The size question - Women do like bigger size

[dirtydog69]

No disrespect to the OP but maybe the better question would be ''why do some women like bigger size'' My beautiful wife loves thickness and in the 6 to 9'' range. She loves the visual the feel and the challenge.She wants to concur it. But thats just my wife not all want the same.

[Ben45mwm]

I can't believe that so many people have to jump in to every thread about penis size with "size doesn't matter". If you are a woman and saying this, you are speaking for yourself and no one else, because you don't have a small dick, and you haven't gotten rejected and embarrassed since you were a teenager as a result of it. You don't know what it is like.

I have shared some of my stories in other threads, but having a small dick definitely is limiting sexually. One I haven't shared was the time at a party in college where this really attractive young woman who I knew a little bit basically attacks me on the dance floor, practically drags me out of the party, gets me to her dorm room, strips down, I start playing with her soaking wet pussy, and she reaches in my pants and the whole thing came to a screeching halt. This would have been one of the top 5 most attractive women I ever had sex with, and she stopped everything when she realized i was small. She tried to let me down easy, so I finally just let her off the hook, said goodbye, and went home. I was too embarrassed to go back to the party. Not sure what she did.

[mfm4bnc]

My wife's toys were all about the size of my cock (7x2). For role play, I bought a Prince yahshua dildo for her, that was 10.5 inches with a max diameter of 2.5. On the day I pulled it out of the night stand, I expected her to be apprehensive. She just smiled and told me to stick it in her. I gingerly inserted it, not wanting to hurt her. She directed me to massage her clit, and let her take over. She started ramming it in to the balls, and had several huge orgasms. It was about a month before my birthday, and she suggested that since I enjoyed watching her with a big toy, we should order a really big one.

We could not find a realistic cock big enough on Amazon, so a google search took us to Hankey's toy shop. We ordered a lampwick xl, with almost 12 inches insertable, and a 9 inch circumference. While we were ordering, she told me she had at least 4 lovers with cocks as big as the prince yahshua I had bought as a surprise, and three significantly bigger.

When the new toy arrived, it was huge... Considerably bigger than her forearm. It took a while, but she eventually took it balls deep, and came like I had never seen her cum. She told me her ex was that big. Surprisingly, she also told me that she had one bigger than teh new toy... one that had been uncomfortable... It is hard to believe that anything like that exists in real life. She is still facebook friends with that guy, and she showed me how his bulge shows in all his pictures.

[knight4princess]

I think it is clear that women's vaginas enlarge and expand when they are aroused. It may be true that women average fairly small when they are being measured by some ob-gyn in a clinical setting but to use that as a basis for asserting that women can't handle men over six inches not logical. It would be the same if men were all measured soft and then concluding that the average man's cock size is somewhere between 2-4 inches -- without taking into account that erections happen!

As for my wife, her vagina will expand a lot! It is quite shallow when she isn't aroused. Her cock preference is between 6 and 8 inches long and she hasn't ever specified how much girth -- but she likes 'em thick. There is a limit on how big her vagina can get and she finds that anything much over 8.5 inches is just too big for her -- or he will never get to go balls deep to avoid hurting her.

[EdwardTheBull]

You would be amazed how many married women say Size Doesn't Matter until they are alone with a big dick.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum EdwardTheBull . I will remove you from newly registered.

[massage4wife]

Too bad less than 1% of men have an 8” dick or bigger. Most all these women who prefer 8” have never actually had a real one. Maybe the guys have told them it was 8” but that doesn’t make it one. Funny.

[Ben45mwm]

Too bad less than 1% of men have an 8” dick or bigger. Most all these women who prefer 8” have never actually had a real one. Maybe the guys have told them it was 8” but that doesn’t make it one. Funny.

What are you talking about "1% of men have an 8" dick"? I must have missed my appointment at the Dick Measuring Station so the Dick Measuring Service could do a scientific study of exactly how big everyone's dick is to come up with your 1% number.

I think these "surveys" just another example of sexism in the media, and in particular the adult related media, to make men feel better about themselves and encourage women to settle. Just like porn, where average looking men are always banging beautiful women, because that is what real life is like It makes sense, since the target of most adult related content is men. That doesn't mean that content is accurate.

I have known quite a few guys that were 8"+ before my wife even started in this. I have seen guys in action that were 8 and 9 inches. I also know guys that have told me they are small. There are a wide range of cock sizes in the world. Some are small, some are big, some are in between. I will say that women seem to sniff out that some guys are hung. I have a friend that does much better with the ladies than you would expect if you talked to him for 30 minutes, and I have heard from multiple sources that he is hung like a horse. I don't know how women figure it out.

