The size question - Women do like bigger size

For cuckoldresses and the men who serve them.

In your experience, what size does your SO prefer?

5"
16
3%
6"
51
9%
7"
169
29%
8"
232
40%
9"
113
19%
 
Total votes: 581

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by All4Jenna » Sat Jan 27, 2018 10:01 am

I've seen my wife take an 8 inch cock. No problemo.

Women can pass babies through that channel. The idea that women generally max out at 4.5 or 5 inches is silly, sorry.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by All4Jenna » Sat Jan 27, 2018 10:02 am

I've seen my wife take an 8 inch cock. No problemo.

Women can pass babies through that channel. The idea that women generally max out at 4.5 or 5 inches is silly, sorry.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by bradisalpha » Sat Jan 27, 2018 10:18 am

massage4wife wrote:
AZVixen wrote:
DavidnDaria wrote:You might want to look at Gloria Brame's credentials before you start using her as a reference for anything.

1. Her only accredited degree is an MA in English Literature.
2. Her "Ph.D." is from an unaccredited school: Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality.

She may know something about BDSM, but as a "doctor" she is wholly and completely unqualified to offer anything but opinions.

Your post is a perfect example of using an unqualified reference to support an opinion which is itself a logical fallacy: That you repeat something does not make it correct.
I could list 50 research papers as well by scientists and board certified doctors. It would make no difference to the cock size enthusiasts here that will insist on calling real scientific research flawed. Masters and Johnson gave an average vaginal depth around 4.5 inches in the aroused state. Pendergrass, P. B., Reeves, C. A., Belovicz, M. W., Molter, D. J., & White, J. H. took plaster casts of vaginas and found the deepest to be 5.8 inches. Kurt Barhart and his team used MRI and found a mean vaginal length of 2.5 inches in the unaroused state. I've read tons of research on this subject and yet to find any measurement beyond 6 inches for vaginal depth. These claims of 8-12 inch insertions are insane considering that would put the vagina and uterus up inside the intestinal cavity. Seriously its 10 inches from my vaginal opening to my belly button. No vagina extends up into the intestines where the belly button is.
How would you account for women being able to take 7” or even 8” dildos? I have used dildos of that size on women before who had NO issue taking them. That’s a fact.
Yes,it is just plain fact !! I have never had a woman that was not able to take my 8 1/2 and thick. I have always done foreplay and am sure she is very wet and excited before attempting depth.. but a little at a time she has always been able to accept ... it and enjoy it.. which is as important.

Most have always been infactuated by the size and enjoy playing with it. Some have insisted they would not be able to take it.. one in particular had a very tight pussy, to the point I could hardly get two fingers in, but with enough fire play and encouragement was able to open up to take all of it. One tried twice and couldn’t.. went to the doctor and was told she was normal.. and then bent over wanting it so very badly and i went directly in and to the hilt. I attribute that to a mental block. I never had a problem with burying all the way after that.
to the hilt.

So, regardless of medical studies, there is something that arousal does to a body that adjusts to their desires. And as someone mentions.. 8” goes up to the belly button. Yes, that always amazes me and I wonder where the Fuck it goes.. but I also know that the cervex moves out of the way with arousal so there must be an area in reserve in there !! And it feels unbelievable when you reach that area. I think once a woman feels that opening up inside she will never be satisfied without that full feeling again.. as proven by many cuckold posts.

No studies.. just fact.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by mwcsf » Sat Jan 27, 2018 11:41 am

After years of claiming that size really doesn't matter, even visually, we met up with a really great guy when traveling, a Craigslist success story, and during our email exchanges he made no representations, nor did we ask. We learned a lot about his age, background, education, job, height, weight, preferences, my wife and he exchanged some French and we saw a picture. What we didn't know until he showed up at the hotel bar is that he is black, not something we advertised for, as it just didn't matter one way or the other and his race wasn't obvious from his picture.

Then, when we all decided we where into each other, we headed up to our room. My wife walked in the room first, I held the door for both of them, and when I turned around from shutting and locking the door, she was on her knees undoing his pants. When she pulled out his dick, she actually gasped. He said he was a little over 9 inches and super think. What a fun fun night. He was a great lover and watching her totally into that huge dick was a huge turn on for me.

