Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

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Should I be Permanently Denied?

1. Permanently, never to feel a pussy again the rest of my life.
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51%
2. Permitted intercourse only after my wife's boyfriend has properly fucked her.
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15%
3. Permitted intercourse if I stop wearing diapers for a 24 hour period.
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1%
4. Permitted intercourse any time my wife wants it from me.
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23%
5. Permitted intercourse anytime I want it, I take it.
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10%
 
Total votes: 197

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Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by Mark01 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:06 am

So my wife and I have been in a cuckold relationship now for eight weeks. During that time I have been permanently diapered to help reinforce I am no longer a man. I have been given the privilege of fucking my wife twice, both times after she was sloppy. I would like her to force permanent denial but it seems like she is not strong enough to deny me. She has told me she will not fuck me with a used diaper on unless she had been with her boyfriend just prior. She will not touch my wee wee other than to clean me during a diaper change. I asked her if she will ever give me a blowjob again and she said she did not know because she is unpredictable. I wanted to share with my wife what this board thought about me being permanently denied.
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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by ucaneffher » Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:35 am

You've only gone two weeks and already want it permanently? Why not start with something less drastic and set a goal date; once you've made it to that predefined date, you two can re evaluate the duration of your denial..

When I was with my ex, she cut me off from penetrative sex for 4 months while she was exclusive with her first boyfriend. The second time which occurred roughly two years after, she became exclusive with her second boyfriend and lasted 8 months. So while not permanent, 1 full year of being cut off by an ultra sexy girlfriend is tough but so sexy at the same time.

I really recommend not going permanent or trying to encourage permanent denial on your first time trying denial.

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by Mark01 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 7:44 am

"You've only gone two weeks and already want it permanently? "

Eight weeks....not sure where you got two weeks from...

I can count on two hands how many times I have been permitted to fuck my wife in the last three years. We experimented with denial before she cuckolded me so it is definitely not new to us.
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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by becontree2001uk » Mon Nov 27, 2017 1:47 pm

I feel that you need to have some physical contact with your wife, otherwise your relationship is doomed.

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by Mark01 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 2:22 pm

becontree2001uk wrote:I feel that you need to have some physical contact with your wife, otherwise your relationship is doomed.
I do have physical contact with her often. I breastfeed and of course eat her pussy. The denial would be penetrative sexual intercourse and blowjobs maybe.
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Unread post by ucaneffher » Mon Nov 27, 2017 2:26 pm

Sorry, I must have been reading the word "weeks" while trying to type "months". A little deductive reasoning doesn't hurt from time to time.. Seeing 8 weeks are 2 'months'. Excellent catch but poor investigative work :D
Mark01 wrote:"You've only gone two weeks and already want it permanently? "

Eight weeks....not sure where you got two weeks from...

I can count on two hands how many times I have been permitted to fuck my wife in the last three years. We experimented with denial before she cuckolded me so it is definitely not new to us.

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by luvmayfly » Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:03 pm

Most men tend to get caught in what I'd call arousal loops that sort of make them very one dimensional sex partners. I've found that doubling and tripling down on this tends to eventually turn off most partners despite their indulgence. You'd probably fare better in the long run with adding a non-cuckold fantasy to the repertoire.

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Unread post by luvmayfly » Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:04 pm

But, to answer your question. Talk about this with your wife when you are not involved in sex play. Like at Starbucks. If this is truly your kink then you need to submit to her being the leader.

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Unread post by dsmith3717 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:53 pm

Can't be denied. Love my wife fucking others, but I love getting off FAR too much. Too each their own though, no judgement here.

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Unread post by JMNBABE » Wed Jan 08, 2020 10:28 am

I'm down with permanent denial forever...….with the whole "used diaper" thing, I think maybe even being sterilized would be a good idea....yuck!!

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Unread post by desertsub » Wed Jan 08, 2020 11:03 am

This is something that should be determined by you and your wife. I agree with luvmayfly, sit down and discuss it in a non-sexual environment and explore how you both feel about it, then come to an agreement on what you want to try that works for both of you. If you are both on the same page and have the same expectations it will have a much better success rate. Whatever the two of you decide it can always be modified down the road.

I would love to try total denial too but my wife says she still needs to feel me inside her from time to time to keep that connection. As a compromise, she only allows me inside her when she really wants it, which might be twice a week or twice a year (she has done both). She did decide to deny me having any orgasms inside her and stuck to that for 3 years. Just recently she allowed me to fuck her and then told me that she wanted to give me a special gift and that I could cum inside her. After we were done and I had cleaned her she asked me how long it had been since she had let me do that. I told her it had been 3 years and told her the exact time she had last let me cum inside her. She then told me "If you're very good, I might let you do it again in another 3 years!"

