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Re: progress story

Unread post by minos_dis_crete » Sun Jul 09, 2017 1:28 pm

Indeed, a lot of progress being demonstrated last night. She definitely has a crush on Josh, and I think it's up to you if you want to press on that point. The invitation to discuss her showing off for him, or bringing him up in the moment, like when she says"... Or I'll get someone else to fuck me" responding "someone like Josh? I bet he'd fuck you raw, the way you like." And see how she responds.

You've been a good boy, avoiding pressuring her all this time. But when you're actually in the scene, in this room you made up for some naughty play, I think you can follow her lead and not shut down when she brings up the topic, even if it's meant for you. If you cum, so be it, that's just a little more humiliation of you being pathetic in front of her, and you could offer to use her toy. Even hold it on your pelvis and "fuck" her that way. If she gets really into it, make her call you by another name (Josh, obviously, if the moment is really right, but don't force that too soon, she needs to be moaning like she's out of her mind before that will work).

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Sun Jul 09, 2017 1:49 pm

She is telling you she would like you to invite Josh over.
It would be useless if he came over with his GF, so it would have to be clear that he invited to come alone.
You might tell him his name came up in conversation with your wife, and she suggested you invite him over to hang out.

Once he says yes, and he will, casually mention to your wife that Josh is coming over for dinner and to hang out on Friday,
and watch her reaction. She will be immediately nervous, excited, scolding, and horny.
Whatever the event is, make sure there is plenty of wine, beer, or 420, or whatever you partake in to lighten the mood.

Thank you for putting forth considerable effort in writing your post. And, your writing style is improving! LOL.
Hopefully your wife will give you plenty to write about.

Keep us updated will ya'? ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Sun Jul 09, 2017 2:33 pm

Thanks for the response guys. It's certainly an interesting situation, and I don't know really how to proceed with the Josh situation. I think it is clear she is at the least attracted to him and may have a little crush by the sounds of it, but I don't want to move too fast with this only for her to say no way. I think it may be best for her to take a few more steps forward on her own with this and see where it goes.

We also have our little getaway weekend coming up and she is going to bring her mini black leather skirt for a night out. I suggested we go to the club when she does wear her skirt and she seemed to be up to the idea! She is also planning on packing other clothes all of which are pretty sexy in one way or the other, even her casual daytime clothes she wants to bring consist of black tight hole jeans and a black laced choker. I'm also planning on packing her toy for fun. She told me she needed shoes to go along with her leather skirt and is going to be looking for a pair soon.

If things keep progressing as they are by the time we go on our getaway I think given what she will be wearing, a few drinks, and the atmosphere, there is a good chance at the very least she dances with someone else. And if she gets to the point where she dances with someone else who knows where that leads for the night or in the future.

I am looking forward to just tonight to see if she feels like having fun and if she says anything. One thing is for sure, the cuckold talk in the bedroom seems to be pretty constant and she seems to bring it up more and more when the focus is on her orgasm and not just when it gets to be my turn.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by larryt » Sun Jul 09, 2017 2:56 pm

I think you've got the right instincts. The Josh situation could get exciting, but DON'T PUSH or you'll blow it.

Wait for her to bring him up again. If, through luck or subtle contrivance, the two of you can spend some time with Josh (at a club, event, or inviting him over), leave them plenty of space to talk.

If she talks about how he's cute, ask for details. "Why do you think that?" If she'll compare him to you, ask for comparisons.

The next milestone is his name coming up before or during sex!

Meanwhile, enjoy your trip. I hope she enjoys being admired, and maybe flirting.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Sun Jul 09, 2017 8:03 pm

So coincidentally she and I are sitting on the couch relaxing when I get a text from Josh. I know she see's who it is from because she was sitting right next to me. I responded to his text and never told her who it was from. After I put my phone down she asks, "Why don't you see if Josh and his wife want to come over tonight for drinks or something?" I grinned to myself because I knew she noticed who the text was from. I told her I would ask him. My wife isn't usually a spur of the moment person to have people over. So with her wish I asked him if he wanted to come over, but he couldn't. I relayed the message to my wife and her response came across as she was upset about it.

