this thread in the hotwife or the cuckold section. The differences initially were not clear to me, oftentimes they are subtle. But I placed it in the right place for a good reason: she takes the decisions and I don't have to always agree with them. In the overall I am happy, otherwise we would break up, but that doesn't make the individual decisions she takes less... hmm... troubling. But I guess this is what you get when you first create a hotwife and then push her to take her own decisions freely: you end up being married to a lovely, seductive and troubling cuckoldress.
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Unread post by BJohn56 » Sat Sep 02, 2017 4:07 am

I would like to extend my apologies to Daniel, first and foremost, and to the rest of the posters and followers here on this thread... the last few posts have made me realize exactly where I am here, on the cuckold forum, not the Hotties section where I usually am. (gotta love getting to see the ladies) While I love the idea of sharing my girl, it's sharing, yes, not giving her away in the extreme cuckold sense that some guys seem to really enjoy. I tend to check out the other forums here from time to time and Daniel's story kind of sucked me in. I thought he really was worried and upset from the way he sounded, like I would be if my wife had gone as far as Gema has with Gerardo, but I know now, from his own words, that that's not the case. He's enjoying it all just as it is and would even like it more extreme if anything. But I didn't realize that until the last couple of posts. My opinion in my previous post was based on my frustration with actually trying to see what was really going on with Gema and Gerardo over on her blog, and on my interactions back and forth with her, and not here with Daniel. My mistake. I honestly don't mind what kind of lifestyle anyone lives as long as they're all consenting to it, and hey, if they're happy, more power to them. So I guess, as it turns out, it was my post that was ridiculous being posted here, and not Daniel's and Gema's relationship together. From my perspective, which admittedly is more of a dom's if anything, I still stand by what I see happening, because I recognize Gerardo's slow but insidious taking control of not just Gema's decision-making, but the couple's lives, essentially. He's doing a masterful job working Gema and thereby Daniel... course, it doesn't hurt to have money and power to use in that training. I imagine if he was simply an office clerk or a garbage man he wouldn't have ever gotten the chance to be with Gema in the first place.

Anyway. Never meant to be negative, just stated my opinion based on what I thought was happening. Enjoy yourselves all.

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Unread post by mundyman » Sat Sep 02, 2017 7:47 am

Personally I'm hoping your wife gets the big D cup implants. Big enough to be obviously fake and let the world know what she is.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Sat Sep 02, 2017 1:06 pm

BJohn56 wrote:I would like to extend my apologies to Daniel, first and foremost, and to the rest of the posters and followers here on this thread... the last few posts have made me realize exactly where I am here, on the cuckold forum, not the Hotties section where I usually am. (gotta love getting to see the ladies) While I love the idea of sharing my girl, it's sharing, yes, not giving her away in the extreme cuckold sense that some guys seem to really enjoy. I tend to check out the other forums here from time to time and Daniel's story kind of sucked me in. I thought he really was worried and upset from the way he sounded, like I would be if my wife had gone as far as Gema has with Gerardo, but I know now, from his own words, that that's not the case. He's enjoying it all just as it is and would even like it more extreme if anything. But I didn't realize that until the last couple of posts. My opinion in my previous post was based on my frustration with actually trying to see what was really going on with Gema and Gerardo over on her blog, and on my interactions back and forth with her, and not here with Daniel. My mistake. I honestly don't mind what kind of lifestyle anyone lives as long as they're all consenting to it, and hey, if they're happy, more power to them. So I guess, as it turns out, it was my post that was ridiculous being posted here, and not Daniel's and Gema's relationship together. From my perspective, which admittedly is more of a dom's if anything, I still stand by what I see happening, because I recognize Gerardo's slow but insidious taking control of not just Gema's decision-making, but the couple's lives, essentially. He's doing a masterful job working Gema and thereby Daniel... course, it doesn't hurt to have money and power to use in that training. I imagine if he was simply an office clerk or a garbage man he wouldn't have ever gotten the chance to be with Gema in the first place.

Anyway. Never meant to be negative, just stated my opinion based on what I thought was happening. Enjoy yourselves all.
No need to apogizr, at least not to me. I haven't felt being offended. On the contrary, I appreciate your involvement and your insight - there were valid points.

