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Unread post by D+D » Wed Feb 01, 2017 10:56 am

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D+D wrote:Maybe she is turned on by being his paid mistress. I can understand how that might turn a woman on and make desire to please him.
D+D maybe it does turn her on in someway. I am not there and I'm not in her head. I am sorry but I find nothing Hot or sexy about this situation at all. Fantasy is one thing but extreme humiliation is another and if the husband and the wife aren't in total agreement something isn't right. Cuckolding can and is a wonderful thing if it is done right. If you have the cuckold, his wife and her lovers on the same page then it can be very fulfilling. If they are not and the cuckold is only excepting something when his big head is telling him it is wrong and it is hurting his spirit but his little head keeps taking away his ability to do what he knows is right that takes away the joy of it. This is suppose to be a lifestyle that is sexually and spiritually fulfilling without anyone getting hurt physically, spiritually or emotionally. I have not seen Daniel ever saying he is overly pleased, happy and at ease with this situation. I am sorry to each and everyone that sees things differently then myself but I am expressing the way I feel and I am done.
No big deal to me either way. Just hypothesizing about what could be motivating her. If the OP is uncomfortable enough, he should talk to her. I have a feeling that she pretty much does as she pleases tho which leaves him in somewhat of a predicament that no one here can do anything about. If the OP wishes to tell his story that's fine. Also his wife has a very interesting blog on tumblr.

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Thu Feb 02, 2017 9:22 am

It's happening today. In fact, at this time, I think it already has happened. My wife posted a "Do not disturb" message on her Tumblr and she was prepping herself yesterday evening. I sneaked a peek and she was wearing WHITE lingerie, including stockings and garters. She has been on the pill for little over a month now, so at least she should be safe in that regard.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Thu Feb 02, 2017 11:08 pm

She's stayed overnight at his home. Not sure if she is exaggerating just to tease me, but she says it has been wonderful and that he has cum in her already three times. :shock: They will head from his home to the office. Can't way to have her back in the afternoon.
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Unread post by inNC » Fri Feb 03, 2017 2:37 am

very very interesting & exciting life you & she are living. I'm really enjoying my thoughts of your wife with her older boss & how unique your situation is as a cuckold this way...and hers enjoying it how it's been arranged
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Unread post by pancuckold » Fri Feb 03, 2017 5:11 am

I love it when my gf wears white for another guy, only wish she were taking some of her guys bare like your wife is.

Maybe this year :-)
she's been with 54+ guys, 16 since we've been involved.
My numbers are about half of hers, I'm not jealous, maybe a bit envious

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri Feb 03, 2017 5:14 am

Thank you. Wife is about to return home. Can't wait to have her in my arms again, here all the details and reclaim her. Too bad she has decided to not give me any additional information other than what she publishes and that I am currently locked. But I always hope she will reconsider in both regars. Wish me luck that today will be my day!
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Unread post by inNC » Fri Feb 03, 2017 5:47 am

I hope for you she does start telling you directly what occurs between her and her boss so you don't have to wait & read her Tumblr....as for the chastity...drip precum from it with no orgasm like the rest of us for as long as she decides you to be locked. It's sexy how she suits what her boss wanted in her & from her in their agreement & I won't think you'd loss her to him SO ENJOY as I feel you are. Get ready to suck his old sperm filled cum from her & remember your fixed so the sperm part should excite you as much as performing that for her
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Unread post by D+D » Fri Feb 03, 2017 5:50 am

If you enjoy her doing this, you must be really turned on. Can't tell if you like it or not. I would. I think she does. Of course that's just the opinion of someone observing from afar, but I think she's doing it because she's having fun and not just for the money. Whatever, she's a very, very hot woman and I can only imagine what it would be like to fuck her and she's yours everyday. You're a lucky guy, I think. Are you locked out of tumblr or locked in a cage?