She admits now that size did make a difference.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Ben45mwm » Sat Jan 27, 2018 7:24 pm

A couple of things. I have a cock on the smaller end of the average (about 5"), and I have been with plenty of women who were unsatisfied with it. Some tried to hide it, but I could tell. Not all women, but a lot. My wife likes big dicks. They feel better and she cums a lot harder, and she has swapped stories with friends who have been with hung men, and they all feel the same way. Many of the male friends that I know of that are above average in endowment, have scored with a lot of women despite other issues. I had one of the women he was scoring with tell me outright that she fucked him because he was hung.

I think one of the things that the "size doesn't matter" women don't realize is that it is a little insulting to tell a man with a smaller dick that size doesn't matter. Most men like me have had similar experiences of rejection due to size if we have had enough sexual partners, so don't deny what we have experienced. Sometimes it feels like when a woman says "size doesn't matter", they are telling someone like me that I should take those experiences personally because it wasn't a size thing, it was just that the women thought I was a shitty lover or boring person. Is that what they are saying?

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by trdd » Sat Jan 27, 2018 9:07 pm

DavidnDaria wrote:
Mari55 wrote:
DavidnDaria wrote: You, as I expected you would do, missed the entire point of my post. (...) If you want people to believe you, you need to argue in a way that makes your argument compelling. High school students could do better.
David, you could have simply written something like "I disagree with you. I have a 7"+ cock that my wife Daria loves and her FBs and BF all have bigger ones and Daria only likes the big ones. As such, what you've written or know may not be 100% truth and you maybe should study the issue a little more, if you wish."
No need for the judgemental posts (should all posts be subjected to the same treatment?), especially during this time, IMO.
Merry Christmas everyone. Have fun today/tonight.
It wasn't judgemental. Just facts. Fallacies are fallacies. :)
I agree....your post seemed more condescending and arrogant than judgemental. But alas, I have done the same on occassion on this weird place called the internet.

A cursory look at good sources solves this debate about vaginal size . Most are indeed much less than 6 inches, in fact, the average vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deep. But the vagina elongates and expands when a woman is aroused so some women can accomodate quite a long penis although clearly not all will be able to. Some sources say the vagina can potentially double in length when blood flow is near maximum. But doubling 3 inches still means many women will not appreciate a really long cock thrusting deep. Hence some of the pornstars saying they prefer smaller than their film counterparts in real life.

Many of us have probably experienced this ourselves. A few times over the years I have hit my wife's cervix due to either position or the fact that she had not fully warmed up enough. I am not equipped like a pornstar by any means.... more like 6.25 or so. But this rarely happens for us due to the vagina's ability to elongate.

For all the talk of huge cocks, the clitoris is the source of most female orgasms (70%). It has double the nerve endings compared to a penis! Newer research shows the clitoris extends from the focal point we all know about into the vaginal wall a bit and may explain vaginal orgasms but most women seem to need direct focus on the hot button.

Of course if a woman is turned on by the sight of a large cock that will increase the likelihood or intensity of the orgasm just as a male cuckold may have a more intense orgasm being teased, denied or informed of his wife's sexual liason. As others have mentioned, It has to do with the head as much as the body. Add to that the notion of elicit sexual contact or NRE or being able to be uninhibited with a sex focused lover and the orgasms may be better but it might not technically be coming from the bigger cock.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by MrGoo » Wed Jan 31, 2018 9:18 am

Mine prefers between 7" and 8" but more happy with a shorter/thick vs long/thin.
Extra bonus points for a big bulbous head and uncut!

