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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Sun Mar 12, 2017 4:56 pm

BallSpanking wrote:The fact she made a reference to stripping, was probably because the idea turns her on.
She loved you being more authoritative, but also enjoyed demeaning you.
I think that if you can get her attention focused on a fit, well endowed stud, he could show her what "really firm" can be...
She might like the idea. ;)
Thanks! The key will try to get her on the topic of other guys. We are planning on going out on another date this weekend and if she doesn't suggest it leading up to the night of going to a club dancing I may bring it up as a suggestion of something we do and see what she says.

I forgot to add that when we watched the show about porn one of the people had a large dildo in their hand and my wife started talking about using toys. She told me she doesn't want a toy that feels better then me. Basically so she isn't more driven to use the toy or feels more satisfied by the toy then by having sex with me. This is probably a small step back as a point of finding a bull would be to get better sex.

Then yesterday while we were talking my wife brought up that she wanted me to take her golfing and teach her how to golf as she thought it would be a fun activity. I told her I absolutely would take her and teach her (although I am not very good at it) and even with my response she said if I didn't she would get one of our guy friends we know (really more of an acquaintance) to teach her. He is an avid golfer.. She said this so nonchalant and with no teasing me in mind. I couldn't tell if she said this to try to get an arousal from me or if she just innocently said this because she knew of him to be a good golfer, I don't know, but it was interesting and really turned me on without her knowing it.

She continues to look good when she goes to the gym. She puts on make up, again, and this time wore some super tight black spandex long pants that look so hot as they show off her sexy legs. When I saw her I immediately touched her legs as it feels good because its so tight the material is almost slippery. I told her they were my favorite work out pants of hers and she laughed and said I liked them because they are the most see through pants she has. She then told me that when she bends over you can almost see her all of her butt.

You guys are absolutely right about letting her lead the conversation. She is also starting to send me more and more sexy texts during the day. I will sometimes get random sexy pics from her and although I respond with how hot she is, she doesn't usually write back. I think its a strategy for her to send me a teasing pic that she knows I will find hot, but then say nothing else even though she knows I desperately want to have a naughty conversation. It's a great tease.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Wed Mar 15, 2017 2:49 pm

So my wife and I are planning on going out this weekend and she is excited about it. We plan on drinking and apparently there is dancing at the place we are going that she is excited about.

She has also gone out and bought some sexy over the knee black boots for our date. She has been trying on a dozen outfits with the boots, but she is definitely wearing the boots out. While she was trying on outfits she told me, "These would look really good with my leather skirt." She has this short black leather skirt which is extremely hot and she has worn it out once before awhile back, but she rarely wears anything like that because she usually dresses conservatively. I got really excited that she may wear her leather skirt and asked if she was going to wear it. She knows I love her leather skirt and could tell I was excited. She said she wasn't going to wear it out this time but that she will wear it out with these boots another time. Anyways, my wife has a closet full of clothes, shoes, etc. So I was excited that she would feel the need to go out and buy new boots for this night out.

Other then that I have just been waiting for our date. I haven't really brought up anything about fantasy or talking dirty over the last couple days. She may be missing it because today she came up to me and grabbed me in close, wrapped one leg around my leg and brought me in for a long kiss with her telling me she wants to be naughty.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Mar 15, 2017 4:45 pm

There is other meaning in her words. Consider she is willing to wear the mini, not this time, but some other time.
This means she is thinking of these kinds of outings on an ongoing basis. ;)
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Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Thu Mar 16, 2017 12:02 am

A good point, BallSpanking.

Another point I'd make is that the reason she's not going with the leather miniskirt this time is that she's not planning to wear panties and worries it might be a bit too short for comfort.

This could be an opportunity for you to assert that dominance she looks for, to tell her directly you agree it would look great and that she is to wear the leather skirt this weekend, and nothing underneath... and see how that goes. Seems to me either she'll be turned on being extra naughty at your command, and enjoy seeing you act on both sides, or she'll continue the trend of overriding you and demonstrating who wears the pants in your marriage. If the latter, you'll be turned on and it'll give a sign of just how far down the path she's already moved (away from her original desire to see you take on the alpha role between you, toward a acknowledging that really isn't you and accepting you as her beta).

It's just a thought. In any case, have a great date!! And obviously we'll be waiting to hear all the details.

