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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Sat Sep 01, 2018 5:42 pm

Hey,

I'm sorry to hear you two have had some frustrating experiences. I have to say your wife is right - even when she's having satisfying sex with other men, it's really important for you two maintain a satisfying sex life at home. Maybe take some initiative and visit a sex shop. Tell the staff your issues and ask for suggestions. Who knows, they might recommend an extension or even that forehead dildo your wife expressed some interest in ages ago. Maybe a better numbing cream.

Maybe more important is some frank conversation during your couch time. You can reiterate that you understand that you don't satisfy her through "regular sex." Even when you last, you understand she's frustrated with your size and with your "virgin" style. You can tell her you understand that she needs and deserves that sort of satisfaction, and that's been a big motivator for you in wanting her to cuckold you - that she deserves to feel desired, pursued, and claimed by a masculine lover who doesn't worship her, but who desires her - needs to fuck her. You can express that, as her sub, it feels unnatural to be dominant with her, and that the dynamic you've evolved where she's the dominant partner and she initiates sex really seems to work for you two. You can express that maybe, you two experiment with focusing on that dynamic as a way of staying sexually connected and satisfied together?

Your wive really seems to enjoy sex with you - just not "regular" PIV sex. She's an enthusiastic face-sitter. She seems to genuinely enjoy verbally humiliating you as you wank. She likes kissing you and grinding on you. Everyone's different, but when my wife realized she really could just call my name or grab the back of my head anytime she wanted her feet or ass or pussy licked or worshiped it seemed to take a lot of tension out of our sex life, and life in general. It's not "regular sex", but it was satisfying sex for both of us.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Sat Sep 01, 2018 10:17 pm

You will have to make up for your lack of performance in other areas. You are right, though, your inability to last will motivate her to cuckold you sooner than later, but take heart, because once she does, most of the pressure would be off you. It is a good thing she wants to keep having sex with you to retain that connection, but it will become less and less frequent once she starts dating her FB's. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by TheHammer » Sun Sep 02, 2018 7:03 am

You should go see a Doctor. She may wait to pursue other men until she knows you can perform and satisfy her while reclaiming her.

In the meantime, nothing wrong with flirting (and maybe more) via the fake Facebook/tinder account or other avenues.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Sun Sep 02, 2018 1:44 pm

This is just an idea, but try edging sessions for yourself. Like, an hour at a time where you watch some porn (or check out your wife's photos) and stay hard, stroke until you get close, but slow down/stop and resist the urge. Repeat and keep yourself hard and stimulated for prolonged periods of time. If your wife is up for it, let her be involved in watching / making sure you stay hard and turned on the whole session. You can cum at the end. Only when you're extremely turned on and maybe have her give you the command.

Over time (it'll take a little while, a month maybe to see results) you should hopefully train your reactions to expect more stimulation without resulting in a quick ejaculation. Jerking off this way can get you used to a type of handling that differs from sex and over time you can get conditioned to not easily cum without that sustained higher speed jerking you do.

During that month, maybe forego PIV sex with her. She'd need to be on board with the experiment, but if she understands it may help solve your little problem, perhaps she can find a way to make it fun and accept you pleasing her with your tongue and her toys.

A doctor can possibly help, too, though I think drugs are a little unpredictable. In my experience, sexual response is very conditionable.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by wocka-wocka » Sun Sep 02, 2018 9:38 pm

FNQLivin wrote:You should probably see a doctor about the PE. There are definitely things you can do for that.
Do this. This issue is definitely not part of the dynamic you are trying to create with her. It is breaking intimacy. You may need to do a few appointments to find the right specialist. Don't confuse your fantasies with this issue.

Notice how she's working it out. Patience.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Mon Sep 03, 2018 10:16 am

Not trying to fuel a debate, but I agree with minos on the topic of ejaculation control. I was trained to cum almost instantly as my wife began "cheating." As our cuck dynamic evolved, she pulled me the opposite direction, eventually making it possible for me to delay orgasm indefinitely. As much as Breaker's wife complains to him about his stamina, she seems to genuinely enjoy/get off on humiliating him for his size, moves, masculinity, and even his hair trigger. It's gotta be tough for him being pulled in all directions. No way to know how intentional his wife is about all of this, but her behavior couldn't be designed to do a better job getting inside his head.