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri Feb 03, 2017 7:46 am

inNC wrote:Get ready to suck his old sperm filled cum from her
You had to say it, didn't you? :o
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D+D wrote: Are you locked out of tumblr or locked in a cage?
Caged. :???:
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Unread post by D+D » Fri Feb 03, 2017 8:21 am

GemsHubby wrote:
D+D wrote: Are you locked out of tumblr or locked in a cage?
Caged. :???:
Oh my! Hope she lets you fuck her used pussy. :shock: :whip:

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Unread post by inNC » Fri Feb 03, 2017 8:31 am

....admit it, you're looking forward to it...the cuckhold kink of it !! U've already licked his dried cum from her body....she just teased you with that. Just imagine his sperm filled cum running out of her sexy lips as she sits on your face and tells you to taste, lick & suck it from her. I know too how exciting it is
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri Feb 03, 2017 8:35 am

My wife came home a couple of hours ago. I was so happy to see her again! I took her in my arms. My cage pressed against her belly, reminding her that I am her loving and supportive husband... but nevertheless wanting to be at least temporarily released from these chains to be able to reclaim her.

She took me directly to the bedroom and asked me to undress. There I was standing in front of her, naked except for my chastity. She said: Don't ask any questions, you'll soon find out. And then she added: I will only advance you one thing. Whatever you imagine, you will fall short!

Then she asked me to undress her slowly. I helped her to step out of her blouse and business skirt and there she was, my beautiful wife, all in white lingerie. Before she left Thursday morning, I was able sneak a quick peek on her underwear, but now I was able to contemplate her in full glory. White like purity. White like unstained. White like a virgin... or a bride. She slowly turned several times around, letting me admire her.

I was getting a boner and my dick was aching in its cage. My wife noticed it. She reached out to my caged and asked me: Oh dear, does it hurt? I nodded silently. She was holding my balls and the contact with her hands just made it worse. Poor little hubby, she teased me. But you are much sweeter and docile now that you are locked, don't you agree? Isn't this a small sacrifice to show me your love and be the gentle husband I deserve? I was only able to nod. I swear I had the feeling I was going to burst through the CB6000.

She turned and asked me to unhook her bra and so I did. She turned again to face me, covering her breasts with her hands. You have no idea how much I love you, she said. But heart took a brink. She lowered her arms, uncovering her beautiful, natural breasts and reached out for my hands. I was imagining that some other man had just sucked on her pointy nipples, but I was avoiding to bring up the specific image of her old boss. She put my hands on her hips and asked my if I wanted to remove her cute panties. Once again, I was only able to nod in silence. She pulled down my hands, signaling that I should slip down her panties. I did as required and they slipped down her legs to the ground. Her white stockings and white garter belt were just emphasizing her smooth and bald pussy, just as I liked it, without any her. She is a MILF, but I swear she was looking like an innocent teenage babe to me in this very moment.

You know who else did that? Her question had just reminded me about something I was trying to get out of my mind. I love it when she fucks other men. I love it when she is slutty. Damn, I love it even more when she does this slutty-innocent thing. I just don't like the image of the rancid hands soling her body. But she keeps on teasing me, fucking with my mind. And you don't mind?, she asked. In spite of my excitement, I noticed this was a trick question. The reason why she had locked me up was, that I was mentioning to her too frequently that I didn't like him. This time, I silently shook my head.

Good boy! Now, take me to bed and make love to me the way you know. In my case this usually means lot of caressing and kissing. She made me lick her all over. Her breasts, her belly, her thighs, her back, her buttocks... and yes, also her pussy and ass. I was allowed to make her cum by licking her pussy, while she was teasing me: Yes baby, lick me clean, make me yours again! I swear I could taste a rancid flavor inside her pussy.

She orgasmed and I laid next to her. While I was holding her, she took an afternoon nap and I was thinking what lucky man I am, for having a wife with such an imagination. I would have been completely happy, wasn't it for the foul taste on my tongue.
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Unread post by inNC » Fri Feb 03, 2017 8:52 am

she sucks and eats his sperm from his cock as her duty to him....you have to out of your duty to her & it's what you really want & need
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Unread post by Say_Oy » Fri Feb 03, 2017 11:59 am

Great thread, GemsHubby.