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Thu Mar 16, 2017 3:58 am

minos_dis_crete wrote:A good point, BallSpanking.

Another point I'd make is that the reason she's not going with the leather miniskirt this time is that she's not planning to wear panties and worries it might be a bit too short for comfort.

This could be an opportunity for you to assert that dominance she looks for, to tell her directly you agree it would look great and that she is to wear the leather skirt this weekend, and nothing underneath... and see how that goes. Seems to me either she'll be turned on being extra naughty at your command, and enjoy seeing you act on both sides, or she'll continue the trend of overriding you and demonstrating who wears the pants in your marriage. If the latter, you'll be turned on and it'll give a sign of just how far down the path she's already moved (away from her original desire to see you take on the alpha role between you, toward a acknowledging that really isn't you and accepting you as her beta).

It's just a thought. In any case, have a great date!! And obviously we'll be waiting to hear all the details.
Oh I wish she would wear it without panties that would be extremely hot, but I can tell her answer would be no to that and also to wearing the skirt, but its a intriguing thought and question I may just ask to see what her reaction would be. Like you said she either likes it and gets turned on, or she denies and makes the decision.

BallSpanking - I like your thought process.

My wife has confidence that is starting to show. One of her really close friends is currently single and she has come to my wife to try and set her up on dates. Which in itself has turned me on a bit because my wife has conversations with her and hearing my wife make suggestions to her about what guy or type of guys to date is hot. Anyways, her friend is really pretty, and my wife was telling me that she understood her friends situation. My wife said she felt for her friend because she was so attractive that guys are intimidated and wont either approach her or wont start a conversation with her. My wife was telling me it was the same for her basically saying she knows she was so attractive that guys wouldn't approach her because they were intimidated.

So last night we got talking about our date as we were sitting on the couch. She started telling me the rest of what she planned on wearing which included this new bra she recently got that has like a high strap so its visible with whatever top she wears and it's all lace so its somewhat of sexy lingerie. In fact, I think she got it from the sexy lingerie section. Not only was it so hot to hear that she was going to wear that bra, but she knew it turned me on because as she said it she looked at me with this little grin and she just had this look in her eye like she knew she was going to be hot looking and that I was going to like it. She then confirmed it turned me on by rubbing her feet on my hard on without saying a word.

We later had sex and after she orgasmed she laid next to me while I jacked off. While I was jacking off she would kiss me and say, "You're so lucky to fuck me." and "You're so lucky to fuck someone as hot as me." She said those a few times before I couldn't hold it in any longer. Although she says these things it is super hot for me but I am still unsure if she just says it as she knows it'll get me off quickly and not for her enjoyment. I have always wanted to test the cuckold fantasy with her when I am trying to get her to orgasm to see if she gets wet or enjoys it, or talks about it herself, but the problem I run into is if I think about it or start to bring it up I usually cum immediately and she never gets off. Also with her recently telling me she doesn't like me talking during sex I feel like it may be difficult to bring it up while having sex.

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 6:06 am

Update - So last night my wife went to this get together with just a few of her girlfriends. Some of her girlfriends brought their husbands along and I was unable to attend due to other things I had going on. A lot of the guys that were there we are all mutual friends because of our wives being friends. Anyways, I awaited for her to get home and when she got home she said I was popular amongst the guys because I had such a good looking wife. She then sat down on the couch beside me and teasingly just dangled her barefoot about 2 feet from my face. I instantly was intrigued with what she said and assumed she placed her foot there because she wanted me to do something with it. I grabbed her foot and started to sniff and kiss it. She then laughed and pulled it away and said, "Wait don't they probably stink really bad because I didn't wear socks with my shoes." Well they certainly smelled probably as bad as they ever had but it turned me on and I told her that I liked it and again gave her foot another sniff. She chuckled and let me do it.

She didn't really go into anymore detail about being so good looking. As we both left the couch to walk into the bedroom I told her how hot she was and she felt my pants and felt I was hard. She told me I was a naughty boy and I told her that it (my boner) was because she was teasing me. She told me, "I love teasing you, its my specialty." We ended up going to bed and at first I tried to see if she wanted sex but she didnt seem to be in the mood so I didnt try too hard and just went to sleep. Figuring if she did want it maybe not giving it to her and waiting until our date will make her somewhat horny during our date? I don't know if women are like men and if you go without releasing yourself a day or two you get more horny as the days go on.