I hope, and believe, they'll figure out ways to stay sexually connected that rely less on Breaker's game as a top. Mrs. Breaker will, hopefully, soon be getting that particular itch scratched elsewhere. When that begins, it opens lots of new doors for these two lovers to explore together. They'll figure it out.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Sep 03, 2018 5:49 pm

Thanks guys, the stamina issue comes and goes and if it does become a continued problem and creates more of a rift we may have to go the doctor road and see what there is to do, but it also may just be me being selfish and not trying other methods first of trying to last longer. The other night when I could tell she was still mad at me, after my morning issues, she went to the gym very late, later than she really ever has. I honestly had the feeling she may actually cuck me that night when she left. I thought she was going to do it more out of getting a quick hook up to get what she needed. She ended up not, but she did tell me about a guy checking her out. When she got back she was in a much better mood, I think the gym helped release some of her frustrations. We ended up having sex that night and I was able to last believe it or not. When I asked her if she wanted to do it she said, "Why? You'll just disappoint me again." I basically promised her I would last because I had taken care of myself while she was at the gym. The focus was definitely on her, which it should have been. Afterward she was in even a better mood and I could tell a successful time in bed helped reconnect us, and made for a better rest of the weekend.

It does feel like she could be getting closer to cuckolding me, more because I think she realizes she needs it better in bed and knows she can get better in bed.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by wocka-wocka » Mon Sep 03, 2018 9:23 pm

Don't confuse your performance issues and your fantasies.

She told you clearly that even if she has another partner, sex/intimacy between the two of you is most important. Don't ruin that by intentionally frustrating her.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Lkncouple » Tue Sep 04, 2018 10:30 am

You may want to go to the Doctor and ask them to prescribe some Dapoxetine. It is a drug that is designed to help with Premature Ejaculation. Sometimes it is combined with Viagra or cialas. I have not tried it, but I have heard good things about it on a swingers board. It also has another side effect of giving you huge money shots.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Thu Sep 06, 2018 7:14 pm

Any plans for the weekend? Any deeper conversation about all of this?

I know you're sometimes apologetic because a post might not include any sex, or you feel your "progress" is slow. Never been my view. You two have a fun, kinky marriage that's a kick to follow. Really, the time spent with other men is the least of it, even if it's (I hope and believe) going be great for both of you. Just reading about your wife's latest outfit, or something you've thought to do to show her you care make for good reading for me.

If I'm honest, I'm a lot like everyone else here who can't wait to read about her reaction, and yours, to her first lover, but whatever you write in your updates works for me.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Fri Sep 07, 2018 10:06 am

Sorry for the lack of updates, been a busy week, which hasn't allowed much time for conversation between us. Going back, I don't want my lack of performance be the sole reason she looks for someone else, so I don't want to be bad in bed on purpose. Last week with my issues we had ran out of the numbing spray, but I've purchased a new bottle, but haven't had the chance to use it yet. The pros of the spray is it does indeed work when you apply it correctly, but be careful to not spray too much. The cons is you have to sort of gage how the night is going on if we are going to be doing anything and you want to time it right to about 15 minutes before, all this planning can ruin the mood for her. But overall, it does work.

Like I said this has been a busy week and not much has happened. However last night we had some fun and she really got into the cuckolding talk in the bedroom. Since it has been a busy week I have been exhausted at night with no real energy to do much. While we were lounging on the couch I was tired and she could see that. She started sort of complaining saying I was too tired and not in the mood anymore. I told her I was still good to go anytime she wanted. I think to avoid me falling asleep and her not getting any for the night she said we should go to bed. Once we were in bed she went straight to the cuckolding talk. "I need to find a man who can give me what I need and want, you're not giving me that." I told her that sounded hot and told her I wanted and wished she would find someone. She replied using my first name first, which turned the whole thing into a more serious tone, "___, it's going to be easy to find someone, you know that right?" Sort of lost in the moment given my arousal and more aroused at how she suddenly made it sound like dirty talk to serious talk, I told her I did know that because she was so hot and again told her I wanted her to. I went on to tell her I would fuck her so good when she got back. Challenging me she replied, "You haven't shown me you can do that yet." In which she followed up with sternly, "Show me."

Maybe it was the challenge, maybe it was I was so tired my mind was focused more on sleeping that it didn't have time to really get into the moment, but we had one hell of a time and at the end she was very satisfied. I don't know where she is at on finding someone, I have noticed though when I walk by her when she is on her phone and I get a glimpse of what she is looking at, many times I've noticed it being photos of guys she is looking at on one of her social media accounts.