Of course you realize that sex is in the mind first... and her boss is a master mind player. You sort of have to be to be successful in business. I have to admire him and you should too... Despite his age and NOT being hung like a porn star he has made your wife love his dick and mouth, his smell and taste. First, he baited her by NOT making his move too early. When she was too curious and apprehensive and made her move to have sex with her he had won the first round of control. He had led her to desiring him, even if it was just curiosity and impatience it was still exciting for her. With women it almost does not matter if they come or not if there is sufficient excitement. Reading between the lines he has continued to increase his control over her through surprises and romance and just keeping her interested. He is has also been training her to accept things she did not like before ... booze and cigar smell and maybe other things. His actions are constantly increasing his control over her. Her action of sucking him in the office and then just resting with his soft dick in her mouth (guessing....) and her head in his lap indicate that she is emotionally attached to serving him (and his dick). He is a Dom and is making her his sex slave. At this point he owns her while she owns you...

Does he know you are a cuckold? I bet he does and I think it was probably his idea for her to force you to read Tumbler to get your info... he can read it too, read her tone and know more than what you know.

If you think she is in control and doing it for money, I think you are wrong. At this point, I think if he reduced her salary "due to hard times" she would still serve him.

Telling her how she is being manipulated and turned into a sex slave may not change anything. She is letting him control her orgasms and seems to love it. Some women are just totally submissive to one guy and totally dominant with another. Has he started to spank her yet?

If you don't think she is infatuated with him ... how many other lovers has your wife bothered with since serving him?

What you should consider is what your roll in this is going to be. One, you can stay home and clean her and hope he eventually gets tired of her - which won't be for a long time with her looks and the pace of training. The other possibility is to ask to be part of it - go with them on a trip and be a servant while they have sex... though he may not be into that in which case you are SOL.

BTW, us old guys can do just fine in bed with just an average dick. It helps to set the woman up mentally, to last long enough and to know what you are doing. Obviously he is doing just fine keeping her turned on and cumming.

One more thing - obviously he is not a one shot son-of-gun... just needs a little rest between. My prediction is that as her submission to him grows and he gains more control and plays more mind games with her his attraction and interest will grow. It's possible that once he has total control he might get bored and discard her - or demand less ... Maybe after she has his baby... You say he is old but if he is in his 60's he could work another 20 years+ if in shape - or retire but still have her serve him. I know of one Dominant who had a sub 30 years his junior and she was in service to him when he died... - at 94.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri Feb 03, 2017 1:56 pm

You definitely got my attention! You got me hard (as far as my cage allows it) and scared at the same time. I feel the urge to reply to you, not just out of courtesy, but to digest what you said. :shock:
Say_Oy wrote: First, he baited her by NOT making his move too early. When she was too curious and apprehensive and made her move to have sex with her he had won the first round of control. He had led her to desiring him, even if it was just curiosity and impatience it was still exciting for her.
I now see it! It comes crystal clear. She was hired with certain conditions, but instead of rushing it, he didn't make his move until more than a month had passed. Yes, I remember she said (when she still communicated with me directly about this topic instead of limiting me to tumblr), she was worried about what was going on, because he was paying her premium, but he hadn't even mentioned the topic of her sexual services again since after he had hired her. She was worried that he might have lost interest in her, find her not attractive enough... That made her stir in anticipation. It was a slow but sly way of preparing her mentally, making her looking for it. And he succeeded, as it was her who took the first step and ever since, she is oftentimes making the move without waiting for him to require her. :up: for him.
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Her action of sucking him in the office and then just resting with his soft dick in her mouth (guessing....) and her head in his lap indicate that she is emotionally attached to serving him (and his dick). He is a Dom and is making her his sex slave. At this point he owns her while she owns you...
The thought of her face in his lap and his soft dick in his mouth revolts me at the same time as it excites me. My wife is neither an actress nor a professional prostitute. You are right, if she does this, there is some emotional attachment. But, do you really think he is a Dom? It makes me very nervous, half for positive reasons, half for negative reasons. But I don't think that he owns her... at least not yet (although she does own me). You think this is only the beginning? :???:
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Does he know you are a cuckold? I bet he does and I think it was probably his idea for her to force you to read Tumbler to get your info... he can read it too, read her tone and know more than what you know.
Yes, he knows about my condition. My wife was very open from the beginning. He said he didn't understand that, how I could act this way, but was ok with it.
Now, I am shocked, I never thought of it. You think it was his idea about limiting me to tumblr? It's a possibility I have never considered, but it would explain some things. And you believe he is reading it too? So she would be putting all those old-young porn not just to tease me, but also to please him? It's a possibility, but... in those messages she is also saying that his mouth stinks and that she finds it repulsive. Of course, they could have a prior agreement to post this just to fuck with my mind. But then, she also posted that she was going to surprise him for Xmas. That would have been counterproductive if he knew about the blog, wouldn't it. I don't know, man, I don't know.
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If you think she is in control and doing it for money, I think you are wrong. At this point, I think if he reduced her salary "due to hard times" she would still serve him.
I agree that she is not doing it just for the money. Somehow, she is getting something out of it on a personal level. And yes, she would probably do it for much less at this stage. But do think she is still in control of it.