I am loving this expressed confidence she openly has been talking about lately. I am very excited about our date and see if anything, no matter how minor, happens. I am hoping the dancing is popular to try and step away and use the restroom to see if anything happens.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Mar 17, 2017 10:17 am

Hmmm, you have your wife interested in dressing sexy for an outing, the question would now be, for whom is she dressing?

If she is shy about it, she would likely say she has done so to please you, but, in her heart of hearts, every woman loves feeling desired. Perhaps making herself desirable would be a common goal the two of you can agree to, moving forward. ;)
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Unread post by Breaker445 » Fri Mar 17, 2017 10:57 am

BallSpanking wrote:Hmmm, you have your wife interested in dressing sexy for an outing, the question would now be, for whom is she dressing?

If she is shy about it, she would likely say she has done so to please you, but, in her heart of hearts, every woman loves feeling desired. Perhaps making herself desirable would be a common goal the two of you can agree to, moving forward. ;)
I am sure she would say or does it for both, to please me and also because she wants to be attractive looking. Even though she is a bit shy and humble, I know deep down she likes to show off her good looks and likes the subtle attention she gets from others.

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Sat Mar 18, 2017 12:09 pm

We went out on our date and it was a great time. My wife and I do not go out much so getting comfortable in the bar scene took awhile, but once we both got a few drinks in us we both got loosened up. My wife actually ran into a friend of hers which made things nice as she chatted with her and I spoke with her husband while they talked. While they were talking to each other he and I were talking a few feet away. It wasn't long before two guys walked up to my wife and her friend and started talking to them. Admittedly when that happened I didn't hear a word the other husband was telling me because I kept an eye on my wife and these two guys the entire time.

Even though it was just two drunk guys at a bar hitting on my wife and her friend I stood there and watched. Surprisingly enough my wife didn't tell them to go away, didn't tell them she was married she stood there and let them talk to her. I couldn't tell what was being said, but I knew they were flirting with her and giving her compliments because she had this look on her face, a little smirk while she made eye contact with him as he talked. She kept a smirk the entire time and occasionally turning to her friend and laughing. It took her friend to actually say they were both married and even pointed out that we were their husbands. At this time my wife knew that I knew what was going on. However the guys kept talking to them as if they didn't care.

My wife still kept talking with them, but knowing she knew I knew they were there and hitting on them I figured she would want me to step in and say something. Although I badly wanted them to keep talking to her and from all I could tell it didn't seem to bother my wife much at all, I felt this was chance to let her see my jealousy and that I would step in and get rid of these guys. So I did just that, I stepped in and basically let the guys know it was time to move on. They left and after they left my wife turned to her friend and laughed again about what had happened. I overheard her tell her friend something like she was glad to know she still had it after being married for so long.

The rest of the night we spent hanging out and I noticed so many guys checking my wife out. They'd check her out as they entered the bar I could see them walk by and stare at her all awhile walking by and when we walked to the bar I noticed guys would check her out as she walked by. One time while standing in line to order a drink a guy touched her arm and when she turned around he apologized and told her he thought she was someone else. I asked her what the guy said and she said, "Oh he was probably going to hit on me then saw I was with you and made something up."

When we got home I told her how hot she was and she told me she got hit on at least four or five times and she also noticed too how many guys were checking her out. It also didn't take long before we had sex after getting home. I started off by giving her oral and noticed she was really wet, like almost already had came wet is what it tasted like, and maybe she had and that would explain why it took her so long to orgasm. She was a bit tipsy so that may have played a role but I noticed it took her awhile to orgasm, longer then usual. But while we were having sex I slipped my finger into her butt and to my surprise she seemed to like it. She didn't pull my hand away and after I did that she orgasmed a short time later. It was very hot as I've maybe only done that once before a long, long time ago. Just performing that and seeing she was enjoying something a little kinky made me cum immediately.

When we woke up today she talked about how fun last night was and I agreed. I told her she looked so hot and she again told me about how many guys hit on her. She also brought up how funny it was those guys were hitting on her and her friend and continued to do so after her friend said they were married and even pointed out we were their husbands. She said, "but at least you stepped in." I told her I could do her again and she said, "You just liked all the attention I was getting." I told her I did and that I had a boner. We let the conversation go elsewhere after that. She did keep saying how much fun she had and that we have to go out more.

