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[newaussiecuck]

Hi Breaker, I just have a couple of questions if you don't mind?

Has she been using the dildo lately? If I remember correctly she used to use it quite regularly, like maybe 4 times a week for quite a long period. I haven't seen it mentioned for a while so was just wondering if she's still using it?

Also, if you can remember back to when she first started mentioning disappointment in your performance. Is that a fairly recent thing (within the last year), or has she always mentioned it?

I hope you don't mind but I was just curious. As you can see I'm always thinking about your situation. It's off the charts hot!

[seydonar]

Thank god this website is back!

[joel68]

Yep! Does anyone know why it was down for almost two days? I haven’t heard anything.

[Breaker445]

Hey guys, sorry been a few days since the last post. I'll do my best to get the few things that have happened since my last post.

newaussie- Her use of her vibrator has gone down a lot, and I will touch on probably why in this post, but she doesn't or hasn't used it nearly as much recently so I just havent posted about it. As for my performance, that is a complaint she's broughten up within the last year probably, maybe a little longer.

So going back to Saturday night we went to our little get together at a friends house and nothing juicy at all from it and nothing happened later that night, making it well over a week since we had done anything at all in the bedroom. Because it had been so long since we've done anything the following morning I took a peak into her naughty box to see if she's been using her vibrator, and that too hadn't moved. As Sunday went on we hung out and just did some errands together, it was nice spending time together and just hanging out. At one point I gave her a kiss and told her how hot she looked and she smirked and told me, "You have been too tired lately at night, the other night you would have had a really good time, I really wanted it." I showed dissapointment and apologized for being tired. She kept her smirk and told me to do what I had to do to not be tired that night. The night went on and eventually we did go to bed, even though there was no build up besides that little talk we had earlier in the day she came into bed completely ready. We got going with no foreplay, she didn't want to spend time on that, but as we were going she was on her back and she put her hands over her head. Thinking to myself I bet she would find it hot if I took control here and pinned her arms down, and show a little dom toward her. I did, but after a few seconds she said, "C'mon babe." it came off in a tone like, 'stop acting or pretending to be dominant here, we both know you aren't.' it was like her telling me, nice try, but no thanks. So I quickly just put my hands to the side and she moved her body the way she needed to get off. I was surprised I lasted after she made that comment because even though it was so subtle and short, her tone and what I interpreted as the underlying meaning was so hot and made me feel so submissive to her. But I lasted enough for her to orgasm. Afterward she told me thanks for letting her get off, but it wasn't that good. I sort of gasped and laughed at the same time as I couldn't believe what she was telling me. In that moment I asked, "What!?!?" She laughed and repeated herself, "Well, I was able to get off on you, but...." I laughed in disbelief and I told her at least I lasted. She laughed back and we both ended up falling asleep. Again, the hot part was me trying to take control and be dominant when I thought she was making a move to be more submissive herself and her practically laughing it off and telling me nice try but c'mon we both know you aren't that.

The next day was really busy and by the nighttime I was exhausted again. She went to the gym, but was back within the hour and I kept a mental note that there was no shower afterward either. We lounged on the couch and I massaged her feet, which to me is always enjoyable. I find it so incredibly hot to be able to massage her feet right after she gets done with the gym. Even more hot that she feels the need to present me with her feet after she's worked out. Now even after her workouts, if I go in for a kiss of her foot or smell, instead of her making some comment like she's embarrassed of their smell, she will move her foot closer to my face or stretch her toes upward, like she's exposing her entire foot.