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Some women are just totally submissive to one guy and totally dominant with another. Has he started to spank her yet?
She is definitely dominant with me. And as it seems, she is behaving a bit submissive with him. I am not aware that he has spanked her yet. Would she tell me if he had? Would she post it on tumblr? Maybe yes, maybe no. Does he have this kind of fetish? You seem to be convinced. I am just... not sure what the right word is or if even a proper word exists... I will just use anxious for now.
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If you don't think she is infatuated with him ... how many other lovers has your wife bothered with since serving him?
None. Do you always have to bring up the facts this way?
(The weekend before the business trip and her first night with him, she went out and picked up a random guy and stayed overnight with him. She said she needed it to prove herself that she was able to wake up next day in the hotel room with him. But after the trip, no lovers).
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What you should consider is what your roll in this is going to be. One, you can stay home and clean her and hope he eventually gets tired of her - which won't be for a long time with her looks and the pace of training. The other possibility is to ask to be part of it - go with them on a trip and be a servant while they have sex... though he may not be into that in which case you are SOL.
I am not sure if he is into this cuckolding thing. But I will gladly do as my wife requires me. As long as it means staying close to her, I would even accept that.
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BTW, us old guys can do just fine in bed with just an average dick. It helps to set the woman up mentally, to last long enough and to know what you are doing. Obviously he is doing just fine keeping her turned on and cumming.
Again with the hard, blunt facts? I am locked, she hasn't had any other lovers, but yet she seems satisfied. Can't argue with your damned logic.
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One more thing - obviously he is not a one shot son-of-gun... just needs a little rest between.
That's curious because she always reported that he was a one-shot guy. Except when he had her vagina bareback, then he suddenly landed four shots instead. It must have really gotten him excited. It is strange he appreciated her pussy so much more than her ass.
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Maybe after she has his baby...
No, no. No, no, no, no, no. We will not go down this path. Pregnancy risk is a hot but risky fantasy. But you are being serious with it, right? You are not just teasing? I am clipped, because we didn't want to have more babies. And now you are saying she might still want to get pregnant by him. Oh dear, no, no, no. Please get this out of my head!
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You say he is old but if he is in his 60's he could work another 20 years+ if in shape - or retire but still have her serve him. I know of one Dominant who had a sub 30 years his junior and she was in service to him when he died... - at 94.
Amazing! Mind to share with me how it worked and what they did? Did she become pregnant too by him?
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri Feb 03, 2017 2:48 pm

Wife and me here in the living room, each one with our own laptop... She has just posted some updates. She must have seen the shock on my face and become aware that I had just discovered them, because she gave me a devious smile. I'll summarize:

Someone was asking her if she likes older men. Her reply was that she has never find them attractive, but that she was curious to fin out how it was to be with an older man who at the same time would also be her boss. But then, she has found that she increasingly likes having sex with Gerardo, her boss. She says she doesn't know exactly why. She pinpoints that it might be just because it's different or... because it pisses me off. She says that she is not taken back at all because he is older and not good looking.

She asked me to send her a message on tumblr, explaining my feelings after I reclaimed her with my mouth this afternoon. I told her that I usually love doing this for her, but that this time, I had a foul taste in my mouth. It turns out that she has tricked me, just to show me that I am having prejudices towards Gerard. She said that she had showered (with him) before coming home, because previously they had to go to the office (she didn't want everybody knowing she was his whore, the moment she entered the office smelling like him). But she has promised (or shall I say threaten?) that soon I would be tasting him.