Like I said in my earlier post that I was excited about if anything was going to happen no matter how minor. And that minor thing may have been the look on her face when those guys were talking and hitting on her. Her face was almost flirtatious back and she didn't tell them to go it took her friend to do that. The look and smirk she had while the guy was talking to her was way hot. Unfortunately the dancing scene was not as expected so there was no dancing.

I guess the best opportunity for something to happen last night was when those guys were hitting on her and her friend. But knowing my wife in the past saying she wants me to protect her and wishes I would be more jealous, as much as I wanted to see that conversation continue and see where it would go I figured this was an opportunity for me to step in and show her what I thought she would want to see. But hopefully doing that can set and let this seed grow a little more and more and can lead to something down the road.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Sun Mar 19, 2017 11:04 am

I think you handled it perfectly. She got the thrill of flirtation, plus seeing you jealous, and moreover, it made things safer for her to know that you would provide that "limit" to the flirtation, that she doesn't need to provide it herself. That means she can just enjoy being chatted up and not worry about when she should say "enough". It removes that pressure, so like she kept saying, now it's really (just) fun for her. I expect it's going to happen more because of it.

And each time, you'll probably let it go a little longer, while getting better at reading her signals. Each time she'll show a little more interest, be a little flirtier, fantasize a little more about what these guys might want to do with her, how it might feel to kiss them. She's already creaming herself from the attention. She already knows you'd like to see it happen. And now she knows you paid attention when she expressed her desire for you to be protective and jealous. Good work, little cuck.

Now go make some plans for next weekend or the following. And maybe give her an unexpected massage tonight as a subliminally reward for turning you on so much. Treat her like the goddess you'd like her to be.

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Sun Mar 19, 2017 12:28 pm

minos_dis_crete wrote:I think you handled it perfectly. She got the thrill of flirtation, plus seeing you jealous, and moreover, it made things safer for her to know that you would provide that "limit" to the flirtation, that she doesn't need to provide it herself. That means she can just enjoy being chatted up and not worry about when she should say "enough". It removes that pressure, so like she kept saying, now it's really (just) fun for her. I expect it's going to happen more because of it.

And each time, you'll probably let it go a little longer, while getting better at reading her signals. Each time she'll show a little more interest, be a little flirtier, fantasize a little more about what these guys might want to do with her, how it might feel to kiss them. She's already creaming herself from the attention. She already knows you'd like to see it happen. And now she knows you paid attention when she expressed her desire for you to be protective and jealous. Good work, little cuck.

Now go make some plans for next weekend or the following. And maybe give her an unexpected massage tonight as a subliminally reward for turning you on so much. Treat her like the goddess you'd like her to be.
Pampering her is a good idea. Throughout the day yesterday if I gave her attention she would say, "You just liked all the attention guys gave me." I wouldn't disagree and one time I said something like, "Yeah but I was the one that got to do you after." She gave a teasing response of, "You're so naughty!" But it seemed everytime I would kiss her or tell her how hot she was throughout the day her response was You just liked all the attention guys gave me.

That night while we were sitting on the couch before bed she once again gave me her feet in my lap and I began rubbing and massaging her feet. I instantly got hard as I always do when I get the privilege of rubbing her feet. She knew I was hard and she knows I like it. I tried to make a move to have sex but she said "Not tonight." I gave a disappointed face and told her she was a tease. She laughed and asked why and I told her because I was rubbing her feet and it was hot. Her reply was she liked me rubbing her feet.

So she went off to bed and I was left to myself. Today we were just sitting around and she went off to try on some clothes. She came out of the room wearing the same over the knee boots she wore out the other night. She told me how good they looked and how comfortable they were. I think I heard her say, "They are the best." I told her that I really liked them and as she walked away said, "I just get so much attention in them." I was left unable to respond since she walked away so I followed her and gave her a kiss and she could feel my hard on on her leg. I asked her jokingly to lets do it and to just give me two seconds. She laughed and said "Yeah it would probably only be two seconds." She followed that up by saying, "Because you're so pathetic." She then laughed as she was joking but knew I really enjoyed that talk.