Anyways, it was getting late and I was starting to fall asleep on the couch. She told me, "You can go to bed babe." I told her that was probably a good idea and we gave good night kisses and I went to bed. I was laying there trying to fall asleep for about 20 minutes when she came into the room and got into the shower. I thought it was odd she'd be taking a shower so late at night, really it was completely out of her routine of when she'd normally take a shower. The next evening we started talking and she brought up our typical nightly routine. Now, I usually would find a couple times a week during the night time to go to the gym and workout, but recently I've had to switch up my routine and I haven't been going to the gym during my usual night time routine, plus I've been tired at night so I end up in bed rather early. But she brought up with a nervous chuckle that me not going to the gym at night as thrown off her own nightly routine. I sensed her nervous chuckle and asked what she meant, but I got a sense she was talking about her alone time in the bedroom. She hesitantly said, "Well...." Before beginning to tell me that she was use to having some time to herself while I was at the gym. She gave me this cute short nervous laugh. I knew there my feeling was correct as she was hinting about using her toy while I went to the gym. I excitedly told her, like it was me suggesting the idea for the first time, she could still use her toy at night and that it would be hot. She laughed and said, "No way! With you right there!?" I excitedly replied, "Yeah! Go ahead that'd be super hot!" She laughed and said, "No!" I asked why not and she gave me the playful response of, "Because! it'd be weird!" The little conversation was fun, but I was yelling in my head, 'why would it still be weird!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!!!' We've been married for many years, she knows I would find it super hot to have her use her toy while I laid there, I've told her this many times, and she wants to use her toy more! To me it seems like a perfect situation to at least try it out. But also when I was later thinking about it, it made sense why this whole Dylan situation is what it is.

But while having that conversation with her, it clicked in my head why she took that late night shower the night before. I went to where her vibrator was stored and sure enough, it had moved. It was hot to know she had used her vibrator in the shower the night before and she probably took the shower for the sole purpose of using the vibrator. Of course I got to thinking if before she took that shower if there was any build up conversation happening on her phone to put her in that mood.

The following night instead of using her toy she used me. I actually got the sense she'd prefer her toy, but I think she realized two late night showers may make me curious. Let me say, I felt like a toy too. She got into bed and immediately started touching me and rubbing me to get me hard and as soon as I was hard and directed me into her. She did moves I hadn't really seen much from her and she was grabbing my hands and putting them in certain places and telling me how fast and slow to move, she was basically telling me how to exactly perform. I lasted probably from the concentration I had to have to listen to her and do as I was told. It worked though as she seemed to have an intense orgasm. I was able to relieve myself too, but afterward just like the beginning I really felt like I was the substitute for her toy. It was hot because it felt pretty submissive.

Finally it brings us to last night. She was in the kitchen on the phone with Jennifer and I was walking into the kitchen. Just before I walked in I heard her laugh and tell Jennifer, "Breaker isn't worthy of it" I walked in and I don't think she saw me enter as they continued talking and I found out they were talking about lingerie. Jennifer has that new boyfriend and I think she was asking my wife about certain lingerie to get. My wife told her about a brand or type that fit better than Victoria Secret and was more expensive, that was the piece of lingerie she was referring to when she told Jennifer I wasn't worthy of it. Inside I was super excited and very curious to see where her conversation would go, so I did something in the kitchen acting like I wasn't paying attention. My wife noticed I was there and I could tell she kept the conversation going, but in a way to not change the subject completely, but enough to postpone revealing anything else. Then she very smoothly exited the kitchen and into our room shutting the door. I stood there trying to think of the brand she was talking about, but I couldn't come up with it. I was finding it very hot that there she is talking about expensive lingerie to Jennifer, and telling her I wasn't worthy of whatever it was.

So tonight we are going on a date. I was thinking while we were out that I take her to a lingerie shop. Now I was either thinking of surprising her and while out bring up the idea of going to buy her lingerie, or send her a text saying something along the lines of telling her while we were out we could stop by the store to get lingerie so she could have something whenever the time came between her and Dylan? I could also bring up to her that I overheard her telling Jennifer I wasn't worthy of a certain expensive brand of lingerie and that I found it incredibly hot and want to buy her something.

[seydonar]

You’re dying to have the chastity cage on and licking her while she is using her toy and talking to her boyfriend on the phone.

[BallSpanking]

Definitely take her shopping for lingerie, and share with her you would like to buy her something sexy for when she meets Dylan. I would not tell her about overhearing ANY of her phone communications, because she will just shut them down completely.