A little later she was looking at her phone and laughed and said, "Oh no I don't want to see this." I asked her what it was and she showed me it was photo of her and her girlfriends from their night last night. Nothing crazy at all in the photo, but my wife asked me if she looked too big. I told her of course not and spent some time admiring her in the photo and made sure she saw I was aweing at her in the photo. I told her she looked hot and she responded with a sort of whatever tone (as if she didnt really take my answer to hold any weight) and said, "You'd find a picture of my toe hot." I told her I couldn't argue with that.

We sat around a little longer and she had told me earlier she planned on going to the gym. So hoping i'd get a little lucky tonight and thinking she still had the gym in front of her I asked her if she was going. She asked, "Why? Do you not want me to stay out late tonight?" She said it almost like she would have plans after the gym? It was a different question from her and I told her she could do whatever she wanted. She wore these super black tight spandex pants to the gym that have mesh from the knee down. They are pretty sexy and have that sort of tease going on with the mesh part. They are also super super tight and that material with the tightness just feels sexy. I told her I liked her pants and she said back to me with a short laugh, "Me too. I like them because they're real tight."

So she got back from the gym and I hadn't noticed before she left but noticed when she got back that she had subtly hint gold eye liner that must be mixed with glitter because there was glitter with the eye liner. It doesn't stand out real well, but I certainly noticed it when she got home. I took a closer look and noticed she had like cover up makeup on her face still. She was gone for about an hour and I know when my wife goes to the gym she runs and she usually shows some sort of sweat or perspiration when she gets home. I gave her a kiss and took a moment to pay attention to her smell and I didn't smell sweat. Her tight tank top she wore to the gym didn't seem sweaty at all. So I started to think...........Now I may be completely wrong here, she could have blasted the A/C in the car ride home or did a different workout, or didn't work out hard, but gone for an hour and if her typical workout is running, there always has been something there to show she had a workout. But glitter gold eyeliner, make up still in tact, no sweat on shirt and no scent of sweat has me thinking maybe she wasn't at the gym? I have no idea. Again it may be there, she's gone to the gym with make up on before and it may be that water proof makeup. I am curious to know if I can find anything more here. I could be way off, but of course my sub cuck mind runs wild with hopefulness.

So more on this discovery....when she got home she took her running shoes off, which I didn't see her take off, but notice now she's barefoot, but I didn't see socks anywhere..Usually if she takes her socks off she will just lay them near or around her shoes. I sat down on the couch next to her in which she placed one of her feet right by my face. I gladly took a sniff, in one because I love to and two see if it smelled. To my surprise, it didn't smell bad at all, her feet didn't even feel sweaty or smell sweaty. She laughed at me sniffing it and said, "Those are my gym feet." I was thinking in my head, "Not tonight....?" I am loving this curiosity...
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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Sun Jul 09, 2017 9:18 pm

Very day, a little more, and lately a lot more, she is looking to get fucked.
And she is definitely enjoying the attention, even when she is away from you. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Lkncouple » Mon Jul 10, 2017 7:43 am

Breaker,
I just started reading your story last week and really appreciate it. Your story is very similar to mine, except you seem much younger that us. In hearing your story and the feedback that the board has given you, I really wish I would have done some of the same things. I almost wish I would start a thread like this.

Some background, my wife was a virgin when we met and was very innocent. We didn't have sex until we were married. So all of her sexual activities have been with me. Like you I don't really last very long, however she has a very tough time cumming though intercourse, she almost always cums through oral sex. Like your wife, my wife says she has never had a sexual fantasy and says she never has sexual thoughts. I know this is not true, but she just won't share them with me(We have been married for 25 years). Overtime, I have share my fantasies with them. For the longest time, I was embarrassed but then I said fuck it, if I am going to spend the rest of my life with her, she needs to know. My fantasies have really changed over the years, and started our wanting a FFM threeway, and somewhere along the way it has turned into a MMF or hotwife fantasy. I am also a real big voyeur and like porn (Which she has not been a big fan). Like you I slowly introduced things and she really liked them. We have a number of vibrators including a very large rabbit vibrator with a realistic looking head and shaft. She loves it.