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by kphub » Wed Jan 31, 2018 5:51 pm

My wife's current. long term lover (10 yrs), is 9 inches plus and she love being filled by him. she also loves taking him anally. I am about 6 1/2 and also make her cum multiple times. We have toys that vary from 6 to 10 inches and once aroused has no problem with any of them, but she may be the exception, not the norm. We are all friends and hang out & talk (her, lover, me) & he's only had a few women that could not handle him and there have been many, so I think most can accommodate with some prep.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by dirtydog69 » Mon Jun 18, 2018 6:10 am

I am around 6'' decent thickness and the 3 guy's she has been with since starting 9 months ago have have all been larger. She loved the guy with 8'' but her favorite is 7'' very thick with a massive german helmet cockhead.She used to say size did not matter but she's told me that she's become a size queen and anything under 7'' won't do. That includes me.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Texas Rebel » Mon Jun 18, 2018 6:36 am

Ben45mwm wrote:A couple of things. I have a cock on the smaller end of the average (about 5"), and I have been with plenty of women who were unsatisfied with it. Some tried to hide it, but I could tell. Not all women, but a lot. My wife likes big dicks. They feel better and she cums a lot harder, and she has swapped stories with friends who have been with hung men, and they all feel the same way. Many of the male friends that I know of that are above average in endowment, have scored with a lot of women despite other issues. I had one of the women he was scoring with tell me outright that she fucked him because he was hung.

I think one of the things that the "size doesn't matter" women don't realize is that it is a little insulting to tell a man with a smaller dick that size doesn't matter. Most men like me have had similar experiences of rejection due to size if we have had enough sexual partners, so don't deny what we have experienced. Sometimes it feels like when a woman says "size doesn't matter", they are telling someone like me that I should take those experiences personally because it wasn't a size thing, it was just that the women thought I was a shitty lover or boring person. Is that what they are saying?
I agree and have similar experiences with rejection. I have seen how my wife reacts to a big cock, and its very different than any woman reacts to my little dick (4.5 rock hard and throbbing). I am a cuckold because I have a little dick and no other reason.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Mycall » Mon Jun 18, 2018 8:04 am

I think is is guys that are more concerned and fantasise about size more than women. I wouldn’t be surprised if half the time a wife says she wants bigger it is to excite the husband.

Also I never see the sex position or which orifice the cock is to be inserted being mentioned (much). I am a teeny bit over 7 inches and have never been able to enjoy doggy position with my OH. Missionary is fine if I take my time to warm up but generally the best is with her lying on her stomach with me on top. Then she can angle her hips and control the depth. Have given her internal bruises before when I get carried away. Fuck knows what a genuine 9 inches would do. Girth probably has way more influence on how it feels than overall length. If the woman is controlling the depth then 4 inches of fat cock is going to feel a lot more different than 4 inches of long cock.

Personally I think that what mood a woman is is has an effect. Sometimes it is nice to be gentle and tender and other times it is good to go full bore. Would assume that in a cuckold situation that a bigger one than hubby is only going to add to the general excitement, especially for the cuck.

If you really have an interest in what the most popular size is then have a look at what are the most popular dildos are.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by petey boy » Mon Jun 18, 2018 8:07 am

I dont recall hearing of any woman who cheated on her husband with 8 inches to
have an affair with a guy hung with 5 inches!

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by JRE2 » Mon Jun 18, 2018 8:49 am

My wife’s ex was just short of 5”, with a girth slightly below average, and he seldom satisfied her. He long-term boyfriend was slightly larger than her ex, and she said he was also too small. I’m 7” and average thickness, and she is very satisfied by my size, though she has often said she likes them bigger.

She says the most enjoyable cock she has had was 8” and quite thick, and that it was never painful. She loved the feeling of being full and says she could have comfortably taken one much thicker.
She can insert her favorite, and much larger, toy to full depth easily, so she somehow adapts to 9” and considerably thicker.

A man she has been texting with for years sent a picture of his erection alongside a soft drink can. He is about the same thickness, and by comparing his length to the known length of the can, he is 9”. She said she badly wants to have him before she gets too old, so she is definitely a size-queen!

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Mycall » Mon Jun 18, 2018 9:48 am

petey boy wrote:I dont recall hearing of any woman who cheated on her husband with 8 inches to
have an affair with a guy hung with 5 inches!
In real life I have never heard any mention of penis size regarding affairs and cheating. It is not normally part of the conversation unless you are into this kind of kink. I wouldn’t necessarily take anything from this forum as fact or use people’s posts as a basis to create statistics.