An then, there is a large account on what happened this Thursday with him:

She said that the experience has been rather... unsettling. She is still digesting it, specially her feelings. :o
She wonders why having first time unprotected vaginal sex with him made her feel like a virgin (he had taken her ass bareback already before). She wonders if it could be because unlike the anal sex, which was not planned, this is something that was expected and planned (she has been taken the pill now for little over than a month in preparation for this). It hasn't been the first time bareback with a lover, but it felt differently with him. She wonders if it might be due to the age difference, that she felt like a teenager again. She says that she had selected the white lingerie on purpose as she was feeling like a virgin ready to be deflowered. Funny, Gerardo had the same idea and had laid ready in the bed room a set of white lingerie for her. They had laughed because the had had the same thoughts. The laughs and the evidence of the same thoughts had improved their connection.

She repeats that she doesn't find Gerardo physically attractive and describes him as obese, dry skin, etc. She would not search for this on a lover. And again, his foul smell and taste. She rather finds it disgusting. But then, nevertheless, when she thinks of his swimmers entering her body, she gets wet. And instead of facing away when he kisses her, he does all the contrary and digs deep with her tongue in his mouth. Somehow this smell has become his personal brand and the stronger it is, the more she wants to kiss him deeply. She should feel repelled, but instead she is attracted even stronger.

She wonders if something is wrong with her, that she is behaving counter-logic and asks her followers for opinion. And then she admits that while she is writing this post, she is fingering herself, although I just had made her cum.

This post of hers makes me think that Say_Oy's assessment might be quite close to reality... too close.
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Unread post by Serrand » Sat Feb 04, 2017 4:35 pm

Thanks for the updates. This must very intense for you. But I don't think you ever have to worry about your wife and her boss. Maybe she is "curious" about him for a little while, but probabely sooner than later she will get tired of him.
Oh, had you finally penetrative sex with your wife? That's not quite clear for me from your last comments.
I have to admit that I'm curious, what would happen if you would be more dominant with your wife? Would she turn submissive towards you? Maybe you should try, at least it could be an exciting turn of events.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Sat Feb 04, 2017 5:40 pm

No penetrative sex for me since several weeks, as I am still locked up.

Several years ago, before I suggested her becoming a hotwife, I tried several times to be more dominant with her. I guess I am kind of a switch and I like it both ways. But she completely refused. As of now, I am submissive to her. I guess that if I try to become dominant at this stage, it will earn me a severe spanking at least, for misbehavior and not being respectful. But bulls are different...
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Unread post by Serrand » Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:29 am

GemsHubby wrote:No penetrative sex for me since several weeks, as I am still locked up.

Several years ago, before I suggested her becoming a hotwife, I tried several times to be more dominant with her. I guess I am kind of a switch and I like it both ways. But she completely refused. As of now, I am submissive to her. I guess that if I try to become dominant at this stage, it will earn me a severe spanking at least, for misbehavior and not being respectful. But bulls are different...

Thanks for your quick response. Honestly, I don’t know if this chastity-play is such a good idea, at least not over such a long period of time.
In one of your earlier posts you told that your wife said, that you had no idea how much she loves you. So, I assume if you would be really serious about it, telling her you simply need her loving now, she would have penetrative sex with you immediately or am I wrong?
You also mentioned that you and your wife don't want to have more babies. So, means this, that you and your wife have already children together?
Please, excuse me for this personal question, but I have to admit I'm curious to know, because of your earlier statement that you got clipped and the pregnancy risk.

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Sun Feb 05, 2017 2:36 am

We are in our forties. We took care of our procreational instincts in our twenties when we married. I think we are done in that chapter. For sure I am, since I am clipped, but my wife has her maternal instincts covered as well. I find pregnancy risk exciting as long as it stays as a pure fantasy. My wife wouldn't even talk about it, not even as a fanatasy.

It's not been so long since I am locked up, "just" about a month. The max we have done has been about two months. It does have an effect on my attitude. Obviously, I hate being locked, it I have to be honest and admit that I use to masturbate obsessively. Having the libido high, makes me act sweeter with her, and I like this, because sometimes I tend to answer a bit harsh and being in chastity makes me be much softer we have. I hate the device, but I love the softness it produces in me.