[Calendar1435]

Good stuff Breaker,

When this site went down for a few days I was mainly disappointed as I thought I would never find out what happened with your relationship

I think I mentioned before, but you gotta figure a way to deepen the communication between you guys. So much of what you think about the relationship is assumption, and you two don't have the depth of communication to get into real meaty conversation about stuff that's very important to you... and her.

As you noted in the last post, and I think I did previously, if she won't talk to you about her masturbation habits... or masturbate in front of you, there's almost no chance she will ever talk about Dylan and whatever is happening there, as it's far more personal than her vibrators.

I don't know how you can break through to a real/deeper level of communication, but somehow you gotta get there, so you're not left to assume everything about your relationship.

I know in my marriage, I was left to assume most stuff for 20+ years, as Margo would tell me essentially nothing... once we did start communicating deeply, we found out I had assumed most things wrong. Male and female perspective on many things is very different. Particularly relationships and sex.

I came across this the other day, it well describes our relationship (although I'm not much of a babbling brook). Might be helpful to you.

Good luck, Alex.

When it comes to talking, all of us are affected by our personality. I have observed two basic personality types. The first I call the "Dead Sea." In the little nation of Israel, the Sea of Galilee flows south by way of the Jordan River into the Dead Sea. The Dead Sea goes nowhere. It receives, but it does not give. This personality type receives many experiences, emotions, and thoughts throughout the day. They have a large reservoir where they store that information, and they are perfectly happy not to talk. If you say to a Dead Sea personality, "What's wrong? Why aren't you talking tonight?" they will probably answer, "Nothing's wrong. What makes you think something's wrong?" And that response is perfectly honest. They are content not to talk. They could drive from Chicago to Detroit and never say a word and be perfectly happy.

The other extreme is the "Babbling Brook." For this personality, whatever enters into the eye gate or the ear gate comes out the mouth gate, and there are seldom sixty seconds between the two. Whatever they see, whatever they hear, they tell. In fact, if no one is at home to talk to, they will call someone else. "Do you know what I saw? Do you know what I heard?" If they can't get someone on the telephone, they may talk to themselves because they have no reservoir. Many times a Dead Sea marries a Babbling Brook. That happens because when they are dating, it is a very attractive match.

https://youtu.be/NS-T1ATzTlE

If you are a Dead Sea and you date a Babbling Brook, you will have a wonderful evening. You don't have to think, "How will I get the conversation started tonight? How will I keep the conversation flowing?" In fact, you don't have to think at all. All you have to do is nod your head and say, "Uh-huh," and he or she will fill up the whole evening, and you will go home saying, "What a wonderful person."

On the other hand, if you are a Babbling Brook and you date a Dead Sea, you will have an equally wonderful evening because Dead Seas are the world's best listeners. You will babble for three hours. He or she will listen intently to you, and you will go home saying, "What a wonderful person." You attract each other. But after five years of marriage, the Babbling Brook wakes up one morning and says, "We've been married five years, and I don't know him." The Dead Sea is saying, "I know her too well. I wish she would stop the flow and give me a break."

The good news is that Dead Seas can learn to talk, and Babbling Brooks can learn to listen. We are influenced by our personality, but not controlled by it. One way to learn new patterns is to establish a daily sharing time in which each of you will talk about three things that happened to you that day and how you feel about them. I call that the "Minimum Daily Requirement" for a healthy marriage. If you will start with the daily minimum, in a few weeks or months you may find quality conversation flowing more freely between you.

[Breaker445]

Seydonar - That would be a delight and would love to hope one day to be able to do that!

married - Thank you for that insight, you bring up good points and I agree with you. We definitely need to open up our communication more which will lead to me making less assumptions. What is mind boggling is her even using just her vibrator she keeps secret from me when she knows I'd find it so enjoyable to hear she used it, or tease me about using it. Heck, I bought it for her telling her I'd love to know about her using it. I either don't know where to start that conversation, to get on a deeper level and make her feel like she wants to open up to me about her personal sex life, or I worry that if I try to start that conversation it'll seem I am coming on too strong and I wont get anywhere.