Cuckolding fetish revolves around things like penis size. But I think a lot of that is for the males benefit.
As a cuck your not really going to get as turned on by a guy with a little willy having your wife as you are by someone with superior size to you

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by petey boy » Mon Jun 18, 2018 4:30 pm

Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:I dont recall hearing of any woman who cheated on her husband with 8 inches to
have an affair with a guy hung with 5 inches!
In real life I have never heard any mention of penis size regarding affairs and cheating. It is not normally part of the conversation unless you are into this kind of kink. I wouldn’t necessarily take anything from this forum as fact or use people’s posts as a basis to create statistics.

Cuckolding fetish revolves around things like penis size. But I think a lot of that is for the males benefit.
As a cuck your not really going to get as turned on by a guy with a little willy having your wife as you are by someone with superior size to you

obviously you havent read many of the cuckolds comments!

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by pixwellguy » Mon Jun 18, 2018 5:02 pm

My wife has always made it clear that for her, size does matter. She won't refuse a smaller cock if the man is skilled and "knows how to use it," but for real satisfaction, she needs men who are big and thick. She prefers men who are in the 7" to 9" category, and thick in girth - she likes to be stretched and filled, and always cums hardest, fastest, and repeatedly with well hung men.

She also likes it if the men are big enough to hurt her when they first go hard and deep. She says the pain always turns into the most amazing, intense pleasure. Her current lover fits into that category..he's about 8", and tapered...he gets thicker towards the base of his cock, to the point where her fingers won't meet when she wraps her hand around it. She likes it when he puts her on all fours and pounds into her hard and deep as he takes his pleasure.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Mycall » Fri Jun 29, 2018 10:16 am

petey boy wrote:
Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:I dont recall hearing of any woman who cheated on her husband with 8 inches to
have an affair with a guy hung with 5 inches!
In real life I have never heard any mention of penis size regarding affairs and cheating. It is not normally part of the conversation unless you are into this kind of kink. I wouldn’t necessarily take anything from this forum as fact or use people’s posts as a basis to create statistics.

Cuckolding fetish revolves around things like penis size. But I think a lot of that is for the males benefit.
As a cuck your not really going to get as turned on by a guy with a little willy having your wife as you are by someone with superior size to you

obviously you havent read many of the cuckolds comments!
Lol

You used info from a fantasy based fetish site to try and contradict me when I was saying not to trust info from fantasy based fetish sites.

Has it occurred to you that half the women on here are really men making stories up. Lols

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by petey boy » Fri Jun 29, 2018 11:09 am

Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:
Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:I dont recall hearing of any woman who cheated on her husband with 8 inches to
have an affair with a guy hung with 5 inches!
In real life I have never heard any mention of penis size regarding affairs and cheating. It is not normally part of the conversation unless you are into this kind of kink. I wouldn’t necessarily take anything from this forum as fact or use people’s posts as a basis to create statistics.

Cuckolding fetish revolves around things like penis size. But I think a lot of that is for the males benefit.
As a cuck your not really going to get as turned on by a guy with a little willy having your wife as you are by someone with superior size to you

obviously you havent read many of the cuckolds comments!
Lol

You used info from a fantasy based fetish site to try and contradict me when I was saying not to trust info from fantasy based fetish sites.

Has it occurred to you that half the women on here are really men making stories up. Lols

Obviously you dont seem to have a sense of humor! What is this site about if it isnt reality heightened or fantasies and so what!

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Mycall » Fri Jun 29, 2018 11:10 pm

petey boy wrote:
Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:
Mycall wrote:
In real life I have never heard any mention of penis size regarding affairs and cheating. It is not normally part of the conversation unless you are into this kind of kink. I wouldn’t necessarily take anything from this forum as fact or use people’s posts as a basis to create statistics.

Cuckolding fetish revolves around things like penis size. But I think a lot of that is for the males benefit.
As a cuck your not really going to get as turned on by a guy with a little willy having your wife as you are by someone with superior size to you

obviously you havent read many of the cuckolds comments!
Lol

You used info from a fantasy based fetish site to try and contradict me when I was saying not to trust info from fantasy based fetish sites.