The reason I gave you the background is that like you I love being dominated, however you may want to switch it up. It sounds like she wants a strong man so in one of your sessions you may want to tie her up. My wife was not into this, until one night we went to Adam and Eve and we got a flogger, I tied her up and spanked her ass with it, and she loved it. I also spanked he pussy and she went wild. While she was tied up and horny from the spanking I was rubbing her pussy with one hand and put the fake cock up to her mouth and asked her if she wanted to suck a strangers cock and she went wild for it. Since then we have played with her rabbit a number of times like it is a second cock. She says it will never happen but she does like to play like it.

The other thing I will say you should do, is take her up on the strip club idea. You need to find a really nice Gentleman's club and buy her some lap dances. Get her excited about seeing a sexual environment. I am not sure where you live, you have not said what city. But if you don't have a nice strip club then that maybe a good overnight trip. If she likes it, then you may want to introduce the idea of going to a swingers club. I talked my wife into going to one in Atlanta and it was great. She will be blown away at the outfits the women wear, and they dancefloor is usually packed. The clubs we have been to, have a back area that tend to have lots of sex going on. It is great to go back and watch or you can go in a corner and fuck by yourself. She will get propositioned, and she can yes or no, but it will be great for her ego. We have gone to 3 different clubs, my wife loves to dance and party and the people are really friendly, she is not really excited to go into the back but goes there for me.

The next thing we have done is gone to Desire in Cancun. It is a nude resort that is for couples only and has about 50% swingers. We have been there 4 times are going to go back again this winter. It is an awesome place and it is really sexual. They allow sex in public around the hot tub, and it is not uncommon to be in the hottub and see a woman right next to you giving a guy a blowjob sitting on the edge of the hot tub. There are beds around the tub and you see people having sex, you see threesomes, foursomes and more. While we have never swapped we have been asked a number of times. Guys and girls have kissed and licked my wifes tits in the hot tub. The wildest thing I have seen her do is she was coming back from the bathroom and a guy we were talking to was walking back with her and he had a hard on. She climbed down the ladder into the hot tub first and he followed her and she grabbed his hard-on and led him back to the group we were with.

I keep working on her, but she really is resisting. The latest thing I have been doing is that I found a porn called "I love my Hotwife" and there is one scene that she really seems to like and we have watched it a bunch. It is not a hardcore cuckold scene, but more along the lines of a husband and wife that love each other and he wants to watch her enjoy herself. She seems to like that idea.

Sorry to ramble on. I like reading about your progress. Like I said, try role reversal and you be dominate once and see how she likes it. Use the toys and a couple of spanks and see how she responds. Take her to a really nice strip club and set her up to try to get her to go to a high end swingers club(My suggestions is Trapeze in Atlanta of Ft Lauderdale of Collette's in Dallas)

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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 7:59 am

I'm not clear on this. Is Josh currently married or is he just dating a steady girlfriend?

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 11:32 am

Lkncouple wrote:Breaker,
I just started reading your story last week and really appreciate it. Your story is very similar to mine, except you seem much younger that us. In hearing your story and the feedback that the board has given you, I really wish I would have done some of the same things. I almost wish I would start a thread like this.

Some background, my wife was a virgin when we met and was very innocent. We didn't have sex until we were married. So all of her sexual activities have been with me. Like you I don't really last very long, however she has a very tough time cumming though intercourse, she almost always cums through oral sex. Like your wife, my wife says she has never had a sexual fantasy and says she never has sexual thoughts. I know this is not true, but she just won't share them with me(We have been married for 25 years). Overtime, I have share my fantasies with them. For the longest time, I was embarrassed but then I said fuck it, if I am going to spend the rest of my life with her, she needs to know. My fantasies have really changed over the years, and started our wanting a FFM threeway, and somewhere along the way it has turned into a MMF or hotwife fantasy. I am also a real big voyeur and like porn (Which she has not been a big fan). Like you I slowly introduced things and she really liked them. We have a number of vibrators including a very large rabbit vibrator with a realistic looking head and shaft. She loves it.

The reason I gave you the background is that like you I love being dominated, however you may want to switch it up. It sounds like she wants a strong man so in one of your sessions you may want to tie her up. My wife was not into this, until one night we went to Adam and Eve and we got a flogger, I tied her up and spanked her ass with it, and she loved it. I also spanked he pussy and she went wild. While she was tied up and horny from the spanking I was rubbing her pussy with one hand and put the fake cock up to her mouth and asked her if she wanted to suck a strangers cock and she went wild for it. Since then we have played with her rabbit a number of times like it is a second cock. She says it will never happen but she does like to play like it.