Hopefully we can go out again soon to further build off this. I have no doubt she enjoyed the attention she got since she has been talking about it in some way or the other since the night. Maybe somehow get her or suggest to her we go to a dance club and she wear those boots and her mini black leather skirt. If she were to even consider that outfit as a thought after knowing how much attention she got with what she wore the other night ontop of going to a dance club in that outfit then I would say she would know exactly what type of response she would get from guys. However I don't want to push it too much since she has pretty much brought up her attraction by herself without any help from me.

Another idea I just thought of is instead of us going out together next time encourage her to go out with some girlfriends and see if she gets dressed up in a somewhat sexy outfit.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Sun Mar 19, 2017 1:11 pm

Next time she says something about her wearing boots or another item that really draws attention to her, underscore the fact that it isn't the boots, or the mini that the guys are hitting on.
They are hitting on HER, because she is sexy. ;)
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Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Mar 20, 2017 4:35 pm

BallSpanking wrote:Next time she says something about her wearing boots or another item that really draws attention to her, underscore the fact that it isn't the boots, or the mini that the guys are hitting on.
They are hitting on HER, because she is sexy. ;)
That is a very good idea! A short time after I made that post she was still trying on clothes and I went into the room and she said something about it was almost the time of the year to wear these again, and she showed me some short denim shorts. I then asked her when she was going to wear this again while pointing at her mini leather skirt and she said, "You got to take me out." My response was that I would take her out anytime!

So yesterday we were away from each other and I thought I would text her a bit subtle about how hot she was. I sent her a text telling her one of my friends and a few of his guy friends had seen us out and about on our date the other night and he had told me his friends were giving me kudos for having such a good looking wife. Her response was, "What!? What are they saying...." I kept it nonchalant and very vague but just told her that they thought she was hot. She wanted to know who said it and I told her it was from the guys who were with my friend and I didn't really know who they were. She just responed, "Hahaha" Now this was a bit of a fib as one of my friends did not see us out, but my friends in the past have all commented on how hot my wife is. I just wanted to see how she would react to get more attention.

Hours later I returned home and she almost upon me immediately coming home said, "So I'm pretty popular huh?" I smiled and told her that she was indeed very popular. I laid down on the couch as I was tired and she came over laid next to me and asked me, "What were they saying? I want to know!" I again kept it vague and just told her that they thought she was really good looking. My vague details made her want to hear more. She said, "What else? You know I live for this stuff! I always feel so frumpy." She followed that up with, "I'm earning you street cred with your friends they probably think you have some giant penis to be able to get a girl like me." We both laughed.

I took a short nap and was awoken by the sound of heels walking on our floors and then the front door close. I woke up and noticed she was gone, I got a text a few minutes later from her telling me she had gone to the store and would be back shortly. Now, she often will wear shoes with wedged heels or thicker heels out all the time, but from what I could hear it sounded like whatever shoes she was wearing had a pointed heel. I am curious as to what high heels she could possibly be wearing out to just the store.

I also went into our room and found on the floor amongst other clothes and shoes she must have been trying on a very sexy laced lingerie bra that I don't think I've seen out from the drawer in years. Man the mind can race a million miles per second when you find things like that.

I can tell she is really enjoying the attention she is getting from other guys and her looks. It is a lot of fun to see her have this confidence and also to see her enjoy the attention. I am thinking before she and I go out for another date I encourage her to have a girls night out first and just see what type of outfit she picks to wear.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Mar 20, 2017 5:22 pm

You are on the right track, no doubt about it.
Her comment reveals her insecurity, she always feels frumpy!
Time to buy her a new sexy wardrobe, have her dress more provocatively during her everyday. Guys will start to flirt with her.
If she gives out her phone, texting and sexting are soon to follow.
She definitely seems turned-on. ;)
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Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Mar 20, 2017 6:12 pm

BallSpanking wrote:You are on the right track, no doubt about it.
Her comment reveals her insecurity, she always feels frumpy!
Time to buy her a new sexy wardrobe, have her dress more provocatively during her everyday. Guys will start to flirt with her.
If she gives out her phone, texting and sexting are soon to follow.
She definitely seems turned-on. ;)
oh my goodness I hope so! So she returned home and I the shoes with heels she was wearing were these brown ankle high boots, nothing too sexy as I had originally thought, but with my wife wearing them she makes anything look good. After she got home she started changing and I heard her in the other room say "This looks good with everything." I walked into the room to see what she was talking about and she was wearing this t-shirt one piece thing that she wears a lot, and she uses the top as her t-shirt and the bottom portion is like a thong all connected. She kept checking herself out in the mirror and I told her she looked hot and her response was, "That's why all your friends think I'm hot." She continued by saying, "I swear since I started running at the gym again my butt looks a lot better." I responded with a reluctant tone of, "Babes..." to try and make my voice sound like no I don't want you to get this attention.