And I miss fucking her, but I understand that this is part of her dominance play. By the way, we are in a female-led relationship. She is sweet and loving, not a feminazi. She wasn't dominant at all in our beginnings, but over time, since she started hotwifing (after I pressed her), she has become much more assertive. I enjoy it when she is bold and takes her own decisions, because that's just the opposite to how she started. She was ever so concerned to not hurt my feelings, that she wasn't really enjoying. I trust her and so once I proposed to eliminate all rules. She should do as she best saw fit. Who, when, where and how... that would be her own decision. I also gave her some room for intimacy and suggested that she didn't need to tell me 100%, she could delay some information and even not disclose some pieces. I find it exciting not completely knowing what is happening. She has been quite imaginative with this, to my best enjoyement, but never to the extreme of treating me in this aspect like any other Tumblr follower. I both love it and hate it. But I really appreciate her being so bold. This has been a big step in her evolution. She has had lovers before which I didn't like. As I said, that's her choice. And I admit it, I have had the most intense feelings in these cases. Intense is both good and bad, just as the cuckold angst is. But with Gerardo, I am having extra difficulties. Being locked up helps, though.

I believe she will release me soon and I am looking forward to reclaim her. But at the same time, I am also an it scared. Usually after being locked, I tend to eyaculate prematurely. Does this happen to others too? Sometimes she would be understanding, wait for recharge and try again. Sometimes she will tease me for bad performance and make me admit that she needs her lovers. Other times she would be cold and lick me way again, saying that I had my chance and failed and that I am better off this way so that I don't even try to disappoint her. It's all very exciting play, but I would especially hate the latter two options with Gerardo.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Sun Feb 05, 2017 2:00 pm

Another update from her blog:
Ever since she started as a hotwife, she has bee shaving bald and smooth down there. I love it this way and I was so very happy when she did it for the first time, even knowing that it wouldn't be for me. But app entry her boss is more classic inclined nd he wants hair down there. I don't what will the extend, but my wife said she would let it grow for him.
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Unread post by D+D » Sun Feb 05, 2017 2:08 pm

You know that your cock will press against the cage in agony, trying to explode when you see her neatly trimmed, but hairy pussy knowing that she did it just for her Daddy.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Mon Feb 06, 2017 11:08 pm

GemsHubby - I didn't know the 94 year old Dom well. I inferred the relationship observing him and his GF. She was 60+ and a Grandma to my nephew (no pregnancy concerns) but I could tell she was a service sub to him from their behavior during family gatherings. I am a Dom and have a sub myself and if you are into BDSM you start recognizing patterns. It's funny, I put it in terms of BDSM and D/s but sometimes the people I am categorizing are not aware of it - they are simply living in a "traditional" manner. :)

So I will admit that some of my thoughts are speculation - but I will also say it's based on observation of real life and reading. While women might like a good looking guy, they are built to be affected by head space. There is a 2 hr PBS documentary about human sexuality and one of their main points is that natural selection drives our desires. If you look at having kids as a genetic selection factor then men want to screw around a lot - drop their seed in lots of women - but not hang around to raise the kids. So men are more physically driven to fuck and leave, and less emotional. You could never be sure the kid was yours but you could increase your chances of spreading your genes if you fucked a lot of women. Women were stuck raising the kids - they knew it came out of their body and was their kid, regardless of who the father was. So Women are programmed to look for men that are able to support and protect them and the kid. It increases chances of the woman surviving. So a rich or powerful leader is more attractive than the muscular field hand. On the other hand, the field hand is likely in shape and can survive physical hardship better - so a woman is driven to first find a sugar-daddy for a comfortable life... but is having a spare lover on the side has selective advantages - if he feels attached to her then if sugar-daddy gets knocked off during war the lover will step in and rescue the woman and her kids... So natural selection is to have kids by the fiscally successful guy but sneak in a kid by the physically superior guy also... Women react emotionally to $$, social status and "trappings of success". Once the $$ feelings are satisfied they might go for the physical specimen. Of course, it's not black and white. Some of us like people of the same sex - genes get mixed up - some genes for family ties get into men so we also want family (and there is natural selection for a man to protect his harem (think of Baboon society). So having your wife attracted to a powerful and rich man - "The Boss" with the obvious trappings of wealth (house, invisible servants to prep meals / bed) is very natural. Never mind that he is not hot looking - his wealth and therefore everything about him is fascinating and attractive.