I remember years ago, shortly after I first introduced the cuckold fantasy to her, I told her how I'd love to hear about what she thinks about when she uses a toy. She laughed and told me she would feel bad. When she told me that I understood what that meant, she obviously at times did not think of me, otherwise why in the world feel bad in telling me what you're thinking about? So at the time in that conversation I brought that up to her, that I wanted to hear what it was, who it was and I found that incredibly hot. She again laughed and said true. But she never did open up and tell me, but I have kept that conversation in the back of my mind since.

Anyways, last night we never got around to the lingerie shop. Where we ended up going out there wasn't one really nearby, plus admittedly I dropped the ball earlier in the day. My day got busy and I just never had the moment to send her a text offering the lingerie shopping, and when we were out, we weren't near one and bringing it up while we were out just didn't seem like it would fit. Plus, simply, I wasn't in the mood. She looked super hot though with her hair straight, bright red lipstick, wearing a black leather jacket, tight jeans and a pair of brown ankle boots. As we were walking by a restaurant this guy was standing outside and as my wife walked by he simply said, "Wow!" as he blatantly stared at her as we walked by. He didn't cover it up or try to be subtle about it at all. My wife and I both laughed to each other because it was so obvious.

Today I do want to check in and I plan on doing it through text while we are both away and see if it leads to anything and to a fun night. When I brought the texting idea up to her about checking in she was open to it and seemed excited to do that, so I have given it a few days to see if she'd start things but she hasn't. So I figure I'll give it a try.

[tfx]

Breaker.. just let her use her toys in peace. Imagine it was you in front of your computer jack'n to some porn and she's just watching you... not into it at all... just studying your every move, silently critiquing what you're watching, maybe asking a couple questions, treating you like your some kind of science experiment. Kind of a buzz kill huh... yah gotta try to put yourself into her position sometimes... i think she's kind of a normal girl... super hot mind you, but normal. Don't everyone jump on me about what normal is... you should know what i mean in this context.

[InLimbo]

Hey Breaker,

Why not sneak her toy out and have it warmed and ready when in bed with her.
Then after you go down on her for 15 minutes, slip that dildo in her pussy as you lick her clit.
Then just let her enjoy both together.
It might lessen her embarrassment or reluctance to use toys in front of you.

And, it will let you feel her pussy stretched after using it on her.
Then you tell whisper to her as you fuck her” I can feel Dylan’s cum on my cock”.

[bobbiecd]

Just some stats to consider:

* this thread began two years ago, it's 74 pages long, the idea for cuckolding began earlier than that, and you don't know if you've been cuckolded
* you've gone down on her and tasted latex, but you still don't know if you've been cuckolded
* she won't masturbate in front of you or tell you her fantasies when she orgasms
* she likes to use her toy when you're not around
* she won't show you texts, nor will she have sensitive phone conversations in front of you
* her (gym) behavior is sometimes erratic and you still don't know if you've been cuckolded
* she's expressed displeasure in your sexual performance, has dropped hints that you're lucky to have her and that you'd never know if she was getting some, somewhere else

The classical definition of "cuckolding" implies a wife's deceptive cheating on the husband, while the modern definition is more of a sexual fetish/kink between consensual parties, which entertains unilateral sex for the wife/SO and sometimes voyeurism for the hubby. It's been my observation that those males who want to be cuckolded and introduce the concept to their SO's, will sometimes get lost in a "cuckold fog" and are so committed to making the fetish happen, they lose sight of reality. They miss cues that their relationship has weakened and mistake those cues for signs of cuckoldry and are elated their relationship is waxing, when in fact it may be waning.

Now I have zero idea if your relationship is waxing or waning, but early in this thread, I'd mentioned that I thought the Mrs. was only going along with your fantasy to please you and she really just wants you...all of you. Your situation is quite a ways down the road now and before delving deeper into your fantasy(s), you might compare your original cuckold vision, with what seems to be happening now (the above list) and see if they jibe. As readers of this thread, we're only presented your account of the situation so it's impossible to assess what your wife is thinking. However, sometimes individuals say -- or write -- something which defines an idea or circumstance for which they weren't aware of when they'd written it, but an uninvested onlooker picks up right away.