I feel with where my head is that she is dropping these hints at cuckolding to see where my mind is or how I would react and I feel like I am not reacting that well. I mean ive been reacting differently then I have before where if she brought it up I instantly get turned on and show her that and probably go overboard with my reaction to now I feel I may not be giving enough reaction to where she may think I'm not as interested or something.

Another thing is I do feel the direction things are going, again in my head, is toward her at least enjoying the fantasy, but I feel I am one wrong response or suggestion away from going back to square one and getting a definite No from her.

I've also always thought of maybe intentionally leaving the computer leaving some sort of cuckold related thing on the computer for her to find and think I didn't mean to leave it up. Like an erotic story or captions and see if she brings it up that she found it or if she keeps it to herself. I know she doesn't mind me looking at that stuff as she has told me in the past she doesn't mind me looking at porn. But it could lead to her reading or looking at it and leaving the door open in giving her privacy in exploring it herself.

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Unread post by newaussiecuck » Mon Mar 20, 2017 7:11 pm

It does indeed sound like you are doing amazingly well.

I would strongly caution against purposely letting her catch you looking at cuckold sites. I believe it wouldn't get a good reaction from her and she will link cuckold to something bad and set you right back to square one. She may even close the door on it for good.

If you really want to let her know you're looking at it, you could go the honest route and say something like. "You know I have this fetish and I know you won't act on it, but would you mind if I read these sites? I'd love to read them with you, but if your not interested would you mind if I just read them on my own? I don't want to be dishonest and do it behind your back, I'd much rather include you to read it with me or at least let you know what I'm up to. I can even show them to you so that you can see what I'm looking at.".

Something along those lines. If you play your cards right you might soon be reading cuckold info together, a fun activity you can both share, rather than secrecy and making her feel hurt that you are doing something behind her back.

Just my thoughts anyway. By saying "I know you won't act on it" is both taking the pressure off​ her to act, and thus she can feel safe to explore at her own pace, but is also in a sense daring her to do it. She'll start thinking that you don't think she could do it and she just might like to prove you wrong.
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Mar 20, 2017 7:12 pm

It sounds to me like she is the one that is initiating the topic, so, the way you have been handling it sounds right.

Let her own fantasy lead the way for a while, let her develop it in the direction she wants to take it, and show support and gentle suggestion to further eroticize her fantasy. Usually suggestions of behaviors available to her in her every day, are more seductive than far-fetched scenarios, this way she can contemplate trying them out when the opportunity arises. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Mon Mar 20, 2017 7:44 pm

Stay the course, man. Take her out; see if she's bold enough to wear the skirt, because that's now a bit of a symbol to the two of you. She's suggested how sexy it looks with those boots, you've reaffirmed it. If she starts to wear something else, just give her a little disapproving "mm-mm" and gesture to the skirt or something. She might need just a little push, but she wants to be that daring.

Send her with her girls first if you want. But I think one more date night for the two of you might be good. Solidify the fun she's having, give her a little space when one of you goes to order drinks, if she gets hit on, let her flirt for a couple minutes before coming to the rescue. Just let her get comfortable with it. One experience was obviously pretty exciting for her and she's already daydreaming about the attention. Another few, and she'll be devilishly looking forward to girls' night where she can indulge even more.

I'd avoid introducing cuckold porn. There's no doubt she's still very aware of your proclivities, and look how much progress has been made by not over-reaching. Now it's like a fun little secret button she gets to push when she wants a certain kind of attention from you. And look how often she's already pushing it. When you push it, it doesn't really have the same affect on her and instead it ruins the control she gets...

Stay the course...

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Tue Mar 21, 2017 4:54 pm

Great advice guys thank you! I won't be "accidentally" leaving cuckold sites or stories up and will continue to let her drive this thing. Today nothing has happened but we both have been very busy and haven't been able to spend much time together. One thing she did tell me about this morning was that she was speaking to her friend that she had ran into when we went out and that she and her friend want to double date and go out again very soon, and maybe even invite more people. I encouraged her to plan something.

