How did your cuckold relationship begin?

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How did your cuckold relationship begin?

You brought the idea up to your wife
209
48%
Your wife brought the idea up to you
29
7%
She cheated on you and you found out and liked it
56
13%
She cheated on you and told you and you liked it
50
11%
You were swingers and it evolved to a cuckold relationship
50
11%
Your female led relationship evolved to cuckolding
46
10%
 
Total votes: 440

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by isinlarsa » Tue Apr 10, 2018 11:40 am

I was fortunate in both my first and second marriages. Both my wives suggested and initiated them being hot wives. They were both getting a lot of fucking at home, but they wanted variety, too. Neither really had boyfriends -- just men for fucking. Once I referred to the young man who was fucking my second wife as her lover. She said, "Don't call him my lover". I responded, "Well, I thought that sounded better than calling him your fucker."

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by tatlocks » Sun Apr 21, 2019 8:50 pm

My wife worked as a teacher in another town before we were married. We would meet on weekends and during holidays but while we were engaged we had long periods apart. On a weekend visit I noticed some bruises on her breasts and asked her about them, she said she had scratched them but that didn't make sense. The bruises were large and spread over her breasts. She fobbed me off and I didn't pursue it with her. Things came to a head when we were lying in bed talking after sex. She used to tease me about my small penis and as we were talking I asked her how much she liked sex. She said she loved it and it was although the dam broke and she began telling me about some of her former lovers and how she would meet them, often dating twice on the same day. I was fascinated as she began to tell me how she had fucked men before and after we were engaged to be married.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by Cumcpl » Sun Apr 21, 2019 9:59 pm

I begged my wife for years until she finally tested me out. One evening she brought home a younger guy from her gym. She called me in to the living room, and there she was on her knees, blowing him in front of me...
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2wheel
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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by 2wheel » Mon Apr 22, 2019 2:27 am

Mine was very promiscuous when she was younger.
She worked hard to give it up.
I tried for years (lost count how many) to get her to be a HW.
She finally gave in to 'shut me up'.
Now she's back to being very promiscuous.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by frank r » Tue Apr 23, 2019 10:28 am

We were in our 6th year of marriage when she confessed to me she had been having sex with her ex lover. I was crushed and when I asked why she was gentle but said to me:
"I love you and cherish our times together but in our entire marriage I have yet to have an orgasm.
Your make sweet love which i adore but there are times I want to be fucked! My sex with him isnt
about love, I just craved the deep long lasting orgasms I have with him."

After the initial shock, I realized what she said was true. What made this more difficult is that her ex
was the man who introduced me to Beth. We travelled in the same circles, and hard to say I really
liked and enjoyed his company.

We three sat down and agreed we would try a MFM situation to see if it would work for us. I knew from
the first time that he was Alpha in a big way. That included his endowment. Quickly I seemed to fall into
the role of submissive cuckold. In the beginning he became the bull and I called him Sir. Some nights I
would be sent from the room, other nights I watched. At the start my main job was to watch and after
they had sex, he would order me to clean her and i slowly licked her clean as she sucked his cock.

We have evolved over the last seven, almost eight months. Attached to our home is a small casita or
apartment. To the world that is his apartment. However his clothes hang in the closet of the master
suite and mine in the casita.

At times it is hard and yet it seems to work for all of us.


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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by justanotherstag » Tue Apr 23, 2019 1:52 pm

I selected 'She cheated on you and you found out and liked it' but I had the fantasy long before that happened. I know cheating is looked down upon but it really worked for us.

Like I said, I had the fantasy for a long time, even in relationships prior to my wife. However, I had never brought it up to her because I assumed for a long time that she was pretty vanilla. I also thought she was only with a handful of guys but boy was I wrong.

I'll admit, when she cheated we were in a rough place. Her cheating was solely for sex and not emotional. When I found out, yes I was slightly hurt, but that was greatly overshadowed but how hard I was. Once I confronted her about the cheating I revealed my kink and suggested we try to make things work, including the hotwife/cuckold relationship. Well, things worked out great and we are now stronger than ever. Our relationship bordered between cuckolding and hotwife and I must admit I now get incredibly turned on thinking about how she cheated on me. Cheating is not part of our relationship now as she tells me about everything, but it's still hot knowing she did it before.
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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by Des 31 » Sun Apr 11, 2021 11:42 am

With us, it all began with her cheating. The night I learned my wife's coworker had been fucking her for three months whenever I was traveling for work was the most exciting moment of my life up to that time. Even now, I get off when she repeats her story of the time they first fucked in the office's off-site file storage building. She was then 28 and is now 34.

Had it not been for that time she confessed they had been having sex during the three weeks of every month I was out of town, I don't think she would have agreed to keep fucking others with my approval. I had been encouraging her to date other men for about a year before she finally gave in to her coworker- but without my knowledge. Upon learning about it, I loved the thought of his hot dick inside my wife. Although I didn't think it necessary, she broke off the relationship with him after admitting the affair to me; but soon thereafter, she was getting regularly fucked by others. Since that first time, she has been fully open with me.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by Tomaszk » Mon Apr 12, 2021 12:31 am

ucaneffher wrote:
Tue Dec 05, 2017 9:49 pm
Started in the Hot G/F lifestyle and evolved as time passed. It started with her going out more often, then going 100% exclusive with lover who then became her first boyfriend, and lastly the moment she told me her boyfriend asked her to move in with him and she had said yes and that they had signed a 12 month lease to an apartment.