So why mention any of this? Based on your detailed account, your current trajectory to this outsider, looks to be veering in a direction which makes it difficult to course-correct from. I'm only one opinion and I'm not offering any advice except vigilance ... it's just a heads up on how an independent set of eyes sees things. fwiw...

[minos_dis_crete]

So this Latex tasting incident keeps coming up among the audience and generating greater confidence that she cheated on you a year ago. I would suggest that she could easily have just had an appointment with a gynecologist that day who checked her out with a glove on. I think it means nothing unless it were to have happened repeatedly or there were suspicious circumstances surrounding it.

I don't think she's slept with Dylan. I don't think longer trips to the gym are indication that it has. Too many other plausible explanations.

Women like to flirt and be desired as much as they like to have sex with guys. That's true for plenty of guys, too. Right now she has the attention of two men and on the terms she's comfortable with. She's enjoying it, and I don't see why she'd be in any rush to change it without at least hinting to you that it was happening. I think she's warmed to the idea, but I also think she values her marriage too much to not want to talk about it before it happens the first time.

I'm also not too concerned about your relationship. I do think you've taken a path that isn't necessarily reversible - it's been acknowledged that you aren't a particularly capable lover for her, and that isn't going to change without some training / medical intervention - but she enjoys having a submissive partner, and the way she interacts with you at least sounds genuine, even if sometimes she's not in the same mood you are. You guys still have plenty of sex for a married couple, and where most guys would be dealing with being in the mood for sex more often and not always getting it, it's more that you're in the mood for kink more often and not always getting it.

I think you should definitely try being a little naughty over text with her, she's more comfortable in that medium. See if you can get a detail or two by asking what her favorite text from Dylan has been. You could even say something like "thinking about you . . . do you mind if I play by myself, or are you hoping to use me later?" Tease giving her a little more control and see if she doesn't embrace it.

[wocka-wocka]

Breaker.. just let her use her toys in peace. Imagine it was you in front of your computer jack'n to some porn and she's just watching you... not into it at all... just studying your every move, silently critiquing what you're watching, maybe asking a couple questions, treating you like your some kind of science experiment. Kind of a buzz kill huh... yah gotta try to put yourself into her position sometimes... i think she's kind of a normal girl... super hot mind you, but normal. Don't everyone jump on me about what normal is... you should know what i mean in this context.

This is so true. At the end of the day, she's just a person that wants a human connection. "You're so hot" isn't a connection.

I think the concerns as so elegantly described above by someone else are correct. It's the lack of information between two people in a LTR that is the concern. Context is everything here because maybe the amount of sharing she is doing is quite a bit for her. Or, maybe she's not being honest. Impossible to know, but, I'm an optimist and choose the former.

The lack of sharing is the stuff that blows LTRs up and no one wants the Breaker's relationship to end.

[newaussiecuck]

I also don't think the relationship is in trouble, but I think it can be improved. I also think it will need to before Breaker will get what he wants.

I think if Breaker wants her to communicate more with him then I think he needs to do his part and listen to what she's already telling him. She told him several weeks ago "You don't go down on me enough". I don't think Breaker has listened. I can't recall him writing about going down on her even once since that comment. Maybe once in several weeks at most. Last week she was horny and wanted sex. Breaker was tired and not up for it, but could have put in some effort to go down on her as she's been requesting.

As a result she was frustrated and annoyed enough to deny him sex the next time he tried to initiate it. She also remonstrated with him several days later saying that she wanted sex and it would have been really good too. She was upset enough to comment on it several days later. Of course this isolated incident won't lead to a breakup of the marriage, but it hardly fosters the kind of environment and relationship where she feels like sharing her most intimate thoughts, feelings and secrets, including the personal act of masturbation. When it's a repeating pattern it can lead to resentment and shutting down.