Given that my wife and I both met when we were 20 and have been together since that time we both really never have experienced the "going out partying" experience. Since we started dating we both have been somewhat socially introverted as we just spent time together rather then the party life of going out. But since she got the taste of going out and somewhat having that party experience she is excited to do it more and me too.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Mar 21, 2017 5:33 pm

Surprise her with some flowers tomorrow, because she's so fine... ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Tue Mar 21, 2017 6:03 pm

BallSpanking wrote:Surprise her with some flowers tomorrow, because she's so fine... ;)
Like it! and will do!

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Wed Mar 22, 2017 9:25 am

So since we didn't see each other much yesterday I decided maybe I should give her some text messages to see if a conversation could get going. Our conversation went like this.

Me: I have to admit something....

Her: what

Me: Everytime I see you I get a hard on

Her: Hahaha why?!?! This is new I swear....

Me: What? You're so hot

Her: I could just get whatever I wanted from you....

Me: Yes you could...easily

(Now looking back I probably should have left the conversation at that. I got excited trying to figure out where she may go next and I started an inner dilemma with myself. I thought be patient and see if she sends another text to build off of that, or is she awaiting a response?) Well all those previous texts were sent close to each other, for example I would send a text and she would respond right away back and then I would respond right away. I waited awhile before I sent my next text after I didn't get another one from her..

Me: Don't know what you would want..I may just let my mind wonder on that ;)

Her: Hahaha! Nothing!

(thinking she may think I'm going down the road of or trying to start talking about cuckolding in some way, I figured I should direct the topic in a new direction)

Me: I may have jacked off today by using the boots you wore out the other night.... (directing the conversation to my foot fetish)

Her: Oh lord...

Me: I don't think you know how hot you are and for me you're like a living fantasy.

Her: Hahaha...ok.....

Her: You can't control yourself!!!

Me: Sorry!

That was the end of the conversation. Looking back at it I now wish I would have stopped with agreeing she could get whatever she wanted easily, but part of me was wondering if she wanted me to continue since she didn't send anything else building off that tease.

I plan on picking up some flowers today and bringing them home for her.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Mar 22, 2017 10:10 am

If I might make a further suggestion, whatever more daring fantasies you might want to share with her, make sure she is in an erotically heightened state to hear them, and not sitting at a desk at work. The same suggestion that could tip her over the HW threshold, could be turned down flat in the wrong context.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Wed Mar 22, 2017 3:08 pm

BallSpanking wrote:If I might make a further suggestion, whatever more daring fantasies you might want to share with her, make sure she is in an erotically heightened state to hear them, and not sitting at a desk at work. The same suggestion that could tip her over the HW threshold, could be turned down flat in the wrong context.
You are absolutely right, I need/should do a better job of reading what mood she is in before talking about my fantasies. And things have seemed to go in the right direction when she starts the conversations or suggests things, so maybe I should stop bringing things up and just wait for her to bring it up, and even I should probably limit how much I talk about things because I have a tendency of over doing it.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Wed Mar 22, 2017 4:15 pm

I think you see where you misstepped a little, so I won't pile on as far as the impulse to initiate, or getting carried away and not quitting while you were ahead. Nothing huge was lost, I don't think. So no big deal, and it's good to learn from mistakes.

Just offering a word of advice in general for you and anyone else reading who wants to improve their flirtation... women like to be wanted, but except when they're already turned on, themselves, I don't think they have as positive an association with hearing about how guys physically manifest their desire as we generally do about hearing how girls manifest their desires.

"I want you so bad" is safer and probably sexier to most girls than, say, "I had to jack off because you turn me on so much" ...even if for us, hearing that they were so wet thinking about you that they had to masturbate might be the ultimate compliment.

Most of the time their fantasies have a slightly more subtle tone than ours and they enjoy the implication as much or more than the explicit. Note how her response was "I could just get whatever I wanted from you..." not "I bet you'd buy me that Coach purse I liked just for a chance to feel the inside of my pussy again right now"

Anyway, whatever you do, try not to apologize for it. She'll forgive you either way, but "sorry" isn't sexy except to dommes. lol. I mean, it's cute, because you're so clearly a submissive little cuck, but in general, better to own your comments than to retreat. For example, this would have been a more effective way to close that thread.

Her: "You can't control yourself!!!"

You: "When it comes to you, never. Can't wait to see you later."

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