The other thing I will say you should do, is take her up on the strip club idea. You need to find a really nice Gentleman's club and buy her some lap dances. Get her excited about seeing a sexual environment. I am not sure where you live, you have not said what city. But if you don't have a nice strip club then that maybe a good overnight trip. If she likes it, then you may want to introduce the idea of going to a swingers club. I talked my wife into going to one in Atlanta and it was great. She will be blown away at the outfits the women wear, and they dancefloor is usually packed. The clubs we have been to, have a back area that tend to have lots of sex going on. It is great to go back and watch or you can go in a corner and fuck by yourself. She will get propositioned, and she can yes or no, but it will be great for her ego. We have gone to 3 different clubs, my wife loves to dance and party and the people are really friendly, she is not really excited to go into the back but goes there for me.

The next thing we have done is gone to Desire in Cancun. It is a nude resort that is for couples only and has about 50% swingers. We have been there 4 times are going to go back again this winter. It is an awesome place and it is really sexual. They allow sex in public around the hot tub, and it is not uncommon to be in the hottub and see a woman right next to you giving a guy a blowjob sitting on the edge of the hot tub. There are beds around the tub and you see people having sex, you see threesomes, foursomes and more. While we have never swapped we have been asked a number of times. Guys and girls have kissed and licked my wifes tits in the hot tub. The wildest thing I have seen her do is she was coming back from the bathroom and a guy we were talking to was walking back with her and he had a hard on. She climbed down the ladder into the hot tub first and he followed her and she grabbed his hard-on and led him back to the group we were with.

I keep working on her, but she really is resisting. The latest thing I have been doing is that I found a porn called "I love my Hotwife" and there is one scene that she really seems to like and we have watched it a bunch. It is not a hardcore cuckold scene, but more along the lines of a husband and wife that love each other and he wants to watch her enjoy herself. She seems to like that idea.

Sorry to ramble on. I like reading about your progress. Like I said, try role reversal and you be dominate once and see how she likes it. Use the toys and a couple of spanks and see how she responds. Take her to a really nice strip club and set her up to try to get her to go to a high end swingers club(My suggestions is Trapeze in Atlanta of Ft Lauderdale of Collette's in Dallas)

Thank you for sharing your story and thanks for the good advice. Maybe on our little getaway I'll see if she wants to go to a strip club, it is something she always says she'd want to do. Sort of like what you are saying with the Desire trip, I think the atmosphere can play a big part in what could happen. Which makes me hopeful that being out of town, dressed sexy, and being in a dance club could excite her to dance with someone, especially since I am not a good dancer. And who knows where that leads.

joel - he is married.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 12:19 pm

So last night my mind was pretty much curious the entire time on if she went to the gym or not, and I think I'd say I'm leaning toward she didn't go, or if she did she didn't do much of anything.

After she got home we lounged on the couch and watched a show which (lots of coincidences happening lately) had a segment which was about a stripper. My wife says, "I would be the best stripper." I told her that I would be there every night. She responded with a serious, "You wouldn't be allowed to watch." I asked her with a shocking and disappointed response of why and she told me, "You'd have to stay home." Even though I know she would never be a stripper it was hot to hear that one she has the confidence she would be good at it, and two she wouldn't let me watch her.

Later in the night we ended up getting ready for bed and I suggested that we both take a shower, as I know she enjoys having sex in the shower. She gave a "Ehh" face and said lets just do it in the bed. So we went to the bed and she wanted me in her right away. I could tell she was a little wet already and she took control on everything from the position to the pace. For the first few minutes I was doing well and she was getting into it. She started telling me in a stern dominating voice, "Fuck me good." A problem started to arise because now my mind was wandering to where she was instead of the gym, how hot if she was hiding something, and then adding her very stern and serious tone of telling me what to do all added to me almost cumming. I had to slow the pace down to avoid cumming early and couldn't fuck her like she wanted. This lead to her being frustrated and then even more demanding from her and telling me in a serious, stern voice, "Fucking fuck me." I tried all awhile trying to do my best from cumming too early. The problem was my hard work of not cumming was somewhat working and I wasn't as hard and she took notice. "Did you cum already?" She asked me in a frustrated tone. I told her I hadn't and she replied with a more frustrated stern tone, "I'm fucking sick of this, just fuck me!"