This is the kind of compromise that I'm talking about, it's not exactly what I want but it works for both of us and has been very doable for us both. That is what you need to work towards.

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Unread post by SailorGuy » Thu Jan 09, 2020 11:31 am

My wife has had another lover for the past 20 years; the last time she and I had sex was almost ten years ago. And I love this.
It's much better to be "denied" sex by your wife than to live in a dead marriage where sex has just fallen by the wayside. The denial's power comes from the fact that may wife - now 52 - is still really hot, beautiful and sexy, and I desperately want to make love to her. But around ten years ago her lover told her he didn't want her sleeping with me anymore; he wanted to be her exclusive lover. So she had to decide.
When she told be about the ultimatum I was thrilled. I was ready to take the next step, from hotwifing to cuckolding. My wife became his exclusive lover. And I get to masturbate all I want living the intense high of a cuckolded husband. My wife will let me rub her muscular flat chest and kid her on the cheek. But that is all. And it is enough.
As a cuckold part of the intensity comes from being the Beta to my wife's Alpha lover. When I masturbate next to her my wife gets to see how small her husband's cock is compared to her lover's. She tells me about this, watches me rub my little thing and cum all over myself in no time at all. Then she delivers the ultimate compliment: "now you see why I chose him over you. You could never satisfy me with that little thing. Tom is easily twice as big as you, and he knows how to use his great cock to please a woman - in this case your beautiful wife!"
So with the New Year just past us we renewed our vow of denial. And she continues to insist I will never be her lover again. I almost cum just from her saying this!

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by David531888 » Thu Jan 09, 2020 5:54 pm

Not sure how "permanent" this will be, but my wife has told me she doesn't want us to have sex while she is in a relationship with her bf. This could be awhile.

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Unread post by David531888 » Thu Jan 09, 2020 5:55 pm

Not sure how "permanent" this will be, but my wife has told me she doesn't want us to have sex while she is in a relationship with her bf. This could be awhile.

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Unread post by samlowen » Thu Jan 09, 2020 6:19 pm

I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but are you diapered 24/7, including places like work and the gym? What about plane travel?

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Unread post by elwood » Thu Jan 09, 2020 10:32 pm

My wife and I have been playing with chastity and denial at my request for about 10 years now. The periods she denies me orgasms have grown over time, the longest to date being three months of continuous chastity and denial. Most of the time it’s between 6-8 weeks. She will unlock me once or twice during that time and tease me with a hand job. And if I’m really lucky, she’ll let me feel what it’s like to be inside her pussy for two or three strokes “just so I don’t forget what I’m missing.” The thought of permanent orgasm denial, with those infrequent reminders of what I can’t have, makes my chastity cage uncomfortably small every time.

We’re not a cuckold or hotwife couple, though I’ve confessed my desire to see her with another man numerous times. Not sure we’ll ever get there, but I sure fantasize about it a lot.

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Unread post by Cuck_Steve » Thu Jan 09, 2020 11:08 pm

I’ve not had intercourse with my wife for a year now. She’s not said if it’s permanent or not , but as long as Master Paul and her are together, which seems long term, then I’ll be denied.

I fancy my wife like crazy still and love making love to her, but her denying me and her giving herself completely to him is something else.

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Unread post by tractorman2 » Thu Jan 09, 2020 11:42 pm

I have historically been through periods of denial for sex either at sirs request or her wish but never have I been prevented from touching her. Permanent its a big question after such a short period of time.

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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Fri Jan 10, 2020 2:50 am

It can work for some couples. Since early 2018, my husband has been almost completely pussy free. He has been inside me only a couple of times, and in other women only a couple of times. Since August 2019, he has been caged almost permanently. It has greatly increased his attentiveness to me, and he is very happy with the constant state of arousal.
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Unread post by mfmfantasy50 » Mon Apr 25, 2022 10:30 pm

In May, a year will have passed without me cumming inside my Wife's pussy. I've only been allowed to penetrate her pussy three times in that same period. She has her own ways of getting release and giving me release. But, she is strict in training for me to be a Cuckold.

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Unread post by LongTermHubby » Tue Apr 26, 2022 2:52 am

I had been a cuckold for about six months and receiving only courtesy fucks when my wife told me we would not be having penetrative sex together anymore. That was some years ago and she has been enjoying penetrative sex with other men since then.

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Unread post by LawyerWouldbeCuckold » Thu Apr 28, 2022 7:05 am

I"m not even in this lifestyle, but i have talked with some cuckoldresses over the years, who have told me that in a situation of permanent denial, that since the physical bond is non-existent, eventually the cuckold and his wife lose their emotional bond, at which point the marriage is toast.