I think he's received a lot of great advice on the thread from some very experienced people (I'm not one) but it seems he's not listening. Although this is still my favourite thread, it's frustrating enough for me to read it, I can understand how Mrs Breaker could be frustrated that he's not listening to her.

She's already indicated to her friend Jennifer that Breaker doesn't deserve sexy lingerie, could she also think that he doesn't deserve to be included in her fun with Dylan?

I think Breaker will have much better luck in getting what he wants if he's giving Mrs Breaker what she wants. She will be in a much more giving mood if Breaker is a little more giving. Just remember that this is Breaker's fantasy that she is indulging. She's already given a lot by indulging him in his fantasy, time for Breaker to forget trying to control every little thing and to listen to and obey Mrs Breaker.

Just my thoughts, and don't get me wrong. I care for Breaker and wish them both the very best in getting what that want.

[Breaker445]

Thank you all for the advice, I will reply when I have time, but right now I can just get out the update from yesterday. With that said though thank you all for the replies and your insight.

So I sent her a text yesterday and I told her I wanted to do it last night when we were out, and it would be very fun to shop with her for it but I was wondering if tonight she would want to go to a lingerie shop to buy something special for whenever the time comes with Dylan. She replied, "Hahaha hmmm.....maybe" I texted her if it worked best to stop on the way after work she could and that I'd just love a picture. She replied, "I would like to! But it may be too hectic tonight, may have to do it tomorrow."

I asked her if they talk a lot or see each other at the gym often. I waited for what felt like forever to get the alert back that I had received a text from her. When I did my palm instantly started to sweat. I felt a rush of emotions as I opened it and read each word. She told me they do see each other at the gym when she goes in the evening and they talk there and also through text. What a rush to read that, not only because she told me, but because it also reassured what I thought I already knew. Her switching her gym routine to the evenings, the occasional longer time spent there especially in the evening time, and for the texting, I've seen the "D" a top her phone when she's texting, and those sexy selfies she took a couple weeks ago. I tried to explain in my text back to her what I felt after reading that text. I told her I had butterflies, my heart sank and I was very much aroused. I asked her if they text often and she replied back that they do. I asked if they text each other at times like when we are on the couch together and if so I'd love to know. She replied she does text him when we are on the couch and throughout the day. I asked her if she is enjoying things and she said she was in a way that ended with a couple !!!'s.

Very hot and fun conversation to have with her. When we got home she spent the rest of the night very perky and very flirty with me, but it did not lead to anything in the bedroom. I am excited for what today may bring with her going to the lingerie shop. I do like the suggestion someone gave of asking her what her most exciting or fun text she received from him has been. It was exciting to get an update and I am hoping to have more today.

[BallSpanking]

It’s all good, as long as it improves her communication with you.
You don’t want to invade her privacy, but would like to expand her comfort zone keeping you in the loop.
Perhaps after you go shopping and she gets more comfortable sharing her emotions with you, you can suggest helping her prepare for her dates, eventually leading to fluffing for her.

[Breaker445]

The texting seems to definitely be opening up the communication more and is at least maybe making it all more less awkward and more comfortable in keeping me in the loop. Yesterday she had to work all day, but I sent her a text asking if she still wanted to go shopping that night. Since her work is much closer to the stores she'd be going to I told her if she wanted she could stop on her way after work. She replied, "Hmmm....maybe actually!!" Given the periods she texted and the "!'s!" I knew she was for it. A few minutes later she sent me another text saying, "That's a good idea." I spent most the day anxiously awaiting what she would get or text me. She let me know she was getting off work and I told her to have fun and get whatever she liked, wanted or needed with a wink face. She replied with, "Hahaha ok...…" again her use of periods usually means there is a naughtiness behind what she is saying. I asked if she could I would love to at least see photos. She texted back, "Yes I can do that"

I waited awhile before getting another text from her and my heart raced as I opened up the message. It was a photo where she had this incredibly confident sexy look on her face as she showed me an outfit she was wearing and wanted to get. It was a leopard pattern top that hung off the shoulders and black tight jeans. I excitedly replied to her she looked hot. After a few minutes she sent me another text telling me she was going to the lingerie shop. Another several minutes went by before I received another text from her. The entire time I could feel my heart beating it was very exciting the anticipation. Her next text was telling me she couldn't take a picture of the panties she got, but she could show me when she got back. I responded to her that I was excited in which she laughed.