So I stopped trying to prevent myself from cumming and definitely got harder again, but of course now my problem was cumming too early because I got so turned on by how dominant she was and how stern her voice was. Because this wasn't her playing to my fantasy of being a Dom, she was genuinely physically controlling how she wanted it, and the tone in her voice of talking down to me and being stern was genuine.

I continued to have this inner battle, but decided to choose not to cum early. I did my best to give her thrusts and artificially make it seem I was giving it to her how she wanted. She would ask me, "Why cant you just fuck me?" I would thrust harder. Finally she told me, "Just lay on your back and I'll ride you." I did as I was told and she rode me for a few minutes and I could tell she was working very hard to get herself to orgasm which she finally did. As she was moaning she was about to cum I told her too I was about to cum. She finally reached orgasm and laid next to me. She asked me if I had came and I told her I had not. She expressed disappointment and told me, "I dont get why you can't just cum with me." I told her I didn't want to think I was cumming with her only to find out she wasn't cumming yet therefore making me cum too early and she wouldn't be able to reach climax.

She laid there for a bit as I stroke myself. I told her I wanted to fuck her and she said, "Then fuck me." I did and the conversation we had next was so hot. As I was doing her she laid there and had a normal conversation with me. Asking me why I don't cum with her in which I told her what I had just told her, I then told her how hot she was and told her my inner problem. It was incredibly hot to be having sex with her and in a normal conversation tone telling her my problems of basically inadequacy and us just talking about it. It didn't take long for me to cum.

Afterwards as we got ready for bed she apologized to me for what had happened and how she treated me. I told her to not be sorry and told her, "To be honest, it was kind of hot." She just smiled and gave me a kiss.

During this whole thing when she was strict in telling me what she wanted and basically how inadequate I was, I wanted to bring up cuckolding and see how she would respond. But I knew if I brought cuckold talk into the moment I would have came immediately. But it may, just may lead to a conversation in the future.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Jul 10, 2017 12:55 pm

Not only do you have her thinking of other guys, mentioning Josh specifically, now you have her deciding you are inadequate.
It is one thing to give her incentive, and another to lose all of her respect. :/
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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 1:20 pm

If he's married that may complicate things. You probably don't want to have a hand in the break-up of his marriage. Hopefully you guys can find a single guy that's her type to fuck her.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Serrand » Mon Jul 10, 2017 3:22 pm

Damn, I don't want to sound always the same and dampen everyone's mood , but I have to agree with one previous commentator, that there is the huge danger, if you're continuing like this, you loose your wife's respect. I assume you agree with me, that this wouldn’t be a very good thing for your marriage in the longterm. And that's probably an understatement.
Excuse my harsh words, but be assured, no wife wants her husband to behave like a submissive wimp, at least not everytime when you have sex with eachother and for sure not in daily life. So, get a crip, damn it!! I telling you exactly this, because I think you're a nice guy, but you could have the impression that your fetish is more important for you then your marriage itself?

If I remember correctly your wife once said, that she wished you would be a little more protective and possessive of her? I believe it would be a very good idea to include these feelings of your wife in your thinking.
So like another commentator already suggested, maybe, every once in a while, it would be a good idea to switch the roles and you being the dominant. For any marriage it's important to be "balanced".
However, these are only my thoughts.
Looking forward to your next updates. :)

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 4:41 pm

You guys are right, and when she said those things I tried to be the dominant one but it was almost like we both naturally went into her being the dominant one. I would do something, take charge, but she wouldn't like it and end up telling me what to do. I'll try again to play the more dominant role. I was also trying to think how to last in sex to please her and thinking I may jack off a few hours before the night and see how that goes. My problem with the numbing spray is it ends up being too strong and she doesn't get the full sensation and if I go without it I really can't last. I told her once after one of the times where I came too early that in my head I start to just think, "wow I'm having sex with her and she's so hot and my mind wanders." She told me she liked to hear that.

Last nights issue wasn't like I was trying to not be inadequate for her on purpose. When I started to think maybe she didn't go to the gym and my cuck mind drifted into fantasy land, I got this competitive feel to me that I wanted to take her to the bedroom and definitely be the dominant one and show her I could please her. But once I got there the thought was so hot I couldn't think of that and have sex at the same time. If I started to do math problems in my head so I could last I wasn't hard enough for her. So obviously something I need to work on to figure out a good balance.