The liking his taste despite hating it in the past is Pavlovian response. She is learning to associate the cigar and booze taste with emotional satisfaction, excitement, pleasure and orgasm. The first time she sort of forced herself to accept them to do her duty. With exposure she has acquired a taste for them. It's like learning to smoke - first you cough and cry and hate it - but with practice you start to crave cigarettes. Same with drinking scotch or whisky. At first they taste terrible. Eventually you learn to appreciate a good black Rum or smooth Polish Rye vodka... (of course I am biased.)

Kids - don't mention them to him. i.e. don't plant the idea. See above about men spreading seeds but not investing in raising their offspring. But he may not have thought of it in those terms and may simply want to go bareback for the sensation - and knowing she is taking his sperm home to you... a form of him dominating you indirectly.

BTW, your being locked up a month is bad for your prostate health unless you ejaculate some way. Basically you need to empty your prostate or you will increase the risk of Urinary tract infections. I heard there are some studies of monks that total celibacy indicate it may also contribute to prostate cancer. This is per one of my docs when I had a UTI and he prescribed sex and prostate massage to avoid recurrence. If your wife does not want to let you come she should stick a finger in your butt and massage the fluid from your prostate. Or let you out to whack off quickly a couple times a week.

Finally for today - women like to "belong" to a strong (powerful) man. That can translate to a disinterest in sex with other men. At least until they are very secure in the relationship or bored.... My sub is married but hubby is not very assertive about having sex. So when I expressed concern that he might have an affair and so bring an STD to us - and expressed a small amount of jealousy - my sub told me she stopped having sex with him. That was about 11 years ago. (And yes, I am going by what she said - you have to believe in something - I have not had a chance to quiz him.... ). I would like you to observe and report on her interest in others as the relationship with the boss progresses whether it is short term infatuation or long term love. But I seriously suspect that he is training her for a longer term relationship since she does seem quite hot. I also predict that she will do things for him down the road that she would not dream of doing when she started the relationship - or even now - but will after training.

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Unread post by Mari55 » Tue Feb 07, 2017 10:44 am

@softcantfind and @Say_Oy: I fully agree with you. It has been always something I could never agree with the cuckold and to some extent the hotwife lifestyle: the eventuality of the wife becoming submissive to a third while the husband becomes submissive to the wife and/or third. It's rather odd and it seems that, at least on a sexual level, the wife loses respect for the husband while saying "I love you so much" to him as if to tame him. It's only when the mainstream deals with the theme that the husband role is elevated to that of the cool, confident, alpha-male type that's calling the shots and still has his wife completely smitten by his charms. Reality seems very different in most cases. At the end of the day, there's still the Darwinistic race going on. It would be interesting to know how many real good lovers enter into monogamous relationships only to later on delve into swinging, hotwifing/hothusbanding and even cuckolding. Why are "sexually compromised men" so inclined to expose their weakness? In the evolutionary, competitive race, that would be the last thing one would do, right?
@GemsHubby, I've read the blog, or at least the recent entries. If not for your thread here, I would call it fake. It's so unreal to the point that its plot could easily had been taken out of several stories of the same genre published on lit and other websites. Two key observations from the website and your posts here. Firstly, I've never read a post expressing her love, actual towards you. At best she's happy when you accept but she teases/offends/lashes out (whatever you sensibilities towards her words incline you to think about it) at you whenever you follow her script . Secondly, there''s the caging you become you don't like her lover. That makes the act belong to the realm of physical punishment/domestic (psychological) violence. She's not doing it to enhance your experience, even in a D/s scenario; she's doing it out of spite and in order to conditioning you like you train a pet. You've given consent, I believe, but from this observer POV, there any positives (for you) in your situation. If fact, it might be a bit childish but I would stop reading her blog altogether as there's no real intimacy with you about her exploits any more. You're just another follower, the best fan who gets to be her personal toy. With this said, you married and entered the lifestyle with her and you've doing it for years. You must obviously get something out it. The thing is, your words don't reveal a very happy man and you wife's words and actions don't reveal a woman who respects and loves her husband - actions speak a lot louder than words. If possible try to address this issues because, you (you and her) are describing a falling marriage where the wimp husband is made a fool but the cheater and the old but extremely accomplished player, at least in the art of seduction, god knows whose ass he had to kiss to get where he is now, though that's an important skill on its own.

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