Has it occurred to you that half the women on here are really men making stories up. Lols

Obviously you dont seem to have a sense of humor! What is this site about if it isnt reality heightened or fantasies and so what!
Lol, I was laughing when I wrote that comment, I was having a bit of fun, you can’t take anything to seriously on this site. Even you saying I have no sense of humour has made me chuckle.

How about we compare sizes and who ever is biggest gets to win the debate.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Jeff111 » Sat Jun 30, 2018 1:03 am

Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:
Mycall wrote:
petey boy wrote:I dont recall hearing of any woman who cheated on her husband with 8 inches to
have an affair with a guy hung with 5 inches!
In real life I have never heard any mention of penis size regarding affairs and cheating. It is not normally part of the conversation unless you are into this kind of kink. I wouldn’t necessarily take anything from this forum as fact or use people’s posts as a basis to create statistics.

Cuckolding fetish revolves around things like penis size. But I think a lot of that is for the males benefit.
As a cuck your not really going to get as turned on by a guy with a little willy having your wife as you are by someone with superior size to you

obviously you havent read many of the cuckolds comments!
Lol

You used info from a fantasy based fetish site to try and contradict me when I was saying not to trust info from fantasy based fetish sites.

Has it occurred to you that half the women on here are really men making stories up. Lols

There don’t seem to be that many on here intelligent enough to realise that. Or perhaps they’re not into reality but BS?

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by TonyF25 » Sat Jun 30, 2018 5:35 am

Sarah sas that although she can , and has taken bigger then 8 inches , it starts to get uncomfortable for her. She said one lover she had was 9 pluse inches , evertime he thrusted into her , she flet like she had to pee. She sas 8 inches she can take with comfort no matter how hard he pushes.

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by LouiseJohn » Tue Mar 26, 2019 5:53 am

Dont know exactly but around wrist thick is absolute perfection. Some men are far too big. We met a young guy in Trinidad who told us he was hung but we didnt make much of it. We only realised at a hotel room when his trousers came off. Started having sex but had to stop midway because he was making soap of the insides, too painful. Learned the lesson.
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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by mfm4bnc » Tue Mar 26, 2019 7:50 am

My wife is a bit of a freak... she is tiny... like Riley Reid size, but she can devour a huge cock with her pussy. When she is fertile, she likes the feel of a cock hitting her cervix, though it can be painful at other times in her cycle. While she is fertile, she loves a cock up to 11 inches in length and 8 or 9 inches in circumference. When I use a toy on her that size, it pulls her clit in and it rubs against her on the in-stroke. She says that when she is stretched, it also rubs against the part of her clit that is buried inside... a small portion of the clit is the protruding part...

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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Mar 27, 2019 10:24 am

When the poster claims that the mean MRI depth of a woman’s uterus is six inches, and it is ‘ludicrous’ to suggest it would stretch ten inches, it makes me wonder what the author is talking about.

From personal experience I have seen my girlfriends’uterus distend well into the intestinal cavity, very near the bellybutton, and there is zero problem, and lots of pleasure, Remember, these tissues stretch to accommodate a full pregnancy. Men’s cocks are not nearly the sise of a full term baby.
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Re: The size question - Women do like bigger size

Unread post by Cdncuck » Wed Mar 27, 2019 8:35 pm

BallSpanking wrote:
Wed Mar 27, 2019 10:24 am
When the poster claims that the mean MRI depth of a woman’s uterus is six inches, and it is ‘ludicrous’ to suggest it would stretch ten inches, it makes me wonder what the author is talking about.

From personal experience I have seen my girlfriends’uterus distend well into the intestinal cavity, very near the bellybutton, and there is zero problem, and lots of pleasure, Remember, these tissues stretch to accommodate a full pregnancy. Men’s cocks are not nearly the sise of a full term baby.
You're right in that no cock is the size of a full term baby. However a woman isn't normally that distended. During the birth process hormones are released which enable the muscles to relax and stretch enough to accommodate the passage of the baby. That is not the every day state of the vagina. However scientific evidence should never be allowed to interfere with a good cuck and bull story.

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