Although I may be in a predicament in the bedroom when it comes to sex I don't feel my wife has or is losing respect for me. Granted I can see where some may assume or think that reading the posts, but understand the posts are a one sided and one dimensional view and layer of our relationship. If I felt the fantasy or fetish was too much for us I wouldn't pursue it and I could place it in the back of my mind and move on. I've done it before in the past when I first brought it up to her and it didn't seem to be going anywhere. I think I mentioned this before, but I enjoy posting here because I see it as an open journal, and I enjoy the feedback whether it be encouraging or not so encouraging.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by EDAS » Mon Jul 10, 2017 5:46 pm

I have never used a numbing cream. But from what I understand, you must apply the cream to your cock and --here is the important part-- you must put on a condom to make sure that your partner's vagina does not get numbed in the process from the numbing cream that is on your cock.

So... a condom is part of the game here so that your partner will feel something, while you will be numbed.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 6:24 pm

EDAS wrote:I have never used a numbing cream. But from what I understand, you must apply the cream to your cock and --here is the important part-- you must put on a condom to make sure that your partner's vagina does not get numbed in the process from the numbing cream that is on your cock.

So... a condom is part of the game here so that your partner will feel something, while you will be numbed.
Yea that is what we do, I spray myself then put a condom on. The problem is one squirt isn't enough, it practically does nothing, but 2 or 3 squirts is too much and it gets to the point where I really don't feel anything, which eventually makes the erection go down and I am not as hard anymore.

She again brought up today how good she would be as a stripper. I gave her a resistant, "Hun....." response and she replied, "What? I'd be soooo good." I told her that I would spend my entire time there in which she told me, "You wouldn't be allowed to watch." She continued before I could say anything, "I don't think I could perform with you there."

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Re: progress story

Unread post by larryt » Mon Jul 10, 2017 7:12 pm

Since she's brought up the stripper thing twice, call her bluff. Dare her. Tell her you think she's chicken. If she challenges you back, look up the number of a club and dare her to call and find out how to audition (do your research ahead of time so you know they'll answer).

Think about how hot it will be when she's discussing it with them on the phone. Then you can have the conversations where she debates whether to do it.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by JeffBingham » Mon Jul 10, 2017 7:24 pm

larryt wrote:Since she's brought up the stripper thing twice, call her bluff. Dare her. Tell her you think she's chicken. If she challenges you back, look up the number of a club and dare her to call and find out how to audition (do your research ahead of time so you know they'll answer).

Think about how hot it will be when she's discussing it with them on the phone. Then you can have the conversations where she debates whether to do it.
Maybe she already has??? Perhaps the evening she "went to the gym" when it was obvious she didn't? Could have been performing at an amateur night in one of the local strip clubs. Whatever she did that night, it feels like she's got something going on that Breaker doesn't know about.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jul 10, 2017 10:50 pm

Although it would be hot, I doubt my wife is stripping on the side. However, later in the night as we were flipping through a magazine together, there was this article/story on a woman who was a dominatrix and it was sort of her secret life. (it wasn't a sex magazine by any sorts, but this everyday woman who did dominatrix on the side) and my wife said, "Maybe I should do that." I told her how hot that would be and that I would request a session all the time. She told me, "Babe, you wouldn't be allowed." and gave me a slight pat on the shoulder as to say, nice try. Her response had this tone behind it like I wouldn't be worth her time, and it certainly made me hot the way she said it.

I spent the rest of the night massaging her feet. Admittedly, I tested the technique of jacking off a few hours before bed, so I was hoping to try it out and see if I would do better. She rubbed her feet multiple times on my crotch and could tell I was hard and called me out on it. "Babes you're hard right now, I can feel it." She would tell me. My response was of course I was, as I was massaging her feet. She told me she was going to go to bed and I made an effort to see if she wanted sex but she said no and went to bed knowingly leaving me hard and wanting her.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Lkncouple » Tue Jul 11, 2017 5:07 am

I agree with everyone. You need to have one of your bondage sessions and you be dominate. You need to tell her from the start that there will be punishment if she tells you want to do. When she starts trying to be dominate when she is supposed to be the sub, that is when you spank her or hit her with a flog. You may find that she like the spanking and starts doing that on purpose.

