Something you guys should do...please look at every cock size thread on this website. You'll see a fascinating thing. The "verified Hotwives" don't get involved in them.
So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size. Anything in the 4-6.5 inch range feels about the same. Any bigger and it can be painful hitting the cervix. Any smaller and it can slip out easily making sex kind of wonky. Guess what? 99% of men are average size and I can't tell the difference inside. Even with girth there's no big difference unless it's super size. I can take about 6 inches inside and that's it. Anything more than 6 inches and the guy can't go all the way in and I miss out on the direct contact of our bodies touching down there. My husband is 5.5 inches and it's the best sex I've ever had.
All this talk about giant dicks 7+ inches is just ridiculous. I think men see this stuff in porn and build this fantasy in their head. That's why these guys are in porn! Their length allows for great camera angles and the penis is always visible because it can't go all the way in making for more exciting visuals. Porn wouldn't be much fun with 4-6 inches because the penis wouldn't be visible for the entire time and the action would be hidden because the people would be closer together blocking the view.
Most importantly, men and women don't judge size correctly. If you look at the Top 10% thread here the biggest ones are like 6.5 inches legit.
Thank you and, it's all in both of their heads. I've had great relationships with couples for many years and I don't fall into that "monster cock" category and it doesn't cause me the slightest bit of insecurity. I guess you'd say I'm "above average" but I think that lends more to the "something different" factor. When I've measured it's usually above six and a half but, holding a ruler, cock, and concentrating on that plus holding and focusing a camera isn't exactly an excitable moment where as when a lover just has to measure me while playing it's a nice seven inch with "above average" girth. So, it's a long way in the excitable arena between playing camera operator/surveyor technician and a woman doing to a man what she does best...I'd say close to half inch of long way.
I think where a lot of what I do different comes from when I was a teenager just starting to learn about sex. I noticed very quickly that the more excited a woman got, the more excited I got so, I started at a very early age learning to read a woman's movement and passion and focusing on her pleasure because the more I gave, the more I got! Yes, being a nice guy pays its own dividends. I've had couples tell me she has difficulty achieving orgasm, never has one with a new lover till about the fifth encounter...and most likely that gets proven wrong and not because I'm some natural born sex Svengali, but more because I learned early on to pay attention to a woman. So, in my view the "above average" thing plays a minor part just because it may be a different feel than her current husband/lover, the bigger part comes from being tuned in to her. It's what is in their head that counts. If they want to see that eight to ten inch cock, then I'm not their guy and tell them so and good luck in your search because that is what they have expectations of to fulfill their fantasy and are geared to that scenario and anything else wouldn't "measure up". I've enjoyed women that never experienced a vaginal orgasm become multiple orgasm queens after our first encounter and that, in my mind, is because she has just not had an attentive lover till then.
So, nice to know the bulk of women aren't necessarily the kind that can only be satisfied with that abnormally large cock. Just reinforces what I always experienced, that it isn't the size, it's the big picture, the connection you have, the appreciation you have for her as a woman, and paying attention to her in bed. Oh, and yes, giving to get can be a bit selfish on my part, depends on how you look at it but, everyone walks away with a smile on their face.