[canadianwittol]

My wife would always prefer a bigger cock, but wouldn't necessarily prioritize that over his ability to use it, and frankly, his overall look and attitude. There's a lot to be said for being a young hunky guy with a playfully cocky attitude, who knows how to use his dick regardless of its' size.

That being said, even my wife would say if you can get all that other stuff AND he has a big dick, that would be the ideal.

[Sparkstar]

Too bad less than 1% of men have an 8” dick or bigger. Most all these women who prefer 8” have never actually had a real one. Maybe the guys have told them it was 8” but that doesn’t make it one. Funny.

What are you talking about "1% of men have an 8" dick"? I must have missed my appointment at the Dick Measuring Station so the Dick Measuring Service could do a scientific study of exactly how big everyone's dick is to come up with your 1% number.

I think these "surveys" just another example of sexism in the media, and in particular the adult related media, to make men feel better about themselves and encourage women to settle. Just like porn, where average looking men are always banging beautiful women, because that is what real life is like It makes sense, since the target of most adult related content is men. That doesn't mean that content is accurate.

I have known quite a few guys that were 8"+ before my wife even started in this. I have seen guys in action that were 8 and 9 inches. I also know guys that have told me they are small. There are a wide range of cock sizes in the world. Some are small, some are big, some are in between. I will say that women seem to sniff out that some guys are hung. I have a friend that does much better with the ladies than you would expect if you talked to him for 30 minutes, and I have heard from multiple sources that he is hung like a horse. I don't know how women figure it out.

+1 or 100%
From my "real" (not just porn) experience over the years, from seeing swingers in action, relations with sluts, escorts, friends with benefits etc. "MOST" women certainly do prefer a big cock. I've heard and seen it SO many times from women who say size doesn't matter and yet in reality they only say that because they don't want to ruin some small-dick guys penis erection issues - as the guy might actually have long staying power or know how to press the right buttons so to speak - so hence as they say of "don't worry about it".

One thing for sure is, MOST women prefer a big penis - with average being 8 maybe a 9" long, and/or average to thick girth, that being the average sweet spot. Some women like bigger than that.

[Ben45mwm]

+1 or 100%
From my "real" (not just porn) experience over the years, from seeing swingers in action, relations with sluts, escorts, friends with benefits etc. "MOST" women certainly do prefer a big cock. I've heard and seen it SO many times from women who say size doesn't matter and yet in reality they only say that because they don't want to ruin some small-dick guys penis erection issues - as the guy might actually have long staying power or know how to press the right buttons so to speak - so hence as they say of "don't worry about it".

One thing for sure is, MOST women prefer a big penis - with average being 8 maybe a 9" long, and/or average to thick girth, that being the average sweet spot. Some women like bigger than that.

I think that women do say that size doesn't matter so they don't hurt guys' feelings. From the time women become sexually active, they know that mocking a guy's dick is a point of no return with most guys, and they won't do it with men they care about, no matter what they really think. I get off on my wife teasing me about my dick, but it took a long time and a lot of convincing by me for her to do it.

Women are different too, and not all need or even want porn size cocks, but on average, all things being equal, most women would prefer a big dick to a small one. That's my experience.

[Sparkstar]

+1 or 100%
From my "real" (not just porn) experience over the years, from seeing swingers in action, relations with sluts, escorts, friends with benefits etc. "MOST" women certainly do prefer a big cock. I've heard and seen it SO many times from women who say size doesn't matter and yet in reality they only say that because they don't want to ruin some small-dick guys penis erection issues - as the guy might actually have long staying power or know how to press the right buttons so to speak - so hence as they say of "don't worry about it".

One thing for sure is, MOST women prefer a big penis - with average being 8 maybe a 9" long, and/or average to thick girth, that being the average sweet spot. Some women like bigger than that.

I think that women do say that size doesn't matter so they don't hurt guys' feelings. From the time women become sexually active, they know that mocking a guy's dick is a point of no return with most guys, and they won't do it with men they care about, no matter what they really think. I get off on my wife teasing me about my dick, but it took a long time and a lot of convincing by me for her to do it.

Women are different too, and not all need or even want porn size cocks, but on average, all things being equal, most women would prefer a big dick to a small one. That's my experience.

Well, again +1.
I'm going to be shallow aka honest - ie a male version of a woman slut here...
As a guy, I much prefer a woman with big breasts. Which certainly does not mean I'm exclusive to women with big or even average size breasts.

Though for us men breast size generally has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction, compared to women vs penis size which has more to do for her physical stimulation compared to a visual thing for men.

I'm not big or small, I'm 5.5 to 6" long with average to large girth so I sit in the middle of anything related towards an "open discussion" about this. No pics included - I'm 38, been there done that long before youtube/facebook, I was webcamming with girls long before it became a paid per minute profession.