It doesn't hurt to try. She may love it, or she may hate it, one night is not going to make or break your relationship.

Also, on the stripper thing, I would say, call BS on her and tell her she doesn't even know what a real stripper does, and ask her if she would like to get naked for other men, to do lap dances for strangers. Then I would ask her is she wants to go and see one.

BTW, the other way your wife is like mine is that is sounds like when she is ready to cum, she is ready right then. If she has to wait then she gets mad. Just recently when we started watching hotwife movies has she started to let herself get close to cumming then stop and building back up.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Tue Jul 11, 2017 12:00 pm

I will try to suggest we do a session where I am the dominant one and see how it goes. Today we were just hanging around and talking and she brought up this procedure where a woman got fat injected into her buttocks and they took fat from somewhere else on their body. Teasing from our recent discussions about how my body has been, I said I wish I could get that done, just remove a section of fat. She laughed and then said yeah can put it in your dick. She continued to laugh and I too laughed, but after she got done laughing she said, "Oh my gosh that was so rude, I'm sorry." I told her it was ok and laughed wit her. As her laughter tampered off she said, "That sounded mean. I'm sooo sorry." The comment made me think and reminded me of the other night where I clearly was not pleasing her. With her openly telling me she uses her dildo often, I wondered if she was becoming use to her dildo and was enjoying it more then me and the dildo provided better satisfaction for her then I could. Also, thinking about how she was physically trying to direct how I had sex with her, with the moves, positions and movements, made me think she was probably using me or trying to use me like she uses her dildo.

As for the stripper comments, when we do our getaway weekend she is seems to be really excited about relaxing and being wild so it may be a perfect place and time to suggest we visit a strip club, and it might work out if its the same night we visit a dance club.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Tue Jul 11, 2017 2:47 pm

If you're wondering where she goes, you can put an app on most phones to locate them if they're on. Just sayin'.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Jul 11, 2017 2:51 pm

You probably know better than any of us what your wife wants, and what she doesn't.
What you have been doing so far has been working, I was only pointing out that you probably don't want to become her doormat. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by ddriver86 » Wed Jul 12, 2017 5:56 am

Hey Breaker445,

I will agree with the dominant role switch for at least a test to see how she reacts. He has some good ideas.

It is funny how he got the flogger and spanked her bottom and front. I have done the exact same thing with my wife many moons ago. She responded really well! I actually got the idea from a dvd of Nina Hartley teaching how to be a dominant from a man and one dvd from a woman's control. In the dvd the man has a flogger and lightly drags the it over her bottom and back. Very sexy and when she is aroused it does great things for her. Then he turns her over and does the same to her front then lightly spanks her. You might want to try to find the dvd. I am sure it is out there somewhere for sale.

The strip joint is a good idea. We have one set of friends that we can do "sexy talk" and kind of venture into sexy areas. We went with them to a strip club and had a great time. Some how the girls got the good viewing seats and I was staring at a wall. How did that happen? Anyway, she commented on the strippers and told them how great of an ass they had. Your wife being hot may find it as somewhat competition which can be good and fun.

Also, don't forget when you do the club/weekend thing to get her to wear her remote control vibrating panties. This will ramp up the heat big time. Tell her if during the night she doesn't want to wear them to just take them off. Win-win. You can also check out the vibrating insert from lash or lush. That seems to be getting great ratings and maybe easier to use. You can control it from your smart phone.

Ben wa balls are getting a lot of press lately due to the 50 shades darker movie. They say sales have skyrocketed.

To address you hardness/stamina issue. I used the very simple rubber cock rings. I got a set of three that give you different degrees of hardness. The most extreme made me so hard and tight that I literally thought my skin would split on my penis. If she wants hard and rigid, this will do it!!

One more thing, if you are distracted by where she goes, there are plenty of ways to track her by her phone and you won't have any doubt.

Thanks again for sharing and can't wait to hear about your hot weekend adventures.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by joel68 » Wed Jul 12, 2017 9:41 am

Yeah. You can track her phone on your phone or on your computer. I have the app on mine in case I lose it. A lot of people have it for their kids. It might be interesting to see where she goes. There are also GPS things you can put on her car as well.

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