We are going out tonight, sort of last minute change in our schedules allowed for a date night tonight. On one hand great! because we get to go out, on the other hand the last minute change I don't think we will be able to go over night in the city and do a whole thing out of the night. We just made these plans so I don't know what she has in mind of doing.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Sep 07, 2018 4:40 pm

Thanks for the update, Breaker.
It is good she is going into the cuckolding talk without any prompting, it sounds like she is ready.
Perhaps you should challenge her to find someone at one of your outings. Or, maybe you should find her a ripped fitness instructor with a big bulge between his legs, let her go on a discovery adventure. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Sep 10, 2018 5:09 pm

Friday night wasn't much of anything we had fun out and about, but nothing cuckold related. Later that night we did have a little fun and I was once again able to last which I knew pleased her. It has been a very busy couple weeks just not giving us much time together, and with being busy the daily cuckolding talk has slowed down. That was until today when she brought up something that once again made my heart race and palms sweat. She said her and one of her girlfriends were planning a getaway night out together, which I thought to myself that would be fun and hot, and I told her "Yeah! Great!" I think her seeing my reaction as it was, she realized she didn't get her point across. She went on to almost explain to me, "I was thinking it would be a good opportunity to do that.....you know.." She gave me this look like 'Do you get it now?' I went wide eyed and excitedly shouted, "Oh my! Yes!!" She chuckled finally seeing the response she not only expected, but wanted. I started asking questions about when and where they were thinking, at this point I was very much expressing my excitement. She smiled and said she didn't know yet, they were still trying to plan things, but she was very much wanting to do it. I told her I was up to help out however I could and whenever her friend was available to go out they should go. She just gave me this sweet smile and went to get ready for the gym.

It was exciting news and I am hoping they go out sooner than later. I know her friend is also pretty busy so it will probably just take some planning in advance to get a night that works for both of them. Her friend is also married, but she and my wife have talked about going to dance clubs before in the past as something they wanted to do together.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Mon Sep 10, 2018 6:38 pm

Wow - big butterflies I'm sure! No more low energy for a while, I bet.

Could be fun to prepare a "bug out bag" for her with condoms, lube, a hand-written hall pass and a cheap digital camera, etc. A shopping trip where you buy her outfits for the trip for sure! ;-)

Great to see how much fun you two are having with all of this. Can't wait to hear more.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Sep 10, 2018 8:04 pm

Hi Breaker!
It sounds like she may be getting near.
It also sounds like she is improvising, not working off an established plan.
Nonetheless, it looks like forward movement! ;)

PS-
Make sure she has condoms.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by FNQLivin » Tue Sep 11, 2018 1:37 am

I do love your updates.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Wed Sep 12, 2018 11:19 am

38kewp wrote:
Breaker445 wrote:Friday night wasn't much of anything we had fun out and about, but nothing cuckold related. Later that night we did have a little fun and I was once again able to last which I knew pleased her. It has been a very busy couple weeks just not giving us much time together, and with being busy the daily cuckolding talk has slowed down. That was until today when she brought up something that once again made my heart race and palms sweat. She said her and one of her girlfriends were planning a getaway night out together, which I thought to myself that would be fun and hot, and I told her "Yeah! Great!" I think her seeing my reaction as it was, she realized she didn't get her point across. She went on to almost explain to me, "I was thinking it would be a good opportunity to do that.....you know.." She gave me this look like 'Do you get it now?' I went wide eyed and excitedly shouted, "Oh my! Yes!!" She chuckled finally seeing the response she not only expected, but wanted. I started asking questions about when and where they were thinking, at this point I was very much expressing my excitement. She smiled and said she didn't know yet, they were still trying to plan things, but she was very much wanting to do it. I told her I was up to help out however I could and whenever her friend was available to go out they should go. She just gave me this sweet smile and went to get ready for the gym.

It was exciting news and I am hoping they go out sooner than later. I know her friend is also pretty busy so it will probably just take some planning in advance to get a night that works for both of them. Her friend is also married, but she and my wife have talked about going to dance clubs before in the past as something they wanted to do together.
So I guess this means her girlfriend will be let in on your little secret/kink?! Or will your wife let her think she’s cheating on you?
This is what was a little interesting to hear. I dont know what the dynamic will be when they go out, if my wife see's this as an opportunity to go out, go to a club, find someone, sneak off and do a quick hook up somewhere? If they each are going to get their own hotel room? That is all things that will need to be figured out, and when it gets planned and gets closer I'll ask her how she is thinking about going about it.