I asked her if it was weird, exciting, fun, indifferent in buying those types of things for someone else and not me. She told me admittedly it was a little weird and laughed sort of to downplay the reality that she had just bought an outfit and pair of lingerie for someone else. I nodded my head and gave a chuckle too. She added with a very good teasing tone that she was now wondering about me wanting to know too many details when she chooses to wear them and gave me this look with her head tilted down and hear eye brows raised and a little smirk. It was a look like to remind me to stay in my lane. I told her that was fair and told her I won't ask her for too many details, only what she is willing to or want to tell me. I did tell her all I asked is for her to update me and keep me in the loop from time to time with what's going on and if anything does happen between them to at least tell me and again only giving me details she wants to share. She nodded her head like she was in agreement so I added that I understood she controled this which I want her to, and I want her to take it at the pace she wanted, but that a little bit of info no matter how small from time to time really helps. I told her those little updates help me feel apart of things even though I am not there. She smirked and nodded her head again. Really I wanted to get my feelings across that I just need some details as to what was going on no matter how small she wanted to give me.

She gave me a kiss and told me she'd work on that and felt that was definitely fair. Again though she reminded me that it does feel weird to let her husband know she's talking with another guy. She said, "Doing it, like talking with him, I get it, I can do that, that's easy, but I still am trying to get used to telling you those things." That did make sense to me and I could see where she was coming from. We both agreed that communicating about things through text does help. We talked some more about things and it was a good conversation. I'll add more to that conversation a little later. The night went on and we hung out and had a good time. I asked her when I'd see what she got and she gave me this super sexy look while biting her lower lip and told me I would have to wait and reminded me they weren't for me.

[BallSpanking]

Definitely a lt of communication last night. Good.
She bought panties and lingerie to wear for him, acknowledged doing so, and is fine with it.
She will soon be fucking Dylan.

[joel68]

Ballspanking: Yeah, I agree. She bought some sexy panties to wear ONLY for Dylan to make him want to fuck her even more than he does right now. And she may or may not show them to her husband is a move into the cuck aspect as well. I hope you’re right and that it goes down soon. Would love to see a post from Breaker telling all of us that Dylan has fucked her.

[joel68]

And Breaker, if she shows you the panties she bought to wear for Dylan and not you how will she show you? Will she just have you look at them of will she put them on and model them for you? Just curious. And which one would you prefer?

[Tryn]

Fantastic update! I’m glad you found texting helps your communication! It might help to text her occasionally asking just 1 question about things, such as do you think Dylan enjoyed your gym clothes? Be careful about your questions, as to not go too far, but definitely ask some to help your wife get comfortable sharing.

[TheHammer]

Now is a good time to start mentioning Dylan in bed.

[wocka-wocka]

Now is a good time to start mentioning Dylan in bed.

As long as Breaker goes down on her more, much more.

You navigated the communication issue really well, Breaker. Everything is headed in the right direction and she's getting very comfortable in some ways with the lifestyle.

It's going to be more small steps for a while. Keep supporting her.

[corey22901]

I agree with Hammer.

Perhaps when the time is right, tell her you want that night to be only for her.

To prove it, put on your cage and then let her know, that just for tonight, you want her to lay back and enjoy - and be a little bit naughty.

This is a great time to say that it is very hot that she is selecting panties for her other man. Makes you so hot. After she has fully warmed up, ask her to text Dylan while you are orally pleasing her.

I think the more she connects her pleasure with Dylan, the sooner this will happen. It also shows her, you are fully on board.

[Bull4Her216]

Now would be a good time to mention Dylan in bed while you use her toy on her and then have her take over.

Now would also be a great time to start a "Hotties" post.