[Anyaz89]

So to the never ending question, does women actually enjoy a larger penis?

Yes, I very much like bigger cocks. I want to be stretched out.

[dirtydog69]

You would be amazed how many married women say Size Doesn't Matter until they are alone with a big dick.

Mine said the same thing that all changed after her first big one experience.She now craves it.

[4herpleasure89]

Something you guys should do...please look at every cock size thread on this website. You'll see a fascinating thing. The "verified Hotwives" don't get involved in them.

So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size. Anything in the 4-6.5 inch range feels about the same. Any bigger and it can be painful hitting the cervix. Any smaller and it can slip out easily making sex kind of wonky. Guess what? 99% of men are average size and I can't tell the difference inside. Even with girth there's no big difference unless it's super size. I can take about 6 inches inside and that's it. Anything more than 6 inches and the guy can't go all the way in and I miss out on the direct contact of our bodies touching down there. My husband is 5.5 inches and it's the best sex I've ever had.

All this talk about giant dicks 7+ inches is just ridiculous. I think men see this stuff in porn and build this fantasy in their head. That's why these guys are in porn! Their length allows for great camera angles and the penis is always visible because it can't go all the way in making for more exciting visuals. Porn wouldn't be much fun with 4-6 inches because the penis wouldn't be visible for the entire time and the action would be hidden because the people would be closer together blocking the view.

Most importantly, men and women don't judge size correctly. If you look at the Top 10% thread here the biggest ones are like 6.5 inches legit.

Women tend not to comment on this subject either way. Undoubtedly some agree with you and others do not. But just as some cucks are obsessed with cock size, many women are reluctant to talk about their interest in larger cocks. This is the case with my wife whose favorite partners are all above average. I would say this poll reflects her preference pretty accurately.

[bradisalpha]

You would be amazed how many married women say Size Doesn't Matter until they are alone with a big dick.

Ditto !!

Brad

[Msn75]

Size definitely matters. My wife prefers 8+ and thick.

[CuckIan]

I think the sad part is that we don't try to prepare young men better. Why try to lie that size doesn't matter. Yes of course it does, but as far as relationships we need to let men know the attributes women are looking for. Be honest but then also educate them.

[MrPepeLePew]

My Hotwife has had long and she genuinely didn't like it. She likes thick, knobby head like someone else said. I've never been able to make her cum with my dick, but she's come closest by guys who had that size. I think guys like to see the biggest they can in order to expressive that submissive / humiliated side of watching someone with equipment you're not capable of having pleasure your wife in ways you just can't. For her, yeah ... 7" and very thick would do her fine. If they could last long enough and hit her from the right angle, maybe it would finally happen. I'd also like to see if they can make her squirt as I've never been able to inspire her to do that either.

[hasabrain2]

Does size matter. Ask a woman, what she would do if a magic genie appeared and said, I will make your husband's dick twenty percentage lager or twenty percent smaller, but if you don't make a choice, I will make it disappear, what she would do. Then you know size matters.

[Des 31]

For most of the six years my 33-year-old wife has been dating others, she didn't seek out particularly endowed guys. Most have been rather average and a few slightly larger. That changed when she began an ongoing relationship with her boss at the bank where she works. Although she had by then been with quite a few guys, some for extended times, his eight and a half inches is the largest she has encountered. The first couple of years they were having sex, she insisted size wasn't important but now confesses it's certainly a plus. There's more to it in that their personalities mesh in a way that's rare in her relationships.

She didn't immediately admit to me her excitation with his size when fucking him for the reason she thought it might bother me. Once she realized I honestly would find knowing that's exciting to me, she confessed, "I love that. It's better."

[Cuck_Steve]

My wife always used to say my dick was fine. But since she’s had a far bigger cock, she’s admitted that mines is so small and doesn’t do anything for her, unlike her man’s cock, which is perfect for her.

“That’s why his cock gets inside me and yours never will again”

[All4Jenna]

My wife's answer to the question is, "of course."

Women who I was with before my wife also heartily concur.

They all felt comfortable sharing that with me unprompted because I'm pretty well hung, particularly in the girth department.

I enjoy being cuckolded but it's not because of a size deficit. Still, I do always find myself hoping her next cock is bigger for her pleasure.

[dirtydog69]

A little update about wifes preference for big cock. We went to our local sex club for Greedy Girl sunday and she met two guy's with really big dicks I mean in the 8 to 9 inch range and thick.She just sucked them but is dying to go back and have them fuck her.Can't wait

[BoreDom]

Here's what one study found. Not sure how scientific... but here it is: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/penis-si ... a_n_107433