But there are some couples on here where the denial is permanent, and they are happily together.

At the same time, I think there are some couples (these are the stories that you don't read, because they aren't posted) where the denial becomes permanent, and since the marriage is now one where they are essentially sexless roommates, the Wife decides she doesn't need the husband anymore, and leaves him for the BF. Whether or not that would have happened anyway because of other factor s, is essentially unknowable, but I would think the lack of physical contact did not help the situation.

I myself am generally wary of anything that could be "extreme"; but that's just me.

One of the many things I have learned from this website is that there is no "one size fits all". I think each couple has to figure out what works best for them, through both discussion, and trial-and-error.

FWIW.....

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by MartasBoy » Thu Apr 28, 2022 11:43 am

Mark01 wrote:
Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:06 am
I have been permanently diapered to help reinforce I am no longer a man. ......
.....I wanted to share with my wife what this board thought about me being permanently denied.
Permanently denied or mostly denied, what's the difference. It sounds like you are mostly already there. She has seen you infantalized and emasculated. She has seen you wet yourself, and she has changed your diaper. She's not likely to ever see you the same again. The men she will be with, will come to satisfy her need to be with real men.

It does not necessarily mean the certain end of your marriage. You can find many other ways to demonstrate your usefulness to her. It will probably never be as a manly man satisfying her feminine sexual desires. There are many other roles, such as houseboy, baby boy, sissy boy, all roles in which you can serve all of her other needs, besides sexual ones.

Things changed in the way my wife viewed me, when she found out that I played dress up, and she discovered my extensive collection of dress up clothes. Things really changed when she had me dress for her one day, did my make-up, and curled my hair, then watched me as I knelt before her boyfriend and sucked him of. The ultimate change in the way she views me, came the day she saw him lay me over the end of their bed, pulled up my skirt and slip, and took me from behind, and then she held me while I cried.

My wife believes in the distinction between alpha males and beta boys. She says that beta boys make better husbands, and Alpha men make better lovers. She regularly tells me that she can't imagine being married to anybody who would take better care of her than I do. I think that I have the better deal, than he does, because I actually get to spend more time with her than her boyfriend does.

The only thing he gets to do is have sex with her, and have her accompany him to sporting events, and occasional weekend getaways. I'm the one who gets to cook and clean for her, bathe her, give her massages, accompany her shopping, and to hair and nail appointments. I'm her favorite Friday night movie buddy, and her cold winter snuggle buddy.

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by LawyerWouldbeCuckold » Thu Apr 28, 2022 1:55 pm

MartasBoy wrote:
Thu Apr 28, 2022 11:43 am
Mark01 wrote:
Mon Nov 27, 2017 6:06 am
I have been permanently diapered to help reinforce I am no longer a man. ......
.....I wanted to share with my wife what this board thought about me being permanently denied.
Permanently denied or mostly denied, what's the difference. It sounds like you are mostly already there. She has seen you infantalized and emasculated. She has seen you wet yourself, and she has changed your diaper. She's not likely to ever see you the same again. The men she will be with, will come to satisfy her need to be with real men.

It does not necessarily mean the certain end of your marriage. You can find many other ways to demonstrate your usefulness to her. It will probably never be as a manly man satisfying her feminine sexual desires. There are many other roles, such as houseboy, baby boy, sissy boy, all roles in which you can serve all of her other needs, besides sexual ones.

Things changed in the way my wife viewed me, when she found out that I played dress up, and she discovered my extensive collection of dress up clothes. Things really changed when she had me dress for her one day, did my make-up, and curled my hair, then watched me as I knelt before her boyfriend and sucked him of. The ultimate change in the way she views me, came the day she saw him lay me over the end of their bed, pulled up my skirt and slip, and took me from behind, and then she held me while I cried.

My wife believes in the distinction between alpha males and beta boys. She says that beta boys make better husbands, and Alpha men make better lovers. She regularly tells me that she can't imagine being married to anybody who would take better care of her than I do. I think that I have the better deal, than he does, because I actually get to spend more time with her than her boyfriend does.

The only thing he gets to do is have sex with her, and have her accompany him to sporting events, and occasional weekend getaways. I'm the one who gets to cook and clean for her, bathe her, give her massages, accompany her shopping, and to hair and nail appointments. I'm her favorite Friday night movie buddy, and her cold winter snuggle buddy.
HMM...does she also arrange for you to get regularly penetrated by him, and for you to "prepare" him for her, and clean him afterwards?

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Re: Permanent Denial...My Wife and I Can Not Decide

Unread post by tractorman2 » Thu Apr 28, 2022 2:46 pm

Think the OP got his answer as hes not posted since Dec 2019

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