I wouldn't exactly say I enjoy the situation, but neither could I say that it is complete distasteful. I am bekngncuckolded, because this is what I chose. But it's neither black nor white. Sometimes it is astonishing, sometimes exciting, sometimes frightening, even threatening and sometimes also a bit hurtful. It's all normal for a cuckold situation, but...
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Unread post by mooncucky » Thu Sep 07, 2017 5:55 am

I have to agree with samanthaman and others that some people tend do be very negatieve towards the choices people in this forum make what's a bit strange because this forum is kind of made to openly discus these topics in a positive way (and positive doesn't mean cheering, it's an attitude).

That said, Daniel, your wife and you seem to have a very strong connection but as you say a cuckold has a lot of conflicting feelings. You get turned on by her fasicination for him but at the same time you're scared she might actually get to fascinated by him. I think it's very common for cuckolds to have these conflicting feelings but they also keep us sharp. They make us question what we do and although some choices might look as if they weren't thought through, most of the time we thought a lot about it exactly because of those 'scary' feelings.

Anyway, I wish you both the best on your journey!

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Unread post by cuckoldfan » Fri Sep 08, 2017 7:20 am

Daniel you are having your fantasies fulfilled . I have read your thread and much of what is going on in your life is very much an adventure in itself . It seems that you have a cuckold life that know one else can relate 100% to because we each have our own. You struggle with Gerado but is that really a bad thing. what you wrote here is right on..... But it's neither black nor white. Sometimes it is astonishing, sometimes exciting, sometimes frightening, even threatening and sometimes also a bit hurtful. It's all normal for a cuckold situation, but... You are a cuckold without any doubt. I say if you can handle the feelings both good and bad , then embrace it and enjoy it. How many have fantasized about having their wives fucking someone they hate? Many do and they say the thought of it happening is HOT. IT is humiliating and at the same time fulfilling your needs. Over the years I have had and lost many woman and it hurt like hell but today as I look back I am glad it happed. You and Gemma are doing just fine. The chance of losing her is always a threat in a cuckolds life but that is one thing that makes it exciting for some of us. Keep going and don't worry about what any others think about your situation.

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Unread post by BJohn56 » Fri Sep 08, 2017 11:09 am

The chance of losing her is always a threat in a cuckolds life but that is one thing that makes it exciting for some of us. Keep going and don't worry about what any others think about your situation.
I just find it beyond my ken that someone would so enjoy their kink to the extreme where they could very well lose the love of their life rather than either slow it down, or even stop it for a breather to reassess things maybe. I also kind of find it interesting that I'm admonished for pointing this out to someone who is playing an extreme cuckold "game", and yet this poster has no problem encouraging someone to keep going no matter what others may think, or even Daniel's own fears as well it seems? While I understand that this depth of cuckoldry is beyond what I'd enjoy and be comfortable with, and that I am here in the cuckold's forum, I still think that when someone (Daniel) is voicing his concerns even as he enjoys it for the most part, that both sides of advice or warning shouldn't be heard and/or considered without prejudice?

That being said I think it's too late in reality at this point, so Daniel probably should enjoy it as much as he can while he can. I don't think Gemma would stop with Gerardo for any reason. Including Daniel. And for some here, I know, that only makes it all the better. Granted.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Thu Sep 14, 2017 11:58 pm

BJohn56 wrote: I just find it beyond my ken that someone would so enjoy their kink to the extreme where they could very well lose the love of their life rather than either slow it down, or even stop it for a breather to reassess things maybe. I also kind of find it interesting that I'm admonished for pointing this out to someone who is playing an extreme cuckold "game",
If you read the entire thread you will find that others have expressed concern, and predicted the the domination. ;) The OP also explained he feels they have a very strong relationship and understanding and while he has some concerns he also feels confident Gema is sufficiently in control, and she makes sure he gets rewarded. One think he pointed out is that while the discussion here is about the sex and boss, they also have a real family life and ties outside the sex.

It's cool that you expressed your concern, and your lack of understanding - but you also seem to accept that others are cool with the situation.

But, if it is beyond your ken... then you need to learn more and try to accept that it's different strokes for different folks. If you don't understand read some more. Might not get a full answer but gaining insight helps over time. It's kind of neat when you think you understand the other guys view point. You may also find that things you thought were an absolute show stopper are fine with others, and by being accepted by others are something you want to consider... finding others in the same boat makes it OK. Or not.

I think I understand, partly, why the cucks are turned on but also like to put myself in the role of the dominant lovers. And I learn form the reported behavior of the bulls/doms; Be polite but persistent and consistent... and accepting of the cucks needs as well. My sub's hubby is not in the scene with us, but knowing that some cucks simply don't want to know helps me accept her limits. I also hope that having some understanding of the cuck mind sets will help me make another cuck happy when I make his wife my second submissive.
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