She has bouth a couple of new work out pants, both are very tight spandex type long pants. One is sort of like a camo looking of dark green and black, the other is all black but the sides are mesh material, providing a little bit of see through. She also is starting to wear to the gym tight tank tops that partially show her midriff. These types of tank tops allow for full exposure of her butt and legs in her spandex pants. Subtle things like that and her excitement about having a night out in the city with her girlfriend is the only thing really this week. There is a feel that things are just sort of slowly brewing toward the next step. Along with that feeling have been her recent kisses that she gives that are a little more wet and a little longer than usual.

When her night out with her girlfriend is planned I definitely plan on suggesting her we go shopping together for something for that night. I do know months ago when there was a little talk between her and her girlfriend going out of town she said she'd wear her leather skirt, so she may already own an outfit to wear, but some new lingerie, heels, boots, or something to shop for would be hot and fun. If she wore her black or red leather skirt out without me, just that thought alone gives me a great rush.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Back2Ohio » Wed Sep 12, 2018 12:13 pm

Hopefully she'll also wear her anklet (did you get the fleur-de-lis charm?) when she's on her night out. Is she going with the wild/dom girlfriend Emily? I'd love to see a photo of her dressed for her night out or in her gym outfit.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Sep 12, 2018 12:37 pm

Take her to Victoria's Secret.
Maybe she will choose a negligée. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Tryn » Wed Sep 12, 2018 1:58 pm

Awesome momentum! What about Vegas?!? What did you miss out on?

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Sep 14, 2018 12:01 pm

Any updates, Breaker?
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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Sat Sep 15, 2018 4:29 pm

Don't you love those wet, assertive kisses? Especially when she just grabs you in passing, lays one on you, then moves on? Maybe a sexy glance, but otherwise she just continues with whatever she was doing?

Love the more confident gym outfits too. She must be feeling pretty good about her body. Has she picked up new thongs to wear with the workout tights? Must be so much fun to be surprised by the latest change in her look. Has she been wearing the anklet regularly? Any updates on the fleur-de-lis font?

Can't wait to hear how her night away progresses!
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Sun Sep 16, 2018 1:12 pm

Hey guys I know it's been awhile since the last post, but things have slowed to a crawl now. After huge progress forward it so far has seemed to just really slow down. A large part of that is we both have been really busy the last couple weeks. She recently got a type of promotion so we are both just really busy during the day that it leaves us no time to text and our nights we are both just tired. So as far as updates go I really don't have much.

I think my last post I talked about some new workout clothes she got. Well she got a new pair of pants, I wouldn't say they are for her gym attire, but more everyday very casual wear. They are black and as tight as spandex pants, but they aren't made of spandex material, it is more like a cotton. But my goodness, maybe it's because they are black and super tight, but they show off every single sexy part of her legs. They remind me of how her legs look when she wears her catsuit, how the material just forms to everything. It's super hot.

Like I said, with how busy we both have been I just haven't been that much in the mood and she has noticed. Last night while lounging on the couch she was looking at her phone and she brought up. "You haven't been horny lately." I told her I knew and it was probably because of how busy we both have been. She said, "I don't like it, you're usually all over me and worship me." I again told her I knew and I just was in a funk. Hoping she'd maybe help get me out of the funk by bringing something up, maybe a tease or something but she didn't she just went back to her phone. A little later she did say with intrigue, "Oh look at this leather jacket, I like it!" She showed me the photo and it was a black leather jacket that looked different than her other black leather jacket she owned. I told her I liked it too and I would always get her something leather. She smiled and started reading the details of the jacket out loud.

She ended up going to bed before I did. But definitely another funk right now. I guess part of me wishes she'd do something to get me out of it, as she enjoys it more when I am horny and worshipping her all the time. Even though she says it, it would be nice if she if she made a move to get me back into that groove.

Nothing more on the fleur-de-lis. I am still looking for this decor things she likes that has one on it that I want to give to her as a surprise gift. I also need to look for a fleur-de-lis charm that can be added to her anklet.

I am hoping momentum starts picking up again.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by TheHammer » Mon Sep 17, 2018 2:39 am

Flip the script and take control of her for one night. Blindfold and tie her up , spank her and then and take her to the edge of orgasm. (Good eating out tips linked below). Then once she is begging and ready to cum, insert a big dildo that is noticeably larger than you into her and finish her off telling her how much she loves big cock.Then jack off all over her tits and face.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Sep 17, 2018 11:58 am

Mayne the ball is in your court... surprise her.

Get her a full day pampering at a spa, or take her to VS with the States objective of HER buying sexy things to wear for her first lover.

Maybe a package of body sculpting classes, one-to-one, with a fit, endowed fitness trainer. They can come to your home, and do it there.

Start the pillow talk, maybe she can lead, or take her to that place where you want her to be. ;)
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