Moving my girlfriend's belongings from my place to this new apartment made me feel like I had never felt before. Like a complete cuck giving up his gf but loving every thought that came from it, especially knowing that she is going to let her bf do things never done to her before and in their own home. That was the day I accepted and assumed the role of being a cuck.

I loved every bit of seeing my gf not living with me and having her privacy to have her own private sex life outside of our relationship.
since you had nothing in common, she was no longer your girlfriend, but his. she was your ex

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by dinoo » Mon Apr 12, 2021 1:24 am

It wasn't the first time but surely one the best ones (before becoming a HW).

I was playing a national student tennis championship. On the second or third day, my wife to be, would visit the matches.
She would come by train, but just at a time that I had to play. So I asked a very nice mate (I didn't know him before) to look after my fiancee.

When they arrived at the court, they behaved like a couple that was fallen in love: fondling and tongue kissing each other, especially when I could watch and then both would smile to me. It will be evident to tell that I lost my match.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by Tomaszk » Mon Apr 12, 2021 2:38 am

dinoo wrote:
Mon Apr 12, 2021 1:24 am
It wasn't the first time but surely one the best ones (before becoming a HW).

I was playing a national student tennis championship. On the second or third day, my wife to be, would visit the matches.
She would come by train, but just at a time that I had to play. So I asked a very nice mate (I didn't know him before) to look after my fiancee.

When they arrived at the court, they behaved like a couple that was fallen in love: fondling and tongue kissing each other, especially when I could watch and then both would smile to me. It will be evident to tell that I lost my match.
You have a very hot lady. her nickname LadyD is impressive. greetings from Konin

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by 4herpleasure89 » Mon Apr 12, 2021 3:09 am

For us it was my idea and many years of pillow talk, then a few lifestyle clubs and finally on a bliss cruise. A year later a black guy. There have been over 60 black guys since him but we still see her first occasionally. There is no need for cheating because she can have whoever she wants as long as she’s safe.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by SmallHubbyTexas » Mon Apr 12, 2021 11:11 am

On her birthday, we were a little drunk and had just finished having sex when sexual fantasies came up. I ended up telling her that my fantasy was for her to sleep with someone else. She got quite and I thought she was mad and I dropped the topic. A couple months later was my birthday and while we were out at dinner, she handed my her phone and told me to look at the photos but to hold the phone down low. As I was unlocking her phone she told me that my birthday present was my fantasy coming true. Her most recent picture was a selfie taken in a bathroom mirror. She was naked but I could see the tops of her stockings and she was standing next to a naked man. So many thoughts went through my mind but all I asked her was if she enjoyed herself and she said yes. We have been in this lifestyle for over 2 years now and she is still with him.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by ucaneffher » Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:57 pm

Tomaszk wrote:
Mon Apr 12, 2021 12:31 am
ucaneffher wrote:
Tue Dec 05, 2017 9:49 pm
Started in the Hot G/F lifestyle and evolved as time passed. It started with her going out more often, then going 100% exclusive with lover who then became her first boyfriend, and lastly the moment she told me her boyfriend asked her to move in with him and she had said yes and that they had signed a 12 month lease to an apartment.

Moving my girlfriend's belongings from my place to this new apartment made me feel like I had never felt before. Like a complete cuck giving up his gf but loving every thought that came from it, especially knowing that she is going to let her bf do things never done to her before and in their own home. That was the day I accepted and assumed the role of being a cuck.

I loved every bit of seeing my gf not living with me and having her privacy to have her own private sex life outside of our relationship.
since you had nothing in common, she was no longer your girlfriend, but his. she was your ex

Correct, she was 110% his during the entire time he took her for himself. I wanted that. I want it again.

She eventually came back home and we caught up again. I loved knowing that I couldn’t take her for granted because she always had the freedom to date other men and always had my support and encouragement to settle with other men if she liked the sex and connection she had with him.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by castman45 » Tue Dec 14, 2021 9:03 pm

When she asked me directly if I was turned on to other men wanting her. I admitted that I was, which she already suspected. It pleased her that I felt this way. She kissed me and asked if I minded her having boyfriends. And my no to that question set it all off.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by Dirk the cuckold » Wed Dec 15, 2021 2:40 am

When we were dating we told each other all of the kinky things we had done in the past and we discovered that we were both pretty much freaks. Once we got together she asked me if I had any fantasizes that I never told her about. I asked her if she ever heard of cuckold. Not only did she know what it was but she said she dreamed of being a hotwife. I asked her if she wanted to try it and said absolutely ! That was almost 7 years ago and many dozens of men.

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Re: How did your cuckold relationship begin?

Unread post by danman71 » Thu Dec 16, 2021 9:27 am

My fiancé and I met online and have been together 2 yrs. We chatted online for several months before ever meeting and spent a lot of time exploring different sexual topics, desires and fantasies.

One of the things that really drew us to one another was how open we could be about things. We looked at porn together and read stories together to get a sense of we liked. H/W and Cuckolding is something we kind of landed on that intrigued us. Im pretty average in the penis department but to her im small. She says her previous boyfriend was very well endowed and she considers herself a size queen. I up front with her that although I hadn't ever gotten a complaint I also knew that I wasn't some Don Juan and I didnt tend to last long once things got going. I usually made sure women I had been with got off from me going down on them before we actually had sex.

Fast forwarding to when we did finally get together we were already prepared to have some sort of open relationship as this is what we both agreed we wanted along with some other things. Once we did have sex ourselves though, it was clear I was going to be cucked though as I was just completely unable to provide her with what she needed or wanted.

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